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Ours too will come soon IJN

So my girlfriend of roughly 8 years got married on Osogbo and for the first time I travelled that far to attend. We organized and mini and decent shower and it was everything beautiful.

I'm sure she'll read this but not comment she'll register on NL soon IJN

So yes we had fun and I'm the one with the "xoxo" playcard

thesuave10:
Hehe you haven't met my friends you'll do fall in love with them even though they're not atheist

Lol....issokay when am I meeting them biko ....

Japhet04:
I met this girl recently everything has been going well until she found out I am an atheist, she started avoiding me and said she doesn't want anything to do with me because of that fact.

I really like her , is there anything I can do to ignite a change of mind on her part

I'm refusing to date someone too because of this...and as a lady I'll say there's nothing you can do to change her mind...just respect her choice and walk away.

bigdeals:
1.6 last

Wow
I have a tokunbo camry envelope 2002 to replace it oath and add monet here in Abuja tho. ..interested?

How much last

naijainfogalery:
Good to hear that, if it can kill you, it can only make you stronger , keep being strong , be a fighter , not throwing blows or shades, you have to be able to fight the wolf and protect your sheep. God bless and guide you, please you too shine those lovely eyes well.

Thanks God bless you

naijainfogalery:
What ?? Are you kidding me?? The dude must have really hurt you or is crying your hubby ni , damn!!

Lol noooo
yes I was hurt.
it's all in the past oh I'm better and stronger.
Nagode

naijainfogalery:
Aaaaaaw can't imagine tears rolling down that pretty face , anything that will trigger the healing on time though

Lol.
Thanks
I cried for over a year ...
Jesus has done the healing this year!!!

Papykush:
I have been single for 1 year, 6months, 3weeks, 6days, 24hrs and 10minutes

To add to your list...

10. His Relationship Status is "Hidden"

11. You Can operate his phone without him freaking out

12. He prefer you coming to his apartment most of the time

13. He keeps you away from his friends, especially the handsome ones.

14. His right arm has more muscles than his left arm or his tissue paper is almost empty always

15. They have the photos of Jesus everywhere in their apartment

16. No traces of a woman's belongings in his apartment

17. Just one bucket and sponge in his bathroom

18. He likes watching cartoons. Especially SpongeBob

19. No traces of long, big combs in his drawers

20. If he have a diary in his bedroom


PS: I am a single 40 yards husband material, PM me so you will not miss me to another babe

Lol really?

bomasek:
I never hear from u

I'm out of town I'll call you tomorrow

bomasek:
Madam where exactly in Wuse so we can narrow the search

Oga any of the zones I said it earlier.
I presently stay In Zone 5 so I still want somewhere around.

A neat and spacious self contain with a wardrobe in any zone of Wuse.
Any amount.

[quote author=bomasek post=54174429]Where in Wuse and what's your budget? [/quote


As long as it's neat spacious and has a wardrobe
I can pay anything for the self contain ]

bomasek:
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Land title is C of O while the net price is N450m.

For inspection and document verification, call
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I need a self contain or room and parlour that is neat for rent within Wuse
Do you have any available?
Kindly reply thanks

ChrisAirforce1:
If by chance you got to meet the person currently dating your Ex , what advice would you give him/her about that Ex you once loved and trusted so much?? Lol

He's a weakling when it comes to the opposite sex ... don't get jealous often until you are confronted with the affair.

His mum hates chubby ladies...give your best to look good for the family legacy of slimbwomen .

Lastly take good care OF him for me. He's my H.

pittoilet:
Last time we 'learnt' how to spot a 'fake Abuja big babe', now lets learn how to stop a 'fake Abuja big boy'

Enjoy below...

These guys are always well-dressed with flashy cars. Some of them are even from rich homes. You see them looking like a bag of money, meanwhile nothing in their bank accounts.

There is nothing wrong with looking good and not having money to back it up. There is only something wrong when you are doing it for packaging. Continue...




