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Girlee:
I'm just an eighteen years old female child who would be turning nineteen in Five months time.
I'm a little girl with the brains of a wise old man.
I'm a counselor, motivational speaker, inspirational writer and an upcoming writer.
Nobody knows me as "Girlee"; not even me. I know that's stupid. I just had to come up with this "Girlee" I really don't fancy.
For some reasons I still can't decipher, I couldn't create an account here with my actual "social media" name (still my real name though).
I've counselled the married, singles and those in courtship. I've motivated so many and inspired a whole lot on the planet and things turned out great for them. But the thing is: who will and can counsel the counselor?

Tonight, I'm broken as I've never been before.
I've sat for jamb thrice now and in all, I scored above 200.
Why didn't I gain admission?

Continuation...

At this point u have to continue praying for Guidance.
Try to be patient with your father and also include him in your prayers for God to let him see the need to assist you. Know that you are not the only one with this problem, they are many but they exercise patience and prayer because that is the key.
Since you are good ( productive ) as u stated why not try to monetise it and add some skills to it that will bring more money to u.
This your present age is tempting . You will be bombarded with different thoughts(ugly ) once, so u need to be careful don rush pls because some people will take advantage of you being a girl because they know you have Weird feelings coupled with this money issues.
Talk to your uncles .

The want to prevent what to Ukrain from happening there. That so called comedian that plunged Ukrain into disaster deliberately is claiming dual citizenship. Prevention is better than cure

Congratulations to man city. That Is Premier League for you, but some thing like this can never happen in laliga because there is no competition, the troupy is either won by Barca or Madrid no matter how poorly the perform in the season.

Where is Mosdii?, We need him here and now.

Pointblank09:
Seun and his Nairaland moderators will never give you a form to fill before you can comment here. But every Islamic topic will carry that form. That is why I do not like Nairaland. Double standard

Muslims don't insult, mock ,or do any form of downgrading in Christian thread but a Christian will just open a Muslim thread just to insult or mock islam or Muslim.
If you think I am lying just go through 2-3 threads you will see it but Muslims don't insult Jesus or Christianity . The highest will be to mock Christians because we Muslims respect Jesus ( for your information Muslim cannot insult Jesus and go free,it is not allowed in Islam). But here and on other social media you see Christians mocking and making jest of Jesus and non of you will talk against it.
The moderators observed that and hence the verification. Thanks nairaland moderators for the improvement

America is simply the sponsor of terrorism in middle East

Junni0r:
aswear bro

Yansh no dey finish

The day i saw my girlfriend's sister, i regretted why i was in hurry...

Hahahahaha. Mugu

Thank you very much. We should start even if it is with one or two verses depending on their length. May Allah reward you.

This is really uncalled for. For God sake they are going to write CBT for national exams not that they are students of the university. If the CBT centre was not located in the university would they be telling people to remove their hijab. This is Nigeria everyone has freedom of religion. If you don't want problem for yourself allow peace to reign.

FOOTSOLDIER1:
What of any time you want to defy an underage girl ? Just like your pedophile Mohammed (SAW)

We are fasting, so we don't have time for your nonsense. Let me give you surprise
Many Christians and other non Muslims will convert to Islam in this bless month.

This picture clarifies everything in my opinion

Marital issues are many , but both men and women need to be patient when necessary because if you are too patient some partners will take you for granted.
Like our parent advice people need to study or take courses on marriage b4 getting married it will also help.
Men and women need to study each others psychologically , there are many books on that. Books men are from mars and female are from Venus, etc . This is more important for men than female because psychologically speaking most women have knowledge but lack application , that is their weakness and every one knows they use emotion to analyse matters/ situations they don't give a damn about the consequence.
Some men too can be wicked to their faithful wives ,it happens . That is why parent mostly say patience is the key to marriage.
I may sound bias to some people but the truth is most women are materialistic and don appreciate their husband effort and sacrifice , it is their nature for for information to people who are saying women have entitilment mentality.
Wives should learn to appreciate their husbands' efforts and keep thieir mouth shut. Avoid too much complain ( because no one is perfect and there is man with enough money that will like to see his family suffer) common sense pls
Women should also know that men are suffering silently and when women nag or complains always , she should know that she putting her husband in emotional pain by denying him peace of mind and through lack of appreciate. When the pain is much or channeled at the wrong time , some men become violent and some will give suspension or Red card straight (divorce).
Lastly marriage is a life journey both husband and wife should continue to learn about sustainable marriages continuously as long as they are alive because when you value something you will like to maintain in better way everyday.
May the almighty God enrich us and see us through.

