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Abureme again?

Bongadu:
If the kidnapper's are techies, they'll use POS attendant account to collect the money then use the POS attendant ATM card and use it to buy XMR

You need to be investigated.

mariahAngel:
Op, how long ago was that (when you got her pregnant)?
How old is the child (your daughter) now?

Na you be his baby mama ni?

SoNature:

What's funny sir?

Imagine... i don't want to hear "human right or animal left" by the time the appropriate authorities get hold of this evil guys.

So former IGP, Sunday Ehindero' son was emerged the winner. Politics 405.

Ogba-mendi

Marvieduke:
Just use your inner eyes you sef go observe wetin I see.....

Reverse cowgirl.

Make i n just talk sha. Unhhhh

free2ryhme:
you no fit buy brand new Lexus come dey ask stupid question here

Na so una dey fail exams, the guy didn't say he bought brand new Lexus, rather, he said he just bought brand new Lexus Radiator for his RX330 ride. Make una dey calm down read small.

intruder15:
Copy copy. I have read this earlier. Clearly not urs. That's plagiarism o.

Go to court and file a suit on behalf of the Author.

In 2016 she told me her salary was N35,000. And then two years later, when she got promoted, I asked about her salary and she said, “Oh these people, don’t mind them. They added only N8,000 to my old salary. Because of her meager salary, I’ve taken up so many responsibilities in the house without complaint. I pay for utilities and pay for food. I pay the fees of our two kids, clothe them, and take care of their medical bills. When my wife sends me a grocery list, she adds sanitary pads. She buys dresses and clothes, comes to show them to me, and asks me to pay for them. She started talking about a car when our second child came in. Things weren’t good on my side so I asked her to give me some time. She said, “I’ve saved something. I can add it to what you have so you pay me when your money comes.”

I agreed and took that money from her, topped it up to get her a car. For three months my ears never rest. She would wake up at dawn and ask me to pay what I owed her. I got tired and paid the money when I didn’t have much in my account.

One evening, I turned my laptop on and saw a lot of emails. I checked and it was my wife’s email that had been opened. I asked her, “Did you use my laptop?” She answered, “Yeah I was checking something.” I told her, “Then you didn’t log out.” She answered, “I forgot. Please log out for me.” I was about to log out when something caught my attention. I saw a mail with the subject, “January Payslip.” I opened and started going through. When I saw her gross salary, I was shocked. N654,734? And this girl has been crying poverty?

I went through the details. That night I couldn’t sleep. I was angry. I felt let down. I felt cheated. I felt played. We’ve been married for six good years and my wife earned that much without my knowledge? How much she earned didn’t bother me a lot than what she was using that money for. I decided not to talk immediately but rather do a little bit of investigation.

All my life I’ve held the view that it wasn’t right for anyone to go through their partner’s phone. It’s an invasion of privacy and it breeds mistrust in the relationship but that night, going through her phone was the only way to find out what I was looking for. I started with her best friend. Nothing much was found. Her family had a Whatsapp group. I read the messages there. I got few hints. I went through the chat with her father and that was when I realized my wife had bought a piece of land and had started building. Her father was in charge of the project. He had sent photos of the various stages of the building. At some point, her father said, “Thank you for helping out your brother. He would have been home had it not been you.”

She has only one brother—her senior brother. I went to look for the chat between them. Her senior brother lost his job and was home doing nothing so my wife bought her Hyundai i10 to use for Uber. Every week, her brother rendered an account and they split the money. From all indications, my wife was doing well for herself while she plays poor so she could rely on my salary. Why would she do that? I thought I was being a supportive husband so my wife could be proud of the man she married. When we bought land, it was her name and my name that appeared on the land title. That car I bought for her with a loan from her bears her name. I didn’t mind. I believed what’s hers was also mine.

The next morning she realized I wasn’t looking well. I was boiling on the inside but looking for a good opportunity to start the conversation. When I calmed down a little, I asked her, “So why would you do that to me?” She asked, “What have I done?” I answered, “You bought land, you never told me. You started building on it, you never told me. When are you going to tell me?” She was shocked. She asked, “Who told you all that?” I said, “Your father did.” She stood quiet for a while. She asked, “Why would my father tell you all that? What were you people talking about” I said, “I don’t know. You can ask him.”

We left it there. Some minutes later she came to me with her phone: “My father wants to talk to you.” The phone was already on a loudspeaker. Her father was clearly angry. He asked, almost shouting, “You said I told you my daughter has a building? Where did I say that and when?”
I asked, “Is it not true that my wife has a building project going on that you’re supervising?” He asked me, “I told you that?” I asked him, “Is it true or not?” After the back and forth I told them, “I read your messages last night. I saw the pictures. I read the various budget you had sent to my wife. I read the confirmation of the money receipts that you sent her. You’re a man. Would you be happy if your wife does this to you?” He started fumbling. He started apologizing saying he thought I was aware.”

