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ireneony:
everything is correct especially number.
i will say we ladies shud stop doing no.1 and 2 is really annoying

Sommyangel:
No 6 got me..he makes me carry nail cutter eVerywhere

Cutehector:
If ur d type dat breaks up often wit evryboyfrnd or girlfrnd , den dr are chances ur marriage won't last....


Tolerance is the key

irishCream:
No.6 got me

Op is a big suspect why not concern about general cleanliness, wetin you dey use finger do op


Shildren of these days ehen

agarawu23:
tell me more Op

dharay88:
Op, bia.! Com complete ur work.

I'm expecting "10 little tinx dat leads to a relationship"

tosyne2much:
Wonderful write-up bro

It's also paramount to know that many relationships have been destroyed just because they refused to use the word SORRY

DanceVille:
1. Loving the person too much or choking your partner with your love- no matter how in-love you both might be, the moment one is choking the other with too much love, it fizzles out the love of the other partner leading his or her love to depreciate. Try to always make it balance or else you just might scare your partner away.

2. Desperation- when you show signs of desperation in your relationship, like trying to trap the person to yourself through marriage...this scares hell out of some people, especially if your partner aint ready to be hooked up or where the relationship its still at its early stage, dont talk about marriage except if you are both desperate about it.

3. As a guy if you are the stingy type, and have never cared about your Girlfriend's finance, neither have you bought her any gifts, then i feel sorry for you.

4. Immaturity: No girl wants a kiddo as a boyfriend or someone who talks and does things like a kid! No no...she will definitely dump your azz!

5. Mode of dressing: If your mode of dressing is really horrible, please do something about it fast!
6. Dirty finger nails and toes also leads to break-ups in r'ships.

7. Flirting: flirting might be fun, and might seem not strong enough to disolve a relationship....the truth is, it can!

8. Too Demanding: you want this, you want that, you want all...take a chill pill abeg, your partner would definitely get tired of you someday.

9. When you are too arrogant, too violent, too pushy, too insultive, always engaging in one fight or the other...this is a big turn-off!

10. Respect your partner's decision always...

jamex93:
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I go like am

iPrevail:
Imagine this scenario; A young girl of eight witnesses the coldblooded murder of her parents.

Would you say it was God's work and he planned it?

Scenario 2; A guy leaves the office for lunch break, because he doesn't like to be disturbed while eating he switched his phone to silent mode. His boss has an urgent task for him, calls him severally but he doesn't pick. As a result, his boss fires him.

My Friend, would you say it was God's work and he planned that too?


Sometimes it's easy to apply logic and rationality when we think or speak, but we deliberately refuse.


Man is responsible for what happens to man

iPrevail:
False!

Reski:
Even if you are not the calling type at least returning a missed call or flashing back goes a long way to show how intrested or how much you regard that person.

jamex93:
she deserve am ni

Joeself1:
most girls do these at first....

DaZion:
When she refuses to give you a hug and a kiss in d cheek like before..

jamex93:
and she will end up been killed by thunder at an unexpected time

Cholls:
my brother i swear i never fall into this trap

elantraceey:
@2 it could be that she usually don't have airtime or she's not really the calling type.

@4 it also could be that she just shy or its something she seldomly do, i hardly take pictures with guys except it's a celebration or something, whether i'm interested in you or not.

Emodeee:
Dahyaw is nt interested in me. No wonder she is nt always replying ma calls. She told me dat she wz going to give me a missed call bt m yet to receive it. I ll "let her go" lyk dat song by passenger.

justmag:
The worst part about this is...some guys will see all these signs and still try hard to get her. When you should just move on.

DanceVille:
1.Constantly Asking For Favours:
You know, this is not even about girls but trust nobody who constantly ask you for favors, they are only taking advantage. In the case of girls, if she constantly asks for your help especially when it comes to finances and buying stuff for her, it’s just clear that she is in for the goodies, don’t be fooled bro .. some even ask for favors that Bill Gates daughter won’t even ask her
father.

2.She Never Returns Your Calls And Chats:
She barely return your text messages and missed calls and when she does, it’s mostly the ‘k’, ‘lol’ ‘yes’ kind of replies after taking days to respond. I need not tell you that she’s not interested in you.

3.She Always Comes Out With You And With Her Friends:
This is a clear sign to alert you that this girl don’t want a lone time, she’s only there to please her friends or make her friends enjoy a bit of the goodies you are offering. Look elsewhere or grab one of her friends if you can.Some girls might even bring male friends just to piss you off, while you foot the bills.

