₦airaland Forum

IamaNigerianGuy:
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You are not the first to make this fallacious argument that education is unimportant and I only hear it from Nigerians. I am ready to debunk it.
What exactly are the 'lies' you refer to ?

that education is the key to success

Kwam1 was already successful before he went back to school
Davido,9ice,dbanj dropped out of school to pursue their music career and they succeeded.so you telling me education is the key to success or the foundation of not being poor =lies

Need I say More

If I slap you

NwaAmaikpe:


Have it here ma.

NwaAmaikpe:


Am I confused or did I really read that faithfuls at a prayer ground killed a policeman for trying to prevent an unlucky driver from being killed by them?


I love this religion.

supersystemsng:
nuffin...Lol..i'm surprised you no the feeling from drinking cold beer...

what feeling?

IamaNigerianGuy:
I am focused on the issue. I only chose this question in order to bring home clearly to you the incorrectness and implications of your argument.

L.I.E.S

supersystemsng:
You can't attain the level of understanding without the factors i mentioned...it's not possicant...i didn't say for you to have wisdom...i meant the level of understanding of issues you have with due respect...

ok

supersystemsng:
Lool @ cold glass of double 3 and fried snail laced with diced pepper and onions, did i not say it?

say what?

supersystemsng:
Well ma. I'm sorry i took you as a male... na wa, you have the wisdom of a man..i'm sure you're elderly..or advanced in experience, one of both...How's your holiday going?

Are you married with kids?

I said it

Very typical, you didn't disappoint me?

So I must be elderly or married with kids for me to have "wisdom"

Anyway my holiday is good with a cold glass of double 3 and fried snail laced with diced pepper and onions, my day is excellent

IamaNigerianGuy:
Do you plan on pulling your kids out of school anytime soon ?

focus on the issue and not my decision or children. My children have nothing to do with this matter. Don't deviate

bobowaja:
Wishes differs from reality. So you are free to wish for whatever you like.

I say die

Jhaytee4all:
You're the one who's really in need of DELIVERANCE!!

maybe after church service on sunday I'll be expecting a testimony.

get thee behind me you demon

Jhaytee4all:
Jeez! How funny could this be *SMH*

fool,how are you?

supersystemsng:
Funny as i've been addressing you as a male and you didn't correct me

I deliberately didn't because I understand you men's orientation. Once you realise I'm female you begin to address me patronizingly

EfemenaXY:
Allo! What's up aunty K? I heard you hollering my name

yes because I missed you and all your funny and insightful posts

cococandy:
by adult I mean over 20. My first time I was 21 and I think I was very mature for sex at that time.

However I'm going to be realistic and hope that she will listen until she's at least 19.
Most teenagers get pressured into sex way too early. The boys do it because they have to prove to their friends that they are men and the girls do it because they want to prove to their boyfriends that they love them.

Peer pressure is not to be undermined

very true though

cococandy:
I'm not yellow. just chocolate

Please don't bleach. Black is gold

I'm just joking na.I can't bleach o

loshybab:
And where is my statement did I say she is a robot?

Besides it's not everybody with brain that can use it to make good decisions,if you don't believe me,ask those that commit suicide

when you know she's not a robot and she's an adult, leave her to make her decision na.abi ewoni pepefuru

sonofluc1fer:
Happy Sallah.

Kingebukasblog dodge this thread like witchcraft. Hehehehe

Jhaytee4all come and get sense. Dangotesmummy too.

I bind you in the name of Jesus. I command you to Die in the name of jesus

IamaNigerianGuy:
1. A lady that wants to screw will screw and find excuses for her randiness. Not judging, just an observation.

2. Education is still the best guarantee against poverty. Dangote, Neymar and others are outliers. No smart person will benchmark himself against them.
Dangote might be employing graduates , but many graduates are also employing people too. Medicine, law, pharmacy, lecturing, civil service, banking, accounting, management, computer science, research, diplomacy, journalism, many political positions, engineering and many other slots are closed to people without higher education.

*yawns*


What education does buhari, dino melaye,tinubu and the likes have?

A whole professor that is 10 times more educated than buhari is the deputy of buhari.tell me another story

sonofluc1fer:
Happy Sallah.

Kingebukasblog dodge this thread like witchcraft. Hehehehe

Jhaytee4all come and get sense. Dangotesmummy too.

I prophecy into your life that you will not have sense till you die

cococandy:
Hard to believe you're not pained. You sound like that

na wa o.see as you don yellow

Your pishore don dey make me wanna bleach and be yellow like you

By the way how's small coco?

cococandy:
I'll teach my child to wait until she's an adult. That way she understands and is more equipped to handle the implications of whatever she chooses to do.

I'm not going to teach her to wait until marriage.

very pragmatic

cococandy:
I'll teach my child to wait until she's an adult. That way she understands and is more equipped to handle the implications of whatever she chooses to do.

