udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

Is her womb still intact? Why is she refusing medical test?

Eleyi tun deep o,,,SEBI Yoruba used to say "Omo lere igbeyawo.

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

Did you court? Did you discuss children during courtship Abi you were only hanging out to eat shawarma and doing frivolities ?

Spherica177:
Which denomination? Please i beg to differ. No church will do such thing. You can go ahead with your second wife plan but i disagree at the bolded

That is your opinion but he has his, pls allow him to solve his problem wisely.
Mr man, marry second wife don't listen to people that will discourage you when many Christians does it and you are comfortable with it , these people will rather want you to go and commit adultery with different women thereby getting infected which is possible.

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

if this is true, then I have a friend that desperately needs to marry and start having children Even before you blink.
If you are game, let's go there.

[quote author=PlayMaker14 post=115617612]For over 10yrs? Kindly divorce her and get a brand new wife...

Don't listen to any “Sit her down and discuss” bullshit.[/quotes

You want kids ke do you want her spirit husband to divorce her nii

Chidi2022:
Why are you suffering your self? Your church doesn't forbid you from cheating or having second wife but it forbids you from sending that wicked wife of yours away?
Who do you think you are deceiving? Yourself, The church or God?
Salvation is a personal race.. Upholding the laws of the church at your own detriment will not guarantee you heaven...
Until your old age , then you will know that the fire and pains in a polygamy home is hotter than this one you are facing now....
HD it been your wife has a known medical condition or she is barren, it will be understandable, Adoption or ivf can be tried.....but she refused sex, refused medical help and anything at all to help her home....
Na you wear the shoe.. maybe she is the bread winner, make i no come pour sand for your bread.

Polygamy is not as bad as you women are making it looks like at all. In fact, polygamy is good for men at old age for many reasons: should the wife die before the husband and all the children are already on their own or should the wife decide to go and spend on month with her daughter and son's wife who just put to bed.
Besides, many killings we're seeing today is mostly in monogamous homes where wife kills husband or vice versa

udede:
devorce with out evidence of adultry or witcraft is impossible in my church

Is your church court?

Was there a prior agreement before tying the knot because it appears the woman is confident of her stand.

She doesn't have womb

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

Na church go kill you, who dey wine you say you be husband material.you can't even control your wife for 10 years to have birth. I dey vex for this mumu thing you just talk dey talk say you no be simp..lol una don learn new words for nairaland na now everyone is forming anti-simp

udede:
there was no agreement with her not to have kids, i also noticed that she is hiding things from me especially reasons why she couldn't have kids.

Oh ok thought there was an agreement. It appeared u took things lightly from onset. If u want kids u know what to do .

Batam:

Genesis 2:24, 1 Corinthians 7:2, Matthew 19:4-5

You have only referenced verses that support man & woman coming together as a couple but you're yet to reference the verse that supports the prohibition of polygamy.

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

You are a bloody simp and a wimp!! Haven’t you been making love and pouring all your seeds in side of her for 10 years? And yet nothing to show for it! What does it suggest to you MR. MAN!! Your wife’s hiding something from you and you are not man enough to command your wife and force her to a fertility and all round test. Don’t you have a mother or a bloody sister that will open your eyes. My wife did exactly and even suggested playfully I take another woman, that was when I knew WATER DON PASS GARRI... las las!! She had no womb. I gats japa though it was hard. Man up and wise up!!

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

what denomination is that

Are you sure her womb is still intact? I think that's where you need to start your investigation. If it is found to be compromised, that would be a ground for divorce as the marriage was by deception. It's not normal in this part of the world for a woman in marriage to have disdain attitude towards child bearing.

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

Did you both agree on this during courtship about not having kids for 10years?. if not, then you don't need a second wife, what you need is a divorce/separation conversation!

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

what's the name of your church

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

You have to agree on pologmy at the beginning and even then it's difficult.

And please address this post. Was the side action worth the stress?

https://www.nairaland.com/6920056/just-messed-up-need-collect

"I Just Messed Up, I Need To Collect Slaps by udede(m): 8:35am On Jan 02
Yea yesternight i got very cossy with a lady i hardly know and before you know it, I chop something with out cd though under the influence of hero beer.
I'm feeling very bsd now that my eyes have cleared. Please what broad spectrum antibiotics should I take ?
I'm thinking of taking levofloxasin 500mg."

(Quote) (Report) (Like) (Share)

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

Abortion has cost your wife her womb in the past

I don't want kids or medical evolution... na them
They already know what's wrong

Unzerious:
10 Years!! Abandon ship ASAP!

Divorce her first, you'll only be bringing Unlimited harm to your new Wife and Unborn Kids If you dont.

ABS

udede:
YES i have been married for about 10 years and my wife is in his early 30s. She doesn't want kids but I want them,and we have non. She refuses every medical test and diagnosis with flimsy excuses.

I need a second wife as soon as possible, some one that love kids and want to have them, I'm a Christian and an Igbo from Anambra but my denomination dosent oppose polygamy (polygny)

Rent a new apartment that has gates infact an estate will be good if you have the money, ensure that the current wife won't near there. Marry another person secretly and abandon her in her lonely world.

When the rent expire she can renew it or move back to where you pick her from. She has a plan that you are not aware of. Make sure when you marry the new person that the current wife must never near you to avoid stabbing you. These daughters of eve are doing the unbelievable these days.

@12 midnight woke her and sit her to have an intimate heart-to-heart discussion with her. Dig deep to know her reason. She might not have a womb but hiding it from you, however, please don't divorce her because God is against it.
I wish you the best Sir

Fable

She must have a medical condition she does not want you to know about. she just wants to keep you childless. go get a real wife. she also might be a hardcore lesbian or bobrisky

maasoap:


Polygamy is not as bad as you women are making it looks like at all. In fact, polygamy is good for men at old age for many reasons: should the wife die before the husband and all the children are already on their own or should the wife decide to go and spend on month with her daughter and son's wife who just put to bed.
Besides, many killings we're seeing today is mostly in monogamous homes where wife kills husband or vice versa

These are the facts!

I guess you have listened to some fools for 10yrs before coming on here. She doesn't want kids and didn't stop you from having. You should have gotten another woman pregnant and she will leave.

udede:
in the christian religious denomination i belong, polygamy (polygny) is normal and we know how to practice it peacefuly, she can't harm anyone because everyone has their own spaces.


As for divorce, she simply refused to go (actually I'm a husband material with good looks , without being a simp,) in our church you can't divorce any woman without an evidence of adultry or witchcraft. More over she is very harmless and likable, i even have her permission to marry a second wife

What if the woman insist on killing you. Please don't mind all those foreign doctrines that will tell you to stay in a senseless marriage.

If the reasons for not wanting children are genuine true and reasonable and is beyond her, you can still help her out of her challenges. But the one that is doing as if she is entitled to your future without proof will ruin you and make your die without traces.

If her mission is to continue to look good without kids , man get up and make sure you do the needful.

However, make sure your marriage is not a court one, otherwise, consult a specialist before you go marry a permanent mammy water. Cos she will use legal and spiritual means to tie you down.

Meanwhile, she would have planned an alternative to all your brohaha. Ensure you're first prayerful yourself, take bold steps and be very vigilant and watch all her moves. Track her calls and documents to make sure she doesn't plan a reprisal. Meanwhile, be sure no be you abort for her before una marry ooo. I may cost you something ooooo.

That woman is a maimi water. She already has SPIRITUAL husband with kids....