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Crime / Re: Mercy Ogar: 23-Year-Old Lady Declared Missing By Her Family (Photo) by Dancebreaker: 12:59pm On Jan 15 |
blowjohn:True. Girls can lie for Africa. From your house, she might go to another man. If something happens there and you are her last contact, nobody will believe your protestation of innocence. I used to have a female platonic friend. People of her ethnic background are not positively disposed to Africans in relationship matters. She told me her family hated other races. But she was a very bright and nice girl. Those were student days. Whenever she turned up at my house, and drunk at times, I would just let her relax in my crib. She would drink if having issues with her on again off again bf. Later, I would ensure that I drop her off at home (literally to her sitting room or even bedroom if drunk) and her flatmates would see me take my leave. I nor want any wahala. 3 Likes |
Family / Re: In The Light Of D Economic Situation If U Marry Now How Many Children Wil U Have by Dancebreaker: 2:07am On Jan 12 |
Gerrard59:I don't believe the man needed vasectomy. Sure. he has part responsibility but remember the lady already decided before marriage. The lady tried to paint the hubby bad but knowing how hot she was about having many kids, I did not believe her. I even advised her after the second child to take it easy. I didn't know her hubby was saying same thing. She was still insisting on 4 kids minimum. She is not a single child as she has brothers and sisters. She has just an average job and her hubby even had no job when she was preggy with first child. He got an average job later. As for how she's coping, I have stopped asking o. She has custody. It was all very messy at the end. I can't waste my time on people who cannot heed a simple advice. Couples should learn to be flexible and reach a consensus on many aspects in marriage: number of kids, taste, lifestyle, investment, etc. 2 Likes |
Family / Re: In The Light Of D Economic Situation If U Marry Now How Many Children Wil U Have by Dancebreaker: 12:33am On Jan 12 |
jamesversion:I had female friend who said many years ago that she would have minimum 4 kids. She had no steady bf. Although she claimed no bf but you know ladies are not honest in such matters. I advised that she should wait and agree that with her future hubby. She insisted it must be minimum 4 kids by fire by force. I just siddon look. She married some years later. She knack one pikin fiam! Like another 18 months, another pikin fiam! Nor do nor do, a third pikin fiam! Well, the hubby insisted on not having a third child but she did everything to have it. I only found out when the hubby began to avoid coming home until very late at night and marital problems started. She is a single mother now. 1 Like |
Crime / Re: Fake Soldier Arrested In Nasarawa by Dancebreaker: 10:59pm On Jan 11 |
Godsonkemz:Nemo dat quod non habet. |
Romance / Re: Man Dumps Fiancee Over Inability To Afford Wig by Dancebreaker: 2:20pm On Jan 09 |
Pecoleee345:Abi o. Imagine if for some sudden difficulties the man cannot pay children's school fees 12 years into the marriage? Na Okija abi Ijebu Ode the lady go go find correct Dibia/Babalawo/shrine to swear for the guy. The guy made the best decision. Nor gree for any entitled nonentity. 1 Like 1 Share |
Religion / Re: SCOAN: TB Joshua’s Church Counters BBC Investigation by Dancebreaker: 2:11pm On Jan 09 |
Proudlyomonna:Dude, Bisola and Agomoh spoke out years ago. Many years ago. I saw both on YouTube. Dude, let us be objective. The church should sue BBC for billions if not true. What about the daughter of TB Joshua? The truth is what matters. The matter should be Thoroughly investigated. The guilty party should pay heavily. If it's BBC, they should be banned from 9ja totally too. 3 Likes |
Politics / Re: Betta Edu Arrives EFCC Headquarters by Dancebreaker: 12:19pm On Jan 09 |
wink2015:Dude na lie. If you nor be "betta thief" you nor dey rise in 9ja corrupt politics. She will even get a better deal codedly. Quietly on the low. Nor be 9ja again? All of us have short memory. Plus election is still far away. |
Politics / Re: Betta Edu Arrives EFCC Headquarters by Dancebreaker: 12:14pm On Jan 09 |
Nice123: Abeg nor come wunjure me with laffta o. Monkey wey lost for market road tey tey. Kikikikiki. Simple answer: None. |
Politics / Re: Betta Edu Arrives EFCC Headquarters by Dancebreaker: 12:11pm On Jan 09 |
Techwriter:You need to remember that same beauty eased their way to the top. Men who call the shots fall for beauty easily. Irrespective of whether the lady is married or not. Men just prefer to deal with pretty women. Same way women of any marital status would be more drawn to a very handsome guy. 1 Like |
Religion / Re: Edoardo Santini: Italy’s ‘Most Handsome Man’ Gives Up Fame To Preach The Gospel by Dancebreaker: 2:20am On Jan 09 |
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=naQiJtBZF1Q?si=Pp6a0FytBlNbkLrr [/quote] This video on Italian Americans in very interesting. |
