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tayorh:
1. Your parents don't like the guy.

2. Sign up for anger management classes.

3. Learn to table your issues in a more subtle manner.

4. Let him explain what he doesn't like about you even if he won't come back to you, you can work on the bad ones so as to not make the same mistake again.

5. The guy is definitely crazy about you, travelling to the United States to see you.

6. The guy's parent probably warned him to leave you because you are materialistic.

7. Sit Down, be Humble.

1.possibly
2.unnecessary
3.agree
4not necessary. Do a self examination yourself. You don't need anyone's opinion to evaluate where you're wrong. The next man might not think the same way.people are different and what annoys people differs
5.kini big deal.he came OF HIS OWN ACCORD.HE WASN'T FORCED OR EMOTIONALLY MANIPULATED.he could have communicated with her via Skype,phone calls, text messages, whatsapp video calls or messages.I mean there are many ways of communicating to others in another country. This is 2017.ICT is everywhere so don't make it look as if he did her a huge favor. He felt like going that's why he went if he didn't want to go nothing will make him to
6.did she say she's the vain or materialistic type whobis always asking her boyfriend for everything
7.msheewwww.so because a relationship didn't lead to marriage that is what made her not humble.


Smh

Sammiejokes:
Was there any point in the over hype girl post where she said the guy is not committed, a guy that flies to US just to see his babe deserve an award, am sure the guy is not a gold digger and has something going for him, no man wants a wife that nags on trivial issues and make him feel cheap. The guy better run for his life and up his game, the family has indirectly rubbish him. Am sure wherever the guy dey, I pray God enlarge your hustle and give you a good lady with better family. Amen

just a gold box is now something too much to satisfy your wife/family

In some cultures,I don't want to mention the name of the ethnic group because I'm not here for tribal nonsense.

In some ethnic groups where a groom will spend millions of naira on bride Price. Buy expensive wrappers for the brides mother and father, palmwine for brides uncles and other extended family nko? They will call those people gold digger.just box


Oyinbos say WHATEVER IS WORTH DOING IS WORTH DOING WELL. so it's either you do it well or you don't do it at all.yes I understand that she is taking a trivial issue seriously but at least COMMUNICATE before coming to a dead end instead of just making an abrupt and rash decision

Emmahunk:
Engaged to a guy for guy for SEVEN YEARS!
What were you thinking?

that was her own fault

First year she wasn't able to identity whether the relationship was worth it it not
Second year her brain wasn't still functioning
Thrird year she didn't know what she wanted out of life and her relationship
4,567!!!!!

ChiefSweetus:
OP sounds like a silver spoon entitled petulant nag with snobbish mother who didnt work hard but became proud when her gentle husband hit gold.

Mother wants society wedding with Chief & Mrs Bleep's rich and handsome son.

OPs boyfriend is selfmade. His monthly earning is about 600k right now.. but they dont know he's going to be way more successful in 10yrs. Even if they know, they dont care.. they want their sweet and intelligent USA PHD daughter to marry into old money or "pedigree".

OPs boyfriend is finally realising the truth. There will be no happiness with an insatiable horror of a mother in law.. and a naive nagging entitled sanctimonous princess bride who doesnt even suck dïckkk.

His ego has kept him in the relationship thus far because he enjoys his friends telling oboy your babe set.. fine girl, rich family, even if she no sabi cook baba una go hire maid.

Also, OP is Roman Catholic and boyfriend isnt.

If I'm wrong on any of these I'll delete my NL.

my God.where did you get all these from

How do you people get to judge and conclude on a person's life history based on what she typed here? So it is wrong for a woman to WANT because she's a woman.SHE CANNOT WANT? After all you men say I WANT A HARDWORKING WOMAN
I WANT AN INTELLIGENT WOMAN
I WANT A BEAUTIFUL WOMAN


but a woman should not want or know what she wants because she's a woman and for her to want makes her unreasonable, spoilt over pampered and entitled.



What kind of men are our mothers raising for goodness sake.smh

MASTERCC:
You are not a wife material.
Not even ashamed of yourself... We had a fight
The man ran away cos he saw tomorrow

haaa.I don't understand your post sir I thought all relationships are all about disagreeing to agree. In every relationship conflicts of interest and plans are inevitable but through it all both parties should be able to come to or reach a happy ending. Conflicts is supposed to enhance relationship or a means to understand your partners idiocyncracies better and not to destroy relationships

For example you fight with your boss over how a particular work should go or if he's not seeing it from your perspective. If the said job or boss doesn't reason with you do you because of that resign?don't you find a way of working things out to enhance a better working relationship

If you have disagreement woth your siblings because you have different school of thought over a particular issue do you now say because of that you don't want to have anything to do with them

The point is friends disagree,office colleagues disagree,church members disagree, parents disagree, couple disagree. Infact anywhere human beings are and there's something valuable at stake there'll always be disagreement but in all the Bible says we should love one another AS GOD LOVED US.God doesn't love us less because we're black,selfish, don't go to church, fat ,slim,white,Muslim, Buddhist, Christian or whatever. He loves us UNCONDITIONALLY even with our human flaws so if you say you are a child of God why can't you love your fellow human being you can see unconditionally irrespective of even though you don't agree on every issue

