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supersystemsng:
lol @ direction of phenes...na wa.... your boys are in trouble...i hope you're not giving them tough time and giving the girls more liberty?

lmaoooo I give children same treatment

supersystemsng:
It's not easy looking at you ladies nau, your anatomy makes it uneasy for us to look at you guys...

1,. Face fine, if we look at your faces, you can read a lot of things, i.e. lust

2. Breast region problem.


So i rather not look at your species abeg


I've got enough baggage of my own i'm trying to rid myself off...

yes I agree a lot of women haven't made it any easier for men to control themselves but then if you go about following the direction of your phenese you will soon become a serial r@peests and before you know it disgrace yourself and find yourself in jail

letusbepieces:
Skull Miners..

It may look serene but i dare u to go there, u wont live to tell the story.

smh

supersystemsng:
Argh, this one hit me like a brick on the head. Dangotesmummy who exactly are you oh...Blood of Wizkid... My departed mentor in the Lord kept emphasizing on this, "Ministers of God & Men looking lustfully " Chai, this one weak me. Anyways, the society needs to address this issue now more than ever, its enough to appreciate the virtues of a lady, many of we men look upon ladies with lust, already raping the ladies just by looking on them...

May God give us grace to contain ourselves...I'm not completely out of the league sha, but i'm making significant strides in this department...I don't look at females in the face, it's either i look over the shoulder, or look somewhere else, or look at the ground, or close my eyes why addressing you ladies..Chai, sexual pressure everywhere...

I remember talking to a man in the bank about an issue I was having with my ATM and instead of listening to me by facing me he started looking at my brez and when I started looking towards the place where his penis was he started feeling uncomfortable and he got the message.

Bottomline is preach Jesus if you want to preach and stop getting into moral idiosyncrasies because morality in itself is relative

Meanwhile to your question-i am the daughter of the most high God and the mother of a billionaire

baski92:
Some girls are just too stup!d, why carry the belle for 9 month when you no say you go still end up dumping the baby inside bush. most girls don't think before taking any action

speak for your mom first.

If she had aborted you we won't be reading this thrash

talktonase:
Go get married girl that's your highest achievement, coupled with your career will give you much prestige. I know feminist will bash me for his comment but that's the natural order of things...

there are good marriages that have stood the test of time and there are also bad marriages but you painted the order of things according to your societal expectations/demand or cultural/religious inclinations....

The world has evolved past that. You can achieve or accomplish whatever you want to regardless of your marital status.at work or in business no one is interested in whether you're married or not.the question usually is can you do the job? What does he/she have to offer.your marital status is none of anybody's business at the end of the day

Meanwhile marriage comes with so much expectations, cycles and regemented lifestyle that chokes your freedom, time, life and space. It Allso comes with family burden that all the after job comes marriage noise makers will not be there to help you carry

talktonase:
Such kind of women have a prima facie appearance of strong will and perseverance meanwhile you are not there when she cries, the sleepless nights,the cold nights of tortuous loneliness...

sadness and depression is not peculiar to a gender. Anyone can get sad over any thing or issue they find painful. Stop watching too much nollywood it makes you think shallow and gives you the impression every single woman cries at night alone because of her marital status.many of this nollywood storylines are written by school dropouts who went to the movie industry, unexposed, village chauvinistic men.I don't want to mention names

Lalas247:
Career Biko
Our achievements shouldn't be judged on if you have a man or not ..... that's weak

true

talktonase:
I hope you are a believer of the creation story? After man disobeyed God,a pronouncement was made upon both of them.The ground was cursed and man had to till it before he eats till he returns to dust.The woman shall suffer pain in child bearing as her desire shall be for her husband and he shall rule over her...I hope this answers your question.

oga Ade I'm a Christian and science is advanced.you said the Bible said women shall suffer pain in child bearing abi? Bros there's something called epidural

A woman can CHOOSE not to suffer pain in child bearing.google it,I'm not the one going to educate you on that
Secondly there's something called power of choice. I don't have to be married or buy the marriage idea to have not just a child but children of my choice

