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Mynd44:
Can we say it is wrong to call all men potential rapists when we men question what women wear based on assault? We say a woman wears a skimpy top hence she asks for it or tempts the man.

We say why are women outside after a certain hour cos we know it is not safe.......isn't that implying that no woman is safe?

They love presenting this argument but don't see where it shows men as weak or unable to control themselves,

But the moment women use it against them and call them weak, they rise up in arms

Even if a woman is nàked does not give anyone the right to rape her.

MhisTahrah:
Wife not sex object.Sex is not a right that comes with marriage.It is not a wife's duty.

...She can't open her legs simply because her husband wants it. She doesn't give up her right to say yes or no the day she gets married.

...Wives do not belong to their husbands.Sex should be based on consent.

...However wives should under no circumstances withold sex from their husbands except there is a genuine reason for this.And even when she does,you have no right to rape her.

Nice
Simple things they don't know or claim not to know.
Some comments can be really troubling.

uk10:
there was a topic brought to nairaland about a man being raped by 3 women,and u women were busy finding it funny and claiming that he enjoyed it

You what ??
Did you see my moniker there?? ?? ?? ?? ?? Did you see itttt?? ?? ?? ??

Which one is u women?? ?? ?

Behave..


Furthermore, haven't you seen threads where a woman would be raped and some men say the woman enjoyed it?? ??


With that said.

Rape is bad, we should speak out against rape no matter the gender, that should be the goal.

Not trying to silence anyone who is speaking out against women being raped because men get raped and it seems like it is taken less seriously.

That's wrong, it's not everytime a topic has to become women verses men,

The right thing to do is to speak against rape on both genders and correct any misconceptions about rape the way mynd44 is doing. That's what you should be doing,


Not this women vs men rape case you want to start.

shaybebaby:
Aunty, me! I know the answer.

LMAO

You need to see the way I burst into laughter
Chaii, My God, I'm just laughing crazily here

Shaybebaby!! God
ROTFLMAO

Na real aunty me,

Oya, Uncle I answer

Lol, thanks for the laughs Dear

I keep asking myself, will people be as accepting of a female musician with 3 baby daddies the way they are of wizkid with 3 babymamas

Mynd44:
Is there a need to call this "men's corner" or other forms of couch group counselling sessions? Lets just gist and talk.

I mentioned "men's corner" because men are the most likely to rape and more than 90% of rape cases have involved men being the aggressor.

From http://www.dictionary.com/browse/rape,



So basically consent right? But is it all about consent?

Imagine a lady comes to visit you and at 1am, you ask her for sex. She turns you down and you threaten to throw her out knowing well that she has nowhere to go at that time and she is also in danger if she does and because of that, she agrees, is that consent?

No

Imagine the Manager asking one of the receptionists for sex with the receptionist knowing well that she is at risk of losing her job so she agrees. Is that consent?

Your girl visits you, you make those romantic moves but she was not all for it and says no so you "lockup" two hours later, you take her out, buy her drinks and when you are both home, you have sex with her, she probably even took your shirt off for you but is that consent?

He got the girl drunk, not consent.

You are a civil servant and someone wants a file submitted but you tell her to come see you in the photocopy room first, she agrees but is that consent?

We as men need to do better. We need to drop the bullshit and rise about it.

A girl is walking down the road and you and your friends turn it into a chance to make unsavory noises cos you think they are compliments…but isnt that harassment?

Harassment 1001%

You have convinced yourself that women say no but mean yes. Bruh, dont play that game……no does not and will not mean yes. Even silence does not mean yes. Because she is wet is not even mean consent. What's the worst that can happen if you dont have sex when turned on?


Can we discuss this more? Lets be better for our women and maybe the world will be a lil bit better

Cc tozara

Tozara, how do you see the topic?

Mynd44:
Desire to keep female friends? How about the desire to protect women? Thought of that?

Applause, again.
Now you see why

Mynd44:
What stops you from starting one about women?

Perfect answer.
I don't know why they do that,
You'll see a topic on how a woman was raped or a woman speaking about rape and instead of everyone to focused on the topic they start whining about how rape is only discussed when it's about a woman but you'll never see them start a topic or discussion of how men are raped.