The reason to me is because epl is more challenging than Spanish league . In epl a team has four good opponents of almost equal strength besides the few smaller teams that are stubborn. But in laliga is only one solid opponent that a team will face and other few stubborn teams , so you can see the energy, strength etc needed to win each league is different , one is more than the other.
In England , it is never guaranteed that a team will automatically qualify for UCL no matter how , unlike Spain were Madrid and Barca have slots in UCL every season.
I have no doubt that if some Arabs or billionaires pump more into some smaller teams like 4 teams , I am telling Barca and Madrid will not be coming to UCL and winning laliga every day as if they are they only teams in spain

Mr man you shouldn't feel sad just because of the way you find yourself. Many people grew up like that somehow anti-social it is not a problem as long as you healthy, not into drugs etc . Now you are thinking you had missed a lot because you are not social, yes, but you can still enjoy all these opportunities gradual by mingling with people and if you are an introvert like someone mentioned here, then I will tell you that you just need to start reading books, novels and what have you
Because that is where introvert find peace and happiness because even if you go out as an introvert you will be free/social the way extrovert do and it is normal.
Also pls don't blame you parent cos you don't know what they went through to get you and also to protect you, they are human beings too and you should thank God and them, that you are alive, safe and sound that you are even thinking of what to do with your life. Some parent have children that they hate because after all they protection, sacrifice, effort etc they ended in psychiatry, prisons, and some are just there roaming the streets with thugs.
Lastly pls thank God and your parent and also be very very prayerful and also free you mind and get friends or colleagues that senior you in years because they will train you in more matured way without mocking or downgrading your like you age mate will do.
GOOD LUCK, MAY GOD BE WITH YOU ALWAYS

A very nice and courageous act on the right direction. This is far better than adultery for a man of his position in respect, health.
I bet if he is to follow the advice of many Christians especially on this forum, it will be to start committing adultery anyhow ,then later you start insulting him when he is caught.
If you don't mind I would like to ask. if a man is not satisfied sexually enough by one wife, how does the church or Christianity solve that problem? because research has shown that there are men like that naturally

oz4real83:
The world is getting insane every second, the more "civilised" the world goes, the more insane it becomes. If this is the new idea of what "civilisation" means , then we would rather remain "uncivilised" in Africa

You are right my guy. infact one of the main reason why I love Africa is because we don't tolerate bullshits like that

CandyOps:
I don't understand you, bros. It's like saying, "since you like smoking why don't you smoke openly and walk around with a lighter everywhere you go."

Perception is everything bro. How people see you and the image you project is everything. So if Nigerians see an irreligious person as 'satanic' why would I want to associate myself to that image?

Even Jay-Z said, "Niggas couldn't do nothing with me; they put the devil on me
I'd have preferred niggas to squeeze the metal on me"

Christians tend to talk down on Moslems for being radical especially when you blasphem. But they on the other hand cant stand it when someone becomes illuminated and sees religion for what it is. They'll literally bannish you amongst them.

See what they (religious people) did to Salman Rushdie because of a novel he wrote decades ago called The Satanic Verses.

I don't engage superstitious folks at all.
I don't like to be a bearer of bad news.

Because accepting a new truth has stages.

Every problem passes through three stages on the way to acceptance: First, it appears laughable; second, it is fought against; third, it is considered self-evident.


When people are told a Truth that shocks their core values the first reaction is Denial or you laugh about it.

Then you'll vehemently deny it because it means to say that everything they have ever believed in their lives was wrong

And people don't like being wrong or 'stupid'

So when you front your irreligious views and show people certain truths you'll be at the receiving end of that hatred. Which is why superstitious people dread atheists and irreligious people.


Then you have gradual acceptance because it's evident but you never had someone show it to you in a different angle before


I only engage in religious topics if I notice you have passed at least the first 2 stages of dealing with the shock of accepting the truth.

The same trend is currently happening with Peter Obis movement in Nigeria.