This is 21st century. I can eat my cake and have it

pcguru1:
I see ........the religious approach. This doesn't answer my question it just takes a source that's not meant to be opposed. Anyway I personally cannot judge a woman's achievement on marriage. I don't see the marriage institution as something to serve as an inspiration as the foundation is centered around companionship. I believe a better metric is contribution to the society in terms of knowledge sharing and improvement in the society be it in any form it comes. But that's my opinion

exactly. Women like Oprah Winfrey accomplished a lot and was an extemely succesful american media woman years when she was single before she eventually got into a relationship

talktonase:
Disobedience and rebellion is what has placed us in OUR PREDICAMENT!

what does the capitalized word mean?what predicament are you talking about?

naijainfogalery:
So what really makes a woman?

the quality and content of what is in between her ears, what she has done for herself materially,financially or academically, the services she has offered to men and women in her field and the LIVES SHE HAS IMPACTED. THAT'S WHAT MAKES A WOMAN to those within and around her.basically her service to humanity while she's still alive

MasterRahl:
The funny thing is that after sponsoring her in school, you'll still be required to pay a huge bride price and settle a lengthy traditional marriage list, all for some tiny piece of wet, hairy flesh between her legs

Really?

I'm with her on that. Too much Expectations lead to heartbreak

supersystemsng:
Men, i always fall in love with your perspective...Nicely said...

I don't agree with the doctrine that God is opposed to jewelry or ornaments, bur rather, Peter clearly said put away this adornments in the context of, don't make these things your priced possessions...Put God first. i.e. Do not put your wealth, beauty, etc before God...If the foundation is right, then the building won't have any problems .... Righteousness is key, and then other things queue up and not to force strange doctrines. Don't do this, don't do that, don't do the other one. God has called us to liberty and not to slavery...

exactly

They don't talk about men looking lustfully, its always about sex and whatever they define as indecent dressing as if their lemon uniform is decent dressing to work

akaahs:
And d persecution continue, d Lord is ur strength. Where is dartfort, Kent located is this planet?

that's not persecution persecution is when Christians are sacked abruptly or treated with disdain because of their religion.. Her sack was justifiable because she was warned SEVERALLY
Yet she disrespected the hospital authorities by not complying including the patients right to a peaceful rest

supersystemsng:
You are right...

I wonder why Christians get offended when they force their preaching on fellow Christians who decline to accept their church...We don't tolerate one another and don't want to enjoy fellowship with Christians of other assemblies, what they go about preaching is the doctrine of come join my church, not are you saved? I wonder why people are this way

the ones that irritate me most are the ones that will be preaching if you wear weavons you Will go to hell,if you wear earnings and necklace you'll go to hell

The Bible verse they follow which wasn't in the context of not wearing eating was when God told the Israelites to put away their jewelry and necklace because God saw that it was a distraction for them and it was taking away their heart from him hence he said they should take it away. He didn't forbid them not to wear it.some will be bastardizing and reducing Christianity to wearing or not wearing of trousers

The lords chosen preachers are the most notorious. They always have a penchant for preaching about sex, always emphasizing on sex in their sermons as if the only sin God is against is formication and adultery

ismail64:
This happen everyday in Nigeria, people will start preaching in commercial buses without any request by commuters, and will be shouting as well. This case is similar to what people do in Nigeria, pretending to be virtuous.

exactly. Sometimes in the bus when I want to have a quiet time, it's impossible because preachers are shoving their religion on every other persons throat,some even mix theirs with heresies, dogmas and exaggerations I just begin to wonder what Christianity is turning to in Nigeria

xtivin:
She is the architect of her problem;
1. She was warned to stop
2. We are to obey authorities as christians; and
3. Jesus clearly instructed that dont force the faith on people in Luke 10:1-12

exactly. After several warning she should have complied and even if she had to preach then do it when you're not on duty elsewhere outside work

Flakky26:
The God she stood for will defend and fight for her.

