₦airaland Forum

Lummoni:
So the child belonged to the husband, then he passed and he "belonged" to his parents, they both passed and now he "belongs" to the sister, if she passes on who will he "belong" to then? He's busy being moved around ownerships like a piece of unwanted furniture when his mother is still alive

LilMissFavvy:
This is not acceptable in the court of law. These traditions are primitive and were made by misogynists or men who may not have been mentally stable, okay? As long as the mother is alive, she will have custody of the child.

careidon:
The man is late, the man's parents are both late now too, what greater right has the late man's sister to the child ([b]using him to sell pure water) [/b]when the biological mother is alive and ready to take better care of her child is the issue at hand?

Zooposki:
We singaporeans don’t want you in our country. Make your own country great.

Lummoni:
I hop someone will be able to assist.
So my Aunt is a South African woman who was married to a Nigerian man she met in South Africa.

They had a child & when he turned 9 months her husband suggested they visit his family in Nigeria.

A few hours before leaving for the airport back to South Africa, his parents sat her down and told her the baby would have to stay.

After many words & tears her father in law and husband assured her that he would be back in a 6 months to fetch the baby.

True to his word, 6 months later my Uncle in law returned to Nigeria to fetch his children, but 2 days after he arrived he got seriously sick & passed on a few days later.

My Aunt traveled to Nigeria to lay him to rest & had to extend her stay because her in laws kept giving her the run around about why she couldn't take her child (apparently some rituals had to be done for the child since his father had just passed).

She eventually left after her father in law warned her that if she keeps pushing, they (his wife a daughter) would do to her what was done to her husband.

Fast forward 11 years later, her father in law, & mother in law are both late, she sends money to Nigeria every month for her sons upkeep but her sister in law is withholding the child, does not allow him to communicate with her.

When a neighbor tries to let him speak with his mother, they beat him up, sometimes he doesn't go to school and has to go sell water at the market.

My Aunt has tried going with the Nigerian police but failed, has involved the Nigerian embassy but they are dragging their feet. We really do not know what else to do.

Why would they withholding someone's child (a mother who desperately wants her child back) when they can't even take care of his needs.

Maybe someone has been through a similar experience and may be able to help with suggestions of how to get the child back to his mother.

zolajpower:
Hello everyone, I just found the above words so interesting so I felt I should share it with nairalnders . Even though we may find this funny but I still believe we can use it to tell someone you are speaking balablu or bulabo


Let's support our own by making the two group of words to meaning , A word that makes no sense, gibberish , foolish etc
Because I want to believe gibberish , Nonsense, foolish could have been coined by someone just like who originated the word bala Blu or bulabo .


Since they all mean the same thing so bala Blu and or bulabo should also be integrated here on nairaland like our own slang .

Like I want to start mines "I think lalaland the snake man of nairaland is speaking balablu "

Gamblingaddict:
I would really love it
But I am a lonely guy. I don't have friends.

I have been embarrassed by my loan provide in my church. Which has made stopped going to church.

I love you advise anyways.

I hope I bounceback.

VeeVeeMyLuv:
See shape

Aunty Pelumi Pelosi

Avast:
You no see his username?

NGN001

Wealthbrain22:
Why is it that once people notice you’re a private person, an introvert who doesn’t like attention or to be around people so much they become suddenly extremely attracted to you and want your time and attention 247? At first I thought it was just my family and that made sense but as I grew older everyone is doing this with me? I literally have to block people sometimes just so they leave me alone.

If I go a day without being seen people around me start pointing it out that I have gone MIA, like bro it’s just a day, what is this attraction people have for unavailable folks?

Is it a biological human nature thing or what?

GREATIGBOMAN:
So due to how Naira misbehaving.

I went and withdrew 70% of my savings from the bank and bought $19,000 worth of USDT at N863 per dollar on binance p2p

Guess what.


I just check and they're currently selling usdt there at 722 naira.



My hard earned money just lost like that


I just deleted the app... If they like let them make it drop to N400


Crypto have really delt with me



Last year it was one merchant token that ripped me off $2000
Then Shiba Inu ripped me $1200


Anytime I do anything crypto related I lose money


Will anyone advice me to sell my USDT now at 722 and accept my loss or wait untill December if Naira will lose value further to say N900 to a dollar


Will dollar be scarce in December?


Honest opinions

Oluwatoyink:
Breaking news : The naira seems to improving

Messi1:
I can't just imagine a matured woman like my mother dishing out advice that it's better for my mom to disown me. My mother complained about my behavious to her friend that i can't cook and that my behaviours are punishable with death. The woman advised her to disown me.