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OILOFGLADNESS:
WAOOO, VERY TOUCHING AND I HOPE YOU READ MY RESPONSE

I AM RESPONDING BECAUSE YOU ARE REALLY GENUINE

MY DEAR, YOU ARE NOT LESS HUMAN

YOU ARE WONDERFULLY INTELLIGENT WHEN YOU FIND THE RIGHT DESTINY FOR YOU

I AM VERY SURE THAT IT WAS YOUR MUM THAT PUSHED YOU TO READ LAW AND SURE SHE PAID TO GET YOU INTO SCHOOL , ALOT OF CHILDREN ARE LIKE THAT,

THE FACTS:


1.. EVERYONE HAVE A DESTINY: SOMETIMES WHAT WE DESIRE OR WHAT OUR PARENTS DESIRES FOR US IS NEVER OUR DESTINY

2. WHEN YOU MISS YOUR DESTINY PATH, YOU WILL DEFINITELY STRUGGLE
3. YOUR COMING BEHIND IN CLASS WHILE IN ELEMENTARY AND SECONDARY IS NOT BECAUSE YOU ARE DULL BUT BECAUSE YOU NEVER FOCUSED AS A CHILD, THERE WAS NO PROPER GUIDANCE ON THE BENEFIT OF EDUCATION, SO YOU GREW SEEING IT AS A FORMALITY

4. I HOPE TO SHARE THE STORY OF SOMEONE I know So MUCH KNOW IN HERE, LACK OF PROPER GUIDANCE MADE HIM TO HATE EDUCATION, WHILE IN PRIMARY SCHOOL, HE REPEATS CLASS, INFACT HE RUNS AWAY FROM CLASS, UNTIL HIS ELDER BROTHER WHO HAPPENED TO BE IN BOARDING SCHOOL VOWED TO COACH HIM,, TO CUT THE LONG STORY SHOT,

TODAY HE MADE FIRST CLASS, TODAY HE BAGGED MASTERS FROM PREMIER COLLEGE LONDON ON SCHOLARSHIP, TODAY HE IS DOING HIS PHD OUTSIDE THE COUNTRY ON SCHOLARSHIP.

5. THOUGH IT IS SEEMS TOO LATE TO SHARPEN YOU, BUT LAW IS NOT FOR YOU , I AM SURE YOU WILL DO WELL IN PUBLIC STUDIES,

6.YOU HAVE TO PROMISE YOURSELF TO ATLEAST FINISH YOUR SCHOOL SINCE YOU ARE ALREADY IN YOUR FINAL YEAR FOR THE SAKE OF UR MUM

7. TO DO THIS YOU NEED GOOD FRIEND IN YOUR LEVEL, SERIOUS AND COMMITTED FRIEND, WALK UP TO ONE OF THEM AND SPEAK TO HIM OR HER ( I HAD ALOT OF PERSONS LIKE THIS WHEN I WAS IN SCHOOL ( ENGINEERING), I HELPED ALOT TO SCARE THROUGH, I THOUGHT ALOT HOW TO READ, I GAVE ALOT MY SUMMARY NOTE TO READ FOR EXAM, ALOT OF PERSONS ENGAGED ME IN DISCUSSION 1 WEEK TO EXAMS) I AM PROUD OF IT THOUGH AFTER SCHOOL MOST OF THEM SEEMS TO FORGET EASILY , EXCEPT 3 OF THEM WHO BEGGED TO MARRY ME, AND I REFUSE COS THEIR APPROCH MADE IT LOOK LIKE A PAY BACK GESTURE , THEY EVEN MADE ME BELIEVE THEY WANTED TO USE MARRIAGE AS A PAY BACK,.thats by d way

8.AFTER school, sure you wont use the certificate but please get it for your mum, so that she will be happy, Then find YOUR PATH, YOUR FREELANCING IS GOOD, YOU CAN TAKE IT TO NEXT LEVEL.

9.FINALLY AND TH MOST IMPORTANT,DONT FORGET THAT THE OWNER OF KNOWLEDGE LOVES YOU AND HE IS KNOCKING AT THE DOOR OF YOUR HEART, GIVE HIM CHANCE TODAY AND YOU WILL BE HAPPY EVER AFTER!!!

GOD BLESS YOU

I’m in the same shoe with the OP

BathingSoap:
This might be a long read guys pls don't be angry with me. I have been a guest on Nland for a while but decided to create this monicker for this purpose.

