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advanceDNA:
but men are atracted to all kinds of women even ugly ones...men dont display prode when it comes to finding a partner....we can date a woman that has nothing., Ugly, short, fat, .so whats your point??.... And it's because men don't create unnecessary standards ...

yes.....because attraction isn't usually something that happens spontaneously as u are going on the road ..... it so happens that both men and women can bcome attracted to persons they give chance to talk to, relate with, hang out with....
.. But u women look down on potential husbands before he even gets the chance to say hi...u have too many standards in ur head, that you miss out on good men for reason like....He's not 6ft so I ddnt even greet him when he said hi... He has only bachelors can u imagine toasting me with phd...
.he's not a manager, he earns 300k he can't pay my bills...... can u imagine that guy from accounting department trying to say hi to me...doesn't he know his set??

as in ..u women just create social standards to isolate urself from men that could be the one...because the truth is u have already established in ur head how u wnat the one to be ans the joke is on u.....because once in a while that attraction is spontaneous, u cant approach a man ur self because u pretend alot.


I red it..u ddnt read my response... Nature ddnt make anyone polygamous or hypergamous ..it is our sexual discipline that makes both mena and women polygamous..

And it's greed, and looking down on men that could be be a good husband that makes u say u are hypergamous....I ask you are there no women married to good men of their class or even lower....??

See...What will u do if u marry a man of higher class and he loses his status and u become higher than him??...will nature automatically make u despise him.....so at the end of the days polygamous or hypergamy is a choice driven by discipline and unrealistic expectations....

Is it you that sat down one day and decided you'd be attracted to light or dark skinned ladies? You don't know where it came from - it's just there.
We are hypergamous BY NATURE! If a woman has no children with a man and he becomes of lower status than her, experience has shown that the relationship very soon ends. Likewise if a man's pretty wife suddenly becomes fat and ugly.

Just accept that nature, for some reason, gave us ALL the burdens and responsibilities, while men can walk around TOTALLY free!

advanceDNA:
U keep telling me to be honest despite giving u honest counter opinions..see i'm not ur your husband or boyfriend that will indulge your victim hormones even when u are clearly not objective or balanced in ur submissions



Life is generally not fair...
I don't see u saying its not fair to men that women that are nothing can just become rich because of a man..e.g reginal Daniels, Mrs tinubu, etc....u know how hard its is to make.money.. u know how many lives tinubu sacrificed to reach where he is??


See the truth is....from the begining of time...
men own up to their dirty behavior so a man's sexual fvck up is not so surprising when it happens but we'll all know it's still a fvck up..

but you gender's sex fvck up is always the news of year because u hide and pretend to be saints when we all know the reverse is the case...this is on u women .... We all like to fvck...sex is not a holy thing...we are all technically slúts at the end of the day..own up to ur slút nature amd no one can use it against you just just like men..... U can't shame the shameless

Now you're talking: it's UNFAIR!!
How many women are Regina Daniels. How about unattractive women? Thing is, even after they struggle and make money they can still commit suicide like that bank lady, due to no man and failure to meet societal expectations. A man in that lady's shoes would be enjoying, he's got it made already. The whole thing is unfair.

NATURE and society made women to have to hide about sex

advanceDNA:
Don't get pregnant ....u will still loose shape live everyone....u just ddnt get the context

The fair thing would have been that after enjoying sex both equally share the consequences of sex, not that one can just walk away totally free.
There also ought have been on men's side, equivalents of periods, menopause, hymen, etc.
THAT would have been the fair thing

Kingosytex:
Outrightly denying reality is delusion.
You forgot to say that once a woman accuses you of rape that no one will believe you, not even man's fellow man.
You forgot to add that a broke young lady who marries an old man is smart while a broke young man who marries an old woman is a gold digger.
You forgot to add that women in 99% of the cases reap the biggest rewards from their children for the said child birth.
You forgot to add that a woman can divorce a man and at same time keeps receiving an alimony.

advanceDNA:
Madam....I work with women, none of them run away from work because of period....the ones that we are close, we even know when they are menstruating.....

What has any of these to do with NATURE?? - How Nature left things for us!
Simple: nature gave ALL the burdens and responsibilities to women, while men can simply walk around totally free. Just be grateful nature didn't give you all those burdens.

advanceDNA:
..these things are on auto pilot...u are making it sound like u have to solve rocket science, brainstorm ideas, borrow money in the bank to have a monthly period...like wtf..a 10 year old does monthly period..
....but somehow this is the point u present why u should live bills free in life....it's pathetic

You keep using those words "auto pilot". When YOU have to stay home from work due to menstrual cramps or heavy bleeding we'd see you call it auto pilot. And nature did not even provide pads or such. Even in the Bible a woman in menses is said to be "unclean"!

advanceDNA:
weda pregnancy and no pregnancy, ..everyone will lose shape, ...it's free radical action as a result of aging process its another auto pilot mechanism nature gave everyone ....please take some biology class..