Source: https://www.google.com.ng/amp/www.premiumtimesng.com/arts-entertainment/naija-fashion/167533-how-to-spot-a-fake-abuja-big-boy-part-ii.html/amp?client=ms-android-tecno


Mods help me tell dem girls o! I almost fell for one recently, but that one is for another day

True and more.
Abuja boys and fake life are like Lai and his Lies

Ayima:
U re invited for interview with cornerstone insurance Plc. on 2/2/17 @white house plaza,79 ademola adetokunbo cres wuse II,Abuja.Time is10am call 080 386 62694. Please are they real?

I got an invite this evening too

eleojo23:
When we were young life was easier, right? I know sometimes it seems that way. But the truth is life is still easy. It always will be. Over the course of time, we made our lives harder and harder, and we started losing touch with who we really are and what we really need.

If you can relate to this, here are some ways you’re likely making your life harder than it has to be, and some ideas on simplifying things:

1. You keep thinking about worst-case scenarios.
I have a bad habit of fast forwarding everything to its worst possible outcome and being pleasantly surprised when the result is marginally better than the utter disaster I imagined. My mind unnecessarily wrestles with events that aren’t even remotely likely. My sore throat is probably cancer. My lost ATM card fell into the hands of a Boko Haram terrorist who will wipe out my savings account.

Negativity like this only breeds more negativity. It robs you of happiness. It will carry you away from shore, and if you don’t swim away it will pull you under. The bottom line is that you can see the world through a lens of doubt and despair or hope and excitement. It’s your choice. Either way, you will someday arrive at the same destination. The only question is: Do you want to arrive with a frown or a smile?

2. You constantly compare your life to others.
You were invited to a nice party somewhere. You are enjoying the smooth jazz, wine and party jollof rice. What more could you want? As the party goes on you notice a group of guys and girls with expensive outfits enjoying themselves on another table across the party hall. Suddenly you begin to feel that you don’t measure up to the guys/girls on the other table - people you didn’t even know existed until just a few minutes ago.
Those people are having more fun. Mary has a bigger house. John gets all the lucky breaks. Tunde has more money. Ada is better looking.

Stop it.

If you compete with everyone else, you will become bitter. If you compete with a previous version of yourself, you will become better. It’s as simple as that.

3. You avoid facing the truth.
The truth does not cease to exist when it is ignored. You cannot find peace by avoiding things. You have to feel it to heal it. Bring your fears and weaknesses front and center and shine a blazing spotlight on them. Because the only way out is through. The pain of facing the truth is SO worth it in the long run.

4. You believe that everyone is out to get you.
Someone in your office does something nice for you and automatically you begin to wonder what they want. Another driver cut you off in traffic. Your friend never texted you back. Your colleague went to lunch without you. Everyone can find a reason to be offended on a daily basis. So what caused you to be offended? You assigned negative intent to these otherwise innocent actions. You took it as a personal insult – a slap in the face. Don’t do this to yourself. Don’t take things personally.
Don’t assign negative intent to the unintentional actions of others. Let today be the day you look for the good in everyone you meet.

5. You see a future full of pitfalls.
You finally have a dinner date with a person you really like. Instead of thinking how great this is and how much you are going to enjoy the evening, you focus on the ways that this evening is going to be a disaster. Or you finally get to take a bold step to do what you love and instead of seeing it working out well, you focus on how it is going to fail.
You are always so focused on all the negative things that might happen that you fail to see the benefits and opportunities before you. You could be missing something great!

6. You are the sun and the world rotates around you.
When planning an outing do you insist that everyone follow your plan? When you are having a bad day do you make sure all your friends and family know about it? These behaviors could be seriously making life more difficult for you. By making things less about you and more about others would make for smoother relationships and less tension.

