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Op, don't beat yourself too much, it could be anybody.
But in addition to what many people have said up there, let me drop what I think might help.

Screenshot your chats with the scammer and that of your friends with the scammer, attach the part he blocked and stop responding too and convert all into 1 single PDF file ("to be renamed evidence of conversation")

Contact your bank and request for your statement of account for the period that captures the exact amount as stated in your evidence of conversation with the scammer (to be in pdf)

Send a detailed mail stating what ensued to your bank's contact centre email address putting the beneficiary's bank(scammer's bank) and the CBN Frauddesk and CBN Nigeria in copy and watch your bank do the bulk of the job.

Mails are powerful in banks with CBN in copy these days

Sorry for your loss, I hope God replenish you abundantly and appropriately

RemoveEbola:
Lol, na today. Illorin has forever become fulani heritage. And if the capital is theirs, it means the entire state is too because the emir's authority is higher than any other traditional ruler there!

As for Lagos, it's only a matter of how soon. Emir of Lagos already exists and even Sanwo olu pays him official visits. It's really a thing of shame that those who cry ronu over businessmen and investors in their midst would go silent when the real landgrabbers are seizing control of their territories one after another.

Cowards 😂😂😂

Please don't come on here and say things that are unreal about Lagos state, if you are one of those saying Lagos is a no man's land you would be wise enough to know what happened during elections.

There is no emir of Lagos nor a picture of him with Gov. Sanwo Olu if you can't back it up with pictures. Stop coming on worldwide platform to spread fake news.

CoronaVirusPro:
Russian government controls the media and only make you see what they want you to see.

And moreover, what happens in Russia! That shithole is just existing on the map! Nothing happens there!

Have you seen a sane Nigerian vacation or Japa to Russia? Anywhere Nigerians don’t go is a shithole!


America is an advanced nations, and it does still have its own societal menace.

Nothing happens in Russia so I don’t expect much of that happening in a cold shithole!

Guy, you are saying trash. Try do your research before coming online to expose your ignorance. Them dey tell you, you no wan hear

extremelygolden:
People are resigning daily from their banking jobs, and you're heading right in, and as a contract staff? Please pause and think, and read my lips very slowly - BANKING HAS NO JOB SECURITY and likely NO JOB SATISFACTION!

They'll use you, and use you, then discard you when they get tired of you.
And as a contract staff, you have no single career prospect there - all those English in your employment letter, na wash!
Marketing what? The target na die!

If I were you, I will embark on a fast and seek the face of the Lord for this matter. The days working in the bank was everyone's dream, are long gone. Now, na stress, suffer head, beating deadlines, meeting and surpassing targets, and being butted out unexpectedly be their trademark.

But if you plan to leave the country in the nearest future, you can accept the offer, use them to get reference for the embassy, turn around, and give them a heavy kick on the butt in return, then japa.

All in all, I wish you well.

Spot on! Everything you said here is true. I am currently in this situation.

I don't have any advice for op, just follow your instincts

peropoliet:
guy if you start writing you will get lot of gigs

I agree bro

Olarewaju89:
Are you sure?

I also graduated with a post graduate degree yesterday bro, so yes, I'm sure. But as someone said, it doesn't matter what she studied. She deserves to be celebrated

I don't know why the media is not saying she studied Islamic Law

There's this forbidden secret in the military that top military officials have swore to protect, I don't know what it is, but I'm sure there's something cos wth?

Mrfixiit:
Good to hear no life was lost. Meanwhile Tinubu is only trying to position his men for monumental and easy looting by sacking Emefiele and Kyari. Don't be deceived that he's fighting corruption. A thief will hardly probe other thieves. Let him probe Buhari govt completely and we will take him serious. Time will tell

Take your opinion to the politics session. Emefiele was charge for numerous offenses including terrorism financing and you think there is no proof yet he is detained?

OP, how can I relocate to Russia? What a beautiful country

OP, you mentioned your wife is from a religious family, I don't know how religious you are too.
But I think you should pray, there might be more than you think. If you cant pray yourself, tell your wife the truth and task her to pray with you about it.
Else, na so marriages dey go 10yrs without pikin o. You dont need to take my advice, but do something more than coming online to seek opinions, you are a man

Biblically it is advised to beat them at some ages and instill fear in them .
But i think the fairest way of bringing up a child is don't exhibit traits that you won't want your children to exhibit in their presence ..... Don't disrespect their dad if you don't want them to disrespect you , don't say one lie is minor or major ..... Don't dress for them as a child the way you won't want when they grow up.... Don't gossip anyone if you don't want them to later start gossiping... You see people and you don't greet.... How will you teach them what you don't do....
Add prayers too and God help you , but always remember that prayer is very important because your children will mingle with children that ain't trained at all in the same insane society

Lostchild:
THE OCEAN VIEW

After my intense prayers in 2016, the Lord wanted me to see more of the real existence of the mermaids. He took my spirit man into the sky of the abode of the blue ocean. It was scary I must say.

He left me to fall off from the sky straight into the mighty ocean. At first, I thought it was the end of my life. I sternly looked in amazement at the mermaids and they themselves were looking at me.

