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Travel / Re: 67 Passengers, Flight Crews Survive, As Valuejet’s Aircraft Skids Off Runway by Dancebreaker: 1:21am On Nov 15, 2023 |
Hmmmmm Thank God. |
Culture / Re: Why Oba Ewuare’s Brother Stole His Birthright! by Dancebreaker: 12:48am On Nov 15, 2023 |
Nice work |
Family / Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Dancebreaker: 2:08pm On Nov 13, 2023 |
Greenfaces:How many of them do DNA test up North? Let science speak. Humans are naturally deceitful. Things happen a lot when people feel they will not be found out. How many men can satisfy their 3 or 4 wives, some nubile young ones among them? The old man's senior sons may be helping their dad with the job on younger wives. Remember, even the wives may be cousins or nieces of the elderly hubby. Let's stop pretending. This belief that "women in my area/tribe/religion" are different is exactly what women exploit. Social media has allowed us access to various people. You will be shocked what some ladies from that your area told me. 1 Like |
Culture / Re: Benin Man Claims The Oba Of Benin Is Father To Obi Of Onistha by Dancebreaker: 3:07pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
missjekyll: Correct. Even the Great Zik of Africa confirmed it in his book in 1973. |
Family / Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Dancebreaker: 1:26pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
VinnyBaba:A publication by a DNA test lab in Lagos published their findings earlier this year. Search NL for it. It found that 26.2% of ALL kids belong to another man. These are results the lab had over many years. But older findings were roughly 25% for all kids and up to 40% (average 35%) for firstborns. We have discussed such reports for over 10 years on NL here. Reason is most women have multiple sugar daddies and boyfriends and don't usually know who is father of first preggy. They usually give it to who is most eligible or most likely to accept it. But some still continue sleeping around but a bit less than when single. Women used to dispute it here until the latest result came this year. Only a very foolish will just accept a baby without DNA test these days. Even if she's your wedded wife. I know people whose 2 or 3 kids were not theirs at all. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Dancebreaker: 12:58pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
olisefom:Tor at bolded. Even biblical Jacob loved Joseph and Benjamin more. Because he loved Rachel their mom more. Na human nature. At times, a child may look or behave like your mom or dad you loved so much. At times, a dad may wonder if a particular child is his because his looks or behaviour may be so different from his or family traits. Remember by the way that about 35% of firstborn kids and 25% of all kids belong to another man outside. 2 Likes |
Business / Re: CBN May Not Clear FOREX Backlog — Report by Dancebreaker: 12:41pm On Nov 12, 2023 |
Squirrel1:Dude, at a basic level you nailed it. We don't earn enough in dollars/export and our $33bn reserve is not actually that. Because around $11bn of it is tied down. In reality we have about $22bn free to dip into. But we can't really afford to take too much from it. It's already too low and would ruin our credit worthiness pata pata. Therefore, CBN is hamstrung and has little room to manoeuvre to clear the $6bn backlog to banks. This, along with other poor economic indices like high inflation and unemployment will keep putting pressure on the Naira. So, our failure to industrialise after 6 decades and export cars, electronics, pharmaceuticals, steel, and other high value products and services has reduced us to exporting mostly only oil with very shaky price. 2 Likes 1 Share |
Romance / Re: Why I May Not Marry A Nigerian Man (opinion) by Dancebreaker: 2:16pm On Nov 11, 2023 |
Nigerian men may be terrible but from my observation 9ja women are just about the worst I have seen. The most unfaithful set of women. (No unfaithful guy has the right to complain) Bad/toxic manners. Sense of entitlement. Hardly bring anything to the table even when she works. All the above rubbish their cooking and mothering skills. Way less than 10% of 9ja women make good wives. I have friends traumatised by wives' infidelity, dishonesty, diabolic practices and lately in diaspora, using their kids to punish ex-hubbies. Not minding impact of denying access on the kids. Men often refuse to go to court to protect the kids. Women have no such scruple. The FEW good ones are REALLY good but majority don't deserve any relationship at all. You only have the right to complain about 9ja men if you are one of the very few good 9ja women. To my mind, if 9ja women are the only ones left, marriage should be scrapped. Period. If I can roll back time, I won't touch any 9ja woman with a barge poll. The most terrible beings. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Travel / Re: I Regret Coming To Europe- Nigerian Woman Says, After Family Ate Her N30m (vid) by Dancebreaker: 4:04am On Nov 10, 2023 |
