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udemzy101:
What if? Stop assuming when you're not sure, for now we are sure of this one. For the what if part, you need to contact her yourself and ask about her life.

Another fact women do this to men everyday, every man has been scammed by a woman, many men are currently raising children not theirs. And for years the same woman will share your bed.

This are all facts.
Men have always been fair, I will take a mans judgement over any woman's, once girls are involved the whole thing goes to hell, and their will be no trust.

Is it not the same year that a guy ran mad after a lady he has been with since 100l till 400l no sex, and she sucked him dry and dumped him to marry another??

Did any of her friend snitch?
Is it not the same site that another guy sent the girl to private school while he was in public , that he took loan to do graduation party for, that the girl traveled abroad to study, came be to home married another guy, even when the good ,guy was in hospitals cause the shock nearly killed him this girl was smiling with her friend and family at her wedding.
Just so you know, the whole family of the girl knew the guy and he even sponsored the younger sister. No body snitched, before you say Karma this, Karma that,
Why are guys the only ones getting the short end of the stick, see tiwa own again.

1x2x3:
Only if you know what your woman's best friend knows.......No woman go break their code even though they have brothers.
They will rather use this line "better to have a failed relationship than to have a failed marriage".

Exactly, the things I know about my pastors wife, it would rock the church, and the man is a disciplinarian.
The same boy with the daughter is with the wife, the woman is 40 years +.
Women have no shame, honor,loyalty, nor respect, they only thing they fear is power, true power.
They are beast, no loyalty at all no matter what is done for them.

The op fvcked up.

1x2x3:
Everybody screaming about Karma catching up on Okey...... What if Okey happens to be the girl's Karma for the men she has played before turning 34?

She obviously have her secrets which only her close friend knows about but as usual a girl won't open up like this nigga did. Most of the girls screaming you did well won't do the same if their fellow girl is playing a man.

Guy you Bleep up and you deserve better drilling. There are ways you could have talked to the girl rather than spilling your man's code. Again you deserve double drilling.

Blessing fall on you today.
More blessing fall on you.

Hotfreeze:
Bro, forget what other rer@rds tell you on this thread, you're a correct man and I respect you.

You're a man who chose truth and honour over deceit and fake friendship. A friend who can't tell me the truth is worse than an enemy.

Actually he told him the truth, he always told him the truth that is what pains okey, that he messed around with everyone but he was always true to op.
Op is just a bitch.

kmcutez:
Be very careful of this your friend. He comes across as a psychopath.

According to the Society for the Study of Psychopathy, psychopath traits include:

Lack of guilt/remorse
Lack of empathy
Lack of deep emotional attachments
Narcissism
Superficial charm
Dishonesty
Manipulativeness
Reckless risk-taking

Oh pls shut up, iam a psychologist and I can tell you it's all crap, go to 10different world class psychologist and its 10 different things they will say.

This is op's version of events, and secondly there are no true psychopaths in Nigeria, I would know

Espada10:
Tell your friend OKEY that I am very proud of him.

Yes oh, he did what ladies do.
I am proud of him to.
He will go places.
Amen.

CarlosTheJackal:
He later paid half but the guy is ready to shoot me if he meets me in a dark alley. Thanks though

Guy you fuckwd up, simple,bros code covers all, even if my guy killed someone and told me, its done, I protect simple, best you should have done was talk him out of using the girl to that level and coming clean or he shouldn't tell you anymore.

Do you think the girl is a saint? You think its only okey playing around, he was the best on her list hence why she stayed in a relationship with him, see the speed that she used in getting another guy, she may have been the one tohave given him the std,(or you think girls take responsibility for their actions)
No bro you were seen by the predatory babe ad the weaklink hence y she used you.

Facts- the lady used you.
You are a bad friend, you can't keep secrets, you are not trust worthy, you want the world to help rase your conscience on this , well the world is bais in favour of women.

All you said women do worse every day(Read Romeo diary) and see real life in Lagos.

You are the worst kind of friend a fair-weather friend.
No wonder she used you, your just weak.

Roycemadeit:
Unfortunately if we are not independent enough to fight for what we want.

Lol, and Libya was?.
Every thing is easy, you just have to want it more than the other guy.

CarlosTheJackal:
?y friend okey has been engaged to his fiance for a year and he told me in confidence that he wasn't going to marry the lady because she is Old and he needs a 23 year old bride instead of his 34 year old fiance.

Okey bad mouths the lady anytime we hang out together to create a bad impression about her with me but when i go visiting, the things he tells me are different from what i see with the lady.


Last year the lady called me up to please help her talk to my friend use condom when sleeping with his other flings. The truth is that i know Okey side chic who is also my great pal because she is a good talker and she can analyse politics like Maupe Ogun.



