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Dr.'Hesjay:
TO ALL MY FRIENDS AND WELL-WISHERS

It is with a state of disappointment that i write this piece today,24th day of december 2013. Being a human, i have learnt both in the good and hard way how humans can be so quick to conclusions. We experience it in our studies, home, religion and every other aspect of humanity. We jump into conclusions without facts, proper study or critical thinking.
The reason for writing this piece is not in anyway complex. It is rather unfortunate that i have to write this at this time to clear the air. I am sure some of you-my bosses have heard about the notion that Dr.'Hesjay has turned a leaf of arrogance and is now 'forming'. It didnt come as a surprise to me, because i expected such since we all are humans. No wonder Socrates said to Adeimantus in the famous Republic by Plato,''Shall i be angry?...It is inevitable it will happen, or am i not living with humans? ''
I came back yesterday from school for christmas and new year celebration even though University Of Ilorin did not approve any official break for its staff and students. I have been in school for Nine weeks and i am just taking up my former social life again. I am so busy in school that i hardly have time for social networks. I had to give up 2go,though not totally,even though i can boldy refer to myself as a 2go addict. I logged in only few times, mostly on weekends and i don't even spend up to ten minutes online,but i update my status each time. I never knew i had offended some people until this morning when i logged in and checked my list of friends-people who i miss a lot and have not talked to since i resumed school. One of such people is Isaolamide, a very good friend of mine,a nairalander and a UI aspirant who most of you know well. I was not only surprised but i realized what human feeling is like when i discovered that i have been removed by my dear friend and brother,Olamide. I took no time in deleting him and then re-adding him, i then urged ObrizyFrance to help me in begging Isaolamide to accept my request. Luckily for me, he accepted just an hour ago and told me my offence. The reasons behind his action is that i didnt reply his series of messages(as portraited by him) and at the same time did not send him messages everytime he saw me online even though i come online and change my status, he therefore thought of it that i was probably arrogant or 'forming'. I forgive him for that and i also ask for his forgiveness.
But i wish to use this medium to tell every other person, nairalandrs out there who feel the same thing, that it wasnt't and isn't my fault that i didnt reply your messages nor sent you messages. I was just busy with the workload at school and didnt have much time for chatting. The little time i have/had is the one i use in changing my status and chatting for 10-20minutes(JohnTosyne is my witness). I also didnt reply your messages because i didnt get any, most likely due to the fact that i use MTN and MTN browsing network is zero to write home about in Unilorin. Y'all can ask friends you have in the school. It therefore must have occured that your messages didnt get to me or i was offline when you sent the messages but 2go showed me online. I experienced it about three weeks ago when i logged in momentarily and then saw that i was still online on a friend's phone for about 30minutes-after i logged out. Kessy's case is also another similar one but thank God we got to talk yesterday and we settled it.
Isaolamide even told me he explained to Morgan and Prince Adebayo before deleting me as a friend due to what he thought was arrogancy. Now,i don't know what they thought about it but they probably must have concluded that together. Far be it that the Son of man be arrogant-not on anything in this f.ck.n world.
For those who understand '...Pride is essentially competitive,it gets no pleasure out of something, only out of having more of it that the next man...'-C.S. Lewis....
Every man in his right senses here knows fully well the only thing that people might think i am proud about. But why will i be proud because of such,when i am not the first and i will never be the last to have it?..
I hereby use this medium to seek the forgiveness of all those whom i offended through the same means or any other and then they thought it's because i was being proud. I am very sorry! If you saw me online and sent me messages and i didnt reply,I hope you will understand why it happened after reading this.
And i say a big thank you to all who trusted my personality and didn't think such but believed that i was busy. God bless y'all....
We are but a family!!!!!!!!!!!

cute bobo: On a normal case, I didn't even expect him to be logging in to 2go as usual. He is now in school and medical student for that matter. He got to read wide than normal student. I'm not In anyway supporting both parties in this issue. If u think someone is forming to u, then y are u still having sure person on ur 2go contact list, if I were to be in ur shoes, no one can form anything to. If he is a medical student, thank God him and if I'm a yoruba student thank God. No course on earth will make my fellow mate to be superior to me. Every damn person is a genius in its own field. Back to Hesjay, if u think chatting on 2go will affect your studies, make it clear to them, u now know more of school and ur course than any one here since u've resumed right b4 us. Don't please people by chatting at the expense of ur life. Once again, I'm not supporting both parties. Thank ya

sapien: Kumuyi is such a hypocrite!
The same Kumuyi who is on facebook? Is Mark Zukerberg, owner of facebook, a christian?
The Same Kumuyi whose church worships on SUN-days(A pagan day)? The same Kumuyi who drives in luxurious cars made by atheists? Let him keep brainwashing his members who can't think outside the box!

Deji_D2: I know just pulling ur legs jawe*Pull legs*

Deji_D2: Heey u....U wanna join d gang abi

Deji_D2: U ar nt serious...U wanna use a big boy lyk me de play abi....If i Caught u.....SMH,...Ofe ma fi agbalagba shere

adamic: Candidly speaking,,, u can use pen on d acceptance form or edit it through ms.... Ui is going to collect it...infact,they prefer pen....i did ui accptance and i was cleared(last year) .dey accepted pen on d acceptance form.....go and put ur mind at rest friend.
Stop disturbing urself friend

masonkz: Mentally strong people have healthy habits. They manage their emotions, thoughts, and behaviors in ways that set them up for success in life. Check out these things that mentally strong people don’t do so that you too can become more mentally strong.

1. They Don’t Waste Time Feeling Sorry for Themselves
Mentally strong people don’t sit around feeling sorry about their circumstances or how others have treated them. Instead, they take responsibility for their role in life and understand that life isn’t always easy or fair.

