₦airaland Forum

dfrost:
I thought he said he didn't beat her.

this dude is a liar.first it was pictures from her movie the victim,next she didn't cook for me and my son and now she's mentally unstable. His lines no correlate .choose your lie

Secondly does a mentally unstable woman travel to Dubai to meet a man?

Lanre lanre just let your opeke enter because this your lie henn

slurryeye2:
What?

Seems she was a deeper lifer then

na the what's up deeper life dey dress like this

prettyboi1989:
some people will come and say such rule is against the constitution and hence it is null and void. awon shallow thinkers

if not that they're mad and its looking like there's more to this indecent dressing than meets the eye have they finished dealing with cultism,substance abuse,rape and examination malpractice. It's the one that is showing cleavage or waist they're after if not that they're not serious minded

They haven't yet said what is doing them.even pervs have sexual arousal when they see s.u or naked children. A perv in suit or any academic or administrative position is a perv,they're just imposing fake moral codes to cover their disgusting and uncontrollable impulses

Awon oponu.should that be the priority. The educational system is deteriorating on a regular basis,Nigerian graduates of Nigerian products cannot compete internationally with their colleagues in their respective discipline, there's infrastructural decay in universities. There aren't adequate equipments in the laboratory, the chairs and tables can barely accommodate students. Some students sit on the windows,some stand etc and instead of raising researchers, inventors and good products so that they can come and contribute their own quota to the development of the Nigerian society it's Indecent dressing that's their problem.

Have they finished dealing with lecturer to student sexual harassment fake admission officers,ghost workers.it's indecent dressing

Nigerians and misplaced priorities. Like a house burning, instead of struggling to take out the valuables as much as possible, you left that one and started chasing the rat .smh

chiefojiji:
1. brother, leave your family house!

2. I think your sister is having a trait of a bastard in her blood{Omo ale jati jati} ..... Blood is thicker than water!

3. You need to treat your so call sister like a naughty girl, beat sense to her sense.... How can anyone in my family beat up my wife

4. Be a man! Cus u are the only man in the family, no matter your position in the family, you're the head now!


Olorun aba yin yoju e e ooooo ooo......

5. Leave your family house!

leave his family house and go to where?

DEBJOCH1:
Yoruba at their old age still staying at their parent house, you exposed your wife to all that, why moved to your fathers house? If you where to be at your rented apartment will she have the mind to dare that? Evil sister every where. I pity for your sisters husband.

not everyone is financially stable from the onset.he said he's staying TEMPORARILY with his mom to keep her company and till hes able to find where to stay

Larasisi:
Honestly I agree with the poster above any Military personnel in the house should help a brother. If she is mad once she is handled the way she deserves she will produce the certificates and pay for damages for all she destroyed.
Sorry Bro .

exactly. She should refund the money for the damages caused ego hospital bills for treatment of your wife,money for clothes,toys and transportation.

Yoruba's will say toba kuru wa na kuru toba ga wa ba ga

Tokziby:
My dear friend, Violence never stops violence, it only brew more and before u know it, many things will get destroyed. There is no where in the world that violence is used to stop violence, its only dialogue than can bring peace. The gentility of a tiger does not make him stupid. The only way to defeat a violent person is through patience and strategy. By the time he packs his belongings and leave for another place with no one to know where he lives. And when they come in contact its only greetings that ends their conversation. By the time no one gives her attention and people face their business, do u think she will still have the right to attack anyone without any form of provocation. The most deadliest weapon that can defeat a woman is to deny them attention. There is an adage that says," never argue with a stupid person cos he will bring u down to his level and beat u with experience". Same thing goes for a violent person. All u need is to do the opposite, deny them the environment required to create more violence and go ur own way.
The woman is a typical psychopath that thrives in violence

is it not ignoring they've been doing all this years that turned the sister into an animal and makes her think she can misbehave any how she likes .some elders in my place says it's madness to be doing the same thing and expect a different result and that's exactly what is happening in Nigeria. We have been dealing with the same problem using the same approach that's why nothing is working instead Nigeria is sinking deeper into more problem after problem. His case doesn't require gentle man approach of ignoring. That's not how you deal with touts to get off your back, you use extreme violence. You stoop to their level and give them counter violence if not the harassment and disrespect will continue in a worse dimension

