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kaboninc:
I know say na you go cook all the orisirisi wey una serve for your wedding. E be like say na you go plan my own wedding sef.

TrapQueen77:



She almost nailed it but the photoshop wasnt good enaf instead of having a rounded azz, her is pointy like boobi€

Nne5:
Its a good thing she's walked outta the marriage but I've heard enough of her issues too.

kaboninc:
This woman sef

Saintmary:
In fact, society's expectation is one of my major concern. I'm thinking of discussing with my Dad to allow us do the wedding away from home so I can spend as low as I want. Is it not my wedding?

MrDandy:
When they taste the vanilla rod once, there brain ain't the same anymore

mysticgal:
It doesn't matter what you do,they'd go for who they want

morganwizzy55:
my guy go collect loan from bank he spend almost 3m for wedding hoping say them go give am sumtin on wedding day.bro all they do na to chop and go. the guy won mad.up till now he never recover

mysticgal:
The babe was an invertebrate animal,no bones that crush. She get mind sha

solasoulmusic:
Because I want the world to see the real you always engaging and saying long bullshit but a defensive turtle when it's done to you

xcllaxix:
The problem is that some ladies have turned the whole wedding thing to some kind of competition among Friends..To outdo each other in event splendour..If as her man u try to advise that u guys cut costs,she immediately blackmails u by saying u don't love her enough...it needs to stop...its what comes after the event that matters.. Not the event itself..

Precial419:
Dis got me laughing. d worst thing is men will claim dat dey control am still lukin 4 d aspect

mysticgal:
As me I was watching that part,I told myself ;"if I were the one,I for come down for the motor,go my papa house go rest "
After doing all the shii when I was single I'd still be struggling for my husband again.
Abeg I dey hungry, who get akpu as I get old soup

solasoulmusic:
See us see the problem in Nigeria first their advising you then their insulting you then they are victims

Dangotes mummy you get scoin scoin

solasoulmusic:
I dey city sorry but wil love to one day sha make I know as my mates dey no be by force madam to engage person as Rain dey fall

I ain't here for you... you wrote an epistle you would have never written to your own sister so forgive me if I blank you on that how many paragraphs of a negative view on what I said and your belle no bitter

mysticgal:
I tire oh

cruchenuti:
Maintenance cost of Olosho you mean?

eyinjuege:
So its the ladies that are stopping the men from getting married again?

Let us tell ourselves the truth, its not compulsory you marry a woman who is not on the same page as you are. Stop writing as though you are been forced by the woman into the union.
Is it compulsory you use a photographer of 200K?

Even the bride price, and bridal items. The men need to talk to themselves because I've never heard of a bride price been paid to the females in the family of the bride. It goes to the head of the family, possibly extended family who is usually a man. All those drinks, and yam, and all sorts you bring for bridal sturvs please ask the men in the family to change their traditions.
We all know the power lies with the men to change their family traditions.

Men need to talk to themselves, and the earlier you start taking responsibility the better.
Op, you can start with the men in your family, and ask them to stop collecting bride price for your sisters and aunties in the family.

You can do only the registry wedding if you want, just do something if you're interested in making your union official. I know women who did only registry wedding with their husbands, and that has been enough for them.
I know some who did traditional after 16 years of been legally married, with 3 kids, and a lot of pepper.

mysticgal:
And they go still chop your food?

solasoulmusic:
My dear charity begins at home in your case e kpele

For the rest of Nigeria can you see why we cannot progress because women who absolutely
Have nothing to do with their time will come and make stupid comments maybe even a curse or two and then insult you when you ignore and you want to be dangotes mummy ? Or is that a fact

Honestly for the last time Rain dey fall abeg

LARRYKING1:
These and lots more are what we get when we make the worldly life our priority. Some guys too don't date simple and easy going girls, but the extremely beautiful, heavily dressed and super hot girls unknown to some that the maintenance cost of such girls is very high talk more of the wedding ceremony.

My opinion though!

mysticgal:
A person who borrows to wed doesn't have sense,I as a woman would even use such man as a puppet .
Who knows he would borrow for his burial.

Acidosis:
This thread is an eye opener, it will go a long way in saving a life, a home.

For those planning to secure loans from friends and families, please have a rethink. It is not worth it. Invite only a few persons, it will save you a lot of stress, money and time.

Set your own standard and don't allow yourself be moved or shaped by Instagram slay pictures and glamorous video. Some of those weddings were sponsored by the same people that ruined the destiny of this nation. Trying to be like a man that stashed over N13billion in Ikoyi with your 100k or 200k salary is tantamount to stupid!ty. Even if the couples are real and rich enough to afford all that glamour, they only constitute less than 0.5% of the actual number of people who get married on a daily basis.

Set your own standard and priorities and stick with it.

Precial419:
D tin get as e b. guys jux like using d blame card.ur woman does nt decide only bt d both of u.it takes two tango