₦airaland Forum

solasoulmusic:
Learn to mind your business

on a public forum?

Shut up and grow up clown


I guess nairaland is your bedroom

Precial419:
D tin get as e b. guys jux like using d blame card.ur woman does nt decide only bt d both of u.it takes two tango

when a marriage fails it's the woman
If it's a big wedding it's the woman
If it's a small wedding it's the woman
If a woman has all girls and no boy its the woman
If she has delayed conception it's the woman
If she has mother in-law issues its the woman
If she's beaten it's her fault
If her husband cheats it's her fault

Women hennn.they don turn igba ikole for marriage blamed for everything

solasoulmusic:
A negative person will only focus on the negative aspects of what I said clearly I want a marraige that will last like Abraham and Sarah's didn't go that deep as to say I want to be barren too for 99 years learn to see a response and not go too deep just to prove a point

Rain dey fall abeg

sha learn not to pray amiss.I don talk my own

gemini35:
White weding is western culture,and they don,t invite upto 20 people,even rooney did not invite his brother, westeners don,t do traditional, african like,s to show up or tryna plz people,for me if possible pastor wll come to the traditional marriage ground bless and and wear me my ring,i,don,t send,

that's funny. People go use you do yeye. They'll say o ri ara ile e

Ori boshey shey wedding e

solasoulmusic:
I want a biblical marraige that will last like Abraham and Sarah

haaa you better B careful what you wish for and instead ask God exactly what you want instead of wanting another person's own. Sarah had her first child at 99 years


How many men can wait for their wives that long when his friends and family will be pressurizing him to try his luck outside.they'll tell him at 70 or 80 Mr lagbaja is already a grandfather and you're still waiting for this woman.

Infact her mother in-law will have started calling her a male dog.probably she'll have died before the wife gets pregnant

So you better don't pray amiss or pray for others marriages because you don't know what baggage that's behind that marriage

Acidosis:
and what's so special about the work of a DJ in a small wedding ceremony?

These are some of the stup!d things I won't pay for. Bleep the DJ and whatever he has to offer

who says DJ is compulsory. It's your wedding we're talking about and not any other person's wedding. If you don't want DJ use external sound system and blast your party music to keep your guest in the happy mood

Precial419:
Every blame is on d woman. na only women like better ting or men dont want a wonderful wedding

I taya o.

Alero3Arubi:
But my dream is different from any other person's.
So yes 120k is what is needed for my dream wedding.

lol.then do wedding in your compound na and then everyone is happy. You've helped your groom to save resources.

Gaddafithe2nd:
Bro, have experienced 2 weddings like that. It was just held for 2 to 4 hrs. The family house of the lady was the venue. They are living happily today.

I am not against big wedding. If you can afford it fine but if not it doesn't make sense borrowing to keep up appearances.

The size of wedding doesn't determine how happy the marriage is.even some low standard weddings too have marital crisis. It goes both ways whether big or small.it's those who wanted to do big weddings but couldn't afford it that consoles themselves with that line .lol

Alero3Arubi:
Oh yes oooo.
I must do my dream wedding because if I don't they will finish all the money I have.
My dream wedding wont cost more than 120k.

lol.if you're talking about dream wedding, if you want to make a statement with your wedding and you want to rent a Hall that's well decorated you're talking about 200k upwards. My sister is an event decor so I know about wedding planning to an extent.

120k will only pay for DJ,photographer or make-up artist. Bottom line if you want to keep up with the Joneses as far as wedding is concerned, 120k is just the starting point or preliminary. Ko ka nkan kan

See as he resemble im papa and stand like im papa.


Young man don't be like your father and be slotting in your nuzzle to every car that parks in front of you o

When money is involved how can they run?

Even if gentry breaks Mercy's skull or strips her naked in public she won't run because if she runs there'll be no money to slay

Solution cut your coat according to your size

Must you do dream wedding?

