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scholasticzeal:
Do Nigerians serve in USAF?

Yes o. They do. Even in the US Navy.

dominique:
When did I say mothers are angels? I'm giving you the EXACT reason why Angelina and her brother cut their father off and removed his name, you're still looking for a way to give the man soft landing and turn the blame on the mother. Who do you men this kain thing? How would you feel watching helplessly as one of your parents is gravely ill, suffering alone while your other parent is gallivanting about? What kind of relationship will you have with that kind of parent after your sick parent eventually pass away? You men keep saying women don't like to take responsibility but how do you take responsibility for your Bleep-ups? By pushing the blame to women who don't like to take responsibility!🤦🏽‍♀️

And btw, what straight path do you want to guide children on? Do you have the moral capacity to guide any children on any right path? Majority of you men don't see anything wrong in fornication, adultery, physical and sexual harassment and and abuse of women, fraud etc. What morals pathway do want to put children on when you're bereft of it yourself?

Your last paragraph confirms what I said. Since MOST of us men have no qualms with all the vices you mentioned, in your wonderful wisdom, then we are villains.

You are going round and round, only to come to the same conclusion.

Let's rest the matter. Please use AI to create your perfect father/husband o. Bonne chance!

FreeSpirited:
Marry woman who doesn't understand faithfulness and regret ur life

On which planet are the faithful ones, please?

We may need Musk's SpaceX to take us there.

dominique:
Did Angelina's mother brainwash her husband to be having multiple affairs while she struggled alone with cancer till she passed away? Her other child, a son also disowned his father and dropped his last name. You men think children are deaf and dumb and blind, children are more observant than you can ever imagine. Do right by your children and their mothers and stop shifting the blame to brainwash when the children become adults and want nothing to do with you.

We are still saying the same thing. Mothers are always angels. Men are always villains.

Western societies are pushing what will eventually swallow them. I have observed them doing it for decades now.
A society where any father who tries to put kids on the straight path is automatically a tyrant.

After breeding softies, devoid of resilience, and plagued by "mental health issues", I wonder how they will manage it. At least, people like yours truly have lived off it in the past. One benefit, at least.

I hope the day soon comes when women can use AI to breed. So that no men are needed to have kids. Then we all go kukuma have peace.

Pa Awo was a great visionary. His approach to education, agriculture, industrialisation, health care, social mobility, development and modernity was unrivalled in Africa from the 1950s to the mid-60s.

But intuitively, he was not a nationalist.

He was all too aware of the fragility of such an artificial entity like Nigeria.

But he was pragmatic enough to know that it needed time to work out how and when to disintegrate peacefully.

So he sought to develop the Western Region so that, when the time came, it would be extremely well positioned as the Oduduwa Republic.

Ahmadu Bello was of a similar mindset, though with a religious and feudalist twist.

ThePEACEFULBOY:
Good enough they can't change their genetics.
Children often thinks life is easy until it gets to their turn

Well, many of their children were adopted.

It was like collecting various specimens for them that year.

Men should try to look after themselves. If kids and relatives don't have to depend on you for survival anymore, nobody send you.

Pitt is in his early 60s now. So, imagine a broke man at that age and all your kids have dropped your name and left you. After a lifetime of labour. Where will you start?

Luckily, Pitt is wealthy.

I have said one thing for many years.

Be very careful before you settle down with a lady who has a poor relationship with her dad.

The supposed reason is irrelevant.

She can claim her dad was evil and all that. Often, the mother would have brainwashed her against her dad.

Find out about her dad from other reliable sources. If he truly was that bad. Nor let her beauty, pert ikebe or standing headlights fool you.

Women with poor rapport with their dad will hardly help you raise children that will value you (as their dad). No matter how good a dad you are.

Interesting. Very articulate.

symbianDON:
and Safiyat would never have called at an odd time. In fact, na she go dey initiate the Safiyat calls. Omorrr!! Pant just dey wear the innocent husband since!!

Dude, the lady would have thought of all that and more.

She would have put an extra layer of security. If, in an emergency, "Safiyah" had to call, Safiyah should be quiet until the lady spoke.

And "if the mugu I have at home, by any chance, calls, say he got suspicious, never say a word unless you hear my voice first."