So this all started when i entered the university in fact i'm now in my finals but as it is now i'm laying on my bed facing the ceiling and we have a test going on in class, i have missed about 3 tests since this semester started but i don't seem to feel alarmed by that, i'll probably have an extra year too the way i'm going but i can't just push myself to get up and read and to wash my uniform being a law student.

Now i feel this is partially because of the fact that i have come to believe school is not for me...i have never been a bright student right from primary school...when i entered the uni as a freshman i had the dreams every fresher had which is to come out with a first class and i worked very hard for it, went for night class every day without sleeping even for a minute, but any time grades came out i always come out at the bottom of the food chain.

I have tried hard to demystify the exact cause of my failure in academics but found no answers, could it be my hand writing, or i don't understand what i read or i'm not good in cramming textbook case laws and sections, or could it be because my brain is just not acclimatized to school and the rigours that come with it.

I have put in effort to handle all these supposed problems but none if them have come to fruition, even to the point that i bought a handwriting book to help improve my handwriting ...yeah i was that desperate



Reality dawned on me tho when my year 2 and 3 results were nothing to write home about...then i started losing interest...hardly go to class even though there is a test...i always say to myself stupidity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting different results so if i can read and study so much without being able to secure even a C in my courses then i'd rather not try.

Its funny tho that in my year 4 i made more than half a million rendering freelance services to people online...this also fueled my loss of interest in school, I'd rather be committed to something that pays me. I feel bad for mum tho, she put in all this effort to make me learned and give me a good future and she has already started saving for my law school but i know deep down that i am a nut case and can't ever compete with my peers academically.

I have tried my best in fact i'm crying right now, school has always made me feel like a lesser human, i always come out last...i really don't know what to do with life anymore ...i mean why is life so partial and unfair, why can't i be like those bright students...

I brought this here because i believe my Nairaland family will help me get through this terrible faze of my life.

I'll really appreciate if more people get to see this

Thank you

OP I will be as apt as possible here. I’m in same shoe with you ,studying law in one the leading institution in the country too, just that I’ve found a lil passion to pull through now irrespective of the fact that I had lost considerable time on the past. My advice, find someone to confide in, male most preferably a girl wouldn’t help, it didn’t help me and I’m sure it won’t help you either coz I feel you couldn’t have been as worse as I was then which I’m still in the process of recovering fully out of this mess too .
You are going to face your extra year be aware of that and it unless you don’t have something that triggers sadness in you which you wanna correct is that moment when you can admit that you’re FAILURE,which you don’t wanna be .
Bro, man up . A pass for Gani Fawehinmi and the famous Femi Falana are not hinderance to their lives coz no one will ask you at gatherings what you graduated with, rather they will prefer to ask “What do you for a living” which you and I would be glad at that moment to say “I’m a lawyer” and then you will not add “that graduated with a pass” abi we will ?? HELL NO!
Finishing your law degree is and extra advantage coz you can enrol in various postgraduate diploma in any area of interest which if completed can be used to obtain a Masters of Law. Am I communicating my brethren!?

DO NOT GIVE UP!

JhyMedex:
you have to try and see it through @BathingSoap..Towards the end of uni..I had this dis case of severe demotivation..But I called home ..talkwd to mum told her what I'm feeling ..She understood n encouraged me...

I would not lie n tell u I suddenly felt motivated but it was a major step on the way to recovery...

U r Man bruh..U have to push through to the finish line...

How did you make them to reason along with you ?

Diegobonito:
Same here. I'm in my Finals though. Remaining 1 semester to go

Same here bro. Pm me on WhatsApp 08062714868.
Thanks �

Yungmakavelli:
Very inspirational to me passing through something similar to this but motivated with your write-up

Machie reach me on WhatsApp 080-627-14868,we could learn from each other .

