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Olutola88:
It is a popular belief amongst women that a Lady needs to give a guy a tough time before she dances to his beats. They claim such delay tactics is healthy as it will make the guy cherish her more. They also claim that the guy would appreciate better something he sweats to get.

Sincerely speaking, this their ideology is absolute trash to me. I don't have that time to be chasing a lady for 12 months, after all she isn't my “dream”.

I get easily discouraged when it comes to convincing a lady to be mine, maybe because I don't feel a lady is doing me a favour by accepting to be mine. Come to think it, “Is she doing me any favour”? Don't even talk about sex cos it's very cheap and I can get it without dating. More so, she won't be doing me any good because she might even enjoy it more ( I always put my partner's satisfaction first).

I get sick and tired when a lady gives me unnecessary tough time. In fact, most of them call me “Egotistical”. They think I'm proud because my orientation is different from that of most guys they've met. They feel I'm cocky because they don't know my background, they have no idea about my journey so far.

I've had just 3 Girlfriends all my life. The first, I didn't woo her. The second gave me a YES after 24hours and the third which was the most tasking accepted to be mine after 4days of declaring interest. Guess what? I had the shortest relationship with the one that gave me the toughest time, it lasted just 2 months.

I've been single since December 2012 mainly because I don't have that strength to keep pushing and pushing. Most of them tell me that I'm spoilt and that I don't even know how to woo *lmao*. They claim I'm always too casual when wooing them, they say I don't show sign of seriousness, they conclude I always feel I shouldn't work too hard to get them. Do they want me to kill cow to show my seriousness? Nevertheless, I feel I've not just met that person that'll make me break the rules, that one person that'll make my heart do giz giz, that person that'll have my “mumu button” *lol*.

You know the funniest thing? The ones you don't wanna date are the ones always stalking and readily available. As a good guy, you don't wanna woo dem, use dem and dump them. So, nigga just keeps it at the Friends With Benefits level. When you get tired of the FWB life and seek love again, you'll meet one girl that'll be giving you unnecessary tough time and you'll be like... “WTF! Some girls are praying I upgrade their status from FWB to official Girlfriend and this one is here forming one rubbish! Go To Hell jooor” *LMAO*

My Questions:

1. How long did you wait before she gave you a YES

2. How long can you wait to get a YES?

3. Ladies, wetin be una problem? Is giving a guy a tough time a guarantee he will treat you right?

4. Ladies, why must we chase you people like we chase money before you say YES? I think the love thing should be mutual na? Must you stress the hell outta our lives?

From Job to romance

Olutola88:
It is a popular belief amongst women that a Lady needs to give a guy a tough time before she dances to his beats. They claim such delay tactics is healthy as it will make the guy cherish her more. They also claim that the guy would appreciate better something he sweats to get.

Sincerely speaking, this their ideology is absolute trash to me. I don't have that time to be chasing a lady for 12 months, after all she isn't my “dream”.

I get easily discouraged when it comes to convincing a lady to be mine, maybe because I don't feel a lady is doing me a favour by accepting to be mine. Come to think it, “Is she doing me any favour”? Don't even talk about sex cos it's very cheap and I can get it without dating. More so, she won't be doing me any good because she might even enjoy it more ( I always put my partner's satisfaction first).

I get sick and tired when a lady gives me unnecessary tough time. In fact, most of them call me “Egotistical”. They think I'm proud because my orientation is different from that of most guys they've met. They feel I'm cocky because they don't know my background, they have no idea about my journey so far.

I've had just 3 Girlfriends all my life. The first, I didn't woo her. The second gave me a YES after 24hours and the third which was the most tasking accepted to be mine after 4days of declaring interest. Guess what? I had the shortest relationship with the one that gave me the toughest time, it lasted just 2 months.

I've been single since December 2012 mainly because I don't have that strength to keep pushing and pushing. Most of them tell me that I'm spoilt and that I don't even know how to woo *lmao*. They claim I'm always too casual when wooing them, they say I don't show sign of seriousness, they conclude I always feel I shouldn't work too hard to get them. Do they want me to kill cow to show my seriousness? Nevertheless, I feel I've not just met that person that'll make me break the rules, that one person that'll make my heart do giz giz, that person that'll have my “mumu button” *lol*.

You know the funniest thing? The ones you don't wanna date are the ones always stalking and readily available. As a good guy, you don't wanna woo dem, use dem and dump them. So, nigga just keeps it at the Friends With Benefits level. When you get tired of the FWB life and seek love again, you'll meet one girl that'll be giving you unnecessary tough time and you'll be like... “WTF! Some girls are praying I upgrade their status from FWB to official Girlfriend and this one is here forming one rubbish! Go To Hell jooor” *LMAO*

My Questions:

1. How long did you wait before she gave you a YES

2. How long can you wait to get a YES?

3. Ladies, wetin be una problem? Is giving a guy a tough time a guarantee he will treat you right?

4. Ladies, why must we chase you people like we chase money before you say YES? I think the love thing should be mutual na? Must you stress the hell outta our lives?

From Job to romance

1.5m?

Eve62:
pls can u place d site here so dat i can visit

Oga the date no dey there. Tell us

1.5m

Yungwizzzy:
lol but u don't have a job na

lol

Pls which one is your whaatsapp number?

1.5m

1.5m?

last price?

hushmail:
tuesday like Dec 23?

If no be say u mention UBA i for say make you be careful.

All d same do not let lack of NYSC cert discourage u.

Find one story give them,

at times companies r desperate during holidays. Dis mayb ur chance

my one cent sha

Yes 23rd Dec, 2014.

Thanks everyone for your responses.

kestolove95:
y ar corprs faster dan dia shadow?...guy dnt waste ur tym goin dia cox dey wil jst cal d security man to shw u way out...b patience til aftr ur nysc..God go gv u a bigger one.

Bro, the unemoloyement situation in the country demands someone to be proactive. I was opportuned to submit my CV. I didn't know it will be early. Thanks anyways.

Please I have a test on Tuesday at Uba. But I have been asked to bring my certificates which include my Nysc certificate. I will be completing my Nysc in Feb 2015. What should I do? Thanks.

Your answer is needed please?

Hello everyone, has anyone done Uba test before without Nysc certificate. I am not done with service and have been invited for test. Your responses pls. Thanks. Should I try?

Please for fresh graduates should it be a generic or towards a specific job. You know we have limited experience. Thanks

Abdomox:
Sent.

Send to aadegokee@gmail.com

lizzytee:
Pls,I received a txt for written test from Accion mfb a while ago,anyone with d idea of d test format,responses will be aPpreciated.plz o,help o!

When is your test

dozmak:
sorry dear, don't know abt abj...but for Lagos go to commerce house DB @ VI, ask for chukwuma.

@ dozmak, please someone said he went there recently and they said it is done online. How true is it. I want to go there to submit a hard copy. Thanks

wunmi590:
Snt

@ wunmi 590. Send to aadegokee@gmail.com. Thanks

Unemployment no be beans for Naija. As e de hot

thatchick:
Thanks, gotten.

Send to aadegokee@gmail. com

Submitted online and via email after rejecting four times. Keep trying.

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smallpeepee:
outsider

Good for you

smallpeepee:
outsider

cool. Entry level position?

smallpeepee:
I knw of some1 dat wrote n hv started working too. Am starting next month.

An insider helped you to submit your CV?

AltarBoy1:
hmmm. Guy, you sure what you are saying.

Very sure. A friend of mine. Seems that's why the process is taking like forever. Jah de

Seems some people wrote Union bank test again last month. Think it is coded tho. # Naijalegtins#