7. You focus on popularity over effectiveness.
Seek respect, not attention. It lasts longer and it’s far more useful in the end. Do things and build things that make a lasting difference. And above all, never confuse popularity with effectiveness. Being popular means you’re liked for a while. Being effective means you’ve made a difference

8. You are stuck on your mistakes.
It’s important that we forgive ourselves for making mistakes. We need to learn from our errors and move forward. Make a pact with yourself today not to be defined by your past. Sometimes the greatest thing to come out of all your hard work isn’t what you get for it, but what you learn from it. A happy, successful life, after all, is not a life absent of problems, but one that’s been able to rise above them.

9. You have an “all or nothing” mentality.
There’s no such thing as perfect success, just as there’s no such thing as perfect failure. This is why labeling things in extremes – all or nothing – success or failure – is an exercise in futility.
What does exist, however, is a continuous series of imperfect moments filled with infinite possibilities and opportunities. Appreciate the grey area between the extremes – the journey – the experiences. And above all, never let success get to your head or failure get to your heart.

10. You can’t let go.
She embarrassed you in front of your colleagues and you are never going to forgive her. Sound familiar?
Learn to let go of the wrong things people have done to you. Most times the other person is out there enjoying her life while you keep on carrying the burden of hurt on your heart.

Another scenario is this: you know you are right about how something should be done and nothing is going to change your mind. Has this attitude ever embarrassed you when it turns out that you were wrong in the end?
Learn to let go. It makes life easier.


These and many more are the ways we unknowingly make life hard for ourselves.

I believe this post has been of help to you. I have decided to work on areas in this post that concerns me and I encourage you to do the same this year.
Let’s make life easy again!
Happy new year.


Credits to www.marcandangel.com/2014/07/27/18-ways-youre-making-your-life-harder-than-it-has-to-be/ and www.lifehack.org for excerpts used in this post

Very educative God bless you

Good day fellow Nairalanders,
I wasn't sure of where to post this so I brought it here
Thanks in advance for those willing to help out.

So I recently got 2 home tutoring opportunities here in Abuja, for a pre-nursery kid and a primary 1 kid.

I'm used to taking senior classes but this is my first nursery/lower primary experience.

Is there any experienced tutor that can put me through major strengths and focus to make these kids sharper than met them in less than a month?

I'll be glad if any professional person can help out.

Thanks once again.

ammyluv2002:
Federal Ministry of Education (Federal Scholarship Board - FSB) - The Honourable Minister of Education (HME), Mallam Adamu Adamu, hereby invites interested and qualified Nigerians to participate in the 2017/2018 Nomination Interview for Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Award.

Federal Scholarship Board (FSB) Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship Award 2017/2018



The Bilateral Education Agreement (BEA) Scholarship will be Awarded to:
Undergraduate (UG) studies tenable in Russia, Morocco, Algeria, Serbia, Hungary, Egypt, Turkey, Cuba, Ukraine, Japan, and
Postgraduate (PG) studies tenable in Russia (for those whose first degrees were obtained from Russia), China, Hungary, Serbia, Turkey, Japan, Mexico, South Korea, e.t.c.
All qualified candidates are advised to:
Visit Federal Ministry of Education’s website: www.education.gov.ng and click on "Read More" on Federal Scholarship Board ICON on the Home Page:
Read Guidelines and then Complete the Application Form online
Print the completed Application Form
Submit two sets of the Printed Application Forms at the venue of the interview as scheduled below.
Note/Warning: Double Entries will be disqualified

Field of Study
Undergraduate level - Engineering, Geology, Agriculture, Sciences, Mathematics, Languages, Environmental Sciences, Sports, Law, Social Sciences, Biotechnology, Architecture, Medicine (very limited), etc, and
Postgraduate level (Masters Degree and Ph.D) in all fields.
Criteria for Eligibility

