Politics › Re: Bisi Akande Heads APC Reconstituted 12-Member Reconciliation Committee by dapsoneh: 7:40pm On Feb 10, 2020 |
This cannot save EDO Obaseki has done lots of damages already
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Politics › Re: IPOB: Army Search Hotels In Umuahia Ahead Of My Parents' Burial - Nnamdi Kanu by dapsoneh: 7:33pm On Feb 08, 2020 |
SHEBI U ARE SHA COMING? WE CANT WAIT TO WELCOME U
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Politics › Re: Senate Inaugurates Constitution Review Committee by dapsoneh: 4:30pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Where is ma name there? We have to review the stupid constitution |
Politics › Re: INEC Sets Dates For Edo And Ondo Governorship Elections by dapsoneh: 4:29pm On Feb 06, 2020 |
Obaseki is a goonerrrrrrrrrr |
Politics › Re: Nnamdi Kanu Taking Selfie With A Racist (picture) by dapsoneh: 5:41pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
He's a scam |
Crime › Re: Abraham Amuta Captured By Boko Haram Is Now A Boko Haram Terrorist by dapsoneh: 5:35pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Dem don jazz am |
Family › Re: Car Issue: Am I Being Fair To My Wife? by dapsoneh: 5:31pm On Feb 03, 2020 |
Opeyemiebun: Evening guys, please I will like to seek people's opinion concerning this issue that I have in my home.
I am a married Man with a Kid. Before marriage, my wife has a federal job outside Lagos while I run my business in Lagos. Due to Nigeria's economy, I asked her not to resign as she keeps working while I also keep on with my hustle. I have to be fair to her as she has been giving her all in this marriage and I so envy her strength to make things work despite the distance.
We had our first child last year and she is going to a year.. We both contribute financially and bring something to the table as we run 2 different homes.
I know she goes through a lot taking care of the baby without a car and I know how tedious it is for her to manage.
We are both young (I am 30 while she is 28) We got our first few properties this January and we planning to do other things as we both bring money together to get things done.
We have plans of getting our first car within a month and my wife suddenly demanded that she also needs a car where she is due to the stress she goes through daily picking my child from creche and managing that with her own job. I asked that I employ a helper for her but she doesn't want.
She plans on getting the car within the next 2months with her own money. My issue is that I am business oriented and see it as a waste of money buying 2 cars when we can buy one and invest the money for the other one.
I am a Civil Engineer and my Job requires I get a car for mobility. I feel guilty by trying to stop her from getting the car while I get mine and at the same time, if she get one I will also need to get.
I have been cracking my head up trying to see how we can go about it without hurting her and be fair to her as she is the best woman I can ever ask for.
What should I do, should we both get cars and let other stuffs take it course? car is a neccessity but when it becomes 4,5 or 6 then it becomes a luxury. If you think you dont want her to buy another car, then let her take the one you want to buy and you can bike otherwise, leave her alone. Moreover, she is getting the car with her money and it will be unfair to her considering the stress if a nursing mother biking. I cant imagine allowing my wife bike with my baby while i drive around |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Eke Buys Range Rover Autobiography by dapsoneh: 11:40pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
chriscrosss: Omg...I just dey laugh.. Within 10 months, she bought a house, she got a new car, now another range...I don't get, please explain i wonder! Its audio simple |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Eke Buys Range Rover Autobiography by dapsoneh: 11:39pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
ghettokid1: Go borrow pose make we see , Vanity Crew Rep. Spotted stop making noise, that she posted that video doesn't me she bought the car. Who dash monkey banana. I STILL MAINTAIN SHE CAN NEVER BUY. 120MILLION NAIRA CAR |
Autos › Re: Sold Sold Kia Picanto 2007, Manual Drive 300k by dapsoneh: 11:20pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
How much last? What needs to be fixed? Location? |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Aigbe & Her Daughter, Michelle In Pyjamas, Took Night Pictures. by dapsoneh: 11:18pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
So? |
Celebrities › Re: Mercy Eke Buys Range Rover Autobiography by dapsoneh: 6:46pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
Na Audio Range... Na borrow pose |
Celebrities › Re: Meet The Banyankole Community Where The Aunt Of The Bride Sleeps With The Groom by dapsoneh: 5:04pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
If its sweet, the AUNT will keep coming back na |
Travel › Re: Ebomi Lake: The Bottomless Lake In Ipesi Akoko, Ondo State (Photos, Video) by dapsoneh: 4:34pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