there's something called respecting the choices of others.for example you're eating a food,you're enjoying it,you like it but the next person sitting next to you isn't hungry or interested in what you're eating but you begin to force it down your neighbors throat.how does it feel? It means you're crossing your boundaries and that's why I like the Jehovah's witness. I'm not one but I admire their ways.you see them sitting peacefully with their magazines. Its people interested in their magazines that pick it to read.you can't see them forcing what they think on you.if you tell them you're not interested in listening they ask you whether you're interested in their magazines and they're very respectful about it.if you say yes they'll give you and if you say no they won't take offence

It means you have made your own personal decision not to believe in God or worship him and that's left between you and God.however it's a different ball game if God personally sent you to the patient to preach while on duty

donphilopus:
According to the report, she forced it on the patient. They said she gave her a Bible she didn't want. What if she just moved on when she told her she didn't want it?

she didn't have to be forceful about it.just give them Bible and hand slip,wish them well and move on.it's when you're too pushy about it that it becomes an issue. Even the Bible says wisdom is profitable to direct.

If the patient said he wasn't interested in listening then you should have just wished him well and leave him the hell alone. Christianity is a personal decision its not something you force down on anybody. Even the holy spirit doesn't force us to worship him that's why he gave us the power of choice. He said in the Bible those that must worship me must worship me in spirit and in truth.meaning it must come from a willing heart and a contrite spirit not worship out of let me sha satisfy my wife so she won't disturb me or let me sha do it so daddy won't complain. Its either you do it willingly and in reverence or don't do it at all

I'm a Christian too but a lot of Christians need wisdom. When you're at work you need to be professional about whatever you're doing. Its unethical mixing religion and work together. Even when you are at work and you are about to start work and you want to pray, pray alone to yourself in such a way no one will hear you.you don't have to raise your voice praying so that every other person necessarily have to join you and respect the space of your other work colleagues.. Jeez

ajasa4link:
Good development. Those lecturers that were dragging our girlfriends with us back then too, their matter should also be looked into. Dem full fms, but make I no mention their names sha.

mention names

After all you've graduated and collected your certificate

The bride though

Mohammed followers

Queenext:
Everything on the internet is bad,yet people have been consuming it since forever,something must kill a man.

When then should we eat?

the Bottomline is eat it but eat it in moderation

jaychubi:
Have you ever heard abt child abuse in d cave where u live, u see y its nt all abt minding ones business

women aren't taking the child marriage thing seriously so what do you want us to do

She should have maintained her before size.can't you see how the likes of Genevieve,Stella damascus,mercy johnson,mercy aigbe and omotola have maintained their stature years after child birth and they're all older than her o

She just let herself scatter full ground. She had better go on a fruit fast and leave junk food alone.now this is not about body shaming but for her health.

Only God knows how she'll look when she's in her 50s and 60s.of which she's even looking older than shola shobowale.she's not healthy at all.her obesity level is dangerous to her health

miarhpe:
There is another on you dm. @knowledge_launderer

I'll check later

Her v@gyna her business

Is it your v@gyn@ or phenese?

Face your front and live your life while others live theirs

soliddust2020:
so she was even the aggressor, i thought she was the victim till i read the entire story. She suppose be future market women leader, she just waste her time go school. she go kill people when e reach to share billions.

she slapped and broke bottle on her male colleagues head because of 3.8 million naira.Will that one not pour acid on a man when 50 million is involved when she gets to the Senate

bolubillionaire:
I totally agree

I am totally against violence from any gender.we as women cannot be shouting no to domestic violence and you're the same person perpetrating the violence. Let's practice what we preach for goodness sake.I understand that there are some few animals as men but these people had already appealed to you,begged you and were joking with you and the next thing is to carry bottle and attack a man and then now crying foul when you were the one that started the violence first.

Are there not other more civil ways to express your anger or displeasure? You're breaking bottle on someone that's capable of beating you blue black and you think he or his colleagues that witnessed the show will act all gentlemanly with you? Like my pastor Will say there's an animal and decent human being in every person, when you trigger the animalistic nature in man it will certainly come out and if you trigger the gentleman or lady in every person it must manifest

Women like her are the reasons why people don't take dv serious because we don't live by example.imagine a person WHO is supposed to have acted like a lady amongst men and be a model to other younger students is the one engaging in hooliganism. A law student for that matter and then she will come out and say "she's learned"

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