BALLOSKI:She has no papers. It's not that easy. At least 50% of our people who left 15 to 50 years ago suffered something similar. In fact I don't know anybody that left 9ja in the 80s and 90s that didn't suffer it to some extent. Virtually everyone did. A distant relative who left only 15 years ago lost an amount close to this, adjusted for inflation. This lady's own is good. She found out while still abroad. My relative found out after arriving to visit 9ja. Her junior brother wasted the money. If you suddenly arrived in 9ja only to find out no house and no money, your life is in danger. They can kpai you to "die" everything. Also remember one thing: the relatives that ate all her money have also been doing all kind of diabolical stuff to tie her abroad. All attempts to obtain paper will fail. Hoping that if she can't visit, she won't find out. That woman go don try all means to obtain paper. No way. We know as things dey na. At least 5 to 10% of that 30m will have been eaten by babalawos. Na today? Only smartphone and easier communication via social media is now exposing things. That was not possible just 15 years ago. Even now, blind trust still make people fall victims. Siblings and in-laws are the most terrible set of relatives in this regard. 1 Like |
Culture / Re: Why Are There Nigerians With Chinese Names And Language Systems? by Dancebreaker: 3:51am On Nov 10, 2023 |
Wow! |
Travel / Re: I Regret Coming To Europe- Nigerian Woman Says, After Family Ate Her N30m (vid) by Dancebreaker: 11:13pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Cromagnon: What they forgot is that some of that money must have been sent when exchange rate was 200 Naira to a pound. Adjusted for inflation, the current value might be 50 to 60 million Naira. She didn't gather the money and send 30m once. It was over very many years. 1 Like |
Travel / Re: Categories Of Nigerians Who Shouldn't JAPA Abroad (especially UK) by Dancebreaker: 4:30pm On Nov 09, 2023 |
Fiscus105:Most of politicians' grandkids and kids study abroad or even based abroad. Some have used money to secure Caribbean passports that allow them travel visa free worldwide. Even rich men in 9ja, many still kpeme before being rushed abroad in emergency. |
Education / Re: Obaseki Offers Automatic Employment To 12 First Class Graduates Of Edo Varsity by Dancebreaker: 2:38am On Nov 08, 2023 |
ILoveNG:It's not by force to accept the job offer. Those that obtain scholarship for study abroad may or may not choose that option. No, it's in 9ja that most people think 1.1 must go into academia. Some students just put their best into their studies without interest in academia. Many are quite happy to work across all sectors of the economy. There are far more 2.1 graduates in research/academia than 1.1. Reason is there are far more 2.1 graduates out there than 1.1. So academia is not a congregation of 1.1 students only. A friend had 2.2 first degree but had distinction in his MSc and later did well in his PhD. He's in academia now. All in the West. |
Sports / Re: No African Country Voted For Osimhen For Balon D'or (Photo) by Dancebreaker: 12:54am On Nov 08, 2023 |
Zxcvbnmghtr: Portugal voted for their own Bernardo Silva. Was he really the best? Did they believe he would win? No. I can understand France voting for Messi, so that at the right time, more countries might vote for Mbappe like they voted for Benzema last year. But there is no foreseeable time when many countries will vote for a Nigerian to win. So vote for yours. 2 Likes |
Culture / Re: Àwọn Ẹranko Li Èdè Yorùbá Pẹ̀lú Àwòrán by Dancebreaker: 3:38pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Nice. |
Crime / Re: Oladapo Ogundipe: My Daughter Was Coerced Into Suicide By Her Boyfriend In UK by Dancebreaker: 3:37pm On Nov 07, 2023 |
Too bad. Lots of Diaspora kids can be very vulnerable. Some don't believe their parents understand the intricacies of Western society. Many won't take parents' advice. But most of their parents have navigated the system for decades, yet these kids see African parents as Africans who don't understand the West. Their resilience and street smartness are usually low. Also, being black and stigmatised has eroded the self-esteem of many black kids so much that they feel overjoyed to be hit on by a white guy. Even a dodgy and low grade oyingbo. Pretty black/mixed race girls like this. I cringed a lot seeing it at uni. But as a black man, if you speak, you will be seen as jealous, so I said nothing. Sad. RIP. 5 Likes 1 Share |
Family / Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Dancebreaker: 2:39pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Obierika:Fictional stories have good lessons to learn from them. Moreover, most of us know of similar real life stories. So people can still learn a lot from replies here. |
Family / Re: Should I Divorce Or Remain Subjected To This Punishment For My Infidelity? by Dancebreaker: 2:13pm On Nov 06, 2023 |
Jewessgratitud3:At bolded, the man get mind o. The wife fit kpai am to cover everything. The man's family not knowing might seem good to protect his family, but puts him at risk. She fit kpai am before his family finds out. Because if his family knows first, inheritance wahala go shele. I hope the hubby has done DNA test on all his children. Nor trust any woman no matter how "godly" or innocent she pretends to be, 1 Like 1 Share |