Before some women bring bastards home, most times, the woman communicates with the lover outside under the oga's nose. All na coding.

Lalami3232 has been educating us for years now.

Can we even get anything right on this continent?

Is refereeing a game rocket science?

Too bad.

thesicilian:
She saved his number as Safiyat. Even if her husband went through her phone, he'd never suspect. Women!

Na common thing, unless by chance the hubby picks up the phone when "Safiyat" calls.

Even at that, they may have coded and agreed that the lover should only speak on the phone after first hearing her voice.

Trust any woman at your own risk.

The moral decadence involved here is obvious.

However, what the woman and hotel staff did after he died reflects a dysfunctional society.

In a society with probity and competence in officialdom, the lady and the hotel staff would have reported it to the police.

But in 9ja, the police will turn it into milking the "suspects" dry. Or make them rot in jail. They won't do any proper forensic tests. So, people do everything they can to avoid the police.

jaephoenix:
I am a physician of 20 years experience. I have watched christian surgeons pray before ops and still lose patients. I have also watched them pray and have a successful op. I myself I dont pray cos I'm an atheist. So how exactly can you explain that,Mr Smart Christian

Irrespective of faith or no faith in this situation, quite strange that we carry religion on our heads in Africa like gala.

I remember how calming low background classical music was during procedures. It helped to focus and concentrate.

I'm sure there are Hindus, Buddhists or Zoroastrians who meditate or do chants before procedures.

I doubt there is any evidence that Hindus/Buddhists/Zoroastrians are less successful at doing these procedures.

We should allow religion to be a personal thing. It should not colour everything.

Anything you do, nor near the nurse and policewoman o.

The soldier fit make gra gra small, but if she's an accountant, or office soldier, wife her.

Otherwise, a toss-up between the doc and lawyer. The doc edges it a little bit.

30 years ago I would have said choose the policewoman or nurse. They were good wives those days.

But I know far better now,

Azazyel:
15k for breakfast abi wetin I just read now? What species of men do we have in this country right now? So if she wants lunch and dinner now na free 45k. No wonder why ladies see relationships as big business. Imagine how many guys are sending her money steadily. That girl can easily pull out 100k in a day without even breaking a sweat. Na him wahala be that sha. Funny thing is this girl would be telling another guy about you and be laughing hard while he is mounting her for free or way less

Very true.
But at times, the sender can "understate" the value of the gift. Like, use this to take the bus or keke.

But a smart and grateful person/receiver should know the true value.

As you already said, girls receive whopping sums from guys after meeting on TikTok, Facebook, etc. That's how they can afford an iPhone 17, bone straight, etc.

Plentydreams:
This girl I barely resumed talking to her and I decided to gift her 15k in naira for her breakfast and she sent me,"good morning thanks" should I be concerned, because the proper culture of an African is supposed to be with proper gratitude,note that I am not asking her out,we have known for a while but I only felt like gifting her.
PS: This is only for the Yoruba's culture

Geh wey your mates dey send 75k for sending them shaking booty videos?

Don't expect any gratitude from the other gender. They don't value anything. Men have spoilt them.

Instead, send it to your mum, nan, sister, niece, etc.

If you send to any babe, expect no thanks.

Like play, like play, Houthis matter don tie gele o.

With matching iro and buba sef.

Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm

This is very loud. Too bad.

Switruth:
The great Oba is wise. What he means is that if Tinubu is good why remove him. But is Tinubu bad? Obe with wisdom.


Great King.

If you knew how many people passed English thanks to magic centres and bribery, you would be shocked.

Common English; they cannot understand.

You want Oba to say "vote out the FG." Oba of Benin does not do that.

Before the 2023 election, the Oba of Benin received Peter Obi very well and mentioned how the children were talking of "Obidient" everywhere. He also warmly received Tinubu, Atiku, etc.

The Oba even admonished Akpata not to call himself a child of the Palace during the last governorship election.

So that people do not wrongly assume Akpata was the Oba's candidate. Even though Akpata's family has chieftaincy ties to the palace.

jchioma:
Traditional institutions should be non partisan , ably representing the interests of the people o

You need to understand that the Oba left it to each individual to decide.

When a leader is doing well, why change him? When he's not doing well in an individual's view, what should the individual do? That's a personal decision.