Mr. auto pilot, here are some biology lessons below. Enjoy

advanceDNA:
.its pride that makes a rich woman not find a man because the truth is the rich men she wants are low in number...so when u become rich as a woman and decide u want only men richer than you ..the odds are already stacked up against you

This is like saying a man is not attracted to ugly women because of pride. Does she determine who she is attracted to??
I don't think you read this part of my post:
Another, while men are polygamous by nature, women are hypergamous BY NATURE!! (we did not make ourselves that way!) resulting in possibility of a rich woman ending up without a man, and not by choice.

advanceDNA:
I ddnt miss any point... u are just delusional to think that ur point is not debatable....clearly u just want

Be honest to YOURSELF sir.
Nature could have given men some burdens to bear too. But no, they can just disappear and go impregnate another woman same day, or move to Tahiti, or whatever they wish. You have to admit, the whole scenario is unfair.
By the way I added these:
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?

MetalJigsaw:
Stop lying to yourself.. Alot of Africans have lived much longer, even in Nigeria here.

OK, since records started being kept how come you hardly see 100 year-old Africans. Or they only lived to 150 when there were no records?

grandstar:
The 120 years was the period which God gave Noah the instruction to build the ark and it's completion.

Between that time, he was to warn mankind of the coming deluge, and get the necessary animals ready. .
.

And all those animals fit into the ark

God1000:
May his soul Rest In Peace


They should Come to Africa where people live more than 120 years

More than that - they'd claim 150, except, no record and they'll be looking 60

Kingosytex:
I didn't even bother to read further as soon as I saw 'nature is unfair to women'
Clearly, women and cognitive dissonance are like bread and butter.
The way you guys deny reality is something else.
How exactly is nature unfair to women?
The said pains of pregnancy are temporal, they reap the rewards a million folds. The thing here is that women want to have everything on a platter

Nature could have given men some burdens to bear too. But no, they can just disappear and go impregnate another woman same day, or move to Tahiti, or whatever they wish. You have to admit, the whole scenario is totally unfair.
By the way I added these:
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?

advanceDNA:
painting another pathetic, victim picture.....ur gender look for a man to parasitize once he becomes rich, and men allow it....e.g Ned Nwoko....
.a rich woman on can also do same..but hey! ur gender will say she wants a man on her level, be alone and claim Rich men are afraid of successful women...

u go through pregnancy because u want a child or kids ...u need to stop making it look like u are doing someone a favour by birthing kids u also want
.....and by the way, ur period is an autopilot biological system that ensures ur body keep producing viable eggs so that you can get pregnant and have kids that u want...it's a two in one package.... madam u should be grateful for it instead of coming here to paint victim status of your biological nature...

You can if u want to pay..there are surrogate mothers charging small fee for the 9months journey...

U can choose not to have a child and avoid giving birth....and also take hormone blockers to terminate your autopilot egg producing and replenishing process... This ur victim game is becoming stale

Jman06:
Except in the event of rape, men owe you nothing to warrant him 'paying' you with his money after consensual sex unless you're a pr0stitute who takes advantage of a man's horniness to make money off him.

Men are not supposed to pay for your monthly menstruation and the associated pains because we ain't the cause. If you want to be paid for that, ask mother nature! Besides, men also go through pains as well and we do not share in the medical advantages menstruation confer on women.

Kingosytex:
You just threw tantrums as expected of women.
You guys and double standards are inseparable.
The so called 'money' isn't easy to come by that's why whole lot of you guys don't mind being the 20th wife of an up and doing man.
Money isn't easy to come by that's why an up and doing man can charter a trailer load of women, using them as he wishes.
He fvcks this one today, and the next one tomorrow
The money you're trying to keep aside is the reason while your gender keep gunning for the most stable men to date or marry despite they themselves not having anything tangible.

Back to the issue of children, are you talking about the children that most often tilt towards their mothers? A man contributes more than 80% of the responsibilities and welfare of the children, what does he actually gain in return?
Money is difficult to come by, let's not keep it aside.
Money is scarce, that's why you won't marry a broke man because you are probably broke too.
If men evaluate their options and set standards like all these broke ladies do, there would be problems.
If a broke lady could set standards, why can't a rich man?

