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illitrate:
Gbam..

the whole arrangement is too good to be true and shrouded in so much secrecy. If not why is it jumoke and what's so special about her? She looks like any typical bread hawker and more so millions of hawkers have been plying that street and she none was noticed. She didn't dress extraordinarily and in a way to attract attention more so NOBODY DOES ANYTHING FOR NOTHING. NOBODY JUST TAKES A RANDOM STREET HAWKER AND BRINGS HER IBTO THE MODELLING INDUSTRY FOR NOTHING IF NOT THAT THERE'S SOMETHING AT STAKE.THEY WANT TO USR HER AS A TOOL FOR THEIR PAROCHIAL AGENDA.she's a good tool because she's an illiterate girl so she can't ask questions and she'll be oblivious of what documents she's signing. Why didn't they pick an educated girl or at most someone that can read


Nigerians dont HELP for NOTHING.

adorablepepple:
Don't you know they play politics in nollywood. It's always the who know who that they feature

not just in nollywood but its everywhere in Nigerian work sector

Nepotism is the order of the day. What concerns them with merit. In Nigeria nepotism and tribalism overplays merit

In the banking sector
Academic sector
Industrial sector
Judicial system
Entertainment industry
Etc

illitrate:
what stopped them from using the real olajumoke, is she too big to play her role?

I'm still suspecting that jumoke matter is a hoax just to make ty bello relevant.

I have a feeling planned work was at play and no accidental photo bombing hence she can't play the role

crazyABO:
Hmmm naija I hail thee! I knew something like this was gonna happen waiting for THE MISSING CHIBOK GIRLS

there's already a nollywood movie on chibok girls.as if you no trust them

Shebi they sell penis enlargement cream everywhere. Buy it na

The innocent blood being spilled on the ground is too much and they're crying out for justice
Today bokoharam
Tomorrow ritualists
Next tomorrow its beating wives to death

Nigerians change

Chaiii another one bursted

But at least una no suppose disgrace am na

Yahoo guys nko?
She males nko
The talkative guys that strike a conversation with you in the cab and then talk and talk till you're sick of their voice

Just endure their excesses till you get your own house

CoCoLav:
OP, I guess you are the first/only daughter and you are igbo. First daughters are a symbol of pride and I get where your mum is coming from. Your boyfriend I believe after seven years should have known the kind of family you come from and so should have known the type of gifts to bring. Most of the people commenting here wont dare bring cheap/fake wine to their prospective in-laws. Its because you mentioned gold thats why their mouths are running. As the poster before me said, whatever is worth doing is worth doing well. How can you buy cheap items for the girl you want to marry knowing very well her family background? Its like buying cheap ankara you know her mother will never ever wear. Where is the pride in that? How many of you guys bought cheap ankara instead of hollandis for your prospective mother in laws? You saw that ankara was cheaper but that element of respect wont allow you buy the cheap ankara.

I am not saying he should have bought things he ordinarily cannot afford like a car or the most expensive wristwatches but have some respect for the parents of your future wife. Imagine buying something so cheap for your prospective inlaws that the very next day it starts to peel off, wont that be embarrassing? For the mum to have sent the items to the girl, it means she was trying to prove that she was not exaggerating. The guy even admitted that he didnt know the items will get to the girl which means he knew they were cheap items..maybe from Yaba or Tejuosho.

This is not the normal gift situation where it is not the value but the thought that matters. This is about showing I can take care of your daughter...thats African culture. If OP had fought because she wants Instagram wedding, thats a different story and she can be blamed.

OP you even messed up too. You are supposed to ask what he is taking and plan together so that where you see he is falling short, you add money to it and help him save face in front of your parents. Your manner of approach must have also added to his fury and words must have been said. Next time, try to find a better way to approach the topic, maybe by suggesting he buy additional items and take to your family, you dont have to tell him exactly what your mum said but be tactful and diplomatic. Your mum just wants to be able to show her friends what her prospective son-in-law bought for her especially if you are the only daughter. She may also be worried that he may not be able to take care of you to the standard you were brought up and you may end up being the breadwinner. No parents want their child to suffer.

Your parents obviously dont need his money or his gifts, they need him to show how much he values their daughter and it is obvious from the china gifts he bought just how much he values you.

best advice ever.perfect response. Exactly my sentiments

Calling the man that hasn't married you your husband. When he's done with your v@gyna he'll move to the next bimbo

Everyday you'll just keep seeing beautiful girls without sense.

By the time he breaks your heart you will not let bom or fin rest with lamentations. Shioorr

E be like say mercy story never do you.girls just keep getting stewpid everyday. Na only make up and selfie them sabi

jkfugghhghjdd:
Awolowo the ratak drinking fa.ggot.

Rest in pieces

lol.if he's gay will he be married

Sammiejokes:
Hmmmn dangotemummy can relate to this issue. he chose to go because he wanted to go and not because he loved her. Hmmmn I now know where u coming from. experience is the best teacher.
Hmmmn dangotemummy can relate to this issue. he chose to go because he wanted to go and not because he loved her. Hmmmn I now know where u coming from. experience is the best teacher.

na so

[quote author=padiga047 post=56382240][/quote]even public toilets are 100000000 times cleaner than your house.I'm sure your house will be booming with repugnant smell

[quote author=padiga047 post=56382173][/quote]smello,dirt lover
Obun
Piggy

[quote author=padiga047 post=56382040][/quote]hahahahahha tour thrash your world

I pity your wife o.na everyday she go dey sleep and wake up with dirt all around her

She for don clean up your dirty tire

padiga047:
you talk trash really.

Go through your posts.

you look like thrash yourself. Check all the pictures you've posted really

neocortex:
I guess you have nothing to say.
An indecisive man break off a 7 years relationship and you called
that a bad advice.
So, she should keep thinking or commit suicide because a man
broke up with her ?

