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phintohlar:
okay i hear u o

Good girl...

phintohlar:
chai, lie lie

No be lie o9

phintohlar:
very sweet, infact very honey sef

Walahi...

See as you be like hybrid of Regina Daniels and Mercy Aigbe.

Fine geh

Awww so sweet...

Panla

Of course most of us know this.

Who European style of wedding help?

Mtcheeewww

Newbreed2018:
From all advice given to u, even the admonitions, u still sound so disrespectful to ur husband. I've seen all manner of unprintable names u've used on him, Animal! Stupid, ediot etc. U r very uncouth.
U r a problem and the solution begins with u.
Please fix urself first before u ever think of fixing that man. U think he's ur worst mistake but from all ur chatter I can tell u u r his worst mistake.
If u can Adress ur husband in such terms in public I can only but wonder what u do in private.
The world does not revolve around ur feet. U sound like a very lazy woman in ur responsibilities at home. In fact u r very lazy. I wonder how ur husband endured u upto this point.
Waking up by 7 to prepare a meal is a task to u? Huh? #spits.

Instead of u to seek the face of God, rather u opened this stupid thread to seek validation from NL for them to condemn ur husband so u can go home gloating.
Madam, go and fix ur self. U r not doing the man any good staying, if u wish to leave kindly leave ASAP so the man go see road remarry better person. I wish to see ur husband and encourage him to divorce u ASAP. Ur type kills a man quickly.
U no be wife atoll.

Wise one...women no fit deceive us..

okv87:
This is really sympathetic but the only thing I believe you can do is to call him in the mid-night so that both of you can reason together. Use your power as a woman because you have not utilize it 1%. Even if when you are angry don't react immediately. Ask him what the matter is because for every marriage to hold-is in the hand of a woman and not the man. Always hold the peace and find out what he normally likes within that 4 months two of dated get him that; lure him to joke talks. Then check what has changed because I believe before you entered into the union both of you must explain some internal issues like fibroid and age factors. He is old and you are old. So these can't be the issue he troubling you as you narrated. Do your checks and balances very well because I know for sure this man is not a devil is still a human being.

To me if checking his messages is the problem; avoid it. TRUST should hold both of you together. From your story, this problem started as a result of LACK OF TRUST from you. Don't check his phone messages! because when you do you must see something and if waking up early to give him breakfast will solve the matter please do!!

I am advising you in case of another time, please don't report your husband to a third party no matter anything. Try as much as u can to settle any problem with him in the mid-night with your BED as your judge.

Well, you have tell us your own side of the story, I think the man need to table his own side so that we can judge very well.

Take care.

Wise

There is certainly more to this story, and this can be deduced by the discerning from op's post, subsequent comments and in her own words "her unserious nature".

Not holding brief for bros, because this was, of course, a " welding" of two totally different personalities, who hadn't taken out time to get to know themselves to a reasonable extent, find a middle ground and avoid this "expected" end result.

You've narrated your part of the story to tell us how your hubby was double dating and has got a low sperm count. I'm very sure your hubby would have a story to tell about you too if given the opportunity.

First, of, you come across as very arrogant and full of yourself, and most likely how you got very unserious until your biological clock was almost striking 12 pm, which was the only reason you could pretend to be humble for 4 months, got hitched and voila..the original you don surface.

I am very critical about pastors, but in cases like this, no one should blame them, please.

You see, pastors are like job agencies where people go to submit their CVs in hopes of getting matched with available openings. In this case, brother and aunty had made it known through application/supplication, etc, that a partner was the utmost on their list of to-do, this was why they both rushed in and 'welded' themselves together. Wetin pastor do?

You obviously would go into your husband's phone, talk back at/insult him. Right? (You haven't been honest in your post).

I would have truly loved to hear from your husband, and I won't be surprised to hear you were cheating on him. You bear every hallmark of someone who would do so hiding under the cloak of psychological, emotional and physical abuse. The wise can glean this from your post.

Is it not surprising how you had started this thread in a very solemn and guilt-filled kinda manner, but the moment you got spurred on by a couple of commenters validating and telling you what you hoped to hear, you became more assertive and decided right here on this thread and now that you'd be leaving your man? How cunning.

Your man is a dikkhead for the abuses, physical, emotional and otherwise but you aunty, you get for hand well well.

I'm sure there is a portion of the Bible that reads " from the abundance of the heart the mouth speaketh. Now, imagine the names op calls her husband here, after the bandwagon effect of everyone blaming her hubby which has sort of given her more validation, impetus and made her more expressive.
In your deepest and quietest of hearts, you call and see your hubby as an idiot, a lunatic and every sorry name in the book, and you want me to believe he gives you hatred for all the love you give him?

