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pawshjai:
did u read what i wrote in the bracket?..i dnt mean emotional feelings...we both knw dah d pity u fill for a gurl u knw well nd nt same u ll hv for a gurl u hardli see or talk to..das jes it d fact dah u hv goten close to her made u fil pity for her nd das y u had to tel hr of d plan...xo dnt quote me wrngli..besyds did ur friend knw dat u communicate wif his bae dat often??

Babe,I respect your powers of deduction.
I like girls who try to put themselves into the shoes of the people they are with,
It makes for a health life.
I would give you origin but I don't know if you drink it.

afilaka:
Hey dear, bliv me, yoa good persom, nt everything has to do wit guy code or nt, atimes, u gat to stick to ur conscience, Most people goin against wat u did are no diff frm ur friend. And for ur friend, KARMA s a bitch, it s coming for him.

Lol.
Karma

CarlosTheJackal:
I've just seen how Hitler convinced the Germans to take over Europe and become a super race.



Don't allow yourself to be swung easily. I will do that which i did another thousand time. The lady knows Okey is my bestie and he knows i can talk to him if he derails so that's why she do call me.


I'm still friends with the lady today and I've never had an inclination to have emotional feelings for her because i dont eve know how that one can grow .

So you have switched friends and loyalty, you are now "friends" with the lady abi, well done.
Hope your love for wrinkled pvussy doesn't kill you.

pawshjai:
ok dis part...i reali dnt support it...its wrng to communicate wif ur friends babe or guy...i remember my bestie once did dah..wen i found out..was xo mad..am lik we best friends kul..we talk abt our guys.kul..buh pls we shud stay away frm dem..in evryway..i dnt knw how comfortable u ll b chattin nd gistin wif ur baes guy wen she isnt dre wifout her knowledge.its wrong...d Op was wrng dre..i tink i see wah u sayin...looks lik d op had a side Ish wif his friend...for him to tell d lady to let him know he told her..den? well m jes in support of d fact dah he let d lady knw abt d evil plan....but cum to tink of it...i tink he told her bcus he had made friends wif her..probably liks her(dnt geh me wrng oo..i min lik her as bein sumone he knws one on one)..bcus if it was a babe he had no cominication wif..i doubt if he will call her nd tell her...m jes sayin dou..well we dnt knw wahs in dre mind..all d same d lady got to knw.nd its fyn

Now you understand why he told her, he's trying to look like a nice person to her. No because what his friend did was wrong but because he wanted the lady in question to have a high regard for him.
He probably liked like the girl.

MofePR:
Indeed it is. You did what anybody with a conscience would have done.

I have been in similar situation twice with two different so called friends.

The first was when I was in the university. This friend started a relationship with a very good girl and promised her marriage. Meanwhile, he confided in me that he wasn't going to marry her because they were age mates. His plan was to dump her in final year. He kept on with the charade and ignored my severe counsel to change his mind. He eventually dumped the lady second semester final year. He practically wrecked her life; she spilled over and almost went mad. I was heartbroken myself. I severed relationship with the so called friend.

Years later another friend started stringing along another good girl when he had already done introduction with another babe in Lagos. I opened up to the lady; she didn't take the news well. She accused me of not wanting her to marry my ''brother''. I guess she even went spiritual because I was seeing her in my dreams. Fast forward to about a year after, my friend dumped her. She cried her heart out. She eventually sought me out to apologise.

So you did the right thing. Never allow anybody make you feel bad.

You I understand, you hate deceit, from either the male or females. You have standards, I respect that.
Op doesn't, he knew everything and didn't do anything, he had no intention of helping the girl , when he later "got to know" her he started to change.
Then betrayed his friend.
He's trying to look like the better man.
Simple.

Amarabae:
This is painful.
Why playing with the lady's emotion if he was not serious about marrying her
She should take heart

Abeg, girls do it all the time.

1x2x3:
Woe betide anyone that does a runs in the office and confides in the OP nigga will snitch and make sure you are sacked

Abi oh.
Not only runs, simple mistake op will carry for head like badana.

LeHMaR:
And Probably Okey the bad guy was planning to start letting him in on the gist when he (Okey) starts cheating on his new bride oo.
choi, thank goodness op showed his real self now oo, na so marriage go take just spoil.

Abi oh..
Thank God.
Okay should be happy.
God don commot two problems at once, the fake friend and the old hag, and he even got paid for his time.
Lol. It have pain the jackal ,he is looking to massage his ego on nairaland.

teblu:
Bros u did great by telling her but where you did wrong was waiting dis long b4 telling her. U would hv saved her alot emotional pain if u had told her earlier. Mark my words, some day, ur friend will look 4 her 2 apologize.

Why is it his job yo save her from pain, aren't men and women equal again.
Is she blind, retarded or mentally impaired?