Politics / Re: Betta Edu: Suspension Of A Minister Is A Rare Occurrence In Nigeria - BBC by Dancebreaker: 1:58am On Jan 09 |
Seun:Good. Perhaps over time, or hopefully soonest, the women will be ratting on the corrupt men in govt too. If men versus women corruption leaks will help reduce corruption, wonderful news to Nigerians. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: Betta Edu: Suspension Of A Minister Is A Rare Occurrence In Nigeria - BBC by Dancebreaker: 1:53am On Jan 09 |
Judolisco: Kikikikiki Dey play. You dey whine us. Remember Dimeji Bankole? Babangida the HoR speaker (pioneer speaker in current Republic in 1999) of fake Toronto degree infamy nko? The youth are doing what they learnt from father and grandfather generations. The youth are worse than the old cargos. If na so Gowon loot when ruling 9ja when at same age as Edu, Biafra would have overrun 9ja in no time. Maybe that for better pass sef as na failed state we get now. 1 Like |
Celebrities / Re: Tee Billz Threatens Davido After He Unfollowed Tiwa Savage On Instagram by Dancebreaker: 8:01pm On Jan 08 |
Treasure17:Leap year for that matter. |
Religion / Re: Edoardo Santini: Italy’s ‘Most Handsome Man’ Gives Up Fame To Preach The Gospel by Dancebreaker: 7:56pm On Jan 08 |
Hmmmmm. The guy get gay vibes. 6 Likes |
Culture / Re: Top 10 Richest Tribes In Nigeria by Dancebreaker: 4:19am On Jan 07 |
Itsekhiri, Ika and Urhobo are quite rich too. Tony Elumelu is a Delta Anioma man. |
Culture / Re: Graphic Photo: Man Kills An Entire Chimpanzee Family At Sapele, Delta State by Dancebreaker: 3:38am On Jan 07 |
Executedbills:I have used the contact link but I wonder why you don't have your business WhatsApp number here. Check out those CV writing and others offering services here on NL. Their WhatsApp make them easily accessible. |
Culture / Re: Graphic Photo: Man Kills An Entire Chimpanzee Family At Sapele, Delta State by Dancebreaker: 2:52am On Jan 05 |
Totally insane. The man should be jailed. 1 Like |
Politics / Re: US Property Acquired By General Erema Akerejola - Sahara Reporters by Dancebreaker: 3:21pm On Jan 04 |
Besto:In normal armies, you would have been commissioned for at least 8 to 10 years to be a major. You can even stand in for a Lt Col in the field. The seniority of Major position is why being a captain is probably the longest part of the commissioned army officer ladder. People easily spend about 8 years as a captain, some more, some less. Commanding about 120 officers and soldiers nor be joke. If they stand in for the Lt Col, they can be commanding around 600 to 650 men in some emergency situations. The way I see it, from Major to Colonel are still not General Officers. So Only a Brigadier (One Star) really seriously cuts above the others (Major/Lt Col/Col). I admit that regular Colonels typically don't command in the field and their liaison work at brigade or even higher level prepares them for the most senior jobs to come. Being retired as a colonel must be very painful with One Star position so tantalisingly close. |
Family / Re: Please Should Continue My Marriage Plan With Her After Hearing This? by Dancebreaker: 4:59pm On Dec 27, 2023 |
letstalksense Sorry to hear that but I commend the woman's honesty. Maybe she wants to start afresh with you. However, it's always better to allow a lady come back from NYSC before talking about marriage. E get why. Anyhow, a lady you already promised marriage, instead of asking after you when you didn't call, she followed another guy in camp. No concern or loyalty. Can you leave the type of woman in 9ja and go abroad and study for 6 months or a year? Can you with peace of mind leave her in Lagos (if she works there) while you work in PH or Abuja? Be realistic. Dig deeper, investigate her. You need to know her much better. |
Sports / Re: Which Of This Ex-super Eagles Players Deserved A CAF Footballer Of The Yr Award by Dancebreaker: 5:17pm On Dec 13, 2023 |
SmartyPants:Okocha was never really at the right place at the right time. Imagine if he joined AC Milan, Man U or Arsenal at that time. Or Even Ajax. Decisions and opportunity make a difference. Whereas, Mikel was. But transformation of Mikel by Mourinho "de-marketed" Mikel somewhat but allowed him to become accomplished trophy-wise. Both were very cautious and probably underestimated their abilities a bit at first. Okocha needed a bit more discipline in ball possession. A disciplinarian to shape his methods and nascent career back in Frankfurt would have helped greatly. |
Politics / Re: US Property Acquired By General Erema Akerejola - Sahara Reporters by Dancebreaker: 1:14am On Dec 12, 2023 |
Afobaba33:Dem fit kpai the person sef. |
Politics / Re: US Property Acquired By General Erema Akerejola - Sahara Reporters by Dancebreaker: 1:11am On Dec 12, 2023 |
IamANigerianMan: From Major/Sq Ldr/Lt Cdr to Colonel as senior officers are all corrupt. From Brig. Gen and above as flag officers are super corrupt. 1 Like |
Romance / Re: My Wife Watches Cartoons More Than My Kids At 37 Help! - Man Laments by Dancebreaker: 7:54pm On Dec 10, 2023 |
