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babygirlfl:
What a statement

why not quote me?
''birds of the same feather''

Ihuomadinihu:
OMG! So married women are meant to be puppets? SMH!
Pompous? Any woman that disaggrees with a man even a spoilt boy is feeling pompous? I will assume you are still in secondary school.
Even though i don't support divorce cos communication can solve little differences in marriage. There are numerous divorced women married right now!

you want to marry, divorce and marry?
Any divorced woman is a shame to womanhood

Ihuomadinihu:
Disrespectful in what manner? By speaking up and condemning men that feel women were created to be puppets and do all the want in marriage?

that's the mindset i'm talking about, when you feel pompous towards your husband, because you don't want to see yourself as a ''puppet'', thats where the problemS start...see it's high time you girls accepted the fact that men are the head and enjoy your marriage because men don't have anything to lose incase of divorce, but i'm SURE no man will want to marry a divorced woman.

onelife97:
@op,permit me to tell u my personal experience.
I got married abt 5 years ago and have a 4yr old boy.But ever since my wife delivered the boy,my life has become unbearable and very difficult to move on.my opinion in any matter with my so called wife mother of my son never counts.But she LL have to confide ir seek advice from unknown people online or her racist family b4 she LL to what I say even though she LL never bring any I her own idea to the table.If u ask my wife a million questions,I bet u csn only get one answer everytime"I DON'T KNOW".those has been goin on for the past 4 years.for more than 3 years,she won't even sleep with me in the sane too let alone make love/have sex with me.I can count how many times we did it in the past years.
Anyway,to cut the long story short,I decided to look for another girl because I won't kill myself with depression.
So sometimes last week,I was talkin to a girl on phone and she was eavesdropping and I got caught.
However,I was thinkin there would be problem in the house and heaven might fall and the hell would break loose.But to my deepest surprise my wife has been treating m like a man of the house now.askin me for sex without rubber etc.
So I have learnt a new lesson now.WOMEN DON'T APPRECIATE GOOD GUYS WHICH I HAVE BEEN ALL THESE YEARS.
Unfortunately for her,I am gone and no looking back.just waiting for something and she LL be completely out of my life.

I won't tell u what to do with urs.u know her and u know the best for ya.think it thru and take ur best decision without anybody interference pls.

Women are not supposed to be pampered.

this is more than maturity, i'm learning... I think it's this phrasial sentence ''for better for worse'' that's giving women the effrontery to misbehave as a wife...
God bless you sir!

Ihuomadinihu:
Same bullshit! Which woman respects a little boy or one that misbehaves? You have been subconsciously indoctrinated to believe that women were created to lick the feets of anything that wears a trouser. This is 2015!

i pray your mindset won't cause you your marriage(if you're married) because you're already being disrespectful to your (future) husband...

Koolking:
You needn't sweat over a stubborn wife...life is too short. The simplest available option is to send her on exile of no return. I am allergic to "for better for worse".

What nonsense!!!

hahahahahahaha... Make i hear say ''for better for worse''

johnshagb:
Stubborn kwanu? You hustle in the current harsh economy of ours just to make sure she's okay and you mean all she serve you is stubbornness everyday?
Bone that thing, na her papa house sure pass. If you develop high blood pressure and die from its complications (God forbid) she'll morn for a while and jump on the next man available. I don't pray for a broken home but I promise myself no woman will take me for a ride. YOLO

''na her papa house sure pass...''
These are men that don't take sh.it from women like me
e go better for you because of this post

MarvellousGod:
@bolded, sorry just had to laugh

Your wife is stubborn shaa.. nothing kills a man faster than losing his self respect esp at home... The problem here is communication. .

What caused the stubbornness she exhibits? Could it be you're too authoritative and she decided to toughen up? I ask because at your original post, you said she doesn't take orders from you.. how do you dish out the orders? Do you order her about like some househelp?? Is there any character of yours she may be angry about?

look at this one o, what if he's being too authoritative? Is he not the man?
Be a man oo!

MRBrownJ:
what else is there to do but to explain to her that you desperately need to find the lady you were dating and proposed to, and not this stubborn being that she turned into, before you take drastic measures. if she decides to change, you have to monitor her to make sure that any time she slips, you bring her back to reality. since she possibly wont believe your threats, i suggest you go ahead with divorce planning to make sure she understands you means business.

it shall be well with you and your family!!
I like this!

netsurf:
Okay, for instance, when the baby came, she breast feeded him exclusively for six months and then the stage to introduce some food came..the baby wouldn't accept those frisogold, cerelac etc but accepts Ogi well but she continually force him to take those friso/cerel and each time, the baby cries endlesslly and later vomits everything. Then at about 10 months old, the baby would accept amala, and indomie on his own without been forced...then she brought in golden morn which the baby spits out the moment it touches his mouth...despite this, she started forcing him again...so the husband said don't give it to him any more...give what he is okay with. Rather than explain why she want to continue forcing him, she went and bought a bigger bag of the golden morn...then the husband threw it away...this happenned last Thursday and since then she has stopped greeting her husband and even prepare food when she like since then.

jeez!! The husband should take her to her parents to teach her some manners she's lacking, they should teach her how to stay in her husband's house...



Just laughing, if i was the man...!!

