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Jman06:
That guy does not love the girl! She's clearly the one forcing herself on him. No guy in love with his woman would treat her like that. In fact, if the guy was inlove with her, he'll be very happy to see her all the time.

But I'm sure that even with this sort of disgrace the guy meted out to her, she'd still continue throwing herself at him and facing all manner of humiliation and when he's done using her for sex and dumps her, she'll come to social media to tell us that men are scum.

Boundaries are vital.

It does not mean that she couldn't have been coming from another guy's house.

Love is overrated and very fickle. Basic rules and responsibilities are more important these days.

How are you sure she's not using him for sex?

I don't go to anybody's house without informing them first. No matter how close.

It's a matter of self-respect.

APOPTOSIS:
Please, What did you smoke?

Nor mind am. Nothing like Africa.

No body respects you, especially neighbours, if you spend more time loving others than yourself.

Even 9ja must change "Africa First Policy."

It must be "Nigeria First and Nigeria to the World Policy."

Chidinma was not allowed to represent SA in common beauty contest. But Saka, Olise, Eze, Madueke and others represent other countries in FIFA WC 2026.

Even that Okon in the XenoBanana squad fall hand.

Kalashnikov49:
Define being selfish..

She didn't know he was selfish before he relocated her to UK.

She didn't see the selfishness when she sgreed to 50/50 split.

She even gave birth to the first and second child and she didn't see the selfishness after the first child?

She is still a nursing mother and she now remembers her independence, because of $4000 ?

For her saying she is back to the streets should tell you already that she was already meant for the streets. Even before marriage, she was just looking for a reason.

Correction. She never left the streets.

She has only now "officially" returned to the streets.

Read between the line of what she said.

Kalashnikov49:
You have always been for the streets .

Stress of UK living Standards has gotten to the man, as a family man, and he wants you to contribute more to the family upkeep (your own family ooo) and you are complaining because one MAN is making you feel like Cinderella abi?

Anytime a woman starts giving you attitude, someone or something is giving them MORALE.

She will regret it...its always them with the

OH NO, HAD I KNOWN lamentations. Dont take her back, because she will definitelycome back begging. Just imagine a NURSING mother..

Anyway na dem...awon sophisticated...

She was always in the street. Unofficially.

She said it is now official.

The man should do DNA test on those kids o.

SmartMaster001:
Go for the one who respects you and gives you peace of mind.

E get why.

No long story. All that ebony or fair skin, quiet or gist-loving type, na just surface, QED.

kaywhy09:
Then, another will propose Two terms of the 6 years

This is my fear. Otherwise, I have supported a 6-year single term for years. Knowing how greedy our people can be, they will sneak in another paragraph to make it 2 terms later. And they will shoot students and youth who protest against it at sight. And nothing will happen.

If OBJ had thought of it better, he could have had 6 years in his second term, instead of his 3rd term adventure.

Belurved1:
Asset and liability

Chai! Economist don land.

Some assets na big liability at the same time.

The lady nor too get class like that.

Nlkay:
Kindly help choose between Stellenbosh and University of Pretoria

Stellenbosch has a better reputation alongside Uni of Cape Town and Wits University.

Uni Pretoria is good though. But research the ranking in the subject/course you want to pursue.

And the city/cost of living and safety of the city.

Negroid001:
Marriage is not an achievement i repeat.

Ok, it appears divorce is now the achievement.

On to the next dude to chop and spend.

Na turn by turn.

IDERAWOLE:
It depends on the scale or size of business you're planning to embark upon. However, take note of this:

Setting up a gas skid refilling plant is a highly viable business venture in the current economic climate. The demand for LPG is strong and growing, and the skid model offers an efficient path to market for entrepreneurs with medium-scale capital. With meticulous planning, strict adherence to safety regulations, and a customer-focused approach, this business is well-positioned to generate consistent, long-term profits and strong returns on investment.

So, I can give you a detailed set-up plan if indicate what size your looking at.

For a gas skid, you'll be looking at a capital of #5m. If it's just a shop size, it's going to be far less than this. You can have a detailed plan including returns on the business and how fast you can recover your investment.

