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Family / Re: I Have Arrested My Wife by damola1: 9:28pm On Dec 07, 2022
Trust was betrayed.


CLATHRIN:


There are situations in life that require wisdom. The Bible says that wisdom is better than gold and rubies. I have also read your story about the horrible experience you had with your immediate family. Your wife has spent time with you and she knows how deeply hurt and damaged you are as a person. You must realize that betrayal from people closest to us do so much damage to our philosophy about life. You have had difficult life issues and these experiences can't be wished away like that. You didn't get counselling or at least some spiritual a d emotional healing that you needed. Did that woman not make any attempt to plead/apologize to you? All you could do was to look at those weary and teary eyes, pick your phone and call the police.

MY ADVICE: you have said it here repeatedly in so many ways that your wife is a good woman. Proverbs 31 talks about a virtuous woman. In the office yesterday, I was having a conversation with a senior colleague, he told me to ensure that my happiness is not dependent on others and that the best I can do is to forgive. Putting that woman in prison has hurt her as much as your daughter and yourself have been hurt. The juvenile brother of her's messed up but don't forget, you said he's 14. That should be significant in this case. Your reaction was from a deep place of hurt. The woman you jailed will be damaged for this I assure you. I don't know how you will transition from the place of anger to the place of remorse and soberness. From fury to contriteness. Look your family is damaged by this singular action you probably mishandled. For her to trust you now will be so hard. Same of you, you can hardly trust her. The best is to rely on God now to mend this family that the devil chose to torment. Firstly, go and bail her now, not next week, call her mother and let others, even your closest family members wade into this. Pray hard and be humble before the Lord. To find a good woman is not so easy, trust me. God gave you one, stay with her. She probably didn't do what she did with mischief in mind. You admitted she suffered because of it and the best you could do was to be vengeful? Spiteful? That's horrible. She would imagine what she's been doing all these years with you. You can't even get that woman's emotions again. For now, it will take God to heal your family but I pray He does, start from a place of humility. Make the right moves and realize that the devil is aftwr something good in your life. Your wife and child are those good things, if you can make sacrifices to have them back, do so. God bless you and see you through.
Politics / Re: “You Don’t Go Around Saying PDP Or APC Will Win"—APGA Chairman To Soludo by damola1: 7:14pm On Dec 02, 2022
So what he should go around saying ?

Do you think he is stupid to have queued up after Obiano to get in on the platform of APGA.

All politics is local. Who will die for you in your polling boot.. who will bribe for you.. who will get you results? Even obj no Dey win hin polling boot..

That’s why it’s between pdp and APC.. cos they have last man standing

Considering his strong profile…

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Travel / Re: Japa: Struggles Of Living Abroad No One Likes To Talk About by damola1: 5:06pm On Dec 01, 2022
Ok. I will stay in 9ja

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Music/Radio / Re: Kizz Daniel To Perform At World Cup, FIFA Confirms by damola1: 10:31pm On Nov 11, 2022
Davido
Foreign Affairs / Re: 100 Killed, 300 Injured In Two Car Bombs In Somalia by damola1: 7:53am On Oct 30, 2022
Islamabad

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Romance / Re: Can A Relationship Survive Without Sex? by damola1: 10:05am On Oct 17, 2022
Why must communication suffer at the expense of sex ?
Politics / Re: Afegbua: Tinubu's Knee Surgery Shows He Has No Diabetes, High Blood Pressure by damola1: 4:53pm On Oct 15, 2022
hisexcellency34:

https://independent.ng/tinubus-knee-surgery-shows-he-has-no-diabetes-high-blood-pressure-afegbua/


Arrant nonsense!

Obj has been managing diabetes all his life and is healthier !
Sports / Re: 15-Year-Old Ethan Nwaneri Becomes Youngest Premier League Player In History by damola1: 8:38pm On Sep 18, 2022
Can only be Arsenal

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Technology Market / Re: Uk Used 40” Panasonic 4k Android Smart Tv by damola1: 10:45am On Sep 18, 2022
Been using my Panasonic for 6 years now. Thought bought brand new. Excellent brand.
Politics / Re: Peter Obi Celebrates His Wife, Margaret, On Her Birthday by damola1: 6:42pm On Sep 10, 2022
derecho:
What caught my attention was One and Only Wife
Even "pastor" remi Tinubu can't say she is Amoda's first or only wife.

Well. It’s a political statement then.