Okey promised the fiance to marry her during the last Easter so the girl had inform her parents in the village that her fiance is coming for wine carrying but the truth was that Okey was doing wine carrying for his 23 year old bride with the loan he took from his fiance. For the record, Okey is an average guy with dough but he was cash strapped then so he took 300k loan from the fiance to travel with her to the village.


I was the only one that knew about the game being played out and i was seriously bothered because this lady has really sacrificed a lot for my guy. Treating the worst STDs and forcing him to do likewise, aborting a three month old baby after the guy lied to him that he was in a secret society so if he should have a baby now that he will die. (Sounds funny but my friend has a Nigeria Oscar for his theatrics)



When they got home he dropped the lady at her place and never bothered to bring the lady to come see his family. The lady do call me every time giving me detail of what's going on just like my friend calls me to tell me of how much convincing he is still doing to the family of his 23 year old student bride. I asked my friend what about his fiance and he said she is at her father's house that he has told her that he can't marry her.
I called the fiance to know if my friend is still coming and she said my friend will still show up.


Finally, my friend took the cloth the fiance made as uniform for their marriage rites and use it to go pay bride price for his 23 year old student bride. When he told me with joy that God he finally blessed him that after a lot of pressure against his marrying the 23 year old bride from her sisters that the girl's father finally agreed. I asked him what about his fiance and he said he won't tell her for now that he will just find a way to quarrel with her for the next three months then he will end it. It was then that i knew that my friend was evil and will throw anyone under the bus just for his selfish desire.



I just called the fiance and told her to forget about marriage with my friend that she should come back to Lagos to face her life because Okey is now married. She didn't believe it but when i took her through the emergency travels he makes to the East for one job or the other, the stories that i was used as an alibi to cover for him and others. The fiance was devastated and i told her to watch out for a quarrel before they will travel back. I told the lady not to be scared to tell the guy that i told her everything.

Today, my friend sees me as a Snitch and someone that couldn't keep the guys code. I told him that we are no longer those boys in school with useless code that everything we do now shapes our old age

You are a fycking fooooool, God punish you.
Idiiot, do you know how many guys the 38 yr old rag has messed up before karma invuted okey to her life, you think it is normal for a lady who is fine to not marry from 19-38 yrs, what has she been doing.

So just like that you stab your bro for a girl.
Fuvk you, fuvk you life, fuvk you reasons fuvk everything you hold there.

This is Nigeria! (Drops mic)

She looks Evil.

GavelSlam:
Please explain.

I'm sorry, I would love to.
Alas they would be offended,

How ever, parables were made for this,
They follow the same laws.

To create one must destroy, to live one must kill, to go forward one must go backwards.

It should be clear enough by now.

GavelSlam:
I'm presently outside the country. The weather is good today, and you should see the number of people on the streets making merry and simply unwinding.

These same people would invent the devices we use, the drugs we take and the next rave we would adopt.

Africans are over-religious, superstitious, lacking in logic and rational thinking and on top of that, have embraced some evil tendencies viz. Fraud, murder in the name of religion, politics or tribe, etc.

Balance.
Its all about the two opposites.
Lol

ImaIma1:
There are so many exceptions. In fact the ones who sleep around in the office are fewer than the ones who don't.

It is not always what it seems. Just because my BM used to drop me at my bus stop, they assumed since i was entering his car, i was going home with him. Married man for that matter.

And when he had a accident and the shock made him unable to drive, i used to drop him off too. People just like to see things in a twisted manner.

When i heard the rumour, i didn't even bother to shut it down. I just allowed them to keep it alive.

Wow, seems like your really the exception.
Kudos to you.

ImaIma1:
Why do people always conclude on stuffs like this. "Office ashawo". It is very common. Just like i heard the rumour then that i was sleeping with my BM. From that day, i stopped listening to stupid rumours and assumptions.

No offense lady, most girls in any business are like that, you might just be the exception rather than the rule.
Hence the generalization.

yeyerolling:
U lot dont even know what feminism means. The average nigerian man is insecure . That is why most would not marry ladies in thier office doing well and getting promoted. They prefer Amara wey dey 400l or about to go for NYSC because they can control her without objection

And what would you prefer, would you prefer the babe that gives you rest of mind or the office ashawo??

Bro above me, "were you reading my mind"?

Not you tallest oh.

Lol.

CodeTemplar:
Tithe is voluntary unlike tax. If pastors are to provide a working society for members don't you think Muslims and nonbelievers are being left out?

Let FG relinquish 5 or 10 juicy oil wells to the church and we will see church providing cheap populated schools like UNIZIK and UNILAG.

See thief, you now want oil well, so that your pastors will start packing private jet like shoes abi??

RZArecta2:
https://www.premiumtimesng.com/news/headlines/269858-exclusive-buhari-terminates-195-million-israeli-security-contract-promoted-by-amaechi.html

In falz voice. THIS IS NIGERIA!!!!!

alBHAGDADI:
Are you a slave of money?