Do small wedding, after your guests get home they won't remember after 2days

Bridal shower isn't necessary if you can't afford it,get regular photographer if you can't do photo book
If you can't afford caterer share puff Puff and plastic bottle water for your wedding guest
You don't have to rent hall.the front of your house is OK.just rent canopy and chairs

Wedding ceremony is just for your family and friends to witness you're married but Nigerians have turned it to something else

Just look for a girl who's not all about the glamour or an instagram slave who lives to impress like the likes of mercy aigbe

frubben:
So u are a lady, chai!!!! So sorry for any hash words used. Never knew u were a lady abi girl. The

I'm a WOMAN

A PROUD BLACK WOMAN

*adjusts bra*

luminouz:
U sound like a Pusey ass nigga!!!! Do u need a prophet to tell u where d marriage is heading? What's with these NL kids sef

shut up

Businessman1986:
Is that not a bit silly and disgusting? The man has made it clear that there's reason, tangible, to distrust, what is there to talk about except extend the "yama yama" situation? The only road now is hard. No spouse should have to manage filth.

smh

pesinfada:
wat abt d person weh use her mouth shout Mouth Action?

anybody can make a mistake while talking especially if you had that in mind before

SonOfAfonja:
Lol Dumbfvck, who is passionate here? Certainly you, cos you took your time to write that epistle up there on someone's matter. She posted her pictures, she did this, she did that, so what? Is that why you had to direct all your frustrations at someone who doesn't know you exist? And who made you a judge over what's moral or not in the society.....Better get a life and leave your incessant blabbing on your so called public forum...Don't even bother to mention me, cos I won't dignify you with a mention.It's obvious you're Jobless, Frustrated and mentally dim or tell me how you conjured up those sh*ts you think about men and what you wrote about me taking her as a role model or having a thing for her.....get a life and come out of daydreaming Dangote....

shut up. Stop pretending. Aren't you a man again? Do you usually have sense when your dick is erected on top another persons wife

You perverted fool as if if opportunity present itself you won't fok her.pretender oshi.be deceiving yourself there thinking you're deceiving anyone. I can see through your hypocrisy

adam500hr:
UNFORTUNATELY, I have had heart to heart talks with her during past incidences, its just seems not to work, and dont have faith seeing it work,I would have to seek a spiritual procedure, call on God. Cos if God fit give me two wonderful pikin thru this woman wey nor dey loyal, then I need not to blow that blessing away.

@Every!, is is best to consult a councilor? I doubt that, cos our first counseling, she gave too much details that even the counselor felt sort of uncomfortable. Will a pastor be advisable? That too depends on the pastor, its only God that can see through a real pastor, some will claim to want to administer help, they use prayers to try to penetrate ones wife. Or is there therapy that can handle this situation?

in addition to why I said you should withdraw from her sexually if you don't trust her fidelity 100% is that let her no go play away match con give another man pregnancy to you.you know that's the trending thing women do now.it will be more disastrous if you discovered that years later.if at all there must be kids between you two make sure you do DNA test before accepting the kids before they play a fast one on you

adam500hr:
UNFORTUNATELY, I have had heart to heart talks with her during past incidences, its just seems not to work, and dont have faith seeing it work,I would have to seek a spiritual procedure, call on God. Cos if God fit give me two wonderful pikin thru this woman wey nor dey loyal, then I need not to blow that blessing away.

@Every!, is is best to consult a councilor? I doubt that, cos our first counseling, she gave too much details that even the counselor felt sort of uncomfortable. Will a pastor be advisable? That too depends on the pastor, its only God that can see through a real pastor, some will claim to want to administer help, they use prayers to try to penetrate ones wife. Or is there therapy that can handle this situation?

well I think there's no problem that doesn't have a solution if you have reasons to doubt her loyalty why then do you want her to have kids for you?don't you know once kids get involved you have no choice that is what she'll use to blackmail you