Please show pictures of the various sizes you have. The shop type, medium skid type and larger one with two tanks. And price of each.

cyberbro:
Ok they were able to rescue those ones as special citizens with political privilege. Congrats.

Whether na ransom dey pay coded, we no even know. Make dem sha bring back the school kids and teachers!

Dem go don pay ransom.

Deadly gun duel without pictures of the dead.

How can 7:30 pm be called late-night?

Thank God the mother and boys survived.

osuofia2:
Iran problem started when they declared islamic Republic, Iran was doing way better before the Mullah took o ver.

How did the Mullahs get the support of the masses to go Islamic?

Because they leveraged on the resentment against the West over toppling of their democracy. And propping up the dictatorial and corrupt Shah who served Western interest.

You are typically addressing the symptom and not the disease. Read history bro.

osuofia2:
Iran is more rich in minerals than Qatar but because of the love for terrorism, they are badly backwards

Would Qatar have flourished with 47 years of sanction?

Iran still has a nuclear programme of their own. In the 1950s, Iran had a vibrant democracy that even Spain or Greece didn't have.

What happened to that democracy? The West disrupted it because Mossadegh, the democratic prime minister decided to take control of Iranian oil to benefit Iranians.

The anger from that 1950s act of the West fuelled the 1979 Revolution. When you kill democracy for selfish reasons, you create a monster. The West did.

We need to know a bit of history.

Cute animals.

Only that they are being fed better than 70% of Almajiris.

GanagiBitrus:
Make dem no break that goat leg o.
Na him last chance at winning the WC be dis.

Else in next WC 2032...

But why you wuked laidis? Are you a Wike Old Gin fan?

Haba! Ororo will look older in 2032 than Jose Mourinho is today?

Racoon:
A good product does not market itself. It valued speaks for it.

Abi. Like garri and ground nut nor dey do advert but saving lives since 1749.

9ja is sleepwalking into what we thought was not possible again.

Whenever politicians become too complacent, the unexpected always happens.

At this stage, it's fair to say that despite ethno-religious sentiments and excuses, political leaders have totally lost it.

They can't protect lives and property.

Their bickering, freeloading and blaming political rivals ain't gonna resolve the mess and quagmire.

Expect anything, including total collapse.

There are more heartless people now out there than at any time in 9ja history.
Eroded values.
Worshiping wealth/money.
Greed and money by any means.
Endemic corruption.
Poverty.

Emu4life:
Are the women committing to one man??

No. Otherwise paternity fraud would not be so rampant.

Kalulu44:
My friend you are the ignorant one here, somebody just teach you what friendlies are all about and you're still yapping rubbish

My brother, not all people are capable of learning o.
If not friendlies, how does he think managers should trial new young/players and new formations?

How should managers give players not in the first team a sense of inclusion?

Kalulu44:
What's the meaning of this write up? So you don't want to do all the stated above?
If you don't want to do those things just bcus you want to live life to the fullest, then you're not living at all.

Na this kind OP's write-up yahoo guys take dey motivate.
Also, school na scam brigade.

Sure, OP means well and his points are worth thinking about.

However, a good advice would be to enjoy the activities we do. Afterall, they are part of life.

My time in education was extremely enriching.

Depending on how high you go in education, time there is part of contributing to mankind.

A lot of research students quietly play big parts in new scientific and technological discoveries and innovative ideas. Even if the prof becomes the face of the work done.

Princedapace:
Definately, most resource rich countries are even poor, most European nations dont have core natural resources. Thay have smart humans. Ur resource is useless if u dont have humans to harness and convert them into finished goods.
This is the sorry state of many african nations. Resource rich, but more foolish humans than smart ones. They simply sell of their resources to countries with no resources, these countries convert them into finished goods and sell back the finished goods to Nigeria and her likes .
Then we end up using the money we earned from selling these resources to purchase the finished goods. We even spend more, we end up with negative balance. They become richer, while we become poorer.

