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See comments now, the thing dey pain the Obaseki crew on the NL forum...

goodpeople9tx:
So Mago is both a Christian, Muslim and traditional worshipper Nigeria nawa

Anyway na way...

sapphiere:
What happens to the body when the head is cut off?

We are veering off, what the issue was is on the use of juju for self preservation. You see the same thing every where. Everyone wants to go to heaven but no one wants to die...

golddare:
Assumption is the lowest level of knowledge;
1 Get online and search how to read your spouse WhatsApp messages or look for a tech person.
2. Trail her or have someone you trust do that for you.
3. Before you begin be sure you want to know the truth and if the truth hurts are you prepared for divorce...
4. Stop going home on monthly basis, Ibadan is not far to lagos, it was because Adam left Eve that gave room for devil.

I agree with you but for number 4. A woman that will cheat on you will cheat on you whether you are there or not. It is impossible to be with her 24/7 likewise the reverse...

...she saw that it was good to the eyes, good for food and one to give knowledge and she did eat...Actions are the end product of how we internalize information received. Consequently 2 persons can receive the same information / external stimulus, one will cheat and one will not...

Dalby:
Shekau has been here a very long time, he has been shot at severally escaped with gun shot wounds, presumed to have died...
Doesn't seem he plans on going for the virgins...

The stories about the virgins l believe is for the newbies, to give you something to aspire to or hope for. For the commanders who are receiving financing left right and center, they have other things cooking on their hot plate...

sapphiere:
Why would BH boys have it when they themselves want to die for the cause so as to get 77 virgins?

Shekau has been here a very long time, he has been shot at severally escaped with gun shot wounds, presumed to have died...
Doesn't seem he plans on going for the virgins...

You wish!!!

owo8184:
I am a young married man with 2 kids. The marriage is 6yrs now. Due to the situation of the country, we’ve not been staying together. I hustle in a University environment in one of the states in Southwest while she works as a freelance for some organizations in Lagos.

I normally come home (Lagos) on monthly basis. But during this lockdown, I have been in Lagos with my family.

Prior to our marriage, there is this guy she met when we had some misunderstanding. They started a date but later called it off when we settled. She didn’t give me the details but based on what I read on her phone back then, I knew they made out together. The said guy is now in Port Harcourt but I am aware he normally comes to Lagos.

Just today, I heard my wife giving someone a description of where they will meet somewhere in Agege (where she uses as her office). I was curious to know the person. I didn’t ask her because she would find a story to cover up. I found a way to check her phone and saw that her ex - the said guy was the one who called. May I say that we have fought over this guy several times even before and after our marriage. She won’t let this guy be in her past. She’s either calling the guy or the guy is calling her. This time, I chose not to raise my voice but monitor her closely. She left home for work today. I may not be able to give details but every surrounding clue indicates that my wife has a date today. She returned home and I found a way to check her whatsapp but alas she has deleted her chats with the guy.

Just this night again, she received a call from another man asking her when she would come to his office. She once told me that the man was asking her out. In all these, I want to believe my wife is up to something. Infidelity is the last I would accept in this marriage.

Should I confront her with all these observations? Please, I am confused.

Never confront her, why? She will never admit to it, so it is pointless.

In addition she would try to talk her way through it, and then knowing you are on her back find more skillful ways to cover her tracks...

Your only way to get the most info is to continue to play dumb, while you steadily collect information and evidence to build a case!!!

This is the most difficult thing but the best and only way...

obembet:
Most Nigerian guys believe that it's total scam for a Lady to have a male friend as bestie when they in serious relationship.

But the truth there is that most ladies prefer a male Friend as bestie because ladies believe that men are more secretive than ladies and its more easier to get good advice from a guys than Ladies.

So can you allow your girlfriend to have male friend as bestie?

Forget it, they always end up making out...
Why do you create the need to keep secrets

sapphiere:
I guess you didn't see where I typed 'MOST' or maybe you don't know the difference between 'MOST' and 'ALL'. Bye!

Some would have been more appropriate...

most
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greatest in amount or degree

Ize-Iyamu, why
The crowd, every where you go!!!

sapphiere:
God end this world.

Ending the world is no solution to its problems

Ize Iyamu, WHY
No go kill people before their time o....Like MTN, CROWD EVERY WHERE YOU GO.

Deborah98:
Tell your friend simple,did you say the wedding is two months away? Chai this is wickedness ooooh, what again is she looking for,why are women into this act of double dating,to me it doesn't make sense cos one day you will be caught in your own web, your friend don't deserve to be married to such a gal reason his belief and faith will be questioned when things take a rough ride. So you mean she dropped from the bus simply because she has another guy to smash,hmmmmmm things are happening..

You don see am now...
If na me tell you you for no believe am...

solmusdesigns:
Wasting his time instead of moving on slowly and peacefully

It isn't easy, if you have not been there, you have not been there...

You wouldn't know...

mozele:
End which world?

I never get money,
I never marry the woman of my dreams,
I never born pikin,
I never even start to dey live fulfilled life.
Take ya time o!