Secondly if you cannot vouch for her faithfulness you might as well restrain yourself from having sex with her so you don't catch another thing. In all of this think it through. Sleep over it and please don't involve pastors because even pastors have their own marital issues.you no know whether pastor marital issues big pass your own. Apart from that you don't want pastor to be using your story to preach in church. You know some pastors are fond of that.you also don't want your marriage to be gossip topic in church among awon mama gbeborun mother in Israel

Smh

adam500hr:
I have supporting evidence where she degraded me while talking to a man he claims is his friend, talking and making gest of me, once woman don dey shine ur matter to another man, na to open eyes, I dont need no freaking further evidence reason why am still takin thing slow now, I am holding my balls strong on this one, this is one of those many issues I have faced so far. Just getting clearer now.

then discuss with her as husband to wife I said discuss,as in have a civilized discussion devoid of attacks,name calling and confrontations. Tell her you don't like all the disrespect and all and if you disrespected her in front of another woman how will she feel.all you need is a midnight heart to heart conversation and tell her to make her choice. From there you'll know where your marriage is heading to

SonOfAfonja:
My role model? I laugh in spanish, I'm sure you have problems of your own, how you deal with them is totally your business....What I'm saying is mind your own business and stop pokenosing into peoples lives....haba

o please. Mind your business ON A PUBLIC FORUM

Is naira land her bedroom or sitting room?

When she was displaying her marriage all over social media, deceiving herself in the name of PDA she forgot those she was showing off to have brains?

Some people even went as far as digging up her video from 2013.that's what happens when you live for the media

When she was getting all the accolades slay mama,queen mercy,sexy mama her mumu fans didn't tell us to mind our business. She do do do sotey she posted pictures of her on ordinary office shirt inside bedroom.married woman? For what? Media attention. Shebi she has laid her bed?she should lie on it.she has gotten all the attention she was looking for when she was posting every detail of her marriage on social media


The funny thing is your role model still never get sense as she old reach

And of course yes she's your role model if not you won't be defending her so passionately like this.you men are very predictable its either she's your role model or you too want to have a piece of her you want to eat what her husband is eating behind closed doors

SonOfAfonja:
Bia, why izzit you that it is paining ehn?....Why the anger?

oga rant all you want,it's crystal clear that your role model has self esteem issues,loves public attention than her family, always keeping up appearances and couldn't even wait to relax at home,she don enter social media to attract attention so desperately


Tell your role model to get a life no one is interested in her ofege life

jieta:
is people like you that end up washing your wife pant all in the name of cooling her down because she has hot temper

op you are the one that marry her not the other way round, you should boss her and tel her right in her face that she nag too much if she can not control her temper you report her to her parents.

and what is wrong in washing your wife's pants? Doesn't she wash your boxers and singlets, doesn't she Cook your meals and keep the house clean for you so kini big deal? Is marriage a master slave relationship or a complementary/companionship thing

All this Bush narcist sef.so you mean washing her pants will make you feel less of a man abi? Shioorrr

imam07:
I have tried all possible means to change my nagging wife but still,she doesn't change.
Any advice from people b4 it gets worse.

wear ear piece and raise the volume of the music so loud that you cannot hear anything she's saying
Option B leave the house for her

Adam you don't confront people so brashly when you have NO EVIDENCE HOW MUCH MORE YOUR WIFE

If you know you wanted to confront her you should have exercised patience like a funny fox,get your facts right then confession time starts.from there you'll know whether to continue with the marriage or end.however with what you have written e be like say your wife don dey give you proverb. It's for you to understand

safarigirl:
She's back to slay Instagram.... Unfortunately, we don see her finish. She should keep slaying fashion while her husband slays English

why una wicked like this for this nairaland

These ones too want to taste out of his phenese especially the one wey shoot out yash for back.anu yin o semi

So we should fry sand now abi what's this irrelevant information for now?

I'm sick of mercy and gentry news jare. Can they both fok off and go to blazes.why should whatever that goes on in their marriage be littered all over social media? Is their marriage now an entertainment show?

But the bouncer looks handsome and sexy