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One advice if you are financially stable, i will advice you to leave the marriage with your two kids and start a new life.

IronGalaxy:
Nope. Read all comments to see where it all started

So why blame Nigerians?

IronGalaxy:
And what are Nigerians doing in South Africa ? It's my data and my phone, you have no business asking me that!

So you guys are saying Nigerians are the ones doing all the prostitution, drug trafficking etc in your country abi
All your citizens are so holy that if rapture should happen now all South Africans will go to heaven

IronGalaxy:
the only things you know:
1 Traffick humans
2 Traffick drugs
3 Rape
4 Fake Pastoring
5 Ritual Killing
6 Cyber Scamming
7 Tribalism
8 Empty Arrogance/ bragging/ big mouth
9 Open Defecating
10 Corruption
11 Prostituting rings
12 General unculturedness

you're simply in no position to throw stones

What is a south african doing on a Nigerian platform

Op what is our concern, do you have to bring the xenophobic idiots to our nairaland. Remember SA said Nigeria should leave them alone, so pls we don't want them here too.

Renderhelp:
@Renderhelp,

Since I started being intimate with my boyfriend he loves to pee on my body after or before sex, one time he even asked if I could drink his urine but I refused.

I love him very much but I find this thing disgusting and humiliating. He said he would end the relationship if I refuse him.

I don't want him to leave me, how can I enjoy his urine?

Is not your fault, na your village people cause am.
Sha since you don't enjoy it, pee on him too is as simple as that and make sure your is in a high quantity, as in save your pee throughout the day so that when is time for sex with him, your pee will be much and make sure you pour it on his face.
One advice leave that relationship.

Rivers state and bad news are like 5&6 in nairaland

Last two weeks it was xenophobia, last week it was PDP vs APC, this week it is women stabbing men in nairaland's frontpage. May God help us all.

Tiwa and Yemi Alade i hope you guys are seeing this, so that when i will jump into stage nd press your yansh let nobody hold me.

Man u make una no cut my ticket today abeg

Bro Lala and snakes are like 5 and 6. Snakes are now treated like VIP in nairaland.

eddieguru:
Nigerians being killed on a daily basis and nothing is being done by the government...smh.

Even the Nigerians in 9ja that are killed everyday by the police, herdsmen, sars, boko boys are not being handled by the government na nigerian way die for outside government go intervene what a suffer......

Mikolion87:
The question you have to also answer is "what kind of ladies do you go for?".. Lazy empty headed ones with nothing to contribute?

Ok can you please give me the address of the hard working ones with something to contribute, because this days na only the empty headed ones full road.

Tallesty1:
No

And you are a virgin abi?

Blackivy27:
Most are too proud to borrow.
Quote me.

Madam what have you done for your boyfriend

Mikolion87:
All these our blabbing here e don do..

Girls are this and that, they are materialistic yen yen yen .. Just as you want a girl who'll be loyal, who has all the curves in the right places, who'll give you sex anytime you want, they too want someone who they'll feel secure with (financially and otherwise). So it goes both ways dude. It is a fact of life, a bitter reality. Accept it, that will be your first step towards a happy life.

Also accept the fact that most females are likely to cheat or secretly harbor some level of affection for someone else NO MATTER how much you provide for her. When you get to this point of knowledge, you have ARRIVED.

* WAY FORWARD

We must understand that Life has Stages in Reality. Jumping any of the stages has its consequences. There is time for everything.

A man ought to first of all focus on his life's ambition. Focus on your health and leisure (numerous other things you can do to relax from time to time), Pursue your Academics with vigor, Find a job, Enrich your mind with knowledge, Acquire good attributes and virtues, look good, have a life and "do you" (have fun, whatever makes you happy that is good).. Focus on yourself first of all.

When it's time for relationship you'll just know it. But until then, you'll continue to face rejections because it's not time yet (Remember, "there's time for everything" ).

When you ARRIVE, it will be difficult for a girl to resist you (at least before she gets to know your other attributes; Character, sexual performance, maturity...). Then you can be more relaxed to find a good girl for something serious. If the only girls you meet are "empty headed slay queens", of course don't expect anything good them.

And never say there are no good girls because there are (except that most of us have been looking in the wrong places and meeting the wrong people). How do you expect someone without any spiritual endowment to be trustworthy.

Clay and cement may serve same function but can never have same properties and duration...

If our parents had same mentality as we do, many guys here would not have been born.

BORROW SENSE GUYS. DON'T BE MISLED!

So the ladies should just relax and wait until the guys have done all the hard work, by going through all these stages you mentioned just for the them (ladies) to come and enjoy what they didn't sweat for abi

DenreleDave:
The word is u r simply mad... U don't just wana have sex but u called her old school... So na new school dey give us sex sex sex and later u go go dump her for a Virgin. But if things, shut up jare, u no dey marry am, na sex u dey find... Naso we men dey do, u wan chop ur cake and when he tire u, u move forward

Alaye calm down, u no be me, I no be you. So if na so u dey u do, AIDS is real

Tallesty1:
Saying NO to sex before marriage is old school??

Uncle no vex, are you married?

jonath0012:
Which advice you want again. Dem dey force person do sex before marriage.


Leave the girl alone if she no want sex before marriage provided you cannot cope.

But if you can cope, fine.

Bro you don't understand, the girl wants to have sex as much as I want to but you know our society and she also fears that what if we don't get married in the future. Am not saying I just want to have sex and leave but if things go according to plan, I don't see no reason why I will not marry her.

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Goal!!!!!!!!!! Tammy abraham

phenzy:
you dey vex gan ni o

You dey any league

phenzy:
Pukki wey I don carry since yesterday

Your own na play me get the guy since week 2

seborrhic:
Pukki oh my.
What a fantastic transfer I did last gameweek on FPL

I transferred Pukki to my squad since the match against liverpool in week 1 and he is proving to be my best transfer at the moment.

Chelsea and there 1st 20 minutes empty threats

Before middle next month local man go broke