larryking540: He doesn't ,he is just a teenager holding a cell phone,so it's best to ignore him thanks Jare, just very irritating |
Politics › Re: Presidency Reacts To US Visa Ban On Nigerians by dapsoneh: 4:23pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
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Travel › Re: Ebomi Lake: The Bottomless Lake In Ipesi Akoko, Ondo State (Photos, Video) by dapsoneh: 4:23pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
larryking540: You know say ,if person never experience racism b4 probably he has not travelled outside naija b4 that's how they behave ,
After traveling out and u are addressed as a nigger probably he will know how it feels as in, i dont get it. Just look at all his Comments Comments on NL, it always starts with 'damn niggar' i'm sure he doesnt even know the meaning |
Travel › Re: Ebomi Lake: The Bottomless Lake In Ipesi Akoko, Ondo State (Photos, Video) by dapsoneh: 4:08pm On Feb 01, 2020 |
Slawormir: Damnnnnn niggarrr
My love for nature knows no bound and it has no limit
I love nature! I love the natural environment anyday anytime twice on Saturday evening It drives me crazy. Nature does not hurry yet everything is accomplished! whats the problem with this damn nigar? Must u start every sentence with damn nigar? |
Celebrities › Re: Burnaboy Calls Nigerians On Twitter Jobless And Irresponsible by dapsoneh: 12:14am On Jan 31, 2020 |
78(87) |
Politics › Re: Obaseki Warns Oshiomhole: 'I Will Show Him I'm The Governor' (Video) by dapsoneh: 10:26am On Jan 30, 2020*. Modified: 11:25am On Jan 30, 2020 |
Its about to down
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European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Man City Vs Man United : Carabao Cup ( 0 - 1) On 29th January 2020 by dapsoneh: 7:20pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
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Politics › Re: Agba Jalingo: Ben Ayade Claims Detained Journalist Tried To Overthrow Buhari by dapsoneh: 6:09pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
MR GOVERNOR FEAR GOD OOOOO! |
European Football (EPL, UEFA, La Liga) › Re: Man City Vs Man United : Carabao Cup ( 0 - 1) On 29th January 2020 by dapsoneh: 6:09pm On Jan 29, 2020 |
Man u ti jaaaa |
Sports › Re: Pictures Of Koby Bryant And His Beautiful Family As The World Mourns Him. by dapsoneh: 3:07pm On Jan 27, 2020 |
At 41, he already has all these grown ups |
Science/Technology › Re: Animals Endemic To Nigeria by dapsoneh: 6:14pm On Jan 26, 2020 |
Very informative |
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Forum Games › Re: The Comment Without Any 'Like', Wins. (LIKERS' PARADISE) by dapsoneh: 7:41pm On Jan 20, 2020 |
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Car Talk › Re: Maintenance Tips For Honda Cars by dapsoneh: 2:01pm On Jan 20, 2020 |
seanfer: First start by Checking if the Cabin Air Filter is still Good.... OK, i will check |
Car Talk › Re: Maintenance Tips For Honda Cars by dapsoneh: 6:35am On Jan 20, 2020 |
Aaaaarghmed: exactly, my own don't tire me...it chills on drivers side and doesn't really chill on passenger side,changed compressor and it still persists, though the compressor has low compression but I refused to change it cos what's the use when I dont know why it doesn't chill well in the passenger side.. Auntyradu suggested I check the blend doors and blower motors but where I dey na kazeem full dere ,so wetin I wan tell kazeem to check ,dem no even know wetin be blend door and blower motor.. The last kazeem I told to check why it doesn't chill well in d passenger side ....he checked it and said....oga e dey chill o....I just weak drive comot.he doesn't want to look incompetent that's why he said so.I go sell d car buy another one cos I need 100 percent Ac.if possible sef i get a Camry. i don't know why, its been happening to my 2007 Honda since. Maybe i will sell it too and buy Toyota product t |
Car Talk › Re: Maintenance Tips For Honda Cars by dapsoneh: 10:58pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
numen: My Maintenance Tips:
1.) Change Engine Oil every 3000km (I use Mobil) 2.) Use Oando's Dexron II for the Gear Box (Abro will knock your gear) - (already mentioned) 3.) While driving be mindful not to always turn the steering to the last possible angle(helps the shaft) 4.) If you have an open roof, periodically clean the drainage hole to avoid water leaking into the car 5.) Vibrating Sound infront of the car? Check your engine sitting(already mentioned) 6.) Your single pipe radiator which used to work might not be the cause of your current over-heating...Check your water pump! 7.) Your car is not accelerating according to pedal pressure? Timing Belt might be the culprit.
Just my 2cents guys. Hope this helps someone. I luv this thread like I luv my Honda. please, why is it that Honda AC at a point will be cooling on one side and not be cooling on the other side(driver's side) |
Celebrities › Re: Singer, Kcee Takes Of His Wig As He Debuts New Bald Loo by dapsoneh: 10:41pm On Jan 19, 2020 |
Tookool: I fear the beards isn't real too Davido was right afterall |