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shaybebaby:
Been a good day of partying with 6 year olds. Very rock n roll.

Maybe here, I used to frequent family section a lot but it has kind of gone to the dogs. Not that this section is better.

I'll save it for a day when I'm really bored and have got time on my hands.

AlmiqhteeAllah:
No one can deny my entrance to a place I own.

How's your day been?

NightHound:
Oh, right! , old habits die hard, I guess.

#humanist

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Lol. There was nothing else I could have done.

NightHound:
That's exactly my point. In more developed climes, women who embrace their sexuality and enjoy sex aren't shamed for it. But in Africa, once a guy is ready to settle down, he begins to look for a virgin. Even those who settle for non virgins act as if their decision is some magnanimity that women ought to be grateful for. It's an unequal playing field for women in Africa. You need to sweeten the deal for her.

Or join the feminist train and stand against the unfair social bias. Then you can have free sex.

sapien:
Why are you screaming yes?

Is it because the dude dropped a feministic comment?

AlmiqhteeAllah:
I had no idea calling nonsense nonsense, and rubbish rubbish is an insult.

I'm sorry about that.

NightHound:
That's exactly my point. In more developed climes, women who embrace their sexuality and enjoy sex aren't shamed for it. But in Africa, once a guy is ready to settle down, he begins to look for a virgin. Even those who settle for non virgins act as if their decision is some magnanimity that women ought to be grateful for. It's an unequal playing field for women in Africa. You need to sweeten the deal for her.

Or join the feminist train and stand against the unfair social bias. Then you can have free sex.

shaybebaby:
You wicked o, just emboldened my grammatical error. Let me correct myself sharply.- standalone

@being attacked na today. It is a valid question. Don't worry, I'll mention you if my craze reach that side.

Hope your Saturday is going great.

BraniacX:
the site you gave me, more so than the files is more than a gold mine, you deserve this and more

shaybebaby:
Hahahaha. Funny, no answers yet. May have to create a standalone thread.

shaybebaby:
Who me? Now why would I do that?

shaybebaby:
I'm just going to put this question out there for nigerian blokes who always bash women for going after money (even though this is not always the case).

Let's take this supposed money that is the preserve of men to earn solely (and also this belief that they solely the ones capable of earning, every woman is waiting patiently on the sidelines to benefit), out of the equation.

Hence what other values do nigerian men bring to the table in relationships if we exclude money?

If you are struggling to answer this, then you do not deserve to be in a relationship as a broke person.

AlmiqhteeAllah:
Haven said that, these kind of write-ups are ridiculous and one-dimensional rubbish that judge all relationships by a one-size-fits-all standard, ignoring the reality that people have different motivations in life, as well as different reasons for falling in love . So many factors contribute to attraction as well as break-ups that there's barely any consistent way of determining what to rule out or what not when making such considerations as this. Relationships are dialectical, "grey" systems, not some 1 + 1 = 2, simple, straightforward, binary system that you can analyse using Aristotelian logic. Your write-up is flawed.

Rapmoney:
Read patiently...

Most of us grew up with the false belief (my opinion) that you will only find the right woman, the one who would love you genuinely when you don't have a dime or when you're not yet sound financially. I held unto this idea for a very long time till I got to a point in life where I could no longer struggle with reality; I had to face it.

Let me tell you today, having money and even excess of it will not stop you from finding a woman who suits you and who loves you dearly. It depends on your class and what you want. I strongly believe that holding onto the idea that you will only find a woman who will love you genuinely, when you have not achieved financial success, is a mentality that is seriously laced with inferiority complex! It is like saying no comfortable or financially successful young man will marry a woman who will love him genuinely. If money will not make a woman love you genuinely, then you can try poverty. I believe it will help! Being broke as ceramics is not a guarantee that genuine love awaits you whenever a girl agrees to date you. People date for different reasons . Among the super rich, rich, comfortable, struggling, broke, poor and poorest, there are honest people, so also there are deceitful people too.

looney:
nice write up Op, one thing most people overlook ''financial compatibility'' and ''so that financial appreciation could be a mutual thing''.

Nigerian girls on understand this when they nearing 35 and village people or parents are chasing them.