My wife stood there motionless, didn’t know what to say. When her father hung up, I told her everything I knew, from her salary to the car she bought for her brother. I said, “Yet, even your sanitary pad, I buy them. You think I’m a fool? You’ll use your money to acquire your own properties and live on mine because you’re my wife? I hear. We’ll see.”

Trust was lost. Love was broken. We had to find a new way of living our lives going forward. Her father called me every morning and evening apologizing for everything and sometimes taking up the blame so I didn’t have to blame his daughter. I told him, “The emotional state I’m in right now, it would be hard to think straight or think forgiveness. Just give me space.” Three days later, they were in our house. The father, the mother, and the senior brother. They came to apologize. “Don’t let this break up the beautiful marriage you both have. If nothing at all, consider the kids and be lenient in your judgment.”

I listened to them. My position was still the same. “I need time to clear my mind. Just leave me alone to think.” From last month to this moment that I’m writing this, my wife had changed totally. She doesn’t ask for money but the house is being run smoothly. She has started paying for things she never paid for but that doesn’t move me. She has taught me a very great lesson and I’m taking it seriously. That in everything, I have to look out for myself and my family first. Lastly she told me, “If you want us to change the names on those properties, we can do so.” Guess whose name is on the property…her father’s name.”

I told her, “You don’t need to change anything. They are yours. You suffered for them so you can decide what you want to do with them.” The land I bought has our names. I’m selling it and take my money back. The car she’s driving has her name. I put a for-sale sticker on it some weeks ago. She agreed she’ll pay for the car. I’ve given her two months to pay up or I sell it and take my money.
She’s getting the message and I’m glad. Each one for himself, God for us all.
She keeps asking if I’m going to leave her. I keep telling her I won’t but if she wants a separation for a period, I will gladly give her. I’m not going to leave the marriage. I would give us some time to heal and see what may happen but when it comes to money, I’ve taken the lesson she taught me through her actions.

What will you do if you are in my position and feeling deeply hurt??

buharibanjo:
Birds of same feathers do what actually 😒

Birds of a feather.

layer 4k
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Jennyclay:
Why recording and posting it online?? Is not as if he’s faithful either . Nigerian Men are really childish . The idiot even said he’s feeling like God . Mumu!

You don’t give your girlfriend money, you don’t take her out on a romantic date, you nonsense men don’t even care about her well being and you want to experience faithfulness and true love . You foolish men must be joking!!

I’ve said it, if I can’t get enough money, sex and true love from my man, I’ll look else where. No time!!

Shior!!

Is sex the problem of ur life?

VawulentMan:
Mine was when your "e" comes before your "i" in your believe

Na Rivers state u dey?

Boondocxs:
Shut up your mouth is it her fault that she’s a single mother
Why are we not blaming the fathers for being non existent in their kids lives
The pick me attitude is shocking

One single mother product sighted.

Maize247:
Wahala. I dumped my boyfriend then because I saw bet paper in his pocket, now another one is using his phone to bet. Government should do something asap

See as ur neck long. Why u no dump this new one too? You don lose bodycount ba? Wa too gbon.

Moyinoluwa35:
Sometimes my body get weak with what am seeing in nigeria, the youth is just been blinded with religion and tribes issues and shy away from the truth.
I can swear with my life that the leaders of nigerians have done a charm a very strong one to silence the masses not to know the right from left, everyday the hardship keep increasing and we keep adjusting , most people have not seen food to eat,most people on nairaland can not boost of 30k on their account , and the keep supporting those who wants to destroy them.
Inflation keep rising, but income keep been stignant. How many of you can boost of quality health, don't you know the more the hardship the more your life expectancy rate reduce.. I must hustle anyhow to take my kids outside this country because the country is irredeemable.Am planning on going to france , wanna join the french legion army 🪖, I think that's the best route to leave, I won't hide it from nigeria, if you are interested in leaving this country and u have passion for military, please find your way to france and joint the french legion army, after five years you will be given a citizenship, this country is not getting any better

You are in the Air Force and writing this nonsense, dont you know you have to be apolitical as a military personnel? When they court martial you now, you will start begging up and down.

https://www.nairaland.com/7915523/ordeal-solomon-bawa-hands-nigeria#127046921

I read about police brutality to a young man called Bawa in above link. It is very cruel and unfortunate that an innocent being can go through such wierd experience to the point of losing his mother in the course of his ordeal in police custody. We cannot say we should hide in our homes to keep away from Police trouble. We just pray it doesn't happen to us as we go about our daily lives.