You men miss the point, which is, NATURE (not man-made stuff) has been unfair to us women. I don’t see how that is debatable.
There is NO WAY a woman can NATURALLY avoid pregnancy and still enjoy sex. A man can simply walk away. We don’t have that option.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman goes through a week of every month.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pain and discomfort a woman has to go through for 9 months of pregnancy (no matter how rich she is; she can't have someone else do it for her NATURALLY).
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the extreme pain of childbirth (once again, no matter how rich...)
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the loss of body shape and elasticity that results from pregnancy.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the duties of nursing that a mother MUST go through.
Another, there is NOTHING nature gave men to counterbalance the pains of menopause. Nature could have made it such that periods simply stop, but no, there is a prolonged period of pain and stress.
Another, nature fixed it such that old women are virtually invisible to the opposite sex. Not so with men.
Another, while men are polygamous by nature, women are hypergamous BY NATURE!! (we did not make ourselves that way!) resulting in possibility of a rich woman ending up without a man, and not by choice.
Another, sex - something that both enjoy o.
A woman is maligned for having sex and has to hide it, a man is praised and brags about it.
Not to mention the hymen. Where are men's hymen?
Be honest, does the above scenario seem fair to you??!

* BTW a man can be born with money or easily come by money by luck. A woman can't be lucky with her own.

Jman06:
Nonsense!
The child doesn't belong to the man alone but to the both of them. In fact, women enjoy the offspring more than the men because children tend to love their moms more than their dads in most cases.

And stop giving us the pregnancy crap because medical sciences has so much made child bearing and pregnancy easier for women.

We are talking of nature not man-made stuff.
A man can just walk away after sex - something that can keep a woman preoccupied for 2 years!
Nature didn't give us the option of walking away free and clear after sex, neither did it provide anything in men that counterbalances monthly menstrual pain and discomfort

Jman06:
What do women bring to the table?

We bring monthly pains we go through, pains of pregnancy, pains of childbirth, nursing baby, and the gossip we have to bear for being with a man.
NOTHING counter-balances any of this in a man

advanceDNA:
I can't laugh in peace again without triggering someone's victim hormones

If u women don't want kids...then dont spread ur legs and come here to complain as if u are doing someone a favour by birthing the same kids u urself want..

U want to make fvcking and birthing kids a harder task compared to making money needed for a life time....y'all think u are smart.....now I see why ur gender quickly opt for prostitutíon when it's time to pay bills..

Consider: even if a woman makes a ton of money, it's not the end (it is the end for a man - women will be available to him), she may still not get a man, and she still has to personally bear menstrual pains, go through pains of pregnancy and birth - she can't pay anybody donit for her. It's like nature wants a woman to personally suffer no matter what she has.
A man can even be born with money, doesn't even have to make it himself.

Alakoriomo:
Nature is the most kindest to men. Outside of sex, please tell me what exactly do men gain from any relationship with women.. please tell me.

We are talking nature and you are bringing up man-made stuff. Say if nature provided ANYTHING to prevent a man from walking away after sexing a woman. And say if nature provided ANYTHING in men to counter balance monthly menstrual pain, pregnancy pain, childbirth pain, pangs of nursing, together with disfiguration of the woman's body that goes with pregnancy and childbirth

riczy:
before tagging money nonsense, hope u have it, if not it's in antithesis!

What he said was nonsense NOT money

GodisStriking:
Here e is a brief overview of each traditional term used by these ethnic groups to describe same-sex relationships between women:
1. Kikuyu: Mushushuru
The term "mushushuru" refers to a romantic or intimate relationship between women. It was often a close friendship based on companionship, mutual support, and emotional intimacy. However, it was not considered equal to heterosexual relationships.
2. Luo: Okiya
The term "okiya" refers to a type of relationship between two women in which one acts as the "husband" and one as the "wife."


3. Kalenjin: Okurimina
The term "okurimina" refers to a relationship between two women in which they become "spirit wives" of each other. This relationship was considered a spiritual and emotional connection, and it involved special rituals and practices to formalize the relationship.
4. Maasai: Omosura
The term "omosura" refers to a relationship between two women who were close friends and considered themselves as "married" to each other.

5. Luhya: Nanyao
In Luhya culture, the term "nanyao" refers to a relationship between two women in which one acts as the "mother" and the other as the "daughter." This relationship was often between older and younger women, and it was based on mutual respect, care, and emotional intimacy.

And I can 100% assure you that non of these involved one woman lacking the other's vagina!

GodisStriking:
What in the world are you talking about, most Americans know about Obama visiting gay bath houses in Chicago. Homosexuality is a Whiteman's disease and they got their idolatry from your great ancestor Nimrod.