MyGeneration:
Sometimes it's when the child looses focus. I am a living example of that sha genius from primary school I was a big fan of dexter from Cartoon Network and jimmy neutron from nickelodeon I was practically a nerd that people made fun of because of my way of thinking. I started reading chemistry and physics text books when I was in Jss getting admission was beans but once I got to university distractions finished me girls in particular because when I was smaller and seen as a nerd no girl ever looked our way so once we were in uni we wanted to do it all. We fell down the ladder graduated with poor grades and had to struggle but someone who is great is destined to be great it's always in you just find your way. I refused to work coz I know I am a problem solver I went into business when my mates were getting jobs it wasn't easy but we are still going up that ladder

I will like to hear the full gist I’m in similar fate now

Ikeboboafri:
Bishop Obinim has vowed to appear in the dreams of anyone who insult him intentionally or unintentionally on the social media platforms. According to the Ghanaian Pastor, those behind troll comments against him are bound to see him in their dreams because he has not done anything to deserve that kind of treatment. Bishop Obinim who claims to have wined and dined with archangel Gabriel warned social media users who insult him on Facebook, Twitter , Instagram and other social media platforms that he will appear in their dreams if they do not desist.

“The more you insult me, the more I love you. Even if you write any bad comment about me I still love you and will reveal myself to you in your dreams either this afternoon or in the night”, he disclosed in his latest video.

“Go ahead and insult me on Twitter, Facebook and Instagram more than anyone else, what I can assure you is that I certainly appear in your dreams and there is no doubt about that”, he warned. “If you hear that anyone is insulting me in Ghana, tell the person Angel Obinim loves him and that he will appear in his dreams”.


https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/25/if-you-insult-me-on-social-media-ill-appear-in-your-dreams-bishop-obinim-threatens/

Bishop ,you’re a Foooooool
Oya appear in my dreams lmfao

GREATESTPIANIST:
what if he will bring u money in d dream

Do you have brain � ��

Ikeboboafri:
Actor Prince David Osei, has taken a swipe at gays and lesbians who according to him are engaging in practice their parents never engaged in. 

The Ghanaian actor who has through his various social media handles attacked Ghanaians who describe themselves as a part of the LGBT society, stated that he finds it very heartbreaking that humans who were brought into the world by their parents through 'heterosexual sex' will decide to engage in intimacy with the same gender whiles they are very aware they will never be able to procreate as their parents did for them.

Prince David Osei in his attack directed at gays and lesbians, further told them to stop the nonsense and ‘nkwasiasem’ (foolishness) because there is no moral sense and justification for this insane behavior they are happily putting up. He wrote in his post;

https://unclesuru.com/2019/04/24/actor-prince-david-osei-attacks-gays-and-lesbians/

Ftc

Acedave1:
baba God abeg pick my cal nw, al my yahoo yahoo fwend done make am

Find sth legit to do and stop contemplating going into internet fraud

princetunex:
Very difficult school. Lemme keep my story for another good day.

Share plz ,someone might learn from your experience

Sammypedro18:
unfortunately I find myself in this situation, checked spreadsheet yesterday only to discover that despiye a CGPA of 3.82, I'm going to have an extra year for failing a university course(unwaivable). I feel like a disappointment, don't know how to tell my mum, feels like the end of the world to me, 1 full year and school fees just because of 1 course
@Thomey pls how did you cope?
@deewhone any help here?

My email is topeadenuga19447@gmail.com

I’m dying in pains over this too

Donald3d:


QUICK FACT: Nobody has gotten to the world richest list by stealing pants

If you make good use of the same energy you use in stealing pants to do a legitimate business, you would blow if you are persistent.

The irony of Yahoo boys is that they are smarter than they think they are. Think about it really, you spend months convincing a white woman to believe your story, and you finally cash out, it takes less energy to convince one thousand people with some good digital marketing strategies to sell a legitimate product or service.

What am I saying, you are going through the same procedures legitimate business men use to make money, only that you are causing other people pain.

You can do better

Do you have an idea or existing business, you can contact me to build you a website, mobile app, or help you with strategies to help market your product or service online to boost your sales and customer base.

Bros my number is +2349024007045 I go like discuss with you.

Shezkid:
People with their choice sha but I can't leave Nigeria to India.. I dey mad

I have a relative that’s studying Medicine in India,how about that ? Hope you’ve read about medical school in India!