lekibraky:
If she keeps denying ever taking her certificate please i valve the police to know where she kept it because she might have torn it and it will make her continue to deny bit if it is authority that are dealing with her she will confess another thing is that when you report her to the police they will make her sign an undertaken not even to quarrel anyone not to talk of fight anyone whenever she comes to that neighborhood. Then you can continue to stay with your mother and plan better place to rent cos renting house is not easy too u can meet bad neighbors

does he have money for all that abi you nor know say any matter wey don involve police go attract continuous spending of money for police matter

sharp2dacore:
Hi

Let me address this quoted section.

If you are here asking for our advise because she's your sister, then News Flash, no real sister behaves like your sister does.

If she really did all the things you said here, then she needs to be taught a lesson.

I don't want to be diplomatic or politically correct, but violence begets violence.

If you beat up my wife and tire my clothes, destroy my belonging and steal my certificates, then what you see, you will take.

If you are someone's sister, then behave like a sister and not an animal. If you behave like an animal, I will spend my last cash to treat you like

an animal and if you survive it, your brain will be permanently reset to normal.

Rubbish...

exactly my point. It's because of too much petting ,ignoring and pampering that she deteriorated to that stage.if you can't get thugs to beat her.beat her yourself. Beat her in public, tear her clothes and her bra.if anyone asks you why you're beating her and stripping her naked tell them she's your sister and so you can do whatever you like with her that it's a family issue so they should mind their buisness

If she disgraces you,give her a worse disgrace in the presence of people that know her.if she's wearing wig pull out the wig and fling it anywhere make sure she goes home stark naked that before she sees people that will give her cloth it will be a far area


Female rascals are the most dangerous people to deal with so you have to be strategic in your attack. Hit her where it hurts. Na she go confess herself

Or why do you think the only instrument police use in forcing confession out of criminals is violence or do you think if they use the oyinbo approach e go work. My dear in your case violence ends violence if you keep doing she's my sister for her she'll keep misbehaving. She needs an iron hand that will end all her craziness make she sef know say no be only her get craze for Head.apparently if she was in the university She'll make a good female capon leader of cultist but this is not campus, this is reality. Com

ejosh4:
To be very frank with you, I think your sister is taking advantage of the fact that “There is nothing no one can do to me if I misbehaves". She has grown with this mentality and right now it might be difficult for her to stop.

There are several ways to deal with such kind of women, One of such is using her emotions to your advantage. One of the weakest part of a woman is her emotion. For the mere fact she is your sista gives you an advantage cos u know her darkest moments which you can use to witchunt her soul. There are things you tell a woman and you break down her soul. Tell her how her action have made her a laughing stock in d community. In doing this you must not show any form of aggressiveness, it must be done when u alone with her with a calm voice and a smiling face. She wud see u as a devil @ first ......
But then she wud think over it moments she is alone ..... And am sure it would make her feel guilty......And such behaviours wud b reduced drastically

story.what a futile waste of time

Op there are some things that will crop up if you take her to the police station because police do not settle matters they aggravate it.the question police will ask you was that how do you know she was the one that tore your wives clothes and stole your documents? Who was at home when this happened etc like that.

Solution; get better thugs to beat her.they should beat her to the point of humility where Shell confess where she kept your wives stop.you don't play gentle man with female rascals

This one just wants to disgrace herself. You will not go and sit down in one place and eat your meatpie of shame in peace

But she's right tho

It's the rain of alliction that will befall all those liars, back stabbing animals, criminals and brutes that are in that building destroying Nigeria's destiny for their parochial interest

Painment.whether he spell am as Maary or mmary he sha don propose.go and die

Which year will this one have sense

Always misyarning as if his brain is inside his penis

Nukilia:
Lol, they finally got her.
Lesson: Always learn to keep your marital issues out of social media, then you're rest assured that things will go well in your marriage.