You can't hide what goes on in Kenya only continue your own disguise. Trust me someone knows who you are and they will expose you. Daddycool is a sissy boy from Ghana.

Not true at all. Google is your friend. THE SEXUAL URGE IS A VERY STRONG PRIMAL DRIVE. You can't be gay and be dating women all over the place. People will give up any office to freely enjoy their sexuality.

They dug up EVERY letter ever written by Obama till they came accross this philosophical musings to a girlfriend by a 20-year-old Obama. See it below.

As for Kenya, the truth speaks for itself: almost all Kenyans HATE homosexuality!

Alakoriomo:
Exactly. That’s why I always say men should be ready to sacrifice their life for their women. Even if she wants to buy ice cream or she wants to send money to one of the men sleeping with her while yall are married, please do it for her. Even if u don’t have, it’s not so bad to sell your kidney or cut off your dick and sell it so you can raise such money. Happy woman, happy life! Purrrrrr 😻

advanceDNA:
Lol....

Nature knows best, but honestly I sometimes wonder why nature has been so unfair to us. Nature gave men the huge gift of absence of monthly menstrual cramps AND the huge gift of being able to enjoy sex without any consequences, and even go happily brag about it. I have to worry about gossip and pregnancy and have to keep it real secret so as not to be thought loose. On top of all that you also want me to bring the money - the ONLY thing you do!

GodisStriking:





That law is as good as soap on a pig.


Laws are only as good as their enforcement. Publicizing strict laws just to show the world you're homophobic is the oldest trick in the book. Kenya is the country that gave the world Obama the biggest sodomite in the world.

See this one. Kenya is a DEMOCRACY. If you are against what the people want you'd be voted out of office.
See ACTUAL SURVEY of Kenyan people underlined below. This is what the vast majority of Kenyans want, not your SELECTIVE, ANECDOTAL postings.

And, once again, get it into your head - Obama is NOT gay! Gay people don't become POTUS without you hearing of a slew of men they were with in school and beyond, and how they frequented bath houses, etc

GodisStriking:
The Kikuyu tribe of Kenya was known to have same-sex relationships among women. These relationships were known as "mushushuru" in the Kikuyu language. In traditional Kikuyu society, these relationships were often considered a normal and accepted part of life, and they were typically acknowledged and accepted by the community. The attitudes towards same-sex relationships in the Kikuyu tribe were largely influenced by cultural and traditional beliefs, and they were not considered taboo or sinful.

That is your theoretical Kikuyu. The Kikuyu in your head. The Kikuyu you long for and hope for.
See the real Kikuyu below. REAL LIFE!

(The Kikuyu are by far the largest tribe in Kenya)

What is wrong with us!
Nigeria is the ONLY country doing cult in most countries of the world!

What a HUGE surprise!
Real breaking news!

DeeScan:
Seriously we guys don't know our worth ..



we're the fvcking price here ...

The top guys are the prize. The average guy is NOT the prize and he knows it - hence he's rightfully chasing, all day long!

jaxxy:
Feminist will not like this.

And why would a non-feminist like me like it??
The ONLY thing you bring to the table is money, yet you can't bring even that?

Kingosytex:
Besides money, he brings his succulent and anointed pr*ck.
A woman only brings pvssy.

Now tell me who brings more?

If men set standards, women will be in for a long thing.
Look at it this way, a man gives a woman sxx that she craves and even enjoys more (according to science).
The man loses money, resources, energy, strength, while the woman loses nothing and yet get satisfied.
Women are just manipulative and self centered, and full of double standards.
To them, giving money is a proof of love but they themselves don't give the said money.

You are so myopic. Do you know a woman goes through a painful week of bleeding EVERY MONTH, just so she'll be ready to have your baby. Do you know that after that sex a man can just walk away but a woman could be out of commission for 2 years (having and nursing a child). She has to go through pregnancy and the pains of childbirth, then nursing. A man doesn't have to worry about any of these, ONLY MONEY!

riczy:
He is the man of the decade!

Nonsense. Ask your self, what does a man bring to the table besides money? That's the ONLY thing he brings, and he can't even do that??

marlow1962:

But for real, I love seeing men know their worth. Some men have money, but they don't know their worth, and that's very sad.
Knowing your worth is entirely different from pride.

Knowing their worth means asking me for money?? What then is he bringing to the table?
Money is the ONLY thing men bring

chris51:
The man is a GOAT. A parasite

I concur. What then is he bringing to the table?

dkidd:
Too much romance novels and movies done finish U sha

Romance is what makes the ordinary intoxicating, exhilarating