Who bloody cares how many wives he has ?
Celebrities / Re: Timaya's Manager And Childhood Friend Dead, Prince Oluzor Shot Dead by damola1: 8:38am On Sep 03, 2022
Yankee
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) / Re: Chelsea Vs Tottenham Hotspur (2 - 2) On 14th August 2022 by damola1: 6:31pm On Aug 14, 2022
Chealsea was assertive

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Politics / Re: Sanwo-Olu Inspects Lagos Red Line Rail Project (video) by damola1: 12:06pm On Aug 14, 2022
APC Dey enjoy for Lagos sha

Imagine federal be like this

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Business / Re: Central Bank Of Kenya Says Flutterwave And Chipper Cash Are Not Licensed by damola1: 7:16pm On Jul 29, 2022
iampeterben:
Kenya is trying to drive their own fintech company to their citizens.

when elon must started starlink, didn't he get license approval from NCC first.

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Crime / Re: Nigerian Graduates Working As Canadian Guards Killed, Identified by damola1: 10:26am On Jul 27, 2022
There was a kontri

Never in Nigeria is a shooting at a Night club

We must fix our kontri
Foreign Affairs / Re: Namibia Is One Of The World's Emptiest Countries (Photos) by damola1: 6:44am On Jul 27, 2022
I remember Frankie federicks
Crime / Re: Baba Ijesha Has Been Sentenced To 16-Years In Prison by damola1: 3:25pm On Jul 14, 2022
Lagos state
Politics / Re: Tinubu and Shettima Meet NANS On ASUU Strike, To Meet ASUU by damola1: 6:55pm On Jul 13, 2022
9jatriot:
Shey this man de Osun yesterday, today another meeting yet em enemies say he non de healthy, what of if he come de healthy, na em be say he go de the 2 places at the same time.

I don’t bloody know how a man his age does it

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Politics / Re: Manufacturers Threaten Shutdown Over Soaring Diesel Cost by damola1: 12:28pm On Jul 12, 2022
I pity business owners at this time.

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Family / Re: I'm 30 And Still Living With My Parents..smh by damola1: 10:23am On Jul 06, 2022
One of the dangers of short cut is lack of character exhibited by the criminal up there.

He cannot fall and stand as you see him. Every day he uses the little fraud money he steals from others to cover is lack of mental growth.

He cannot deal with any situation as he didn’t complete the process.

Do not follow his advise. As it won’t end well for him.

Enjoy your papa house. It’s rent free. Focus on building capacity

A rented apartment is negative akant. What you need is positive akant. Read a page. A chapter of good books daily. Work out daily. And grow daily.

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Career / Re: Can I Sue My Employer For This?? by damola1: 6:52pm On Jul 05, 2022
The person that wrote this cannot be a security guard

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Career / Re: Covering Up For A Mistake A Coworker Has Made: Would You Choose Losing Your Job? by damola1: 5:35pm On Jun 30, 2022
I pity Nigerian businesses

People put themselves first before the company

A company either trading or manufacturing buys and sells for say 20% profit.

And staff wipes off everything 100%. And staff will Wipe off everything.
Politics / Re: Tinubu: Bayo Shittu Thanks Northern Governors, Says Asiwaju Is Next President by damola1: 12:46pm On Jun 25, 2022
We don’t want this man o… I loved shettima

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Jobs/Vacancies / Re: Share Your Job Experience Working With Foreign Bosses by damola1: 4:07pm On Jun 23, 2022
Hasty Generalization fallacy

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Crime / Re: Boyfriend Strips Girlfriend Unclad & Flogs Her In The Presence Of His Friends by damola1: 5:58pm On Jun 21, 2022
He deserve some flogging

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Career / Re: My Job Is Ruining My Family by damola1: 5:48pm On Jun 21, 2022
Devils hand. Idle workshop. All these
Jobless people. Leave home. Leave babe.. hungry people… they always over rate talent…

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Education / Re: Prof. Femi Soyinka, Brother To Wole Soyinka Is dead by damola1: 10:22am On Jun 15, 2022
Who were their parents ?
Politics / Re: Bola Tinubu Arrives Ekiti State To Campaign For APC Gubernatorial Candidate by damola1: 10:31am On Jun 14, 2022
The race for 2023 S begun.

I don’t even have this sort of energy.

How ? Unless this is how he has been doing it for decades xyz

The energy is madddd
Phones / Re: Elon Musk’s STARLINK Approved By Nigeria by damola1: 11:27pm On Jun 12, 2022
CMrecords:
How did you get to pay please, since CBN has limited the amount of foreign transaction to $20 per day?


$ card
Politics / Re: Adopt Consensus To Avoid Dollar Rain, APC Chieftain Urges Party by damola1: 9:37pm On May 29, 2022
Shey na ur dollar rain ?
Phones / Re: How Much Will Starlink Cost In Nigeria by damola1: 7:53pm On May 28, 2022
Paid.

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Phones / Re: Elon Musk’s STARLINK Approved By Nigeria by damola1: 4:36pm On May 28, 2022
Paid

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