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pansophist:
Yes, loneliness is awful, humans are not meant to be lonely.

Loneliness is not the same as being alone though. Loneliness is a place of lack (being invincible) while ''being alone'' is a place of depth (choosing to disconnect from others).

Try to socialize more, get a new girlfriend, and make sure that if your upcoming relationship ends, it is not your fault, or it would be what I describe as ''irreconcilable differences'' (eg genotype issues).

So undergo an intense self-restructuring, and make yourself a good man, deserving of a good woman. When you are good to a woman, and she breaks your heart due to her fault, then it is her loss.

The 21st-century dating market suffers from a heavy lack of good people, social media have almost polluted everyone's mind, and there is an unspoken scarcity of good, marriageable people.

People see others as victims to rob, tame, conquer, deceive, manipulate, use and dump, betray, cheat on, etc.

I understand it is easy to nod your head and agree with the preceding paragraphs, but it is more important that you evaluate yourself and make sure you are not also a toxic participant in the mix.

Everybody should benefit from compound wealth and a woman who will go through life with you through thick and thin is an asset. Changing from partner to partner does you a disservice in the long run.

Also, lots of young people think that their realities in their 20s or even 30s will be their realities in their 40s, 50s, and above. At different stages in your life, one thing that will never fail you is a good partner by your side.

I watched my parent's marriage and I envy them. I reminisce on all the challenges they have passed through, and how they stood by each other. I can tell you for sure that the love they have for each other is not an emotional base only but of duty and sacrifice.

Real life is tough. There are bills to be paid, one of you may get sick, and some unfortunate circumstances might happen that an ordinary word of affirmation would make a difference, and a good partner is a key to this.

A good woman may not be perfect, goodness is not perfect, but it is wholesome. So you may have to overlook big buttocks and things that arouse you sexually, for things that will benefit you in the long run.

This is not a promise for the elimination of suffering, but if you must suffer, you shouldn't at least, suffer uselessly. You cant choose not to suffer, you can only choose which suffering you want.

An example of useless suffering is being destroyed financially because you married for the wrong reason, while useful suffering would be preservering for better days to come, with your spouse as your pillar.

Pansophist with words of wisdom as usual

oluwaseunamos33:
Only God can disqualified him and not you . Celebrate with me as I'm FTC

Oga to slap you dey hungry me

nwadikeokey11:
He should have known that an ex who suddenly showed up in his house and offered him a free unprotected sex was up for something terribly bad and wicked. That swine of an ex must have been aware of her status and decided to go on a revenge mission to all her old and current lovers, as she wasn't sure which of them must have given it to her. So she want to take her own pounds of fresh from all her Bleep mates, present and past. The dude is in for a serious long thing. In this world of several deadly STDs and a reasonable human being is still having unprotected sex. Even with protection I still will take you to a diagnostic center to run some important tests, like HIV, hepatitis, etc, before I will touch you. It doesn't matter whether you are an angel who just appeared in human form, I will still run all these tests on you right in my presence, and still use protection on you. I can't take chances and risk my health and life for just few minutes pleasure. God forbid.

There is nothing wrong in the dressing, I like it when they are brown skin in complexion because when they sweat, it's a huge turn on.

Themilkboy:
Familiarizing koh familynation ni

Rest bro

He is telling you the truth, go and research, HIV symptoms include rashes at the back, and those other symptoms you mentioned, I have a feeling you deliberately left out small swellings around your neck area or armpit.

Even the dog sef is tired of Nigeria
Give it Amala and ewedu and the appetite will return

BloomingDale:
Just thank your lucky stars it was not your wife caught wooing a man. The shame for don kee you since.

Bloomingdale why is my comment peppering your body, ... The day she tries it and she's caught, she goes back to her father's house and I bring her replacement

kingsways:
Of what use is cooking for a long time non stop?


