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brain54:
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Shetima obviously has nothing to say or campaign about that is why he feels obligated to talk nonsense and attack atikus personality.

Atiku also has a diploma in law by the way.

So what shetima said is obviously nonsense.

Even buhari couldn't produce his secondary certificate and shetima I'm sure was okay with that.

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Atiku also has an MA in International Relations from ARU in England.

Even though I find most of the candidates standing in 2027 incompetent, education is not Atiku's problem.

Let her listen to Kiki Osinbajo.

Let her keep her online content career dream alive and forget marriage.

After all, marriage kills women's dreams, abi?

What nonsense.

FIFA should just ban CAF and WAFU for 10 years.

Very incompetent.

Father4all:
you are a complete bad person. You should have said people that are SS should not marry at all. Rubbish

Lol. They should marry. If they live long and healthy enough to do so. Key word: Healthy enough. I have done far more to alleviate the suffering of SS people in crisis than you ever will.

People get romantic and emotional, but the reality of SS patients, even with modern medicine, is anything but.

You cannot lie about something so crucial as SS status and expect your partner to accept your straightening it out later.

In my view, anyone who knowingly produces SS kids should go to jail.

In this case, they will, at worst, produce AS kids, but why knowingly burden innocent kids with such selfishness?

You don't have to pick up the pieces of people's poor decisions. I do. So, you can be a good Samaritan.

Na wa o. Uppercut from everywhere.

ManLikeL:
Brothers, What Will You Advise a Brother?

I'm currently confused about my relationship journey.

I haven't really been the type to consider a serious relationship for a while now. It's just been a couple of sex partners here and there. We do it safely and keep things on a superficial level.

Now, recently, there have been demands and questions here and there about starting a family, especially considering that


Just last week, she said she had a confession to make, and she opened up about being SS. Mind you, I'm AA, so, by the usual norms, this shouldn't be an issue.

But during one of our previous conversations, she had claimed to be AS and asked if I would be comfortable settling down with someone who was SS. I almost freaked out.

I'm sorry, but I've always wanted to have AA kids. With apologies to those affected, I've always believed that if I ever have children, I owe them the best possible chances at life, including heightened intelligence, beauty, and a sound genotype. I believe I have a reasonable degree of control over who complements my genes to bring these qualities to fruition.

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This, in turn, stopped her from opening up until last week, when she could no longer hide it.


All insults, curses, and whatever are welcome.
T for grateful.

Dude, don't do it. Not due to stigma or whatever.

She wasn't honest about something so vital.

If your relationship were the nackological type, she could easily have been pregnant by now. Before you know it.

Let her go. Let her find someone she can be fully honest with. And who will accept her as she is.

Remember, although AS people are generally fine, a few may have health issues in certain situations.

This can happen when you're dehydrated, doing performance sports, or living in high-altitude places like La Paz in South America.

You will also complicate your children's marriage options. They have to avoid AS spouses. Why knowingly hand them such a burden?

And also remember the complications your SS lady may still face ahead, including during pregnancy.

Some will talk of advancements in science and technology to handle health conditions, but is it cheap? Is it universally available? Often not.

If the lady was AA, would she advise her brother to marry an SS lady?

Dude, you are not a saviour.

[quote author=ManLikeL post=140940403]Brothers, What Will You Advise a Brother?

I'm currently confused about my relationship journey.
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LordIsaac:
I get the point. She has tasted the apple and wants to share it with him, but he said no. If only Adam said no that day, who knows what would have happened.

Dude, listen. She came back because of the kids. If the kids had gone there with her, she for nor returm.
And menopause may already be knocking on her door.

Make the hubby nor lose guard. She might yet have another plan.

Na content. Otherwise, the guy na fool.

It's not everything he's supposed to divulge to a woman in this manner

If it was her sister, she would have found a way to sweet-mouth the whole thing.

Sure, the sister-in-law is entitled, but not to openly castigate her.

The guy may bring problems to his marriage.

Don't let a woman compass you. Because las las the man gets the blame.

Dukeolumidemans:
Wahlayi na to slappp crase comot for this home boi cheek dey hungry me. This guy na simpson personified.

A woman who rejected u in the past because she felt ur inadequate and coming back now because she has no other choice elsewhere and u took her as ur lovely wife??

Instead of him to finally nack to his heart's content and move on, he knowingly married the leftover.

Brotherhood is embarrassed on his behalf.

If you wonder why girls keep some mumu guys in the friend zone, here's why.

They need the guys as fallback options.

Girls only friend-zone you if they know you will remain there while they sample other guys.

Is it poverty making our people go back to Stone Age behaviour?

Which sane person can consume cooking oil baled from the tarred road?

A place where bird/animal poo may litter? Or where a corpse may have been scraped off the road recently?

Na wa o. Are these salaries real? Annually?

Let the braggarts come and comment about how only their tribes bring glory to 9ja abroad.

vanitybutiwanti:
Nobody cares about 1966 boy. People are looking for money and breakthrough in real life, if you like keep inciting People on the Internet before you know it life will happen to you and you will be left behind. Social media is not real life.

Great-grandfather, what a pity you cannot see beyond your nose due to sycophancy.

Leaders' actions incite people. Not those who point out the obvious.