There is relative homogeneity in the so-called Smart countries. See how UK could not even cope withing UK due to differing history, culture and differences that might seem minor to outsiders.
See high China is fighting to supress ethno-religious differences to promote nationality, albeit in a way most find unpalatable.
Most Africans have no true national identify, forget all the slogans.

So, if something as basic as national identity, common vision and goal are still missing, how can we make headway and let the smart among us lead instead of religious and tribal considerations above everything else?

In fact, we are yet to even lay a true foundation for development.

richmond500:
please don't call my state river State.
It's rivers state with an "S"

Abi o. Before another person mistake am for Stream State.

PlasmaTV:
This is going to be quite hilarious if true.

The bushmeat is coming to bite the hunter.

Oh boy. And the bushmeat get rabies.

ManknowThyself:
This one they mad!!!!!!!!

Men are useless but you advices yourself and other women to get pregnant and have kids with men you said are useless out of weed luck.


This one done they 50km to menopause, still get mind to insult men. If not sperm labs, this one for nor get opportunity for kids.

Not all women already above 30 will get married, especially those that used their prime for OS but those that used their prime to build carrier and structure will definitely do have blessed and happy kids, husband and family.

You when done comot market still they insult men with balls.

In a nutshell, men should only marry women above 30 With carrier and structure of their prime after enough due diligence medically and street orientation wise of asking questions about her upbringing.

Men 30-45 are in their prime and should marry women at prime [b]18-27 that have good cultural values of family, [/b]self respect and dignity.

Never waste your time on any woman above her prime without carrier and structure of value as a woman.

Not everyone will get married, know this and have peace.

Abeg, where dem for dey find those types with family values? Country wey everything don rotten pata pata. You go search tire.

It's less than 3%. Even in big cities with more money like Lagos, PH, ABJ. Let big boys and sugar daddies stop funding girls and see what will happen. Most women are poor. Very poor. But they want bling bling. Most are taken out of poverty by men who control the vast amount of wealth/resources. For most, relationships and marriages are Poverty Alleviation Programmes (PAP).

Those that have move around a very close-knit circle. Mostly family wealth/connections. Their parents largely determine who they marry. Sons of fellow business tycoons. Rich parents don't allow their daughters to pass family wealth to poor or average guys. Unlike men that marry poor women.

RIP dude.

biggie73:
Stop dealing with poor and needy folks, if you don't want to be like them.

Like 90% of them are poor. Where do you get rich ones from?

Even the slightly better off are still greedy and still expect from men.

They are materialistic beyond their means.

Most relationships are Poverty Alleviation Programmes. Nothing anybarry wan tell me.

If true, the man is lucky. She could have arranged for guys to kidnap him, empty his account and still get ransom.

JibolaUsman:
That Citroen is Eternal ....... An Older Friend of mine had one in 2015..... used to oppress us.

Jean-Paul Belmondo made this car truly chic in his films. Le Cerveau, for example.

naptu2:
Mercedes Benz 300SL Gullwing

Citroen DS convertible

Jaguar XKE

You see that Citroen, na iconic.

nick50:
The lion of ubima should leave adc for dat useless greedy old man and pick a Senate form to represent his people

The guy is not tactical and strategic enough. VP is the most he should aim for. As a VP to an old man, he might have GEJ's kinda situation under Yar'Adua, if that's he's destiny.

Better still, go to the senate and really work for your home constituency.

He has done everything his talents and connections could not have given him in a more organised clime. Considering his average background.

He's similar to Atiku in a way though. Both believe in buying everything with money. It doesn't always work like that in politics.

Hemanwel:
Nigeria is doomed! These our politicians don't just care about anything but themselves. Now, Omo Mushin wants to join NDC all because the APC has denied him ticket. His joining NDC hasn't got shit to do with the people - the masses, but his personal interest. He, like every other, wants to ride on the OK popularity to get back to power.

Terrible!

In the weeks and months ahead, even Omo Alagbado, Omo Apongbon, Omo Olowogbowo, Omo Idi Araba and others will find a new home in NDC. Na the game be that.