Well we know y its his problems now, he was fuving the girl and caught feelings.

Constantiney:
You, your friend are both animals.
For all i know, you could av been blackmailing the guy till he decides not to play along,then you decided to come here and pretend you are a good person.

The fact that you knew him this well shows you are also horrible in someways or maybe you fell inlove with the lady.

What good have you done really?
I blame the poor lady, the signs were there and yet still decided to remain stupid.

Look at the idiot poster too, looking for accolades
During your friendship, have you for once adviced ur so called friend to change his ways if u are really good as you are trying to potray?

I hope you get found, and get shot in the nuts.
Fuc.k you. Bleep your friend.
If you were really good you would have advised the lady earlier. Ogun kill both of you.

Morons shouting he did good,f.uck u all.
Dont mention me. I dont check it.

And oya sweep him away too.

Ignatio:
You did well. Blessings will be on you and your generation. Stay away from people like Okey.

Everyone one has secrets even the one hag that op is fuvkin, no noe wants a friend like him.

If someone you want to be friends with told you this story of how he betrayed his friend for after fvcking the girl friend would you want him as a Friend

wristbangle:
May God bless u for this priceless comment. I can't believe some stupid guys can castigate the OP against making the right move. Any guy who supports the evil deeds of the guy who ditched his 34yrs old fiancé should remember they have sisters and nieces. The guy in question is a heartless and wicked soul.

Girls do worse everyday.
Go and read of divorce cases in the USA or Nigeria.

Read about girls accusing guys of rape to destroy their live because if a flimsy reason.

Then ask yourself of this 34 year old bag of aging bones was one of this people would you still have this same message for her.

Besides the op was fvucking her so you see y he's opening up here.

Niceguy123:
Thank you bros, you did the right thing, about your friend, karma is a fucking bitch.

Nice guys always finish last, if they every finish at all.

emelda86:
This is so wrong...do you know that whatever the lady say with her mouth or do will happen to him let me share this story...I have an uncle that did same to a lady,the lady did something that he will never hear the cry of baby in his home he married the younger one a virgin & so it happened for good 18yrs in marriage no fruit of the womb went to the hospital they are both okay,they separated after the lady can't take it anymore.

Lo & behold on a faithful day a friend of my uncle went to IMO state for a wedding *boom* saw the said lady with her children all grown up he recognised her & start pleading with her that my uncle is childless she said he will never hear cry of a baby till he dies,after much pleading she showed him where she stays, that was how my uncle travelled to IMO state to plead with her & her hubby bought gifts the lady now told him that she tied the thing & throw into river that the river have carried it but he should go & bear fruits that was how my uncle married another lady & she became pregnant.

Moral of my story don't promise a woman or man marriage & dump him/her after u have promised him/her because whatever he/she says or do will happen to you.

Storri storri, once upon a time, time time,
Fake stories, like fake deliverances every where.

http://dailypost.ng/2016/08/21/go-round-churches-helping-pastors-fake-miracles-syndicates-confess-enugu/amp/

Advance methods dey everywhere.

Bass123:
This is wickness in high places, why make her go through pains if he knows he is not going to end up with her.
I know God will not allow this end up this way. I will like to follow this story to the end. I know his student bride will soon leave him for a fresh guy or she will so suffer him. Watch and see I am not cursing him but that act of deception alone has brought about that curse on him.
Thank you for telling the girl the truth.

And girls that always do this wat do you have to say for them??

ringi82:
The lady could actually sue him and claim damages . A promise of marriage is now actionable in our courts.. Most things we take for granted could put us in big trouble..

Nope she can't, social contact, if she could, men would sue so many girls for the same things.

Arsenate:
Hypocritical numb nuts screaming "you did well, blah blah blah...
But this is what ladies do very well. String multiple men along and dump them for the one they feel is best without any ounce of remorse.

You all should get outta here with your hypocrisy.

Thank you.
This brothers are too blind.
Love truly is blind,
Why would anybody who cares about you want to make you blind? To harm you obviously.
Guys get Smart.
Ladys do this all the time, send me credit , there is this new restaurant, send me transport, buy me this, that, if you love me do this. Pay my school fees.
Get smart, the same girl you are buying things you will not buy for yourself on she is giving that sex you want for free to multiple guys and even paying them with your money, yup that's right niggers, paying them with your money. If you think that bullshit, ask you " soul mate" for money. Any amount that would stress her but still be with in her power to give.
The reply will shock you.

bentuzene:
You did the right thing Bro, I really wish there were more like you out there... Thing is guys do not know when to use the Bro code and not to... The Bro Code is to keep our dignity and respect intact and not to take advantage of those who love us.

NO the code is family first.
In everything family first.

