₦airaland Forum

send me my share if e work o. remember use money you can spare nothing sure o.

Zzor:
Can you kindly state your reasons, I'm trying to access myself, thank you

You sound entitled and very masculine, you can't submit...i think you are better of single afterall marriage is not for everyone, definitely not for you.

Zzor:
Did this answer my question? don't derail

ok , NO i won't recommend you for marriage not even to my enemy.

Zzor:
Nairaland boys, do you think I'm marriageable? would you recommend me for marriage? Can you take me home to mama? Do you think I will be able to make a good home now ? I may be considering marriage sooner than you all expect or I may also change my mind about it. State the reason for your answers, be polite and no insult

Lmao she said no insult. something tells me you are a guy, i just hope this your format dey pay you.

How can you be beating your wife and still be eating her food....una get mind ooo, if the matter done reach where you go dey beat your wife on a steady na to commot from the marriage na....but some guys would give their wife a black eye and still ask for food. if una no dey fear God try dey fear woman o, because God dey merciful pass woman.

unless you are like my neighbour who always eats with the children, make i see how the wife wan take poison her children.

Lawliet:
You lie, evey app has a certain culture. It depends on the mentality of the people who are using the app and the norms they have set down for newbies.

In Instagram, its showing off your lifestyle

In Twitter, its coming up with catchy sentences and savage replies

In Nairaland, its the guya showing off how redpilled and alpha they are and how condescending they are of women.

Yes but the same guys on nairaland are still the same guys on twitter. so guys on twitter also feel the way guys on nairaland feel because they are the same guys.

op if you are too soft hearted to embrace the red pill then don't, but deep down you know it's true if not you wouldn't have accepted it initially and shared with your friends, but because you are too weak minded to reprogramme your mind and thinking to protect yourself from female manipulations you prefer to stick to what you have been used to all your life.

the redpill is not comfortable and it's not for the weak.

To the girls who always ask why nairaland guys love to bash women, you should know that there is no such thing as nairaland guys, it's just guys expressing how they feel about their real life experiences with women.

So if you prefer twitter or facebook because you think those guys there are different from guys here think again, because the same nairaland guys are still on twitter, Facebook and other platforms, the only difference is this is an anonymous forum and guys can speak their mind here without fear of family or employers using their words against them.

it's also the reason people seem to be more tribalistic here....#anonymous.

Most men who stay in a bad relationship do so because of what they have invested in the girl in terms of TIME and MONEY. The more you invest your time and money on a girl the harder it is for you to walk away from her because men don't like to loose their investment.

"SUNK COST FALLACY"

Individuals commit the sunk cost fallacy when they continue a behavior or endeavor as a result of previously invested resources (time, money or effort) (Arkes & Blumer, 1985).

If you limit your time with a girl to once a week or even twice a month, and you spend little to nothing on her, letting her go for bad behaviour would be easy.

yes or yes?

Even if woman wey i no dey spend anything on treat me like this na to disembark from the ship....talk less of woman wey you dey spend for.

or maybe its cos of the monetary investments you find it hard to leave. sunk cost theory at work.

Learn how to be indifferent to the outcome of any thing you pursue whether it's business or women, keep an open mind and always plan alternative course of actions incase the initial plan fails.

I recommend this book to every guy out there, it's a very interesting read, exposes female nature and how pimps understand and use that nature to their benefit.

Jodha:
Show us yhur own face make we see... kettle wey dey call pot black..

Lol.

She doesn't look attractive enough for a guy to marry so good riddance, maybe she can stand herself when she looks in the mirror.

Juliusmomoh:
I don't want to go my village without a car...
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Please if u know anyone who have a car to sell for #5000. Please i want to buy.
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I won surprise my village pipu.

your village people cannot be surprised because they did are the ones who did this to you.

hashtagged:
Intellectual write up lol, it would even be flattery if I call your work one written by goat

na wa

If the story is true that big breasted girls are fun and jovial and small breasted girls are bitter and sadist, and if it's also true that short girls are bitter stubborn sadists and tall girls are easy going.

what are we going to call a short small breast girl or a tall big breast girl?

Thank you for reading my intellectual writeup.