I once experienced police lack of good conscience and professionalism at Adolf Police Station, Iyana-Iba. Was locked up on a bais issue, saw other people been locked up too for funny offences. The most brutal part is that, they hardly check pple they locked up if thry will eat, drink or not. I'm an ulcer patient, i nearly got chocked and was vomiting, others raised alarm and called the police at counter, all they could say was, "die if u wan die, no be me bring you here".

Funny enough, they collect ridiculous amount for bail as well, hundreds of thousands just to bail a soul. The 2days i spent there was a hell of a thing, when i got home, i feel sick and was bedriddened for some days. Superior Authority should pls investigate these people so that Nigeria will be a better place for us all to live. Shalom!

jmoore:
They have 24/7 electricity everywhere in their country. Unlike your country ran by criminal leaders that is generating 5,000 megawatts for 180 million people.

Fact! The UK has more than 22000 MW of electric power installed in an increasing number of wind turbines but total power of all power plants is more than 100000 MW. Just imagine, 100000MW.

GanagiBitrus:
Goal 1-0.

6555555555555555555555556655556565555665556656655555566556566555511Arsenal just passing ball up & down without any real threat.
Looks like only Liverpool fit challenge City to the title this season.

Bro pls be considerate, i am not the cruel type of person u thought. Heaven is my witness, i thought it was Oga Duro that wanted the house and i transferred the money.

turmacs:
God I'm not asking for too much please, just mistakenly direct one of these dollar millionaire footballers to my Instagram page, let them see my pictures and fall in love immediately in Jesus name 🙏

Once you see only "Hi" from least footballer in Naija sef, na to dey send nudes video/pics of that your dilapidated kpekus and saggy boobs to the innocent man. God dey!

Jostoman:
The final results of this fight can be compare to final result of nigeria presidential election. Mr francis won but they dont want the belt to ........ For just the way peter obi won nigeria election but those powerful people most especially from the north dont want the power to go to Southeast and this are some of the injustice that Nnamdi kanu and Simon Ekpa are fighting against.

Lets speak the truth and Let the truth to ourselves in this country called nigeria.

Fury's belts wasn't in line for the fight. He only superly cashed out so much dollars. $60M for Fury and $10M for Ngannu Francis.

All i see here is Anyanma meaning disgusting thing or sight.

Silentgroper:
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Just kidding.. Never seen or met one.. Dnt even knw what d capital city is...

only thing i know is what they trend on "SEX" ..

I think their females are blessed with nice shaped bundas just like ur lots..

i think they could be fetish too..

With this few point of mine, i think i do knw something abt d ZIMS.

Harare is a very beautiful State Capital of Zimbabwe, i did one of my postgraduate course there. Their men are lazy as f3ck, most of them push their wives to hard labour work and farming while they group up in a local arena taking their usual Plymouth gin. All they know is f3ck! F3ck!! Most don't event romance their women b4 penetrating. I'm a medical practitioner and i can't count how many complaints i give counsel to weekly, particular the women. If not for medical discipline, would have accepted every female patients advance to me. In medical, we see everybody in the hospital as being ill, even though they are not. This is just for us not to have a sexual thought while attending to patients, mostly female.

Xxxxtentacion2:
Tinubu also needs to make fuel 2k per litre before december after all nobody is protesting nigerians are happy with him.. God Bless Tinubu :
Who else has noticed that nairaland is censoring MANNABBQGRILL$ from mentions...
Rumour has it that he is them most hated and mentioned nairalander ever...

Really?

MANNABBQGRILL$!

inoki247:
Lol we go soon start another maths like this...


If team A beat team B 5:0 we qualify buh if dem play 3:1 we don go home....

Lolz!!! You are truly on point, just that it seems funny.

NaijaMutant:
Let's know your opinion on the picture below.


Will you hire him?

3 idiots, what a wonderful film.

DoctorAyukebot:
Medicine has a long history of bogus doctors, crafty impostors who put on white coats and win the trust of patients and physicians alike, deploying a polished bedside manner that often masks their limited expertise.

It's not just a Nigerian problem. Despite an entirely computerised system and ease of verification The US still has a long list of quack medical practitioners some practising at the highest level with exploits that have gone unnoticed for years.

Recently a High School drop out successfully practiced for eighteen months before being apprehended. Others after being caught , jailed and released on probation still went back to don the white coat.

No one did it better than Ferdinand Waldo Demara. Successfully pulling through sixteen complex operations during the Korean War with no medical training. Quickly disappearing to his private room, he would read quickly on how to perform the next procedure. Then, with icy concentration, he would return to the operating table. Extraordinarily all his patients survived.

Infact it was when his outstanding performance in surgery at the war front was published in a Canadian Newspaper that it became obvious he had been impersonating Dr Joseph Cyr who was at home in Canada

Dr Ayukebot O Rowland
Pharmacognosist
Flavell MEDICINA

Ferdinand still went further to studied law at Northeastern University. Crazy dude.

Goaaaalllll...