I'm sure another woman is about to pack in. Lol

he has said it himself if she packs out another woman will pack in


Another bimbo is on the way.mercy tenure don expire

kennygee:
This one na "my mama vomit me".

she doesn't look like her mom 1 bit

How was the animal able to successfully penetrate his penis into a baby's vagina in the first place. An infant?

Knetpro:
Dangotesmummy, hihihihihi!!! kikikikikiki!!! Hai!!! Kai!!! Zo mana!!!

what is zo mama again o.what does that mean?

Sparkle777:
Hmmm, not u dearie. I was referring to don j.dat he shld look in Nairaland as u suggested.
irony, sacarsm, metaphors lost to u?
Ewwwww at ur reply.

o better

nickyvick:
Banky W and Adesua should marry already. They look good together.

he has already proposed to her today in real life

These fools should shut up.if she plays hard to get una go abuse am.if she plays easy to get una go still abuse am.una no dey taya.oya na kukuma marry yourselves since na only una know everything and women are fish brains as una dey say

Una don start.enemies of good things.una no know anything except to wish others bad.them never even wed una don dey help them speculate their separation

The down sides of posting your marital plans on social media.awon werey gbogbo.enemies of progress

Shebi he said the picture was from her movie "victims"

My gentry the LINUS

so it's no more from movie.why you con dey beg.ashotie le.you no get liver but you get power to beat woman

Money miss road illiterate

I no too blame you anyway. Mercy no too get sense.the thing wey she suppose use get sense,she don rub am as pancake

Next news jare

Sparkle777:
Yes ooh, Don jazzy. I dey hia dey wait. Com mae we act and marry oo. It haff tayed I been dey love u. No wess time,mbok.

hennn escuse me mah I am not a lesbian.I dont do v@gyn@s.I do phenese.not just phenesees,big black ones,sorry,check next bustop maybe you will see another woman who's into women

All this lesbians making advances at me sef

Don jazzy

Log into nairaland there lies your answer

kinibigdeal:
Is she still a virgin?

This her vagina na gold and emerald o.for her to hook down her sugar daddy with marriage

kizyalex10:
Myself nd i

so you mean say you park for road snap picture. That's nice

delishpot:
So that justifies his beating her up? Typical tactics of abusers. They abuse you and then tell you how important you are in their lives.How you made them mad leading to their action. I dont see any sorry I beat you message there.

lmao. Don't mind it.trying to play victim. Assuming mercy was like a regular naija woman with no support system. He for write that one? Shoioorr.BTW I thought another yellow pawpaw is shinning his Congo now.using sentiment and emotions to play victim

Nice try.anyway. their cup of tea. Even the mercy slaying up and down sef no to get sense

You have painted the politics that goes of in the African families aptly and perfectly.

This was exactly what happened to my grandfather. Very tyrannical. So the mother's waited for their kids to grow up and defend her.the mother's usually rely on their kids for social security so they do all their best to ensure they're educated and well placed even if they were not.as soon as the kids are financially stable the mothers begin to incite the children against their father as a means of revenge. Some mothers even lie to their children about their father because of the years of resentment and pain.that's when you will hear baba yin lumi.then the children will ask what do you want, the mother will now begin to emotionally manipulate the children with if you don't build a house for me away from. Your father ,you will kill me.the next thing is all of them will begin to run around to build house for mama, get house help for her so that she will be doing as she likes

Of course some of the kids might support the father but in the minority however the disadvantage is that now the mother has painted the father black to the children, the children don't want to have anything to do with their father again and even keep the grandchildren away from their father.till my grandfather died I didn't know whoever my grandfather was.I never had one on one contact with them

Some of my aunties who were on my grandfather side still had his picture.it was when I went to her house that she pointed the picture of my grandfather to me on the wall.I even discovered that the long time hatred between my mom and her sister was because mom was on NY grandmother side while my aunty was on my grandfather side and the genesis of the hatred started when baba started marrying wives.

Bottom line is that this thing doesn't just end in one generation. I haven't even seen some of my cousins and even when they married mom didn't tell me so I won't go because of the same beef she has with their mother for supporting her father.so in their mind now they think I'm with my mom is the unnecessary battle even when Grandma and grandpa have died,the battle and hatred is still there