Romance / Re: My Dad Told My Mum Never To Join Any Social Media App by Dancebreaker: 5:04pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
Afodot0022: My brother, if any woman wan mess up, just monitor am. Nor even warn am. Otherwise she go hide am like that Samantha woman wrote. Na to catch am dey hungry me b4 sef. So long DNA show say your pikins na your pikins, leave the rest. When you catch am, trade for a younger version. The young one too fit worse but manage am until you catch am. You've got to keep your wits about you No time to waste. The whole thing na game these days. 4 Likes 1 Share |
Culture / Re: Tiv Umbrella Body Heads To Court Over Claim They Entertain Guests With Wives by Dancebreaker: 2:33pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
LadyRosa: Hmmmm Better be sure of that thing you wrote there o. Is there any Tiv woman who can confirm it? Was the "kola nut" practice in the past? Is it perhaps still practiced in some remote areas where some people may be more conservative? If it is or was part of the culture, others have no right to condemn it, even if we hold different values. Culture is not static. If they wish to now change it, they must respect the minority who may wish to uphold it. |
Culture / Re: Tiv Umbrella Body Heads To Court Over Claim They Entertain Guests With Wives by Dancebreaker: 2:22pm On Nov 04, 2023 |
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Romance / Re: 80% Of Girls Make Out With Their Besties - Lady (Video) by Dancebreaker: 7:21pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
jayAjoku:I dey tell men: If woman born for you and test show say na your own true true, just forget the rest. Nothing woman nor fit do. Just know this and know peace. 4 Likes |
Education / Re: 1953 Photo Of Pioneer Female Graduates Of The University Of Ibadan by Dancebreaker: 7:12pm On Nov 03, 2023 |
I find these ladies far more attractive than the fake nyansh and fake eyelashes hook-up women of nowadays. Oh, no wonder. These women had brains. Nowadays, their brain dey their clit. |
Travel / Re: My Experience In UK Since I Japa:WARNING by Dancebreaker: 1:31am On Nov 02, 2023 |
fullclub: You are most likely not in a top uni. Most of the foreigners choose MSc in just about any uni just to japa. The British are doing well with just their BSc most times. 1 Like |
Health / Re: I'm Afraid I Might Have HIV by Dancebreaker: 3:48pm On Oct 31, 2023 |
FarSide:Dude, if you love yourself and the woman, go do that test right now. If you have HIV you are good but if you delay it and let it turn to AIDS, oh buy sorry na your name, HIV test should be routine if you live such a rough sex life. Did you not fear infecting an innocent girl? Why no condom? You hate yourself and life that much? Yes, you can be extremely lucky and do rough play with 12 girls and not have BUT not advisable. You can also be extremely unlucky and catch it from doing with only one girl. |
Family / Re: Building Wealth Together As A Couple - Surehome Marriage Seminar by Dancebreaker: 4:10pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
BiGVEEN58: My bloda, dem wan use laugh wunjure our enemy. |
Family / Re: Building Wealth Together As A Couple - Surehome Marriage Seminar by Dancebreaker: 4:07pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
99% of women nowadays only come to reap where they didn't sow. The only 1% ready to bring to the table choose yeye men. What an irony. |
Family / Re: Building Wealth Together As A Couple - Surehome Marriage Seminar by Dancebreaker: 4:05pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
Gbadugbakun:Those are Seun's relatives, haba! |
Politics / Re: Pictures As Sanwo-Olu Attends Lagos Fashion Week by Dancebreaker: 2:28pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
JASONjnr:Who say many of them nor be? |
Religion / Re: She Lured Him Into Sex, And This Finally Happened To Him by Dancebreaker: 2:26pm On Oct 29, 2023 |
gentposh:Hmmmmmm. Is that legal? |
Crime / Re: "Every Time A Girl Is Killed By Her Yahoo Boyfriend, It Gives Me Joy - Kosi Ugo by Dancebreaker: 4:29am On Oct 29, 2023 |
Pickmycall:Maybe her other boyfriend already scammed her of the money but she could not admit that to her yahoo boyfriend. Nor be human being again? |
Family / Re: Many Wives Dont Greet Their Husbands In The Morning. How True Is This? by Dancebreaker: 1:20pm On Oct 28, 2023 |
My own idea is simple. We are not wiser than our ancestors/parents. It's the same food like pounded yam, amala,agidi, egusi, efor, ofe onugbu, tuwo dawa, kilishi, dodo, idika iko, okro/ogbono soup that our ancestors invented that we still eat. We couldn't with all our open eye invent anything new locally. Our mother would greet our father and every other relative of our father (her in-laws or even call them her husband) irrespective of their age and gender. The younger in-laws can then knee down and greet her as mama. Our kids observe what we do and that's how we imbibe culture. Now, there are occasions when the wife might be very busy with something and you might see her first and greet. There are very little things a wise woman can use to build her home. A wise man should also know what is is really important to him/his marriage and correct a women with love. |
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