We first laughed at his ambitions..
Then he's being fought
Next thing is gradual acceptance because even the blind can see that our country needs a COMPLETE OVERHAUL

I believe you read Bible very well to the extent that you started thinking wildly(atheism). It is fine by most people to live as an atheist but the problem is that they(atheist) don't have standard in anything and very disrespectful that is why wherever atheist live the creat problem because they see religion as a problem/primitive to them because they don't respect anybody. Like salam rushisdie etc
My question is if atheist don't believe in God why didn't they create or recreate themselves since nobody is in control of the universe in their thinking, they should just become rich and live a luxurious life.
This is the major problem of Christianity but because they is no order in christianity, the religion is self serving religion because it is adulterated and their scholars/cleric are busy deceiving gullible members and showing off wealth ,how can a reasonable person remain in christianity

Spherica177:
Which denomination? Please i beg to differ. No church will do such thing. You can go ahead with your second wife plan but i disagree at the bolded

That is your opinion but he has his, pls allow him to solve his problem wisely.
Mr man, marry second wife don't listen to people that will discourage you when many Christians does it and you are comfortable with it , these people will rather want you to go and commit adultery with different women thereby getting infected which is possible.

This was an act of terrorism, why would America nuke Hiroshima and Nagasaki. I don't know but, has any country nuke another country beside America? Just imagine it were another country especially US enemy, the way US will continue to insult, blame, castigate and impose different types of sanction on them

The lady is fine abeg since you said she is beautiful and has many qualities that are good,that is enough. She can be perfect just you too cannot be perfect you have you own flaws that she doesn't like but she kept quiet.
Obviously you don't love her that is y you are complaining and wasting her time. please stop wasting her time and effort, just allow her to go

Thank God almighty the Muslims don't use the names of idols as their months unlike some believers that claim the believe in God but their months are names of big-big idols

SensualMan:
I plead with all non Muslims to not eat or partake in the sallah meat of Muslims.
Any animal they kill today, they have surely had sex uncountable times with that animal.

Look at what the Quoran says very well...

Continue with the lies, Islam is not christianity where you can fabricate things and thinks everybody is illiterate and just accept without scrutiny.
Enjoy your brainwashed religion where you are nothiny but a tool to, to continue suffering to food on the table for the pastors till the end of you days. enjoy your life slave

SensualMan:
Muslim brothers I Hail oo!

Continue with your lies, you think Islam is like christianity where anybody can write lies and no sense and say it's from God just because he knows Christians are like sheep without thinking faculty. The Muslim world is aware that, the non Muslims had written over 60,000 books against islam and still non Muslims continue to accept Islam every year, the spent billions of money. That is the excruciating pain they and you are filling, we know.

limeta:
Who told you beer is haram to Muslim
The koran say alcohol is the miracle of Allah with good benefit





https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=L5ZDAFC1vzY

Keep lying to yourself and to those like you,Christians every where in the world know that Muslims don't drink beer. there is verse in the Qur'an which states clearly that Muslim should stop drinking beer. Remember this was said by a christian

sundaygray:
Omo i observed the life, learned different religions sat down and thought about life in general and also, never had a spiritual encounter i have spent money, a lot of money for a spiritual encounter but no level baba.The lack of evidence just make me chill. Unless God appears and shows himself to me, no level

Somebody once said" if you study Bible yourself, you will become atheist and if you become a Christian if Bible is been red for you "
The ultimate aim of Satan is to deviate a person from worshipping God, and he has achieved it by convincing some people that God doesn't exist. The new philosophy that teaches that is called stoicm.

Deprofessional:
85% of these countries are Islamic.

Islam is a terrorist religion.

That is right. But the main reason what causes the insurgency is all the foreigners/colonizers mostly Christian nations or atheist nation that export all this terrorism.
If your are to be fair you will check their condition of peace before all these so called peace keepers started spreading terrorism in the name of democracy or peace keeping in all the Muslims countries.
The people who made the list are also terrorist because the deliberately omitted Israel ,which is globally known as number one terrorist nation on earth . All the atrocities that America did but America didn't appear among the list because the are the ones making the list because they know fully well that fools and illiterates of the 21st century can not think cannot for themselves talkless of outside the box

DrPurple:
Mass shooting here and there but they are more concerned about LGBTQ rights..

Hahahahahahah. effect of too much sense

JosephXavier:
Christian's in the North are living in fear

There is no religious tolerance there

Bishop Kukah and his church has been a threat to the northern(core North most especially) Muslims because of his outspokenness, stand for truth and being fearless and as such, has been a Target for attacks by both the Muslim clergy and their religion

It was this year that Nigerian FG bribed the us government to delist Nigeria from religious violators list and now these are happening

Shame to US

This is a good news to me. The whole of Southern very tolerant that is why there are many Muslims, mosques and Muslims are giving land to build houses unlike in the north where a Christians are not allowed to build houses,churches,their busines are not vandalized at any slight misunderstanding.
You guys think northerners are idiots and weak just because we tolerant your bullshit.hypocrite

That's too bad. It is unfortunate.
But some religious bigot will say northerners are pedophyle but look at what their people are doing