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chichichilolo1:
Dude are you trying to say her parents are lying? Or that they don't know their daughter's age

miarhpe:
na Wetin person eye dey see Na.

NB: you may want to check your mail or it's spam @sassyp. . .

Kayceenaz:
That is part of the beginning of a failed marriage. Placing the secondary ahead of the primary.

miarhpe:
I wish the world had more of your specie. The five percent that showcase what they can contribute meaningfully to the society as against padded hips and pouted lips.

miarhpe:
Spot on @Op.

I sometimes ask if people know the gravity of the union? 'My mates are marrying, my mates are marrying' shouldn't be a reason to marry.

I saw the series 'Billions' and I knew that for what ever reason marrying a smart woman is an absolute necessity. where conversations are not centered on 'have you eaten? ' 'where are you now?'

Marriage is like managing a football team. You know the kind of formation that would guarantee you results, and so you recruit players specific for that kind of play. Recruit the wrong players and you will never smell some level of glory like a coach in north London.

I didn't mention names o!

tuscani:
what are you actually saying ?

loshybab:
You see wah I meant,can't pass a point without insulting.....kwantinu!

I'm referring to you and the likes of op who like to leave your own issues unattended to and now be pocknosing into other people's issues and be criticizing them based on their own marital status as if your life is all perfect and issue free

nah!
you're getting this misconstrued. the person the Op is referring to isnt just any person, she is his sister.
Nkan to ba kan oju ti kan imu na

Amberon11:
typical. When they dont have a rebuttal, they resort to gibberish.

Dcholeric:
Na wa o.
I support the man in the op....to me the wife is selfish.

But this your own story weak me...even with sentiments it would be hard not to see the pain the woman carries....she try she no even confront her mumu husband.


but it would be better to confront the man and let his prayer for finance go to God...lol.

Frenchfriez:
Yeah its an open secret that many men have a high propensity to cheat, if the circumstances are just right. I also maintain that there are a few men out there who would not soil their dignity because of an innate desire to cheat, especially for the men who have tasted real money.
That lady you talked about is living in denial and the illusion of hope, for whatever god she prays to doesn't answer such prayers and its just a matter of time before he beds the busty Cynthias and the curvacious Bimbos. Cos let's be real with ourselves, you're a lady, you and I know that though money is a factor, but not a few women can opened their legs for less than money. Even the so-called 'expensive babes.
I get your drift though.

Amberon11:
What are you talking about? Hunger and apetite propels you to eat and there's a hormone called grehlin which increases your appetite and signals you when to stop eating.

melatonin signals you that its time to sleep and it increases as the day gets darker.

Stop saying what you don't know.

FitnessDoctor:
According to scientificamerican.com

WE FORGET almost all dreams soon after waking up. Our forgetfulness is generally attributed to neuro-chemical conditions in the brain that occur during REM sleep, a phase of sleep characterized by rapid eye movements and dreaming.

Infact, for the first few seconds you wake up from sleep, you would not know who you are or where you are.

Here is what WEBMD has to say

Also, it may be harder to remember dreams because during REM sleep our body may shut down systems in our brain responsible for creating memories. We may only remember dreams that occur just before we wake, when certain brain activities have been turned back on.

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Frenchfriez:
I agree with you also, and indeed she knows her man better than we do. Perhaps he has the tendencies to give in to women who throw themselves at him.
Well, its good for her though, but some men don't necessarily loose their sense of responsibilities and commitment, even when they have all the women for their taking.
And I dare say that such action as this(of the woman) could irritate and provoke the man into untoward actions.

bukatyne:
Lol @ throwing tantrums like a hungry chicken!

Frenchfriez:
Lol lol lol , really I shouldn't. Sometimes one gets tempted to do that in the face of overwhelming ish.
Anyways, thank you Mrs Woman

Frenchfriez:
Is anyone surprised? Its in the nature of women to be selfish. Sometimes for good reasons.
For her premature mind she would be thinking that as he now earns more, women would flock around him and he thus would spend on them. The moment a woman tries to put a leash in her man, thats the moment she begins to loose him.
I'd advice that they indeed have a joint account, into which they contribute a fraction of their salaries, say 10% monthly.
Whatever he does with the rest of the money is up to him.

Juliette05:
then he should resign, it's not by force, if he can't control his flesh, he should call it quits, it's not by force

bukatyne:
I am sure a lot of peeps here does not understand/ did not read the OP

She is not against marriage; she is telling us four wrong reasons to get married.

Another way to put the thread is don't marry for sex, security/money, emotional security or loneliness....

Na wa!

@Mzflexydeeva: Sex is one of the major reasons for marriage.

Sex, kids and companionship.

I agree the lonely people shouldn't get married; people who are alone should.

Frenchfriez:
Nigerians are losers. Just take a look at the comments and you'd realise that our average level of intelligence is street level. Zero comprehension skills.
Op you have said it well, a greater number of out youths get married for one or more of the highlighted reasons, and when they fail to realise these in the marriage, they become depressed, frustrated and trapped.
Pathetic folks.

chukagates:
see replies the level of IQ in nigeria is low ..instead of arguing with op if u dont agree with her.. they start throwing insults..the easy way out ofcourse Op u made valid point peoples eye are opening MARRIAGE IS OVERRATED EVEN BIBLE STATED IT THAT ITS NOT COMPULSORY ....live life to the fullest enjoy ur self not a must you have to live in a bondage called marriage were ur emotionally sapped ,financially sapped, reduces ur taste for your ambitions even makes some people compromise with their career what can you get in marriage today that u cant get if ur single??

Juliette05:
a Rev father who masturbate before mounting the pulpit, what morals does he have?