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It really beats me that a guy, at the climax of arousal and urge, would really not have the sex raw, no matter the consequences.[/quote]

[quote author=binarymachine post=84191273]So you have been with your partner for some time now. He/she has hurt you and broken you heart the first time, you forgive and love continues. They cheat again or hurt you the second time, after a while of “am sorrys” and “please forgive me, I promise it will never happen again”. You decide to let go and continue, after all, no one is perfect. Besides you love them too much you can’t bear to let go. Now they have betrayed you again for the third time with the exact same thing they have been hurting you with. They are seriously crying and pleading for your forgiveness and your brain has entered a state of confusion, you don’t know what to do. You are hurting badly but still you love them badly too.

You are thinking about the good times you have shared together, calculating the number of years you have been with them, all that time can not just go down the drain. He is rich and has more prospects too, she is so beautiful and super sexy. They spoil you with gifts and help out when you need them. He or she is so good in bed and have the perfect body. You keep thinking of all the good things about them and how far you have come, you have even introduced them to all your your family and friends.

Ask yourself, is this the cycle you want to live for the rest of your life? They hurt you and beg, you forgive. They hurt you again and beg and you forgive, the cycle keeps going on and on. You are blinded by their love and all and you are ignoring the single most important thing, your peace of mind and self respect. Yes, respect! They don’t respect you and they know you are “mumu in love”, if they cry and beg, you can’t bear not to forgive, so they take advantage of it. They are not loyal and you are ignoring that, you will cry for a long time.

Once is a mistake, twice is a coincidence, the third time is very intentional. Sister/brother! Wake up! Pull yourself together and move on. It’s very hard and painful but save yourself a life of misery. It’s not about how far, it’s how well. If you keep managing to continue, they will eventually disappoint you in the end. Don’t loose yourself trying to fix things, you can’t change them, it’s in their blood. Don’t accept what you can’t endure and don’t endure what can kill you. You deserve better and can do better. Forgive them but forget them and move on.

Source: https://flipmemes.com/2019/10/14/dont-be-a-mumu-in-love/

[see love is a very strong thing]