The individual can vote for change, look around and say there is no better alternative, abstain from voting, etc.

We can all think and act for ourselves.

Sleekfingers:
And think his daughters are illiterates . That will allow some useless families to toss them around?

Will or no will . His Estate automatically goes to his daughters and wife .

It's not about illiterates or literates o. FRA Williams family are far from being illiterate. The case has been in court for decades. Other examples abound.

In fact, the over-literate can even be more difficult.

In certain ethno-religious groups, lack of a male heir can complicate things for the immediate family of the deceased.

This is not about having Harvard degrees.

Fine geh, no pimples.

Dem dey jealous the fine 9ja babe.

Maybe as she nor be yellow pawpaw.

Dang Baba, if you can, have a male heir. E get why. Especially in Africa.

After witnessing many things after people died without leaving male heirs, I changed my view. I used to believe what he said in that clip.

Relatives can be extremely wicked once you are gone. Forget about having a last will and all that.

motymop:
not bad, dont be entitled to people money

na the brother say make em born 5 kids wey he no fit take care of

he should not give the brother any money

a brand new keke cost around 3.9m naira that is about (2,172.83 pounds) that is a huge chuck of money especially savings)

most family members are entitled and wont follow through with the agreement

Bruv, listen.

It won't be the first time he has helped that elder brother since being in the UK.

A friend once did something similar. A relative in 9ja asked his UK-based brother for help to buy work equipment.

The UK guy decided to test him. He said OK, I will help you, but you must save the amount used to buy the machine from your work. Over, say, 12 months or a reasonable period. Then another relative in the same trade can use the saved money to buy his own equipment.

The reason for the test was to make him work hard with the new equipment. After saving the money, the UK guy intended to NOT take the money from him at all. It was to see if the 9ja brother was willing to work hard to support another relative.

From the UK guy's experience, the brother asking for help always took and never gave. Since childhood.

As expected, the 9ja brother said he didn't want the help anymore.

So, the UK guy instead bought the equipment for their junior brother when he completed his training. Not the entitled brother.

Many of the entitled relatives in 9ja would never render any assistance if they were the ones abroad.

SlavaUkraini:
You will value Nigeria when you travel to a country and you cannot speak the native language there..

It is so frustrating.... You are almost the same as a dumb and deaf person

UK, where you can even communicate in English from day one. Has OP learned entirely new languages in some countries just to fit in, work or study?

Anyone who has won't complain about the UK.

As for the womanising part, na just nothing worth commenting on. Relationships have become whack everywhere.

erad:
Dude, you're writing nonsense.

Catholic Church and the word 'catholic' are 2 different things. Stop trying to sound clever by half. The Anglican church is the church of England. Roman catholic church and catholic church mean the same thing. Stop trying to create confusion where there's none.

Dude, take the correction from the guy correcting you. Anglican and Protestant are part of the Holy Catholic Church.

The Roman Catholic Church is the one headed by the Pope, the Bishop of Rome.

Please ask your Anglican Church Bishop or pastor instead of arguing.

Various Anglican publications clearly call it part of the Catholic Church. Could you share how you managed not to read or see that?

Kobicove:
Speedy burials can actually be used to hide foul play

Families with a better awareness of why you do an autopsy and who can afford it would immediately do it.

The coroner and the police should normally be investigating sudden/suspicious deaths.

That's how saner climes work. Otherwise, delays for months or years only increase cost.

PerfectStranger:
She dey carry her job for head

Like Gala.

froxydydx:
What about the husband's brother?

Same question here.

Hmmmmmmm

Politics is just too dirty.

And in a corrupt ethno-religious, tribalistic enclave, it's dirty many times over.

ManknowThyself:
There’s nothing wrong for guy to have more than one girlfriend at a time!!!!!!!!!

Most men claiming my girlfriend never knew is our girlfriend. No woman not married and sexually active can swear she bleep one dick at a time. Let say 2% out of 100 can say that but they are rare.

Guy when never see your family fit get 10 girlfriends make you be last. Even fit still see your family change mind cos of your personality and past.

It’s only when bride price is paid that’s when you become wife and have a say in his life.

Abi o. Every guy is more or less a side dude.

When a girl juggles 10 guys, each one is a side dude.

Why do you think our friend Lalami3232 is always preaching DNA test?