viyon02:If OP can't get it, let him forgerrit. Cartoons are far better than most silly programs adults watch. |
Romance / Re: As A Guy, What Is That One Female Dress That Makes You Go Crazy by Dancebreaker: 5:52am On Dec 10, 2023 |
clefstone:I wonder. IF na amoeba shape, you go explain tire. No evidence of looking sexy. One thing about such girls be say dem nor dey pure. One thing go dey somehow about them like ogbanje levels. Honey sweet one moment, totally weird next. |
Family / Re: She Divorced Her Husband For Wasting Her Life Savings Of N4.5million by Dancebreaker: 5:39pm On Nov 30, 2023 |
ahnie:If the story is true or even half of it is true, the hubby is a stupid goat. You have 4 kids, you can't even feed your family if not for your wife. Then you blow your wife's savings on little girls. No thought about his kids education. But wait o. Where do these hardworking women get these useless men from? The blame is the yeye man's 100% 1 Like |
Family / Re: Single Nigerian Ladies In Diaspora, Any Reason Why You Turn Down Our Guys? by Dancebreaker: 3:32pm On Nov 29, 2023 |
Klass99:It's the same issues blighting relationships in 9ja that affect those in diaspora, with extra pressure to secure stay or be deported. When they are deported, you will be one of those to laugh at them. 9ja relationships in 9ja are not as genuine or authentic as before, divorces are more common, fewer people take culture and tradition seriously these days, right here in 9ja. Compared to our parents and grandparents. Everybody is doing too smart. Why should you expect miracles in 9ja people abroad? Those successful Asians are still Hindus, Sikhs, Buddhists, Confucius, Shinto adherents etc. Or Muslims for centuries now. At Diwali, the Hindu festival, Sunak puts Hindu candles and other stuff outside Number 10 Downing Street. A Prime minister. Imagine Obama pouring libation outside the White House to one Kenyan/Luo god or goddess like that. It's oversabi holier-than-the-Pope Africans who will condemn him the most. In 9ja various religions in the last 200 years have shattered our traditional values. We are in a transition and being tossed around anyhow. So expect more of the confusion and values erosion, both in 9ja and diaspora. 18 Likes 6 Shares |
Politics / Re: Nigeria Air: Keyamo Faults Nigeria, Ethiopian Airline Deal by Dancebreaker: 12:28am On Nov 29, 2023 |
Cmeo: Because they all know that nobody really cares about 9ja. To the average 9ja, their Town Union is more important, relevant and closer to their heart than the 9ja project can ever be. Forget all that singing of national anthem in official gatherings. Na just formality. 9ja is a carcass that people are just carving up turn by turn. If letting foreigners carve up their own chunk is what it takes, so be it. QED. |
Politics / Re: Addressing The Myth That The Oba Of Benin Does Not Leave His Palace Or Travel by Dancebreaker: 10:55am On Nov 28, 2023 |
BabaHenry:. Dude, we are in trouble. Seeing the headline, I knew it would degenerate to a Benin-Yoruba fight. Our system deliberately refused to teach history correctly. My fear is that as Nigeria grows bigger, the fights will get worse and we will become ever more incompatible. We have discussed that Oba travels but not anyhow. Historically, Oba Orhogbua was with Portuguese in Eko and Ijebu-Ode. The Portuguese documented it well. They were also at the gate of Idah with Oba of Benin in the Benin-Idah War, 500 years ago. Obas led warriors to War before later putting Iyase and Ezomo in charge. How can an Oba/Emperor not travel to survey/visit territories? But there are times of the year that Oba goes into seclusion and sees only few or nobody. Certainly no strangers such as period of atonement/fasting called Awe in Benin. 2 Likes |
Romance / Re: My Fiancée Wants To Visit Her Ex That Came To Town. by Dancebreaker: 1:10am On Nov 22, 2023 |
Coolsat:But she go still pass back go. Na today? |
Family / Re: My Father Preferred My Younger Brother. by Dancebreaker: 10:22am On Nov 21, 2023 |
Greenfaces: Look, just because most girls marry very young before they even have the chance to date does not mean when married, things won't happen, For example, marrying your cousin in most of the South is incest. No such qualms in Core North. Therefore straffing cousins might be rampant. Also, on paper, drug use should be low in the North, but we know it's not. Premarital pregnancy will of course be rare when you marry soon after reaching puberty. Look, all societies believe their structure is superb, until science speaks. Fact is we just don't have figures from the North. Where awareness and suspicion are low, then reliable data would be rare. At least we have data for part of Lagos, none for any part of Kano. 1 Like |
Education / Re: Student Disappointed As Ambrose Alli University Lecturer Rejects His Project by Dancebreaker: 11:22am On Nov 15, 2023 |
Xiaohei:It's normal these days. Just to be neutral. |
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