Nice thread

mazimee:
I just uploaded it, help me call Lalasticlala to come and see Jay Jay Okocha carring Snake and monitor lizard.

He may run faster than he usually do. This is our own star baby pictures, it deserves a front page spot, not Only iceberge and Juliet's baby pictures.

My God


ROTFLMAO

Mynd44:
I dont even think this is sense. It is too basic and common to draw applause. If a man goes to Kaduna to have sex, I can bet they will find such a man "adventurous" but because it is a woman, how dare she try to explore her sexuality as though they are in control of her vagina

Oh my gosh,
This is touching,


Unfortunately in this our society where misogyny and stupidity is the norm it has to, but one day we'll get to a place where it won't have to, becuase we won't need to say such things anymore, it will already be known.

If we were in a society of people like us then this girl wouldn't even have made news,
Who cares where she goes? If she like she should reach the moon

But we are in a society of misogynists and fools, so your comment is rare and must be applauded, sadly so
because you soon see this thread littered with people saying that if she didn't want that kind of attention she shouldn't have said such nonsense.


The holiest of holies Nigerians who will come out to judge her

Yet ignore the fact that her comment doesn't hurt anyone, but she is being harassed and disturbed for it

But if is a man like you rightly noted, we wouldn't have heard a word.

The stupid men are even worse than the girl,
The girl said what she wanted and didn't disturb anyone,

Yet some animals are harassing her for having and stating her own opinion which doesn't bother anyone and they think they are justified.

And the worst past is that even more fools think the behaviour of these animals is acceptable.

Annonying hypocrisy filled sanctimonious Nigeria.

Mynd44:
Some men though.

Why harrass her? Why can't she be left alone to walk around her own society in peace without backlash of her own opinion?

If she wants to go to Sokoto for sex, why is it the reason for her to be attacked and looked down on?

Wierd life

Truth


My heart.

You deserve a round of applause
So much sense

This isn't news

This is where the Nigerian police have power,
On useless things,
What's wrong with the outfit of the girls now?

Nigeria, the nation of the holiest of holies, but na we spoil pass.

Nonsense

Why is she being a drama queen?
She should calm down.

No big deal if 3 Exs left her and got married,

She just find out what's wrong, if it's the men, she should change the men she picks to date,
If it's her then she should try and work on herself,

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EmyLeo:
lool, make all of dem dy chop better beating, their head go correct small..

EmyLeo:
thanks for that. what bout the guys too??.doubt if there would be any title fights, those guys have a lot of beef to settle with fight o..

Enzo is out with his crew, soul train, I'm rolling my eyes here, talking nonsense about thanksgiving and how he is still cruiser weight champion, Cedric, c
Rick Shawn, and 2 other wrestlers out,
Never really got into 205live

Shield or just Ambrose, wrestled and won either Shamus or both. That's all I met. Didn't start from the beginning.

Paige came back with mandy and one other girl,

I guess to replace Emma and summer who WWE released.

EmyLeo:
loool.. nice reviewthose usos guys ehen!.. I knew they were going to win, doing the tag stuff in the air (you noticed that part right?) ..

Lol, I saw that, dramatic ass tag, abeg they brought life to survivor series.

#yh, and i felt charlotte was playing mind games all along, just waiting for the right time, but Alexa tried, (see the way she held/hugged her belt after she lost that match) lol..

At least Alexa tried her best to sell the match. Seems Alexa is not Charlotte's match in any way and Charlotte knew that if she did too much the match would be over soon, lool, Charlotte should have tried to pretend better,

##roodes ,that guy looks more like a prayer warrior to me,lol.. haven't really seen his matches tho, not sure I can be impressed sha

Lool
I just love his entrance song, he did his best in survivor series but he was eliminated early, so that grandpa's, Triple H can bore us

Braun was wrestling Jason Jordan, kane came out to interrupt.
Kane beating up Braun strowman. Made Braun hit his throat on a steel chair, Braun is leaving holding his throat., hope he doesn't collapse. That looked scary.

