1x2x3:


1. I am glad you figured out what I'm saying. He's been in close contact with his best friend's babe meaning he's got a motive.

2. He knows about the STD story of which I believe the girl told him without Okey's knowledge.

3. She aborted.... Snitch knows about it.

I mean from all indications he's been closely monitoring the relationship from both ends. He also said he was waiting for evidence before telling the lady .

I wonder if the OP will take it lightly finding out his own babe is communicating close with his best friend without his knowledge.

Okey messed up big time but that doesn't change the fact OP is a snitch.

afilaka:
Hey dear, bliv me, yoa good persom, nt everything has to do wit guy code or nt, atimes, u gat to stick to ur conscience, Most people goin against wat u did are no diff frm ur friend. And for ur friend, KARMA s a bitch, it s coming for him.

1x2x3:
Woe betide anyone that does a runs in the office and confides in the OP nigga will snitch and make sure you are sacked

Amarabae:
This is painful.
Why playing with the lady's emotion if he was not serious about marrying her
She should take heart

MofePR:


Indeed it is. You did what anybody with a conscience would have done.

I have been in similar situation twice with two different so called friends.

The first was when I was in the university. This friend started a relationship with a very good girl and promised her marriage. Meanwhile, he confided in me that he wasn't going to marry her because they were age mates. His plan was to dump her in final year. He kept on with the charade and ignored my severe counsel to change his mind. He eventually dumped the lady second semester final year. He practically wrecked her life; she spilled over and almost went mad. I was heartbroken myself. I severed relationship with the so called friend.

Years later another friend started stringing along another good girl when he had already done introduction with another babe in Lagos. I opened up to the lady; she didn't take the news well. She accused me of not wanting her to marry my ''brother''. I guess she even went spiritual because I was seeing her in my dreams. Fast forward to about a year after, my friend dumped her. She cried her heart out. She eventually sought me out to apologise.

So you did the right thing. Never allow anybody make you feel bad.

pawshjai:
ok dis part...i reali dnt support it...its wrng to communicate wif ur friends babe or guy...i remember my bestie once did dah..wen i found out..was xo mad..am lik we best friends kul..we talk abt our guys.kul..buh pls we shud stay away frm dem..in evryway..i dnt knw how comfortable u ll b chattin nd gistin wif ur baes guy wen she isnt dre wifout her knowledge.its wrong...d Op was wrng dre..i tink i see wah u sayin...looks lik d op had a side Ish wif his friend...for him to tell d lady to let him know he told her..den? well m jes in support of d fact dah he let d lady knw abt d evil plan....but cum to tink of it...i tink he told her bcus he had made friends wif her..probably liks her(dnt geh me wrng oo..i min lik her as bein sumone he knws one on one)..bcus if it was a babe he had no cominication wif..i doubt if he will call her nd tell her...m jes sayin dou..well we dnt knw wahs in dre mind..all d same d lady got to knw.nd its fyn

Dami12345:


Now you understand why he told her, he's trying to look like a nice person to her. No because what his friend did was wrong but because he wanted the lady in question to have a high regard for him.
He probably liked like the girl.

CarlosTheJackal:
Kedu? How was ur weekend?

CarlosTheJackal:
I've just seen how Hitler convinced the Germans to take over Europe and become a super race.



Don't allow yourself to be swung easily. I will do that which i did another thousand time. The lady knows Okey is my bestie and he knows i can talk to him if he derails so that's why she do call me.


I'm still friends with the lady today and I've never had an inclination to have emotional feelings for her because i dont eve know how that one can grow .

Dami12345:


Storri storri, once upon a time, time time,
Fake stories, like fake deliverances every where.

http://dailypost.ng/2016/08/21/go-round-churches-helping-pastors-fake-miracles-syndicates-confess-enugu/amp/

Advance methods dey everywhere.

afilaka:
Hey dear, bliv me, yoa good persom, nt everything has to do wit guy code or nt, atimes, u gat to stick to ur conscience, Most people goin against wat u did are no diff frm ur friend. And for ur friend, KARMA s a bitch, it s coming for him.

pawshjai:
did u read what i wrote in the bracket?..i dnt mean emotional feelings...we both knw dah d pity u fill for a gurl u knw well nd nt same u ll hv for a gurl u hardli see or talk to..das jes it d fact dah u hv goten close to her made u fil pity for her nd das y u had to tel hr of d plan...xo dnt quote me wrngli..besyds did ur friend knw dat u communicate wif his bae dat often??

Dami12345:


Babe,I respect your powers of deduction.
I like girls who try to put themselves into the shoes of the people they are with,
It makes for a health life.
I would give you origin but I don't know if you drink it.

Ishilove:

Extend my warm regards to your mum, sisters and female relatives.

CarlosTheJackal:
Dami12345 needs to learn.

1x2x3:
It clearly shows you don't know women. If quarrel arises like you said and they want to expose secrets this secrets will still end as gossips in female circle. They can only expose you to the guy if they actually want to payback not because of misunderstanding.

OP snitched and in a normal settings should be drilled.

LeHMaR:
I Just can't believe guys are saying this, you know you can't keep a secret yet you allow yourself to take in that secret.. Who's wicked? do you have a best friend who you're sure would willingly take a bullet for you?..
i hate what okey did, but that doesn't change anything... Secrets are secrets... Probably even okey brothers didn't know this secret. And you sef, try to reduce the rudeness in your tone, we're only debating.

CarlosTheJackal:
are you sure you are a female or you just want to troll

ba7man:
What do you know about being a man??

Ishilove:

He's a child and reasons like one.

ringi82:

You are totally wrong sir. It's beyond a social contract. The elements of a breach of promise to marry is inherent in the narrative. All she needs is corroborative evidence to prove her case.. If she can get the guy's friend to testify on her behalf, it's a done deal. Anyone can sue for breach of contract to marry under the matrimonial causes Act, 1990 and even under the customary law.

Silumi:

God will not fail to bless you for this act..if you had gone along with your friends you would have also borne the consequences of his karma..thank God for the wisdom to abdicate yourself from such wickedness.your honesty will reap a reward God is not asleep.

pedrilo:
some girls r totally daft.
why stay with a guy who cheats and gives u STD?
that was a red flag she ignored, u for allow her suffer bros.
mumu girl!

wisdomkid:


It will amaze us how our comment will come back to hurt us and our family/children.

Your good friend will plan worst than this, and your best friend will join him. You didn;t think about the dilemma of this woman involved.

oyb:
Yep, the sort of person who will drive past accident victims.

The sort of person who will not intervene if his neighbours are being robbed

The sort of person who will say people who are kidnapped are being punished

The sort of person who will blame rape victims.

That's you.

Dami12345:
You are a fycking fooooool, God punish you.
Idiiot, do you know how many guys the 38 yr old rag has messed up before karma invuted okey to her life, you think it is normal for a lady who is fine to not marry from 19-38 yrs, what has she been doing.

So just like that you stab your bro for a girl.
Fuvk you, fuvk you life, fuvk you reasons fuvk everything you hold there.

This is Nigeria! (Drops mic)

CarlosTheJackal:
Remember guys cover every shiit of their fellow guy and it's an unwritten rule

Dami12345:


Really, give me cases to back that,
And thank you for the information.

Dami12345:


So you have switched friends and loyalty, you are now "friends" with the lady abi, well done.
Hope your love for wrinkled pvussy doesn't kill you.