I'm not going to teach her to wait until marriage.

by adult you mean how old?

According to Nigerian standard an adult is 18 and for me 18 is wayyyy too young.I think from 24 years upwards is personally what I consider an adult old enough to take responsibility for his/her sexual actions

faith2ogesco:
brossss. Easy abeg I no follow for Dat one

you don't have to

bukatyne:
I am happy you really have the true picture of side chics and I laugh when women say theor husbands come back to them.

I really agree with you that a lot of women aren't in tune with their sexuality that's why they see sex as a chore/duty/favour to their husbands.

I think a balance is needed; teach boys and girls to wait for marriage and gradual introduction into the beauty/importance of sex and sexuality as they grow by both parents.

exactly. When you make sex like a transactional thing of course he will run to someone who's ready to give him front back left right and before you know it the income that should enter the house is going into the side Chic's pocket and to now make matters worse you will see pastors telling the woman to fast and pray so that God will bring back her husband. Even the day he's at home he sees you with unkept hair,bushy atmpit ,tying wrapper on your chest and reading the Bible when the person Sharing your husbands hair is always on fleek with expensive colognes and sexy looking bodies

God,if you see the generation of university students, walahi if you're a married woman who still wants to remain relevant to your husband you will run to the gym and care about how you look,even down to your bra.you won't buy bra that will press your brez inside.there are some gold studed bras side Chic's wear...chisos you need to see them on social media,then your husband let's say forgot his charger or keys and he saw your torn hair net,dirty wrapper tied on your chest and you're smelling of sweat,you think he will touch you even if agro is catching him when there's a more sleek rival out there?

supersystemsng:
I actually ended two relationships because we havent started dating the ladies were like i'll abscound...i couldn't bear the burden of some terrible mindset

it's not their fault but their mothers now made worse by church indoctrination aka youth fellowship in their teenage years and singles fellowship in their 20s where they're taught all manners of misconception about sex and relationships,how any man that sleeps with you before marriage will cheat on you after marriage,how any man that doesn't sleep with you till marriage will respect you and be faithful to you

When I remember all the bs I just shake my head..honestly we have a long way to go in Africa

supersystemsng:
Once you're ready, I can get a lady or two, you do whatsapp meeting with and share i.e. i can facilitate the whole process, you speak with them, they break your ideas down....and compile the book, you review make corrections, then we get a graphic designer to design the book..shikena

OK,I'll let you know when I'm ready but fofor now I'm not ready however you can keep reminding me so I'll not forget

supersystemsng:
Anyway they thought ladies when marriage finally reached that sex should be endured and not enjoyed, now that this generation has tested those boundaries and have found the flawed ideologies, sexual expression emancipated, unfortunately we now also have over-expressiveness of sexuality, chai, another problem on the next generation...the over expressiveness of liberty that pertains sexuality..

yes this generation have seen and realised the lies,hypocrisy and old wives fables of African moms.they see that there's nothing to be chaste about after all he will still cheat

I was jisting with a friends younger sister some years back.she's married now though but before she married I said make sure you don't sleep with any man before marriage and she said abegii let me hear word,these men aren't worth keeping virginity for after all there's no guarantee in marriage.if I need sex I have a couple of fwb boyfriends I can call and I was really surprised

I saw some sense in what she said and all.fast forward to a month ago.I was in my make up artist studio,she was tying my gele for an owanmbe event and a phone call came into her phone,I was hearing a female voice crying and talking on phone saying "he has started again". So my mua asked what is it this time? She said since after a 3weeks wedding he hardly stays at home. He only comes home to pick his phone,read news paper, and go he doesn't sleep at home and when she asks where are you going and when are you coming back he ignores her.this was a man that met her as a virgin and disvirgined her then I now remember what my little friend told me that " aunty there's no guarantee in marriage" let me enjoy my life bow before marriage

And this is the same girl that I'm sure that her mom and aunties will have been feeding her with old wives fables that if you marry as a Virgin,your husband will respect you.now she has entered the marriage thinking what her mother said will happen,only to find out they're all fabricated fables just to deceive her to keep her Hymen.she has realised she has been played

The so called husband doesn't even send her talkless of respecting her and here he is frolicking with ladies that Aren't even virgins

Ladies have realised through exposure to the internet and personal experiences that all their mother's tales,advice and fear generation were all cork and bull

They say if you read your books you'll become successful, if you don't read your books you'll be working for those who read their books

Don't we have people who didn't read becoming millionaires and employing people who read their books to manage their companies and pay them their salaries?

Is neymar a graduate?
Is dangote a graduate?
Are some of these celebrities graduates? Don't they employ graduates?

Is dangote not employing graduates?

cococandy:
Well what do you expect when women are constantly slut shamed for the same behaviors that men are praised for? Those mothers are so concerned about what people will say because they understand that they live among judgmental people hypocrites.