A.) Undergraduate Scholarship:
All applicants for undergraduate degree courses must possess a minimum qualification of Five (5) Distinctions (As & Bs) in the Senior Secondary School Certificate, WAEC (May/June) only in the subjects relevant to their fields of study including English Language and Mathematics.
Certificates should not be more than Two (2) years old (2015 & 2016). Age limit is from 18 to 20 years.
B.) Postgraduate Scholarship:
All applicants must hold a first Degree with at least 2nd Class Upper Division.
The applicants who are previous recipients of Foreign Awards must have completed at least two (2) years post qualification or employment practice in Nigeria.
All applicants must have completed N.Y.S.C.
Age limit is 35 years for Masters and 40 years for Ph.D.
Note - (For all Applicants):
Since the BEA countries are non-English speaking, applicants should be prepared to undertake a mandatory one year foreign language of the country of choice which will be the standard medium of instruction; and
All applicants for Hungarian Scholarship must visit the website: www.stipenumhungaricum.hu before 10th February, 2017.
Complete the application form online
Print the completed form and bring to the venue in addition to 2.0 above.
Venue of Interview
All eligible applicants are to report for interview at the venues scheduled for their respective Zones of origin for proper identification. Two sets of completed application forms should be submitted at the various interview centres with the following attachments:
Two sets of Photocopies of Educational Certificates and Testimonials of previous schools attended with the originals for sighting;
Only one certificate is accepted i.e WAEC of May/June;
Two copies of Birth certificate from National Population Commission;
State of Origin/LGA certificate duly signed, stamped and dated;
Four (4) colourede passport sized photographs on white background; and
Postgraduate applicants will be required to submit Academic transcripts and NYSC certificates.
2017/2018 BEA Interview Venue and Dates from February 13th to 17th, 2017
North - West, Kasu Main Campus, Kaduna:
Monday, 13th February - Sokoto & Zamfara States
Tuesday, 14th February - Kano & Kebbi States
Wednesday, 15th February - Jigawa & Katsina States
Thursday, 16th February - Kaduna State
Friday, 17th February - Collation of Result
South - South Federal College Technology Permanent Site Along Asaba - Ibusa Road Asaba:
Monday, 13th February - Cross River & Rivers States
Tuesday, 14th February - Akwa Ibom & Bayelsa States
Wednesday, 15th February - Edo State
Thursday, 16th February - Delta State
Friday, 17th February - Collation of Result
South - East Law Faculty Ebonyi State University Ebonyi:
Monday, 13th February - Anambra State
Tuesday, 14th February - Imo State
Wednesday, 15th February - Abia & Enugu States
Thursday, 16th February - Ebonyi State
Friday, 17th February - Collation of Result
North - East, FGGC, Jalingo Taraba:
Monday, 13th February - Borno & Yobe States
Tuesday, 14th February - Bauchi & Gombe States
Wednesday, 15th February - Adamawa State
Thursday, 16th February - Taraba State
Friday, 17th February - Collation of Result
North - Central Crowther Memorial College - Lokoja:
Monday, 13th February - Benue State & FCT
Tuesday, 14th February - Niger & Plateau States
Wednesday, 15th February - Kwara & Nasarawa States
Thursday, 16th February - Kogi State
Friday, 17th February - Collation of Result
South - West School of Science Okebola, Ibadan:
Monday, 13th February - Ondo & Osun States
Tuesday, 14th February - Lagos & Ogun States
Wednesday, 15th February - Ekiti State
Thursday, 16th February - Oyo State
Friday, 17th February - Collation of Result

Time: 9:00 am Daily

Candidates nominated by the Board will be required to submit the following:
Authenticated copies of academic certificates;
Data page of current International passport;
Specified Medical Reports from Government Hospitals; and
Police clearance certificate where necessary.
Note: This particular applications does not attracts any processing therefore, beware of fraudsters

http://www.education.gov.ng/fsb/bea_2017/index.php

Good job ammyluv God bless you darling

Atiku2019:
You'll surely see them around hotels with high life music in Wuse2/Utako ....


You'll see them registering at Hotel Gym centres even when it's not necessary ( Royal Rockview, Agura, Sharon Ultimate ...hoping to meet S.moms there)


They also register at Spa centres hoping to meet clients

Lol haba

importexpert:
Bro, Experiencing a break up is not a pleasant feeling. It can even be more terrible if after the initial flood of emotions, you discover how valuable Ngozi/Aysha has been. Now you wonder if there is a way of getting her back because you know your life is better with her than without her.

