₦airaland Forum

cbkingbeatz:
u dey mind dat mumu... She should go unclad, thèn we will know it's a trend

dsmooth1:
wit ha words to the man she don sow for ha future cos surely wen she grow old wat she told d man will sure b repeated to ha in a diff version... xo d film is cald watch out
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besyd do she av to say anytin or even post wat apend....cos i dnt knw wat simi is trying to achieve with dis post

Gozzzy:
The bunkum na serious homo!!

sonofluc1fer:
Conversing with you is no different from conversing with a robot. Do you have no original thought? The words in the Book you quote were written by men long buried and gone. You read them because those who colonized you read them too.

The Bible isn't about you,wasn't written by you and wasn't addressed to you. The Bible doesn't acknowledge you or your stories. You are just a footnote, a Gentile requiring forgiveness from an Israeli God. You can choose to keep believing those stories if you so wish.

Do not assume I hold the authors and their musings in high regard, as you do.

ecoeco:
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Poverty Baptised men ar going to like dis one

But d truth is nd will remain dat d job of d man is to provide well for d family

If a man cannot make ordinary money he is worse dan an imbeciIe

U know i used to giv excuse for poor men until I met an orphan wo started as a bicycle repairer wo cannot speak gud broken English wo has a masters holder with professional qualification as his employee ( no bloody helper... No bloody connection.... Pure focused genuine hard work)

YOU HAVE NO EXCUSE TO BE POOR

IMBECILES

#Eco99#

sonofluc1fer:
I wonder who taught you. It's obvious he died for his sins. He was killed for blasphemy.


I no send am. He was a young man, upon whom a vicious form of jungle justice was meted. I had no hand in it. I gain no benefits from the sad death of a young man at the hands of an irate Jewish mob.



I personally do not support his hanging, but I understand the crowd's actions. In a world without Instagram and Facebook, there must have been little excitement going in that city.

From nowhere, a young man springs up with his little gang of 12, performing magic tricks at weddings, and feeding huge crowds with bread and fish.

But the man born in a manger, forgot his lowly beginning. He claimed to be God, insulted all that was held sacred, chased and flogged people doing business in the synagogue.

I understand why they hung him on a cross. I dont unserstand how his death concerns me. Or paid for my sins. I must be fully retarded to believe that.

sonofluc1fer:
He was hung on a cross by his own people, the ones he claimed to save. Someone who healed the sick and performed miracles was suddenly turned upon by the same people?

Maybe they finally figured out he was just a magician, playing tricks on them. He was a criminal that deserved his crucifixion.

toyinjimoh:
That guy look like Yahoo boy, I thought Juliet has class

AreaFada2:
Ah! Lots of men now fear the responsibility of having too many kids o.
Many modern women are already "codedly" doing contraception. The injection/depot type & the man is none the wider. After 4 or 5 kids he cannot drive the wife away on ground of infertility.

Many kids come not really because they are desperately wanted but because nothing was done to prevent their conception.
Empowering women is always key.

Remember the percentage of educated men is still higher, so enlightening them is still a bit easier. Why can we not do that
Are you suggesting we should stand akimbo doing nothing about it?

AreaFada2:
Sure culture plays a big role. But culture is not static. It has been evolving steadily. Enlightenment should not be encountered first in hospital. It should begin with community field nurses & midwives, at school and well before childbearing age.

At the moment, the govt hardly justifies the right to tell people what to do with their own reproductive rights. It has no social welfare system to assist the poor, needy or large families.

For example, you are more likely to take the advice of your caring parents, uncle or aunt than those that care less or are aloof. Same with government. Only those who realise that such advice is in own interest irrespective of government attitude that will take it. And that would be better educated, enlightened and those who can weigh things properly.

People need to be empowered. For example targeting uneducated young mothers to take up adult education. In a functioning federal system local councils can be empowered to handle such adult and social education.

Gerrard59:
Pathetic. Appalling. Ridiculous.