Just tell us it's your wife...
Well, woman that doesn't respect her husband is not worthy to be a wife, i think this is happening because you showed her ''too much of love'' when you were dating.
well, b4 i marry any wife, i'll tell her the marriage is prone to divorce if she tries to be insolence...
Ask yourself, how long are you going to stay with a woman that doesn't respect you?






#peace!

Just tell us it's your wife...
Well, woman that doesn't respect their husband is not worthy to be a wife, i think this is happening because you show

qbd2:
Hmm, and the daugthers also support it. Run away, cos I smell ritualist attempt in this. Dey just wannt to use u

so babes wey get sense still dey?

Yungwizzzy:
It shall never be well with poverty


see setting my goid!!

Aaaaaaaammmmmmeeeeeeeeeennnnnnnnnnnnn o!!!!! My brother!!
This is the type of prayer that i like..... Aaaaaammmmmeeeeennnn!!!!

comffy:
O jebi. Ode oshi. nincompoo.
y did u pick on me in d first place? can't u see ao peeps tease d Op? o se was je Oro nikan lo ri?

lol...i've seen my gal, c'mon hun, we ain't fighting... Let's settle this outta here!

comffy:
R u the OP? Wats ur stress and ur problem ontop anoda person's problem? u nid deliverance. Mtchewwwwww

lol, this is how my two years old sis reasons... Ain't here to use vulgar words!!

faithchubby93:
During a borrowed course exam,I sat beside a deeper life girl and a guy was behind her.during the course of the exam the guy tapped this gal several times for help n she refused. Out of frustration the gal shouted at the guy "GET BEHIND ME SATAN"! That was how the guy was asked to submit his paper... Fast forward to result time ,the guy passed n the girl failed...

correct!!
Same thing happened to me, we were in the hall writing PHY211 and my guy was busy copying another guy and i've not written anything, the guy will tell me he's coming whenever i ask him for answer...he carried it over and i had 47....

Miracle!!

Ridwanna:
d best experience was wen a friend was cheating and no lecturer saw him even d 1 dat stood infront of him

na only we student dey see him

na God blind their eyes!

Stelvin101:
Hnd-2 Final and last paper, Auditing. normally I hate dis course with so much passion bcoz its love letter and very confusing so I jumped from chair to chair to complete my work after attempting 2 out of 4 question only for one of the invigilator to catch me n told me he won't take my script no mata wat or who begged him, that if I like lemme walk around the hall n copy, that I will not graduate and go for Nysc. Na me cucuma walka around n copy wella ooo. wen ppl r submitting on d table in front of him, he refused to collect my script so I asked a coursemate if ppl r submitting according to matric, he said no. i walked up to where he is sitting and dip my script inside, scattering d whole scripts on d table and said "find am" then ran out. he just looked at me bitting his finger. in the end, course I hardly have "C" I got "AA"

lolll, correct guy, the useless man no want make you go serve, him father!!
But if you try this in my dept where we're only 21...

Time to haunt those that sent them to prison!!

comffy:
@ OP. u be grammarian? Coz dis ur grammar can scatter brain oooo.

you think you're perfect, right? ''Remove the dirt in your eyes first...''

Holywizard:
ur spelling work & grammatical blunder can impregnate a mad woman through bluetooth.

U're an 1diot

this is one of the juveniles we have here on NL, grow up and get some manners!!

MrsChima:
Ask her to give you a hand job while you are kissing her.

hmmm professional!!

cokacoola:
but am alway last longer like 20 go 30mins on first round

bros! 20-30mins first round? You think say we wear pampers here?

JMAN05:
So God can bless u through robbery and looting? The motive for gambling is largely to make money by luck. money of an unlucky fellow. money u didn't work for.

God does not operate today like He did in the OT, when He viewed the Jews as His special people.

''God does not operate this day like he did in the OT''? Hey bro!! God is the same yesterday, today and forever, He doesn't change neither does His ways!!!

An2elect2:
Stay there. Don't go and work to earn.

They only thing some people know is money money money. And when they hit it big through whatever means, they attribute it to God. Go and open your bible and read it loud if you can.

You probably think Jesus and his disciples spoke so well about those who chase riches/money

Maybe you mean another god, but definitely not the ONE of the bible.

so you don't know is God that blesses the armed robbers on the road? HE's the creator of evil and good!!

MzNelly:
Yes; just the same way God bless politicians who engage in corruption and robbers who steal, also kidnappers who request for heavy ransom.

Ain't God good?

God is good joor

jcross19:
If gambling is a sin what about visa lottery even pastor do play

lol...
O oh! And some people are on my neck; criticising me!

I don't mean to get on anybody's nerves with this thread...
I've been at home for almost two months doing nothing just because my school is on strike and the only thing i do just to avoid asking for 100 naira every morning is to play lotto(baba ijebu) and bet9ja, if there is any other type of gambling that i've not tried, then it's not yet in town... I've been combining my daily gamblings with prayers and i'm just thinking, can(i know He's able to do all thingS) God bless me through this irrespective of the fact that i'm gambling?
And what about those people that are winning millionS from this, is it not God's blessing?






#peace!

If you like abort your intestine!!

Daizyyyy:
I was once caught by my lecturer trying to write out a proof I wrote down in a piece of paper because I couldn't memorize it, I begged him to hide it in his pocket to avoid my HOD seeing the ''stuff'' and he gradually took it from me and put it in his pocket. I never looked that lecturer straight into the eyes till I graduated.

hmmmm babe!! Talk true o, you promise am B..J!!