First of all, I must admit that getting your ex-girlfriend back is not an easy task. Getting her back is a process that would take time and a little strategy on your part. You need to understand that there is no short cut to it. This is not the usual case of misunderstanding in a relationship, but one where the relationship supposedly has ended.

For all the "chop and clean mouth guys" please this is not your thread , this is for people who still have that humanly feeling of love in them.

What can you do to get her back?

1. Give yourselves a break:

You both need some time for yourselves. Do not go begging her to reconsider the relationship. Do not send her text messages or make silly Facebook posts. During this time, do not make any contact with her. Ignore that urge to make her see you. Remember, the scarcer a thing is, the more desirable it becomes. Make no contact at least for three weeks. Don’t fret if she goes in to a new relationship. If you really had a strong relationship, there is nothing to worry about. The new guy is just a rebound and the relationship will most likely crash before you know it.

2. Analyze your break up:

What was it that was not working about the relationship? Did you do all the hard work to make the relationship work? Did you apologize every time she did something wrong? Did you compliment her too much? Did you tell her affirm your love more than she did? Were you insecure? Who initiated the break up; was it you or her? What was the reason? These are important questions that you need to find answers to.

3. Work on yourself:

Instead of letting your emotions run haywire, invest your time on yourself. If you will stand any chance at getting her back, you need to improve yourself. Hit the gym, get new clothes, earn more money, get a new haircut, give your apartment a facelift, improve on your sense of humor etc. Just make sure there is a better you.

4. Be on good terms with her close friends:

In this part of the world, hardly can your relationship work if her friends are against you. Right now, her friends wield considerable influence over her decisions. It is better they are on your side than not. Keep in touch with them occasionally via phone calls or chats. Remember, it should be occasional! if that Amina/chioma is not by your side sometimes you are only wasting your time. girls have their own way of thinking. her friends will most of the time succeed in sabotaging your efforts. Be on good terms with them.

5. Re-establish rapport:

After you have taken time to work on yourself, establish rapport with her. This is not the time to bring up relationship matters. At this point, you have an advantage over other guys trying to date her because you know her likes and dislikes which can aid you in conversing with her. Your aim is to douse the tension between the two of you and get her to relax. The best topic to discuss with a woman is herself. Keep your chats interesting by talking about her. Employ your sense of humor as often as you can.

6. Engage her emotions:

This is your best shot at getting her back. Women are not really wired to make decisions basically on logic. A woman builds connection with a guy based on how he makes her feel. One way of doing this is to engage her discussions that gets her to talk about her deepest feelings about various topics. If she can feel the emotions for you again, you have an eighty percent chance if having her back. She will work her way around logic when she sees that you have worked on yourself.

7. Set the stage for your reunion:

This is the moment you have waited for: to ask her out again. Not yet, it will take a moment. Don’t rush to apologize and ask for a make-up. Doing so will give her the chance to tell you no. Don’t allow that opportunity. At this point, you need to act as though you are boyfriend again. Relate with her as on an intimate basis. Naturally, she knows what you are up to. If she raises it up, then, you can make your apology speech. If she plays along, then flow with the tide. She most likely wants it that way already.

We hope so! Lol

marketresearch:
sorry To hear that. Im sure you are far better than the way he left you.

I'm trying to thanks

marketresearch:
LOve is one thing that even science cant predicts, it goes beyond human reasoning, Its easier to advise and judge from the other side until it happens to you.
Love is the only thing that will make you take a bike on Lagos Ibadan expressway without a helmet just to make her happy
Love will make you tell your parents you dont have money and you lavish lots of money on your lover
love will make you run away from your parents house just because you dont want to cook only to go to his house to cook with all joy and excitement
Love Love Love -

THe girls should move on though its not easy. She should cry as much as she can, share the story as far as she can, brace herself together. Become better, do away with negative things or trying to pay him back, Build herself up and be strong. A failed relationship is better than a failed marriage.