Moreover Yoruba's say because you have headache doesn't mean cutting off the head is the solution. More like you don't throw away the baby with the bath water .in any case who is Mr or miss perfect.we are all imperfect .if you have disagreement with Mr a because you don't agree with him on an issue,you get to the house you quarell with your neighbor because he did this,you get home you quarell with your wife because she did that.please who will you talk to.who will be there for you in times of challenges

This talkative woman kemi olunoyo comes to my mind now.who is there for her now that she has fought with everyone

lanrywatt:
You are the best person to tell us if the relationship is worth fighting for or not. From your write up, it obvious the guy is not into you like that, it seems you are the one forcing the whole thing on him.. .. Abeg let him be. Move on with your life.
Someone better will come

exactly my thought. If you fight to make him committed you Will keep fighting and begging for him to be committed or stay committed. You don't want anybody to make you feel like he's doing you a favor for marrying you

Chiefpriest1:
Just look at the person above. What kind of mindset is this? And this is a woman o!

So, because she doesn't want to be a single mother , she should stay and get killed?

You are one of Nigeria's problems. She wasn't beaten. So, she broke her own skull?

Do you read at all? Haven't you heard the confirmation from Lagos state government about how she was vomiting blood? Or she bribed or slept with the government too?

it is an animal that's why

enemyofprogress:
So she tooked the father of her childrens to court, Na wa o

but he didn't brutally attack the mother of his child like a savage animal

Kdon2:
your generation

your ancestors

Where are the women NGOs in pH.refer her there

So its this little girls ass that is worthy of discussion. Smh

Women want to be respected but will never respect themselves

ade95bay:
why this one come black like this na.

e be like say her mama bleach

The judge was quite lenient with him.in some countries like China,India or Arab countries that hate Nigerians it's death sentence

At least he will see free food and accommodation for life,make new friends and all only difference is that his freedom is already taken from him.he won't work or fok for the rest of his life

I think that's a fair bargain. It's better than either death sentence,being imprisoned in Nigeria or even been free in Nigeria because even the ones that are free are in jail.indebted to bills etc for the rest of their lives

Kdon2:
thanks for the lecture. I hope i nigeria rest now. Dimwit

o yes.but Nigeria cannot rest till foolish men like you have sense

Secondary school children already raping?what's this world turning into

shamecurls:
Whats the use of getting married after hitting menopause?

abi o.both of them are beautiful and have succeeded in their careers

Smh

spaggyy:
Disgraceful act


She lacks shame

how? Explain please

soberdrunk:
Slay grandma......

but she doesn't have a child talk less of a grandchild so which one be slay grandma again?

See her cute sober face like I didn't know

Chaiii she too wan do slay mama by force without working. Pele tie.those warders go use your kitten do breakfast lunch and supper for prison

tosyne2much:
You forgot to add the ones who give testimonies of how many students they sent parking due to examination malpractice

that one na testimony

The man

BlueRayDick:
Number 4 is Dr. B.R Yusuf of accounting department, LASU. The man will set question wey dey do ICAN sef no go get A, and will be gong from one hall to another to laugh at the student's misery in the various hall

the man must be a funny person

manosteel:
What is that my hand is touching? Sir nothing dey there, Na my thing.

that's how one of thosr invigilators during NY days in the university caught a female student cheating and saw where she kept her expo (inside her bra). The next thing he just shouted.you stand up.that girl on blue I said stand up,walked up to her and just unexpectedly forced his hands into her bra and while trying to bring out the paper she inserted into her bra he brought out one part of her brez.the whole hall scattered that day.see noise .lol

The one who will come to the exam Hall, sit in front directly opposite to you and be reading newspaper

The one who make to mark answer scripts.that one usually sits at the back and doesn't care if you're cheating but if he or she hears the noise or whispers are too much She'll start banging the table and be shouting heyssss

The Mr itk invigilator that will be walking up and down the exam hall till the exam finishes,be harassing students and telling them to stand up if he suspects anything from that line or exchange sits

The invigilator who came with his food flask to eat and be making the whole place smell of food while others are writing exam

The lady/chic lecturer who is pinging. That one usually sits at the back to ping and caresless except the noise is too much

The association of lecturers that are Jisting and planning to fail an unserious student

The Oyo Muslims have met their match

This one will not shut up.you impregnated another persons pikin,they pressurized and forced you to Marry her you're now coming here to rant.fun awon tani?

ziga:
Who decided on what was decent or indecent.

A panel of Nigerian men?

I taya o

The ones raping 6 month old infants up and down

Old women sef are not spared

chiefojiji:
My house.......



If he is not in the family house, Can her sister try all dos nonsense

I have suggested the solution

dfrost:
I'm telling you. Weakling for a man. He should just own up and admit that he has a side chick

another yellow mumu is already in the corridor waiting for mercy to leave so She'll resume

SHOCK7:
're u sure can u show some source?

check instagram