The worst of slaves of money is the one who views everything on earth with the lens of money but is actually poor. Such a person may never leave that poverty state.

Who is talking about money on this thread now?

Bro unless you don't work for money or pay your tithes in money, we are all slaves of money.

All of you Linda defenders SHUT UP and think,
Linda is shady, let's see the skeletons in her cupboard and learn how to be rich from her. Let kemi show us free of charge

Lol

adontcare:
are u well? You also say women with sharp mouth deserves beating, are u really well? I still repeat ' some men can insult more than a leaking roof' e.g you. In most cases, it is such men that always bring up issues in order to get d path to hit dia wives. Letting a woman do or not do what she wants is different from a finding an excuse to fight or hit a woman. Am not a feminist but I believe in divine humanity and responsibilities. A man is supposed to care, love and protect his wife while d woman is supposed to obey,love and support her husband. Not by fighting and bruising one another becos one is stronger. Think b4 u comment next time.

Whatever rocks your boat.
T he some men that abuse are not up to 2 in 10men( insignificant ) however women that abuse is 9 in ever 10 so is your sense working, how can you use the actions of a minut minority to generalize

Besides , women love being dominated.

cocoboss:
and whats disturbing about this photo!!!

God bless you, I don't see anything to get worked up by, theres no evidence of domestic abuse, she only skinned he jaw, there are no bruises ,no black eye, nothing to relate with abuse.

Abeg come oh, what is abuse set. If my wife use money for my business to buy perfume and I slap her is it abuse

How many time before it is called abuse,?
Also when she tongue lash me and I leave the house should I report her for emotional abuse??

adontcare:
some men have sharp mouth but it is not a reason for them to receive beatings from dia wives assuming d wife is stronger. Most men can insult and abuse dia wives verbally even in public. It is not only women that can insult husbands

Are you well, you say MOST men can insult, are YOU well, in the arena of insults who dey carry championship back to back

#Fact 90% of the women who are beaten deserve it.
#Fact NO MAN beats a woman he is happy with.

Or are you are one of those feminist that want men to let you do anything and get away with it ??

Think before you type.

IamPlato:
...



These Days I Dont share Sympathy After A One Sided story.


Give Me The Full Story, Lets Know If She Deserves What She Want...

Reading the comments here I wondered if the nairalanders commenting ate brain dead or damaged.
You are the only one who has sense.
Imagine if all arguments or problems were solved by the first person to report.

A thread yesterday was showing a guy who was slapped 2wice by a girl and did nothing, only God and the Man knows what the girl did to deserve this., but I am sure it didn't just happen.

Larryslim:
Okay let's see how this plays out!

I'll remind you when it happens

Bobby4090:
Agreed Kemi talks a lot, but some of the things she said here needs further reflexion.
However, my personal point is how can Linda, a role model of decency and hard work be flaunting pregnancy outside marriage. Shows either she's been so desperate or that the society have lost all moral values.
What even baffles me the more is that she even dares to say she prayed for it n God blessed her with it. Helloooo... U prayed for fornication? Sex outside marriage? And God said go ahead n do it? Jeeezzz!
May God forgive her for trying to use his name as a cover up. It is well.

Blessings fall on you, she's no different from the hypocrites like toke and the likes, deceiving people who truely love and fight for her, see Linda's fans they don't even want to know if it could be true and still Linda will keep lying to them. Besides if it were another celeb who did this Linda would do worse.#fact.

Larryslim:
I think chioma dumped one of your Gee ass for davido!
Because the way you are analyzing,it can't just be for nothing!
But if you think she doesn't love him,na your wahala be that!
For me I don't think she doesn't!
why won't she love him,if she don't love him na you she go love??

Bro, see women are weird, they do bleeped up things, but ask a girl who follows them well and she will tell you the chioma doesn't like him, he himself know it, hence all the sacrifice and assurance yo "win" her.
He has better chances of emptying the ocean with a spoon tho, it matters not what he does, she will leave him or he will kill her that's the only way this story ends.

Larryslim:
Ahhhhh
what's obvious??
Nawa for una o!

If you have ever snatch another guys girl you will see that Choma doesn't love him, its obvious.

Who the fuvck campaigns after elections No matter what he buys it won't change that.
The best he can do is put the fear of himself into any guy who will try her puvssy.

Larryslim:
That's what you do ryy??
You think say everybody go be like you??
Your mate wey chop pooyesterday,where are they today??
Don't go and work hard!
Be eating poo up and down,you go soon chop the one wey go kill you!
"Atele wo eyan ko ni tan eni je"
If you no understand, Go die!

Werey, you be bastard oh, how you carry know say na up and down them dey chop am, bobo 2 hands in the air oh, na you chop pass. Salute.

Rozaytee:
how do u know she doesn't like him.. his no husband material abii

Its obvious she doesn't like him. It shoes in the videos in the pictures. It's pretty much y he likes her, but she just doesn't have the hots for him.