Same here. A man whose mason business has seen less demand and contracts decided to worsen his situation and added two kids to three = five children, who are not being fed properly, looked after well and have not started schooling (which if/when they do won't be at proper schools)

Yet another just procreated his 7th child and he relies on his "Pastoral job" to make ends stay afar (surely ends cannot meet). I advised him not to further procreate. I talk tire, offered simple solutions (use condoms, I'll pay for your vasectomy or give the children to orphanages). He did not heed to it.


A false claim people make is that "children are blessings from God". It's a false and deceiving statement. Agberos, Boko Haramites, Evans, Ritualists were "blessings" too. Children become blessings when they are well taken care ADEQUATELY taken care of.

I have left such persons to their fate and focused my fertility activism on the next generation (my contemporaries).

"Giving birth is cheap, raising them is expensive" (Gerrard59, 2016).

1shortblackboy:
this is a a big lie

AreaFada2:
Good. That is reality. Hence I said not much any of us can do to impose our ideals on others. No matter how reasonable or well-meaning they are. People have different beliefs.

It is govt job to enlighten the citizens. Or give social welfare incentives in a stick & carrot manner to check population growth.

efvee:
see ehn... there are still women out there who would survive with you with that monthly amount. The secret is getting the one you can provide for. As for me 100k is too small... considering how I was brought up and where I am now, I can't settle for anything less than 1M #justmythoughts

LexngtonSteele:
All of them are criminals.

Males & females alike.

Israeljones:
Just 4 months? we will know who you will be kissing in 4years....

slayking:
Whoever coined the "police is your friend" slogan.

AreaFada2:
It is not about coming from anybody.

Simple reality is many are having kids without any income at all. Hardly anything you or I can do to stop it.

Many cannot even afford condom. Because free WHO condoms end up in chemists for sale. I saw that as a kid in the chemist decades ago already. Some have no information (that you may have) on how to get free ones. Nor be today.

I while I'd not dare start a family earning below 250K monthly if I was in 9ja environment, millions of people are not going to use yours or my ideal standard as theirs. If they did, there would we far less poverty today.

Now, how many people have you been able to dissuade from having kids in poverty?

In 9ja, we like to sit on the high horse postulating what is ideal & lofty. Meanwhile the opposite is happening all around us. That becomes sheer hypocrisy.

The man is here giving a practical solution on how to manage, not theory.

AreaFada2:
Until your parents get tiredof you when you have more grey hair than them.

People do not have to do as he wrote. But at least he's proffering something practical, not idealistic or theoretical.

Each person can decide that's the standard he wants for himself.

To begin with, anyone in such a situation is already down. But it does not mean he's out.

His zeal, focus & determination will be crucial in years to come.

Bagehot:
Most people don't realize that infidelity is more rampant in poor neighbourhoods. Its in neighbourhoods like that that someone would take advantage of your wife always coming to watch Telemundo to nack her, or your kids coming to charge phones to molest them. It is not uncommon for women in these hoods to have one or two bastards in their flock. An old school mate of mine, whose family were down on their luck, moved to one funny place in Ketu, where its normal for girls to have had 2 kids before 18. Dude was baiting girls with silly things, until he also got hooked impregnating a random girl. Long and short, he has been on the same spot in life since then.

supersystemsng:
Chai, bros have you tried withdrawing 20k recently put it somewhere and spend small small and see what happens after three days...God forbid..

supersystemsng:
I won't say Lagos o... in Ikotun, Abaranje, Ijesha, Okoko, Sibiri, Ojo, life is cheap..I would say Island

supersystemsng:
Brother no woman would easily marry a 20k guy oh... i don't wish it on any lady

supersystemsng:
Chineke me...you go wound person o

supersystemsng:
Bros, some part of Lagos. on the island, you need 200k for apartment yearly oh..otherwise na landlord abeg next week, two weeks time.

supersystemsng:
GBAM @ He who lives without a plan,plans to fail

I',m becoming more and more sympathetic to our ladies by the day...they beatr them blue, yellow.purple, ask for sex, she goes to take loan,beg, buy on credit for the house, she gets abused, the husband who should even try wears cloth hangs around the neighbourhood comes back at night deceiving his own soul and later the woman is labelled a witch...When we tell ladies look lwell before marriage, they don't listen....