If you betray your family who won't you betray.
Now quick question, would anybody here want the Jackal to be his bossom friend? Would you take him home yo meet your family and friends?.
Would any girl on nairaland EVER confide in him or EVEN keep him as a friend after knowing this?

The answer is a simply NO.
Even the people telling you, you are right would never let you get close emotional with them.

Okey is a superhero for enduring you, you must have been showing signs of a Jackal, but he still have faith in you.
At least we now know you for who you ARE.

CarlosTheJackal:
You are going nuts on a Monday morning. Sorry. You will be ignored from now on

Jackal
Jackal.
Funny enough , okey has no I'll feeling towards you, he's just surprised you did that.

But you and I know that you have been waiting all this years to hurt him, finally you showed your face.

Am glad you know it's your nature to betray people,
Jackal.

Inricash:
Your friend is evil sha, and I won't say you did wrong telling her....


But u seemed too interested in his gist about the girl, calling him always to ask about the girl....


More like you were investigating to gather enough evidence to tell her the truth...


Never in your small narrative did you mention that you tried to correct him, or chastised him

Ha was fucking the girl, he wanted him to marry her so that he will keep enjoying that benefit

Notmyproblem:
People like you that are giving humanity bad name. How can you sit and watch another human treat someone that badly and do nothing about it? May someone treat your sisters and daughters that way, amen.

For a guy who's Monika is not my business you sure an it minding you business.

laudate:
Guy why must you confess to something you did not do, simply because one idiot is trying to score cheap points on your thread?

Let him tell the truth.
He's a jackal, and finally he's showing his colors.

CarlosTheJackal:
I slept with the fiance. Are you okay now?

And the colors are here.

So it was because of sex.
Jackal
Jackal
Jackal
Jackal.

Na you oh.

kmcutez:
You do not come across as a psychologist. I don't believe you one iota. I won't be surprised if you are the friend (psychopath).

If you are truly a psychologist, you are very unprofessional, and not worthy to be called one.

And am guessing you are the panel in charge of all psychologist in the universe world.
Your opinion doesn't matter.

CarlosTheJackal:
Do you still have hang over from yesterday booze?

Sorry jackal, I don't drink.

NatureDavid:
bro it's unfair for you to say that, imagine if if we're ur sister
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If your sister is ripping guys off, will you tell them.
You walk in and meet her and your like, babe when did you buy new iPhone, and she's like, oh, this one guy that is deceiving himself thinks he will marry me because he bought me iPhone.

Will you tell he to return it and stop ripping guys off??.??

raziboi:
ur a bastard

Nope he's not, ask yourself, how many girls do this and get free.
Did you face then? No?
Then you are the bastard.

nanauju:
CarlosTheJackal you did very well. You told her @ the right time sef, backing it up with evidence. If you had told her earlier she probably wouldn't have believed.. Coz of her love.
Don't let anyone tell you that you didn't do it right

Jackal, lol, the deceitful.,enviously animal.
Lol.
I see, it was just your nature.
You were just looking for a reason to betray your friend and calm you were right hence you you let the girl suffer this much.
Lol, so that people won't know how envious and jealous you are of okey,
So is it the real wife you wanted or the old hag you wanted to taste. Or is it a past girl friend or a deal gone south.

nanauju:
Abeg face topic. Stop acting like you were in the girl's past. When you see something bad, you condemn it. Abi you never see people wen they suffer for wetin dem no even know about.

Look, let me tell you, some people like Okey, are just wicked souls naturally, and I don't see why anyone would support this action of his, except they're like him

And 90% of all girla are exactly like okey, so what does that have to say about their souls.

sexdoll:
I don't have any pity at all for the fiance.

this is exactly what happens to all those bįtches that keep selecting men until they wake up one day only to discover that they don't have the privilege anymore.

at that point, desperation sets in.

But I can only sit back and watch them while laughing at them.

Sometimes I just feel the temptation to start fűcking all the desperado old bįtches if not for anything but just to teach them some important life lessons

Am with you all the way.

1x2x3:
That tells you Karma assumption is bulllshitt.

You just cracked one of the mystery of the universe.
If karma is real and uses people, and there is freewill.
is there free will?
But if theres no free will, and karma is real, then it means the bad done was programmed then what is the point of punishment in form of karma?.

You see.
Lol, its so funny, I love this world.

CarlosTheJackal:
You are a disgrace to humanity. I refuse to support evil and i did right

Evil, you know nothing of evil,
You are just a weak, lying back stabbing, jealous person, thank God you have showed your true colors.

Who knows if big money was involved that is how you will stab your friend, and am sure you thought the girl will be with you and you are bitter now.

Well your lose, you have no friend and no girl and all the bitxhes on nairalanf laught at your stupidity, it you knew the things they done that's how you will be telling everyone up and down.

Am glad your out of okeys life.
Snitches get stitches.