In my opinion, she just dodged a bullet.

gbam


If she entered his house she will become a shadow of herself. Either a sex slave or a victim of domestic violence.infact before her parents know what their daughter is going through she'll have been almost dead

[quote author=padiga047 post=56382012][/quote]lmao have you taken your drugs this morning?

bamasite:
OP PLEASE READ THIS PERSON I QUOTED WELL. HE/SHE HAS SAID IT ALL.....PERSONALLY, I CANT PUT UP WITH TOO MUCH DRAMA MYSELF

The guy is fed up with too much drama. from the look of things, you need to work seriously on your EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE(EQ). For example, he used your laptop to watch porn. Fine, I know the negative effects of porn-trust me I do. But instead of a fight, you ought to discuss the matter with him. To know why he was watching it and if it is not ok with you, both of you reason a way out of it.

Porn is the only form of sex education most people resort to in secret of course because they are too much of a 'saint' to discuss sex openly. porn is scripted and faked and hence they learn the wrong things.

This is why we all need the female orgasm mastercourse...there is no other complete sex education package like this I know of. You can see it here:http://successsecrets01..com/2015/12/how-much-do-you-know-about.html

second ded

padiga047:
15 posts, NO SENSE.

that's because you're senseless and lack capacity to think

neocortex:
When a person you don't want in your life decides to opt-out, so
your reaction will be to feel sad and complain ?

Any sane man/woman will actually celebrate such event not brood over it.

So your comment is pointless and illogical.

exactly

neocortex:
I will advise you post in pidgin so people can understand your comment.
Your indecisive hero waited 2,3...7 years before he realise he doesn't
want marriage using a flimsy excuse.

What a coward he is!

big one.the guy man should just have said he has found another orente instead of using gold box as a cover up excuse.shioorr

A friend said if a man wants to stay nothing will make him leave even if Kim kardashian is giving him free pussy breakfast lunch and supper and if he wants to leave no amount of grammar will make him stay.it was already on his mind to go.he was just waiting for the right time and perfect excuse

tayorh:
4. Someppu don't know when they are wrong, they always believe Whatever they do is right. She might not see anything wrong with her behaviour.

5. My point exactly, he could have stayed back but he chose to travel, only a guy who loves his babe wil leave Nigeria to the USA to see her.

6. She ruined her relationship because he bought inferior Gold, pls what does that mean?

4 an adult? A grown woman? OK na tell her to go and steal in broad day light and when caught she should say she didn't know stealing is wrong. She doesn't know when she's wrong my fat ass

5.he chose to go BECAUSE HE WANTED TO GO AND NOT BECAUSE HE LOVED HER because if he actually loved her a trivia/minutel issue like this shouldn't have threatened the relationship
6 agree.but they both did because they were in it together.

[quote author=padiga047 post=56381192][/quote]lmao

You really represent what is in there.you're actually a thrash and ,nonentity

Sammiejokes:
Thrash. if she wants gold she can get it as a PhD holder to be. She has no moral right to be angry on issue of bride gifts as a feminist that you are. Who PHD help, when it comes to relationship, PHD is irrelevant and no one care about her PHD in marriage. be a wife and mother provb 31

gbam.that's why I said if it's about her PhD that is making your penis or ego threatened receive sense because PhD has nothing to do with marriage I see some of you that sees a woman with a masters or PhD you start getting unnecessarily aggressive when no one is fighting with you

PhD is like any cloth or shoe.its a possession and when you think PhD is a threat to your ego you're not a man and meanwhile shut up with the feminist thing. Go and find out what feminism means before misusing the word

And yes if she wants gold She'll get it herself. True that but it's what her family wants so I repeat again WHATEVER IS WORTH DOING IS WORTH DOING WELL.be a man and stop letting stuffs like this get to you

[quote author=padiga047 post=56381005][/quote]dude your house is irritating.it's not a sight to behold at all.stop displaying your dirtiness.

[quote author=padiga047 post=56380888][/quote]you seem to enjoy filth a lot. You love dirt around you.seems you cannot clean yourself up talk more of your environment. Pigs will love your type of person so you can keep them as pets.they'll make a good company for you since your environment is habitable for them

Sammiejokes:
Seems u kept a blind eye to where she wrote the father insisted they keep the gift simple, he is not selling his daughter. What do you expect the guy to do when his fiancee breaks up on issues like porn. The Lady should look for a pastor abegi.

what she wants is not wrong her only fault is wrong manner of approach.

[quote author=padiga047 post=56380774][/quote]filthy thing.see how dirty your environment is and you cannot clean it up


You must be a very dirty person.do you take your bath everyday? Obun oshi.pig

dotedote:
Was it also the mother that asked her to turn the porn matter to an issue ?
Op needs to be talked to.
Swallow all ds ya yeye pride and live simply.

I'm indifferent about porn.porn is relative.some people think its morally wrong the religious folks think it's a sin but I don't see any big deal in watching porn as long as you're not addicted or trying to practice whatever you watch in it because the actors are on drugs ,strong sedatives and aphrodisiacs so watching it and expecting your partner to have sex like a sex slave is unreasonable.

Secondly I don't know why you men think when a woman has wants its pride.this is what she wants the only problem is her approach which was wrong. She came in as someone with an entitlement mentality instead of being more discrete

As for her PhD, PhD is like any other degree so you men having inferiority or superiority complex or her PhD is making you feel threatened or less of a man,one word grow up

gbegudujo:
Babe my wife said; you are too proud, saucy and arrogant.

egbami.

Has your wife lived with her,worked with her or knows her that personally for her to reach that conclusion. Does she also know the guy in question