People should aspire to make breakthroughs that are useful to mankind, e.g a scientific breakthrough that produces cure for a previously incurable disease. Such deserves recognition, not cooking

Oga what is stopping you yourself from making a scientific breakthrough?

adesegun121:
Problem man ye ni ye

adesegun121:
Peele prophet solomon

Why should the man be apologizing

What is he apologizing for, did he commit a serious crime?, A man is entitled to have as many women as he wants, the sooner the wife and women in general understands this, the better for them.

Cassandraloius:
I'm bleeding tears for this young generation, they've known nothing but fraud, theft, kidnapping and every other evil activity and it has sunk deep into their vein. I miss the good old days.

Madam tell us the truth, you are not bleeding any tears.

Tsolutionifede:
u r a mumu man, as if peter obi will do miracle to this God forsaken country. Ur peter obi can never become president, so get out

Oga I want it to pepper you very well

jmoore:
The bad news is too much.

I wan JAPA!!

Oga to slap you dey hungry me....you must stay here and enjoy what you voted

KosiGee:
Banana leaf tea is actually healthy. It’s packed with polyphenol. Lots of leaves, herbs and tree barks that we throw away are very healthy and good for the body.

What does the polyphenol leaves do for the body

EreluRoz:
God has got me covered

I dey pity the person that takes you serious, why you dey like to contradict yourself, you have been saying severally that God doesn't exist, now it has turned to "God got me covered".

immortalcrown:
Does it mean she is still single? She has a child named "Lotanna". So, who is the father of the child.

Meanwhile, she is a very close paddy to the top two hip-hop musicians from the East. I no go mention their names. She also mingles a lot with young politicians.

Ijele Ozioma Ejiofor (Ada Nanka), my fellow fan of Ajofia Nnewi. She sings Ajofia's songs well. She is also a promoter of the Igbo culture. Her Anambra accent is so good.

Resist the urge to shalaye

If she is not SUBMISSIVE and WILLING, kick her out... Very simple.

I will wait till I hear the man's side of the story

You will soon see it inside his pot

Very foolish question

The poster above me is a wise man.

woginid967:
Errrm she cheated with a younger boy who was a junior staff, whose gf was her colleague.

Her reasons was I was too strict and i wanted to know her wherabouts and I corrected her often, so she confided him the guy and used him secretly as back up, for 6 years, till the guy publicly insulted me and i fired him.

Then the truth came out.

I left her quietly, till now I wonder how i kept forgiving her MANY misgivings till she got confident enough to do this 🙄

Anyway now she is for many guys and being used by rough guys, i leveled up, got wealthy, converted the pain to purpose. Moved on with firm resolution never to give my strength to women again. Its been years now and my growth has been massive,

Thank God for lessons learned.

He had the audacity to publicly insult you because of the rubbish your wife was telling him about you.

Nazgul:
Lol... I actually counted 8 children.

From the way the guy dey shine teeth, he will agree to the proposal, I will disown him fast if I am his Father.

See the man smiling and shining teeth like goat,

Which kind blackmailing be this,

I am seeing up to three children from what I'm seeing, how will a right thinking single man marry a single mother of three children, make that man no gree o.

Was the train journey faster to your destination

Yugoslavia247:
When they slash your bro head, this funny thing will turn to mourning in your family.
I pray he gets killed except he has never killed
I pray he dies untimely except he as never cut someone life short.
I pray your mother cries over him except someone else's mother has not done same.

Death to all cultist
Useless idiots
Claiming they fight against oppression but they are the oppressors.
They have made life more difficult with a deranged ideology.
Fools.

Which kind jonsin be this

DanseMacabre:
Damn petite chicks are a speck and that's on period!

I call petite chicks "Giant slayers"
Petite chicks love tall guys and there's something about petite chicks,
"Petite chicks no matter the size of the tool of the tall guy, they'll handle that tool very well without complaints, no matter the tempo of the thrusting, no matter how deep the thrusting goes,
they'll take it without complaints and even ask for more ,...
That's why I call petite chicks "Giant slayers".