My brother l weak when l see the comment o. Infact l was short of words, that's why l no fit respond...

ThatFairGuy1:
Tout!
Like husband like wife.

Even Omo N'oba Edo Akpolopolo didn't accuse anyone of brewing thugs than her husband.

Oba don tell them!!!

Even if na wetin dey your mind how will you say it in public

Finnese001:
https://www.sunnewsonline.com/senators-protest-fuel-electricity-hikes/amp/

They are the ones benefitting from the continued subsidy, na their companies go dey bring in the fuel. See their activities for NDDC, even the planned 774k people for employment by the FG...

Oba of Benin, l remove cap for you!!!

efavour:
Abeg hire caterer. Am sure you have little kids which is stressful enough.Even my 5 people get together for my girl stressed the hell out of me, I didn't do the cooking oh, their father payed for caterer to deliver food but decorating amid crying and messy kids is hell on its own.I vowed that I won't be doing the decorations next time just like your wife, that is why we have vendors for everything.

Yea l quit agree, including a vendor to service him in Za Oda Room!!!

Women complain of not being appreciated...now tell me why he should when you have made sure all needed services are monitised. He gradually gets the feeling that with money he can get anything, and you the woman lose your uniqueness and fizzle among the crowd just like any other...

Before marriage you cook and clean at every opportunity and you say you do it for love (more to fit to a marriage material) he gets convinced (scammed) and does the needful, after you have him chained to you by the ring (marriage), then this....

sapphiere:
Inasmuch as I don't support indecent dressing, I believe people have the right to wear what the want.

The extent to which to which you can swing your arm is to where the other man's nose begins...

No man or woman is an island, consequently when you make choices, there should be due consideration for the other man or woman...

Otherwise you might just be saying everyone has a right to do what makes them happy, regardless of the next man. Think of the terrorist, or a serial killer...

SocialJustice:
Crase husband, you want your wife to be cooking for your useless religious cult members frequently because she agreed to marry you.

Carry your evil load and get out of this place.

He has eaten the food cooked by the wives of the other members...why should his be different

It happens once in every 18 months from his story

But when he brings out money to celebrate his child's birthday she can do the cooking even for 100 persons

Bros find the 20k for the caterers to avoid embarrassment on that day...that will be my advise...it is every 18 months...

okuta007:
oshomole is playing a fast one on Edo people

he is presenting Ize- Iyamu hoping the court convicts him - so if he defeats Obaseki and he is forced to resign based on the conviction- GANI AUDU his brother from Agbede will be one Governor - and he will rule for 8 solid years.

THIS IS THE GAME OSHOMOLE IS PLAYING WITH BENIN PEOPLE AND THE FOOLISH ONES ARE FALLING FOR IT

Oshomole is pulling a fast one on even Ize Iyamu


because I can not understand why he is choosing to pitch his tent with a severely flawed candidate who is standing trial for fraud if not that he is hoping the deputy takes over and that deputy is his Agbede brother

Case for disqualification dropped - Checked
Even with Oshiomole behind Obaseki in the last elections vote difference between both parties was slightly above 50,000. Now imagine the Oshiomole + Ize-Iyamu combo...

Bros see the crowd now...

Next thing l go hear, rented crowd...PDP dey forbid to rent crowd
Abi na only TAX COLLECTORS (according to PDP - Gov. Wike) go dey chop government money

Slawormir:
Damnnnnn niggarr
Still he is going to lose


You are not a real niggarrr
Despite your name sound like you are from Edo( esan to be precise) still you don't know the whole of esan land is always loyal to PDP
Let me increase the volume.....ize iya mumu is gonna lose

Obaseki is going to continue the signing of MOU in jail...beyond the elections...

sapphiere:
NL men boys come and learn lesson here

He has lost her for good...He will understand in due course...We have repeatedly heard these stories from both sides of the divide...men betraying women and women betraying men...

Even the bond of marriages is no longer strong enough to hold people together...

Only do things that you know isn't tied to a future expectation from the recieving party...A word is enough for the wise...

merieam16:
I feel ur pain bro buh wat exactly do u want us to do

Person no fit ask for advise again

This crowd is very painfull to some people...

HIPROFILE:
If it were to be Obaseki and PDP this happened to

I swear Oshiomole would be saying God is already punishing Obaseki and the PDP very immature old man.

May God forgive their sins and bless their souls with eternal rest....Amen.

Obaseki claimed they ran into armed robbers. His security aids repelled it. Abeg tell me what APC, Adams Oshiomole or Ize Iyamu said...

jlinkd78:
Maturity on d part of Obaseki. RIP to d dead

What would he have done
Politricks

Islie:
INDEPENDENT

To fell a tree does not happen in seconds now, which kind story be this. I am shocked they didnt say it is the opposition.

saaphiere:
Haven't you seen eagle to inside the water to catch its prey?

The eagle is not amphibious. The head always remains above water. It isnt built to fully submerge under water. It requires air to stay alive...

Sandypearl:
Every story has two side just like a coin has two side.

Facts of the matter is that bride price was paid to her family and she is still married to him. What ever the 2 sides of the story are!!!