The op is just deceiving himself, i can see through your bs op, you are just a weakling and you are too emotionally attached to that babe and you are to weak to walk away, all this your talk about using her to catch cruise for sometime and then dump her we both know its just a way to make yourself feel powerful or like you have the upper hand when we both know this is not the case, that girl has and has always had your mumu button. coward trying to take a cheat back but because you hate the way you feel weak, you want to use the "i want to catch cruise and dump her" line to justify your simp life.

I want just 2 children, and i haven't met a nigerian woman who doesn't want more than 2 children. some tell me they want at least 4, some say 5.

maybe baby mama is the way.

1. kingdom : It's a korean movie mostly about a 'resurrection' plant capable of turning the dead into flesh eating zombie-like monsters.

2. Bob hearts abishola : It's a romantic comedy series movie about a rich white man named Bob falling in love with an immigrant nigerian yoruba single mother called Abishola.

3. See : A world of about two million people who are all blind....because of a virus hundreds of years ago that killed everyone on earth and left the survivors blind and only capable of reproducing blind children, where tales of sight or light as they call it was to them a myth....and those who possessed the gift of sight were hunted and killed as witches.

what series are you watching?

please share your experiences!!

Jamestown123:
Hey bro, I have an offer for you, text me your number let's discuss business.

08105579277

FACTSSSS!!!

Chai!! wetin Gowon no go see for inside CBN?

Guys you'd be surprised to see how willing women are to exchange sexx for the 'simple' favours you'd do for free. they'll try to shame you for wanting sexx in exchange for what they want from you but they would never do for you what they are asking from you.

For example most women would not allow you(a guy they know casually) sleep overnight in their apartment even if you are stranded, but most guys would accommodate a stranded lady overnight.... and if you try to get sex in exchange for not letting her sleep on the street they'll start to shame you.
but insist and she'll gladly pay with her vaginnaaa!!!

Ubunja is right!!

I was watching a documentary on serial killers and it got me thinking, is it possible some of what we classify as ritual killings here in Nigeria could be serial killings?

what do you guys think?

Yes I said it! I see people asking how much they need in their account to start married life. yes you need money for the wedding expenses, but more than anything what you need are established multiple streams of income, what you save in your account is not as important as the money guaranteed to come into your account from various sources at the end of the month.

I know someone who spent all he had in his account on his wedding expenses and still balling now cos he has multiple streams of income. There are some people even if you give them 5 million after marriage they would still go broke, because they lack knowledge to setup and manage multiple streams of income.

My advice would be, instead of saving from one source of income so you can marry, establish no matter how small, multiple streams of income first....Anambra boys seem to have mastered this, you'll see a small boy having like 5 shops giving him money daily no matter how small, let's say he is robbed or his account hacked and all the money in his account is stolen. he still can't be in a tight corner. anyway that is my two cents.

what are you thoughts?

Venerealisles:
Yes, this is my first post on nairaland, and all I have to say is, I am a Feminist!!! A proud one at that, I know these little nairaland boys will come for me but I don't care!!
I have a message for y'all, we don't need your money to be happy, we don't need your d#ck to be satisfied, we can do without y'all.
Fellow ladies, lets keep up the movement, the more they realize they ain't shit, the better for them.

this boy sef

She doesn't fancy you period! when a girl is attracted to you her chat is different, na you go run. e no still mean say you no go fit yansh this one if you want, don't chat too much, just ask her if she likes chicken sharwarma or chicken peppersoup that you want to chill somewhere this weekend and if she wants she is free to join you cos you don't like eating alone, put it like this o, don't ask to take her out o...charm her small with your personality (if you have any, don't worry the vibes of the environment and alcohol would help enhance it)....invite her to your place and if she is a Nigerian girl chances are she'll spread her legs wide like the gospel.

Women are always saying that women bleach because men choose fair skin women over darker skin women, if this is true can we now say men become yahoo boys, ritualist, fraudsters, kidnappers etc because a lot of women choose rich men over struggling broke men??

yes or yes?

LordVaiki:
Mumu kill your entire generation!! Ewu Gambia!!

Lol..frustrated man.

The federal government should give out loans to legally newly married couples, if a loan of 1million naira is given to all newly married couples to get life started, many young men would get married!

yes or yes?