Well, like the Pharisees, like your leaders, you'd prefer to kill the messenger than heed the message.

So, today's politicians have not learned from 1966 and the events that followed?

Back then, the crisis started in the West. If they let it start in the North this time, you can't imagine how it will be like.

Princedapace:
The biggest issue with Nigeria is that we hire forigners for almost all our critical builds.. this is bad, we need strong STEM focused courses to build massive man power to handle 97% of our science driven builds. This will save us a lot of money, and help us make more money. But it seems the average black man has given up on stuff like this .

STEM is not the issue. Our STEM talents are exiting daily.

The issue is a culture of corruption, no accountability, tribalism/nepotism, and poor maintenance.

Train 1 million STEM professionals, and most will try to japa as long as we keep getting the fundamentals wrong.

Princedapace:
The biggest issue with Nigeria is that we hire forigners for almost all our critical builds.. this is bad, we need strong STEM focused courses to build massive man power to handle 97% of our science driven builds. This will save us a lot of money, and help us make more money. But it seems the average black man has given up on stuff like this .

STEM is not the issue. Our STEM talents are exiting daily.

A culture of corruption, no accountability, tribalism/nepotism and poor maintenance is the issue.

fredoooooo:
Aseyi samodun ..odun ayo la ma se o ..
God bless you all

Wa sumodon o.

Nothing new.

9ja na open Yaba Left since Adam.

ClassicMan202:
I never country wey dey celebrate immigration like 9ja.... Imagine celebrating that you left your home... Na wa o

Let's face the fact. The majority of people living within the geographical space called Nigeria have no true sense of citizenship. So unloved that leaving it and settling abroad is considered an achievement.

If Nigerians woke up one morning and found themselves in Oodua, Niger Delta, Arewa, Biafra/Eri and Middle Belt/Benjos Republics, do you think the Nigerian masses would wail? A bit like the failed 1990 saga?

I don't think so. You can't promote or protect what you don't love. Forget political pretence.

As long as we refuse to renegotiate the genuine terms and conditions of our coexistence, we cannot progress.

The Northern elites' doctrine of "Settled Issues" as regards Nigeria's oneness has only led to Boko Haram, ISWAP, bandits, kidnappers, etc.

Kaido:
How tf did Taylor Swift's name got in there

I wonder. Perhaps because there are more kids/GenZs in Africa than other age groups.

I would have expected the late QEII to be included.

Nice. Everyone should be doing this.

I have only ever managed to grow potatoes, peppers, carrots, tomatoes, radishes, basil, coriander, parsley and aloe vera in pots around the house. I wonder why I never thought of turmeric. And I buy it quite expensively.

Lol. She has hophlophobia.

Many people do, to some extent.

I don't think an arms-bearing job is the right one for her.

Jagabanfromcali:
It is time to do away with all these groups, AU, UN, Security Council, FIFA, Nobel prize committee, they simply support the powers that be

Before nko? If you can't beat them, you join them.

Can 9ja go arrest and arraign the president of any African country under any guise? Like Oranje dude did to that Caracas man?

Of course not. But all the self-proclaimed human rights organisations and Western govts didn't say pim.

Even in Africa, there is no one Africa. We never fit unite as 9ja, never mind as Africa.

To think the 9ja and Ghana put the Apartheid matter for head like gala that year.

This house be like a polygamous family house.

The children of one of late Oga's wives have more money than their half-siblings.

They are renovating their half of the house they inherited.


If a tenant does that, some landlords will believe he wants to claim the house.

Don't be surprised to see the landlord scribble "This house is not for sale" on the house,

Iceberg3:
Oya go and get your catapult and start catching all the obaikpo and osikpalo in ya area

This dude na BDPA, Okhoro or Upper dude. Nothing anyone go tell me.

Nnamdipapa:
These are the kinds of behaviours that led me to conclude YOUR WIFE IS NOT YOUR BLOOD! She may be a family member but definitely not your blood, so be very careful and never forget that. In fact, the wife or the husband is the ONLY family member who is not your blood, and most of them will have ulterior motives lurking behind the facade. i have almost two decades of experience.

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Nnamdipapa:
These are the kinds of behaviours that led me to conclude YOUR WIFE IS NOT YOUR BLOOD! She may be a family member but definitely not your blood, so be very careful and never forget that. In fact, the wife or the husband is the ONLY family member who is not your blood, and most of them will have ulterior motives lurking behind the facade. i have almost two decades of experience.

A man brings a total stranger into his house in the name of a wife. Anything you see, take it.

Your wife can hate your tribe (if of another tribe) and your family and still marry you because you are the only one available. Or she sees benefits in doing so. Early in the marriage, when kids are young and need to be raised, she can pretend to be good. Once they have grown, the man is less useful. Once you have empowered her to be educated and earn well, you are less useful.
If she is from a bad family, they can actively encourage her to disobey you, build a house behind your back, etc.

I'm sure Lalami3232 will have some virginity wisdom to say about this.

A woman is hoeing around in 9ja, where your family, her family, and nosy neighbours are.

At least in 9ja, people can still pretend to be good and religious or know cultural values.

All that didn't deter her from hoeing. Then you sent her and the kids abroad alone, no matter the reason. And you expect her to wait for you?

Wow! Local man is surprised.

Nice