4.She Never Takes Pictures With You:
If you are the guy always taking photos of the girl or if she prefer taking photos of the food, drink, gift you bought for her instead, then my bro, be prepared to move on. You don’t matter like that. Try go through her social media/phone if there’s no photo of you, think twice. Some people might say it doesn’t matter but trust me every girl that loves you will share beautiful moments you share together or want to take pictures with you, every minute you spend together. Don’t ignore this, it’s a cemented fact.

5.She Introduces You To Her Friends As A ‘Friend’:
I was once asked why do guys hate when they are introduced as a friend, and my answer was why not? Ladies should know that this particular thing hurts more than being shot, especially when you are so into her and in your head she’s the love of your life.That is clear that she’s not in a relationship with you, at least to her friends or whoever you got introduced to.

6.She Flirts With Your Friends Or Find Your Friends Way Attractive:
The worst that could happen is introducing your girl to your friends and she start to get flirty with them. It could be for the fun of it but if she’s usually bored around you but come alive when she’s with you and your friends, try do your homework well or simply leave her to one of your friends, not an easy decision though but it will save you time to move on.


7.She Never Comments On How You Look:
Everybody like compliments but if even in your best, she never say, "you look good" or "I like what you are wearing" then the answer is simple, ‘SHE DON’T CARE’. It’s straight like that. Don’t sweat it.

8.Acts Friendly Whenever She Is In Need:
She usually calls you all the sweet names, ‘boo boo’, hun, bla bla … only when she needs a favor. Do you still need to be told bro?

9.She Finds You Boring:
This is how to tell if a girl thinks you are boring, she don’t laugh to your jokes, she’s constantly on her phone when you are with her, if you don’t break the silence, she don’t make any effort to make a convo, she don’t even shout or singalong to her favorite song when you play it in her presence, bro, you are trying too much, go for someone who appreciate you, especially if you don’t
think you are that boring..

10.Feel Free To Add Yours

Comments are also welcome...

DaZion:
If the thread no make Front page, I go deactivate myself from NL.

ronald4lif:
I agree with all points except number 8. You're on your own about that jare.

agarawu23:
11. stop pretending to be a Lady on social network its very childish cos nothing good will come out of it

DanceVille:
There are silly and annoying stuffs guys always do that are very irritating...

Why do guys pleasure themselves in this irritating behaviours?
They are too many to list but I'll list Ten...


1. Chasing Of Every Small Girl:
Stop chasing of every small girl you see on the street who maybe your kid sister's mate.
Most guys strive to deflower small girls because they say its 'swag'.Shey you don be Boko haram who dey find virgin? Lol!
Guys stop it, it is very irritating and rude..

2. Commenting On Every Female Picture:
Stop commenting on every picture of which of your female friends upload on her facebook account.It makes you appear stupid and jobless.

3. Asking For A Girl's Number Just Too Early:This one is so common among Guys.Many guys feel very overjoyed getting a girl's digit pin.Guys, there's no big deal in it! You might even end up of not calling that day.
Take your time and let the girl wonder why you aren't rushing to get her digits pin like most would do.

4. Agreeing To Whatever The Ladies Say In Order To Become A Gentleman:
We see this on Nairaland here sometimes.Some guys have earned that reputation of always supporting, liking comments made by ladies not because its true but because they are ladies.

5. Wooing Of Every Girl On Facebook Or Nairaland:
Stop wooing every girl on facebook or nairaland etc.This is so very common among guys, trying to woo a girl because of her prettiness or body figures.
This is silly and irritating, you look like a big crap or are you a fool? Guys please stop it.

6. Always Wanting To Please Ladies:
I'm not saying its bad to be a gentleman, it's just that some guys take it too far.
They go against their own morals and ethics just to please a lady.Come on! That she's not all smile doesn't mean she's unhappy or worried.Some ladies just use these tactics to make you do what you shouldn't do.

7. Thanking A Lady For Accepting Their Friend Request On Facebook:
As if they have won a diamond.It's so irritating and smacks of both desperation and lack of self-esteem.At worst, you should welcome the person and say that you're looking forward to knowing more about her.
Not writing silly stuffs like "Baby, thanks for accepting me as your friend".

8. Staring At A Lady's Backside And Frontside:
Almost 90% of guys do this.They just can't help turning around whenever a female passes, just to check out her back and front side.It's very irritating and disgusting too.
Guys stop it.

9. Stop bragging with the number of girls you have slept with, why should you celebrate the number of curses you have accumulated.

10. Stop lying to Ladies just because you want to get under their panties or are you a fool? It's very irritating...

Please, add yours
Guys, please stop it..

denedene:
i sent a few some months back, I'm still waiting for replies lol

kellyJames5:
OP,you want to remind me that I'm still single right

Kontinu but remember.there is Godoo