Dear OP ,it’s not a spiritual problem neither is it a problem of lecturer whatsoever.
Tell your friend to attend classes,do assignments,write tests ,read the two courses as if her existence depends on it and I’m sure she will pass with ease. Just my one kobo opinion

LINTUNE:
they make use of vaginal excrete in it, for ritual purpose

I get pant I need link

ada9ja:
Saraki words on PDP before joining APC

1. what saraki said about jonathan and PDP
‎https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.vanguardngr.com/2014/06/jonathan-forget-2015-bukola-saraki/amp/
2. i wont come back to PDP
‎https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/184796-i-wont-return-to-pdp-saraki.html

Atiku words on PDP before joining APC

1. why atiku left PDP before
‎https://www.premiumtimesng.com/features-and-interviews/250486-throwback-atiku-said-pdp-joining-apc-2014.html

2. why atiku warns nigerians against PDP
‎https://www.google.com/amp/dailypost.ng/2014/10/17/2015-atiku-warns-nigeria-risks-one-party-dictatorship-pdp-wins/amp/

What fani kayode said about jonthan and PDP
1.‎https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/131308-fani-kayode-blasts-jonathan-says-president-is-leaving-legacy-of-destruction-and-disaster.html

Reno omokri involved in robbery case and power abuse under jonthan
1.‎https://theeagleonline.com.ng/jonathans-aide-reno-omokri-fingered-in-n25m-armed-robbery-case/

obasanjo said God will never fogive him if he support atiku
1.‎https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/278869-exclusive-god-will-never-forgive-me-if-i-support-atiku-for-president-obasanjo.html

2. how obasanjo describe atiku before now
‎saharareporters.com/2018/10/13/most-disloyal-human-being-and-other-bad-things-obasanjo-previously-said-about-atiku

How peter obi agreed that PDP destroy the exonomy before handing over including him
‎https://www.abusidiqu.com/how-pdp-destroyed-nigeria-economy-by-ussiju-medaner/

they left rubbish for buhari to come and perform miracle, abeg if i na like make una cry, buhari one more time abeg

That was why he was voted and when he has shown that he isn’t capable of the task he should take a back seat �.
Thank you �

stupidity:
donate your pant, I’ll buy a car and also buy Benz for you as well.

Pants are available here ooo

Irenemmeso:
beggie beggie

At all at all na winch

tendingNews:
Source: http://www..com/2019/01/tolu-ogunlesi-reacts-to-amaechi-leaked.html?m=1

C

Princeofnigeria:
God punish education.


I got a degree far back 2012 that degree haven't given me enough.


If not street were would I be? I owned two masion, cars and properties.


Oluwa bless the street, oluwa bless all the hustlers and oluwa refill all the Mayes pockets.

Baba show me love naa
0113017802
GTB
Make boys smile for street

MyGeneration:
Sometimes it's when the child looses focus. I am a living example of that sha genius from primary school I was a big fan of dexter from Cartoon Network and jimmy neutron from nickelodeon I was practically a nerd that people made fun of because of my way of thinking. I started reading chemistry and physics text books when I was in Jss getting admission was beans but once I got to university distractions finished me girls in particular because when I was smaller and seen as a nerd no girl ever looked our way so once we were in uni we wanted to do it all. We fell down the ladder graduated with poor grades and had to struggle but someone who is great is destined to be great it's always in you just find your way. I refused to work coz I know I am a problem solver I went into business when my mates were getting jobs it wasn't easy but we are still going up that ladder

Bro I have similar story but just that I’m still in university and can still push one last effort coz I’m in my LAW finals and can’t afford to have extra year on me . You can tell me more on how you overcome your challenges so I can learn too �

Yewandequeen:
Not true.

Aint all about intelligence or affliction sometimes you need to work smart. That you are intelligent doesnt mean every thing will be rosy for you. You need to know some basics in life, bycut where necessary to make it.
You can be intelligent educationally and not smart socially/streetwise but i put it to you that you need these two with Gods help to make it.

I need that streetwise OT
Reach me on o8o62714868 I would be grateful

dingbang:
Lawyers in the house, is an audio recording admissible in court as an evidence?

It’s admissible

Lizzie082:
I'll tell you if you share yours

I wanna better my 2018

danniyal:
I learnt this the hard way

How did you learn it you can help with your experience

Lizzie082:
no resolutions, I've made my mistakes, learnt from them..... so this year I'm doing what I've never done before, something that would make me uncomfortable no resolutions, I've made my mistakes, learnt from them..... so this year I'm doing what I've never done before, something that would make me uncomfortable

What are those things you shall be doing this year

Interested
Topeadenuga19447@gmail.com

ashewoboy:
ugleee sexytemi, come and continue. btw, is the instamessage very interesting, make me sef download am. i hear say na olosho full there.

Yes ooo olosho 5K short time ���