EmyLeo:
lool.. I can't dear, preparing for my incourse o.. I think ama have to wait and download the highlight...or better still just give a lil info.

Lol. All right,

Women's match on right now, fatal 4way to determine who gets to wrestle Alexa for a championship match

Paige is back, just came back now
Came with Mandy roodes

Disrupted the match, no one won.

EmyLeo:
that survivor series ehen!..sure u did enjoy all the fight?.. but still wondering why HHH should be the one to take all the credit when better fighters are there, but still ion really care since strowman (my best fighter for now) taught him a better lesson.

Didn't really watch all sha, .

He didn't take any nonsense credit jor, shey Kurt angle would have won with that ankle Lock,
All these old men on raw sef

Daeylar:
Show was a little bit underwhelming for me

I think of all the matches I watched, I didn't watch the Shield, the women's team and Brock lesnars matches. Didn't watch the men's match well.

Only the USOs and Shamus and cessaro match stood out for me.


Seemed like Alexa fought well but I felt Charlotte was holding back.

Men's 5 on 5 match seemed like a joke to me. Especially at the beginning,
But I was impressed a little by roodes and nakamura #yesIunderratedthem

Cc EmyLeo
A little bit of my review,

EmyLeo:
that survivor series ehen!..sure u did enjoy all the fight?.. but still wondering why HHH should be the one to take all the credit when better fighters are there, but still ion really care since strowman (my best fighter for now) taught him a better lesson.

Are you watching raw right now?
It's live

Tozara:
[color=#000050]You dey mind them.

See people who are together in the business of believing absolute rubbish fighting among themselves. Is one extraordinary nonsense better than another extraorinary nonsense? [/color]

Still can't believe that shīt is true, the reward.


Lol, no,

Tozara:
[color=#000050]Hehehe. That's how we roll here in heaven. What do you think the wines and 72 virgins are for? I forbade the clowns from drinking and having wild sex on earth, so that they can come and taste them in the bars and brothels of heaven. Funny how these fools can't wait to start enjoying everything they condemned while on earth. [/color]

Lol.

Tozara:
[color=#000050]Why not? I bestow upon her the permission, right and power to carry on with it. I was drunk when I made that stupid law that permits only men to marry more than one person. [/color]

Lol, acceptance from above ,
Lol, but, you're a flexing Allah oh, throwing parties everywhere, getting drunk errwhere Lol

Photoshop going on here, In some pics seems like she has a bit of a pot belly, in others doesn't seem like she does,

Oh well nothing wrong with the photos, anyone can model for any brand, depends on who the brand is selling to.

[s]

alexialin:
Smhhhh


Her body sef no make am

If I have a lingerie company, I won't employ her.

She simply fucvked her way to get where she is right now.

Sighs.. Next!

[/s]

Ignorant demeaning statement, no need for such nonsense.
How do you know she fuçked her way through? Can you prove that she fuçked her way to win?
Don't diminish her wins just because you don't think she is a good fit.

They don't want to take responsibility for anything, that's why they hide in religion, either saying God will do this, let's pray, or it's God's will.
If they scale back on religion they actually have to face certain things and look for the solution to it, instead of hiding behind God will do it. I don't think they are ready to do so yet.

hopefulLandlord:
The Israelis are not doing it right so they're going to hell while Nigerian are going to heaven

https://i.imgur.com/xE0o0At.gif

Bidobado:
The biggest fear of man is an intelligent woman,bold enough to ask pertinent questions others seem to ignore or are too intellectually weak to even conjure it up in their psyche.
She asked a simple question, yet she was referred back to a paedophile prophet and his heavily plagiarised manual which of course must never be debated or challenged.
Toilet paper is better than the quran, and I challenge ALL YOU MUSLIMS TO SHOW ONE SINGLE PROPHECY WRITTEN IN THE QURAN, if that camel fvcker called Mohammed is indeed a prophet.

JUST 1.

The Fuçk?? ?? ??

Where is your chill??

I support her

100000%

If she wants to marry 4 men then the religion should accept that, her reason is valid also, libido control isn't based on gender
Go Girl!!!


Tozara AlmiqhteeAllah come and see your follower, is what she wants acceptable to you?