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adepeter2027:
You this daeylar ehh


LoLLL @below

Blackfyre:
What did I do?


Obviously.... I am going to hazard a guess you just came upon this path of yours recently...

adepeter2027:
LoL

But something similar, lemme Google the correct quote

Blackfyre:
I see you quite familiar with the bible...

adepeter2027:
For the wisdom of god is foolishness unto man - sayeth the bible

Tozara:
Ah!



The government's response to the prevalence of the act is so passive it might as well be termed approval. But no one will talk about that; the responsibility must always lie with the victim.

zubinike:
You have paid, u have paid, remember stepping it down with a cold bottle of Coke....make you no loose 2-0

Tozara:
It's crystal clear. I understand perfectly. There are different kinds of fire.

It's a form of TOLERANCE towards the crime.

Sagamite:
I think this point has been made in different iterations on this thread. In an ideal world, no woman will have to worry about rape. But, will live in a less than ideal world where evil minds on on the prow'. So what do we do? Continue shouting rape is bad, real men don't rape? We know that already.

The point is that there are certain things than can be done to reduce the incidence of rape. There is a role for society in term of education, non-tolerance, appropriate laws and implementation of the laws. And, dare I say, there are certain things women can do to reduce the likelihood of being a victim of rape. It is about not giving the rapist an opportunity to commit the crime. In the same vein, there are cultural norms that reduces the prevalence of rape. There is less incidence of rape in Saudi Arabia due to a combination of these factors.

The truth is criminals are more likely to commit a crime if they believe they are likely to get away with it. I don't subscribe to the notion of a rapist seeing a provocatively dressed woman and then losing his senses and then raping her.

A more likely scenario is the provocative dress sexually aroused the rapist, and instead of controlling his desire like most men would, he devise a means to lure and isolate the woman to perpetrate the act.(Note here he finds a way to reduce the likelihood of getting caught, he doesn't just grab her on the street and start raping her there and then.)

Another thing is that immodest dressing sends a wrong message to his warped mind that he is probably going to get away with it.

The truth is that criminals profile their victims.And the profile of the victim of a rapist is not all women, they prefer to target certain types of women

Now, I am aware that this account for only some subsect of rapes and rapists. There are compulsive rapists which only get sexual gratification from forced sex, chiled molesters and peadophiles. No amount of modest dressing is likely to deter these sets of criminals. But, will modest dressing and common sense precautions reduce the incidence of certain type of rapes and reduce the chance of a woman being a victim of rape. YES it would and it does.

Sagamite:
I had a lot of mentioñs. I flash read his post because of this and it seems well constructed and reasoned. Though not addressing my challenge, I understood because, as he made clear, it was a chain of conversation (which I had not followed or read, so I had to be tolerant).

Feel free to highlight the trashy part, babes.

All 1-6 come as a package, babes, not as isolated points.

Each on their own alone would not reduce rape.

Tozara:
Yeah, I know. But with a flame that has a different feel.

Good morning. How was your night?

Daeylar:
Tozara,

You know you have to give me time to modify

Am I really?
I want to burn you first

I'm serious.
Burn you with fire. Incase it's not clear

This victim blaming madness needs to stop. It's nonsense on every level.

Sagamite:
You give very good points there

but I challenged you because from your own evidence, how people dress is not necessary an indicator of rape levels.

If you know Latin America well, especially Brasil, the way the women dress there na die. Yet they have less rape on your graph than some Muslim countries like Egypt.

Women should have a right to dress in a way that pleases them.

To reduce rape, you need:

- Clear and highly punitive laws for such an offence.

- Strong policing capabilities (including investigations, cctv and management of victims)

- Strong enforcement (arresting and prosecuting)


- Low inhibitions of consensual sexual activities and behaviours (limiting sexual frustration, let people dress as they like)


- Good economy that provides opportunities for men (men with money have hope of fcking, those without don't. The more men are not economically active, the more they miss out and get sexually frustrated)

- Good supply of ashawos (reliable providers of last but professional resort

NwaAmaikpe:



Is this one protest?

This is not the Uniben we know,
Is Ekosodin now a sleepy town?

shaybebaby:
AgentOfAllah IS the most intelligent on here. And he a fiiiiine black brother too. Daer babes, na me talk am.

Martin0:
Ooooooo which kin wahala be diz again,

Ok make I go see her,stay here,don't follow me

Martin0:
Are my not innocent?

Martin0:
Yes ooo,as u dey get urself something make una dey arrange my own ooo u and shay shay,atleast una nor go sell me again

Maybe na una personal cash una wan use this time

That my ehm Ehm thank u ooo atleast u don show me say ur heart nor be rock of ages

Na wa ooo who dey ask if that last question?
so na two people I con offend now? Eh eh market wey I buy nor be small market ooo

MhisTahrah:
Sure.After all he owns me body,soul and mind.I only exist in the marriage to do his bidding.And the holy book has also placed him over me as my head.To take all decisions on my behalf.Sex shouldn't be a big deal,I have to please my husband all the time.Even when I'm not in the mood...

Daelar you just have to agree with this.

PDPGuy:
It generally depends on the specific jurisdiction.
In some jurisdictions, if a woman is stark naked on another man’s bed, the man still doesn’t have the right to penetrate her, or perform some other sexual act on her without her implied or explicit consent.

Moreover, a married man cannot forcefully have sex with his wife without her consent. If he does so, he may be liable for marital rape.

shaybebaby:
Who get smooth tongue? Tozara?

shaybebaby:
Okay hun. We'll let him off.

*whispers:sellout, is it because he promised to buy you ice-cream? *
You didn't even negotiate my own share.

Tozara:
[color=#000050]Don't you know that life is a school, and you'll need tuition fees to enjoy it? [/color]

Tozara:
[color=#000050]

But I won't be receiving it in "that corner". I'll give you the location of delivery. [/color]

shaybebaby:
I'm ending the sale right away. Or maybe not, on second thoughts. We will take the proceeds and go mad in the boxing day sales. I've had my eye on a coat for karen millen. You nko?

Martin0:
How about me

Tozara:
[color=#000050]See ya stingy life. Them girls are deliberating already on how to sell you to make me rich. [/color]

Martin0:
U don dey fear abi,if if dem ban u eh

lovelygurl:
Of course some morons will support rape on this thread. Understanding why this is wrong seems too much for their brain cells to handle but thankfully this girl already found a way to get through their thick skull, Even if their IQ= 1%, it should be enough for them to grasp the meaning of this