From their waist upward is a human. While from their waist downward is a fish. Half fish and half humans.

I didn't know what to do but to watched until the Lord brought me back to my physical reality.

Hello, please can I DM you privately?

IbrahimSkiba:
Come on go and sleep

You know that's true, yh?

The sad truth is, if you no run am, she go still run the other guy street with someone else. Fear that gender o

damosade:
Uk doesn't give scholarships like other countries. Your 5m can't,

Thank you, your response is highly appreciated.
Any idea on which European country 5M can service?

9JAFULLBREED:
https://www.nairaland.com/6969367/general-uk-visa-enquiries-part

Thank you, I appreciate 🙏

Hello guys, good evening.
Please, I need sincere advise and your opinion on something. ADVICE please, don't derail.

I want to know if 5M will be enough to get me to UK through the study route and how to start the process, advise and how to go about scholarship if possible, and assist with links please.
Somebody should please assist me with how to get to the UK in 9 months.

Thank you guys, God bless you.

Bro, don't let anybody talk down on you. 90% of men fall into this category and the fact you had the guts to come out and say it means you are courageous and you want to deal with it.
My advise is, learn to love your partner by identifying something unique about her too, women have the same body but it is there mind and soul that differentiate them.
Love your woman, that's all you need.

Hello Pidaa, how can I contact you please? I might need your help.

I'm in a very toxic work environment right now, the organization is a lovely place to work but the team lead I work with is as toxic as God knows what. Funny thing is, I can't leave cos I dont wanna be idle. Omo I'm drained mentally and physically...

Can you as a woman, come outside to bath in daylight and expect people not to make mockery of you? Think about it...

Georgekyrian:
Thanks. She is 20 now, been from a very strict family, she is the first child and what surprise them is that since 2 years now, the girls acts like I’m the only one telling her what she does. She respect and loyal to me like I’m her God, I made it like that but I think the parents are scared, even to some extent the mom was asking her if she is sure I’m not using her spiritual.. Mind you I’m always mean and I keeps my distance 24/7 even with them living in same districts with me but I fail to come around as they wanted and that baffles them. I have a positive plan for my woman but seriously I need time, like more 6months to 1 year

Take all the time you need man, inasmuch as your intentions are pure towards the lady you owe the family little or no explanation.
Ignore them and focus. I hope you pray sha, everything needs prayers o.

Senior man, please ignore the naysayers. My little pinch of advise for you is stand your ground even if you are threatened on losing your babe, stand your ground.
How old is the girl in question that you are being pressured to get married.
This issue doesn't need to get to you to the point of frustrating you, you love their daughter but your destiny is not tied to her na.
Inasmuch as struggling men needs virtuous women, you will find another woman 10x better than their daughter na because you never try.
No disturb yourself, focus on yourself abeg.
Shikena!

Take things easy bro. I finished school at 20, service at 21 and I didnt get a job until I was 25. Its not really about how early you finish school the most important thing is knowing the right thing at the right time. School won't even teach you or prepare you for the outside world.
Just brace up and be close to God. Nigeria is a wilderness for the less privileged. You'll be fine irrespective, worry less.

My piece of advise. Nobody holy, if you find a lady that doesn't cheat she'll be troublesome and may deprive you of piece of mind.
Another thing is take things slow, dont be in a haste to get married or settle down, don't be too desperate please.
To find a good partner now is hard both man or woman.
Since you are 11y older than that girl, talk sense into her. Put her on a live wire, she'll try to be smarter but can never outsmart you.
Give her another chance if you love her and you are sure she does too but keep her closer and keep a close eye on her.

doshiyad1:
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Gbam! this na my person. very objective and frank in speaking the truth that alot of persons won't want to hear. I salute and hail you bros and amen to your prayers. God bless you

God bless you too senior man

Odin13:
Tinubu is a Yoruba god ..
Hausa Fulani is in power , in government and incharge

Na who Buhari/ Fulani want go succeed am.. Tinubu have no option

Reason why were saying he must be on ballot

Your opinion is reasonable. I agree with you.

BeardGangJnr1:
Tinubu will win... that's the reality staring at us....and should Buhari use consensus....that will lead to disintegration of APC... which is a good thing for Nigerians

Buhari cannot unilaterally make that decision. The fact he's the incumbent president doesn't mean he owns the party.
He might be able to influence that decision, but he can't single handedly decides how the primaries should go.
We don't like Tinubu o, but the man's political resumè speaks for him.
Same way PO is using social media to his advantage. Forget about what we are saying on social media platforms, politics is beyond eyes meet.
Our prayer is God should have mercy and make who ever emerge have our interest at heart.

Odin13:
Okay
And Wike have to zero Rivers state account..
People like Obi .. where we go put a.m. now?

Osibanjo go don loot enough to bid..

So they will pocket Tinubu money and go with party directives

Tinubu Must contest
Must!

Power to the people
North 2023

Who is Tinubu who is APC?
Don't forget Tinubu has up to if not more than 60% stake in APC nationwide and he has the money to outstrip any candidate hands down.
Osinbajo or any other candidate can only win on a neutral basis, but with Tinubu's gimmicks? Sorry for them...