In fact some commenters here never sabi women. Me sabi look dem well well when dem dey do their nonsense, dem go think say i be mumu...whosaiiii. Me wey get big head like dis?

Your way no pure at all at all. We no be today meat na. If you aren't already cheating on this man, it would be for the same reason as you gave for still being with him (what people would say). I can bet my two balls that there's someone on the side from your corner, that's why you feel you need to get validation from people wey you no know online to carry out wet in dey your mind already.

You want go abroad ba, abi na their the new catch dey...lol...e go do you voom for eye.

Tired, I would have analyzed and given you more of the honest bitter truth.

I no dey fear pussay fkk nyansh o, if you see me dey fkk nyansh na say na me wan just do am no be say na fear of pussyy cause am. In other words, we no dey carry water for mouth dey talk. We say it the way it is..pure and simple.

Good luck going forward.

Ooh...she actually talks..

What a surprising wonderment..


This is what we call breaking news..

Idiots

essenceplus:
Daddytime and sagemk will soon be here. I'll park here and wait for comments. Oya. Lilmissfavvy, waiting for you too. Bukatyne,how was church service yesterday. I hope you ministered well

Hahahhaha

If na husband matter be your problem now, better lower your requirements, swallow your pride and begin to concentrate on men wey don already get one and searching for number two before you go end up as number seven with plenty abeg.

The ratio of women to men no be joke matter.

@Cococandy

I, usually refrain from engaging folks here 1on1, especially with out-right insults.
Even when the import of my comment (an obvious innocent joke) was lost on you, don't you think quoting me to call me a "dummy" was a tad classless from your end?

You coulda simply read, shook your head in disgust at my submission if laughing was forbidden at yours, and moved on.

Be advised, please, because I can be very nasty too when I choose to.

Foolish retired mad people parading themselves as pastors while sitting the Bible on it's head.

Na the mumu sheeples wey believe in someone reading and interpreting the Bible for dem I blame.

Very annoying something.

Hope he didn't Egbegbe the house sha...

In fact, this your tori just dey scatter scatter.

I can't even make a head or tail from it.

From what I gleaned reading through the first few lines, I'd advise you stop calling yourself or brother a businessman.

Business 101 and financial literacy would have told you that, you don't take a loan to pay off another loan.

I say yo quoting an act about lenders blablabla when you were signing for and receiving the loan, were you not aware of this act and the terms of the loan?

If I be judge, na charcoal I go take strike off this case.

A pile of gibberish...

My guy count your loss and move on abeg.

Oga, there is a place where the voiceless are able to get justice in Nigeria.

You are even in Abuja and I am pleasantly surprised you don't know Berekete family radio. Make your way and locate human rights radio (berekete family radio) 101.1fm Abuja, headed by ordinary Ahmed Isah the voice of the voiceless and you'd be glad you did.

If you are set, get in touch with me for more info. I go there every day.

Success

Lol... I understand what happened very well. A poor innocent girl.

If you have been through that route as I did 20 years ago, you go know say e even pass to die and wake up again. When person go trek from Algerian border town of Magniya to Morocco, e go die wake up many times over.

Follow my blog in signature if you wanna enjoy my Morocco gist...

These ones wey go monetize everything including the air wey poor citizens go breath if dem get their country.

Na visa their people go dey pay for to comot or re-enter their country.

Money must be made.

Edo n'imose

After all the hounding, harassment, public humiliation and waste of taxpayers money on a media circus.

What a country of waste

A very huge animal farm called Nigeria

After all the hounding, harassment, public humiliation and waste of taxpayers money on a media circus.

What a country of waste..

How are we sure she is not posting from someone else's ig?

Nothing this girl no fit do for attention. Na medical condition she get

I need one for Abj..make I see how e be..

lefulefu:
iyam very sure na those very bigmouth charger na im op wife dey take charge her fone .ehn op"s wife searching for bigmouth charger upandan..nah wah oo .haha u certainly dey miss ur callin on comedy

Make dem sha no use big pin charge destroy the charging point...

Taribo Brazil

Liliyann:
Monitoring husband
When you can't even trust your wife to believe her explanation
You berra consider her secretiveness a favour!
It's not everything a husband should know!

Besides, what type of phone is she using?
Why not get her a good phone and add power bank to it so as to achieve your monitoring goals?

Hmmm..

lefulefu:

Lefuuuuu..e be like say I miss my calling for comedy o

And the security chiefs have earned themselves a probable extension of term in office with these carnages nationwide?

Which kind wahala come be dis wan na...next level never even reach two weeks yet o...