2. They Don’t Give Away Their Power
They don’t allow others to control them, and they don’t give someone else power over them. They don’t say things like, “My boss makes me feel bad,” because they understand that they are in control over their own emotions and they have a choice in how they respond.

3. They Don’t Shy Away from Change
Mentally strong people don’t try to avoid change. Instead, they welcome positive change and are willing to be flexible. They understand that change is inevitable and believe in their abilities to adapt.

4. They Don’t Waste Energy on Things They Can’t Control
You won’t hear a mentally strong person complaining over lost luggage or traffic jams. Instead, they focus on what they can control in their lives. They recognize that sometimes, the only thing they can control is their attitude.

5. They Don’t Worry About Pleasing Everyone
Mentally strong people recognize that they don’t need to please everyone all the time. They’re not afraid to say no or speak up when necessary. They strive to be kind and fair, but can handle other people being upset if they didn’t make them happy.

6. They Don’t Fear Taking Calculated Risks
They don’t take reckless or foolish risks, but don’t mind taking calculated risks. Mentally strong people spend time weighing the risks and benefits before making a big decision, and they’re fully informed of the potential downsides before they take action.

7. They Don’t Dwell on the Past
Mentally strong people don’t waste time dwelling on the past and wishing things could be different. They acknowledge their past and can say what they’ve learned from it. However, they don’t constantly relive bad experiences or fantasize about the glory days. Instead, they live for the present and plan for the future.

8. They Don’t Make the Same Mistakes Over and Over
Mentally strong people accept responsibility for their behavior and learn from their past mistakes. As a result, they don’t keep repeating those mistakes over and over. Instead, they move on and make better decisions in the future.

9. They Don’t Resent Other People’s Success
Mentally strong people can appreciate and celebrate other people’s success in life. They don’t grow jealous or feel cheated when others surpass them. Instead, they recognize that success comes with hard work, and they are willing to work hard for their own chance at success.

10. They Don’t Give Up After the First Failure
Mentally strong people don’t view failure as a reason to give up. Instead, they use failure as an opportunity to grow and improve. They are willing to keep trying until they get it right.

11. They Don’t Fear Alone Time
Mentally strong people can tolerate being alone and they don’t fear silence. They aren’t afraid to be alone with their thoughts and they can use downtime to be productive. They enjoy their own company and aren’t dependent on others for companionship and entertainment all the time but instead can be happy alone.

12. They Don’t Feel the World Owes Them Anything
Mentally strong people don’t feel entitled to things in life. They weren’t born with a mentality that others would take care of them or that the world must give them something. Instead, they look for opportunities based on their own merits.

13. They Don’t Expect Immediate Results
Whether they are working on improving their health or getting a new business off the ground, mentally strong people don’t expect immediate results. Instead, they apply their skills and time to the best of their ability and understand that real change takes time.


http://www.lifehack.org/articles/communication/13-things-mentally-strong-people-dont.html

Are you mentally strong? Yup. I think I am.

hakings: Jossy, please, kindly help on this; i'm very sure you 're an english lang and literature student. i'll be so appreciative and elated if you could give me the courses of study for the department. your reply i can't wait to read bro.

Leystra: THANK GOD....
FINALLY

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"Congratulations Oladosu Olaleye Olaniyi!!!
You Have Been Offered Admission for a 4-Year FIRST DEGREE Programme into
UNIVERSITY OF IBADAN, IBADAN.
Course PSYCHOLOGY in the Faculty of SOCIAL SCIENCES:

hakings: still thanking Him....3 points from #chelseafc today will form an icing sugar on the existing cake #CLA peeps #ENG&LIT. all na level

easyson: Sense o...money can't be wasted... but dis no 3-na risky business o...u can be arrested for illegal connection...and to all gal...dat no 11 na serious truth...me i no know da difference betwen expensive hair o...all na hair...it happened practically for my cabal...my friend made hair of over 15k and i think say na 1k5h she spend

divads: Who said English is simple
Read Brother Akpos testimony!
"praise the rord. Hmmm its not a
small something.well, actually
it all started a two day ago,which
i'm in my
house.so a small hungry is
catching me,so i look in
d house,nothing much 2 chop
only small plantain which i' ave
not fried before...so, i tell myself to
fry
it and chop,as i'm fry dat
plantain,so phone
ringing,so as i look,its a faring
place,so i now
run,which i reach there,its my
father which call,so i
now say ,father call after,plantain
frying.I keep it.so
now i now turn arround,as i turn
round,all of a suddenly
everywhere in my house have
turn to
smoke.Children of God as i'm
approaching,smo ke is
bigging,smoke is jst bigging and
biginning.it's a
fearing thing o!if it's you
self,afraid will catch
you.so i now cal the name of jesus
three times.i
shout jesus jesus jesus!all of a
miraculously,sm oke start to be
vanishing,to where?i no know its
a
miracle something o!!!smoke start
to dissapering
small small,small.the n my plantain
have burn to
matches.Hallelu jah....praise the
lort somebodies.But
my main testimony today be say,i
chop that
charcoal and nothing is happen to
me. praise the rord!!!

I-am-Winner:

I was chatting with a Guy on 2go..
This guy told me that he was offerd admisn to study BDS in UNIBEN.. I was happy 4 d guy becos Dentistry is one hell of a course to get in uniben as there r only slots for 24 persons!!!

The guy went futher to tell me dat dental doctors were paid better dan Medical doctors during housemanship..

I was lyk "WAS THAT WHY YOU CHOSED DENTISTRY??. (in my mind though)...

omodave: gud, am a male bro