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I did my own crying in the room like I was going to die. She should have done that. This is too much o. He is shacking the new girl already oh.

Malayy:
with this your kinda body, you are over normal

Lol. Thanks

sisisioge:
You are cute...

I'm an hybrid between extrovert and introvert...OK, a 6/10 extrovert. Yet, I love my own company, I talk to myself, laugh , smile and just plain enjoy playing in my head. You won't even guess it cos I could be the life of a party without working a sweat too! Enjoy your creative mind...nothing do you.

Used to think I wasn't normal oh lol I am exactly this way too

rcspy:
A firm in Abuja is in need of a Customer service Staff . The requirements are listed as follows.

1. The person must be a female
2. Good Communication skills
3. Ability to work with minimal supervision
4. Ability to work under pressure & Multitask
5. Ability to get results

Basic Salary is N50,000

Send CVs to rcspy14@gmail.com
Applicants who reside in Kubwa & Gwarinpa will be at advantage as the office location is in gwarinpa

Compliments of the season

I just sent you a mail.

Karin001:
You really haven't sold yourself properly. All I see here is a young lady who has a first degree and a sense of entitlement. Just because you have acquired a university education doesn't mean that you must be given a job on a platter of gold.

Your approach should rather be an attempt at selling your strongest points and comparative advantage. Even the statement 'nothing is too small' could actually be expressed in a less desperate manner. This is only a recipe for disaster.

Anyway, I know someone who can help you. Send me your c.v immediately and I will forward it to him. I think you could land a customer care position. You will need some guarantors as huge sums of money may be involved. Should I convince him to employ you kindly remember in all your actions and in-actions that you landed the job through someone who doesn't know you but stuck out her neck for you.

Kindly let this guide your decisions.

Take care.

Send c.v to karinebinne@gmail.com as son as possible.

That was superb I learnt something new God bless your words.

I need a good teaching Job in Abuja town.

Please anyone with any info should dm me God bless you as you do so.

metallisc:
na waa o! see as babe take set! haba!! na only you waka come?

Lol

omooba969:
Are those your hips or Photoshop?

Lol I am too busy to Photoshop them sir lol

NairalandDSS:
It is common to fail in relationships. There is nothing wrong in failing. It is important to learn from your mistakes in order to move further in your life.But at the same time, it is good to realise why we fail in relationships. When you look back, if you see any corrections to be made to your behaviour, go ahead and do so. This will help you avoid future relationship failures.Pain, hurt and depression are common reactions after a breakup. But soon after that small stage is over, it is better to rejoice.Here are some reasons why to be happy after a breakup.

Reasons why to be happy after a breakup are:


1.You Can Start Life Afresh: Remember that a breakup is a good chance to start everything again from scratch with a new person. This means that you can commit less mistakes this time as you have some experience.

2.You Can Learn From Your Mistakes: Treat it as an opportunity to learn what you have done wrong. In your future relationship, ensure that you don’t repeat mistakes.

3.You Can Do Well In Your New Relationship: Relationship experts say that those who generally have experience from past relationships tend to do well in future relationships as they tend to be more careful.

4.You Will Become Stronger: After you overcome the pain of a breakup and loneliness, you tend to be stronger. This will help you deal with many other ups and downs of life.

5.You Can Make Better Choices: The chances of making wrong choices will greatly reduce after a failed relationship. You tend to tread carefully after a miserable experience.

6.You Will Never Get Carried Away: Even if you come across the most attractive partner who promises the heaven to woo you, you won’t get carried away easily.

7.You Will Learn To Change Or Adapt: This is a very important quality to learn. We all must learn to be flexible to others around us and failed relationships teach us such qualities.

8.You Will Be Grounded: Some relationship failures tend to ground us a bit. Flying in clouds isn’t healthy. Dreaming of ideal relationships isn’t realistic. So, staying grounded is better.

These are the reasons to be happy after a breakup.

mynd44 lalasticlala

This helped so much thanks.