eyesoflagos:
Hi everyone, I am a 26years old female, a working class and I need your advice
Hi everyone, I am a 26years old female, a working class and I need your advice. I started a relationship with a guy few months ago. We were friends before we started going out and during that period I was dating someone else. I fell in love with him, and I had to break up with my former boyfriend. About 2months into the relationship, his behavior towards me started changing. We almost never see each other and anytime I ask him if I should come over, he gives me excuses about work and other stuff. Most time I beg him for weeks before we could see it was like booking appointments to see him. But he has never called me to say he wants see me. I was also the one doing all the calling, always checking up on him. Anytime we fight over or relationship, I am always the one coming back to beg even when he is at fault. We had a very little disagreement recently, he has been ignoring my calls, I sent him whatsapp message he reads but does not respond. I got angry, so I texted him, via whatsapp because he was not picking my calls that I was no longer interested and that I was tired; he also read that and has not responded. He tells me he loves me but he is busy with work. I am also busy with work but I find time to care. I really love him and I don't want to lose him but I feel he does not love me enough, he does not respect me and he his taking me for granted. Should I apologize to him for what I said, or should I move on..... Please I need help.


source : http://www.eyesoflagos.com/2017/01/hi-everyone-i-am-26years-old-female.html

nero2face:
so bad, but am sure, even Tonto her self must have slept with married MEN when she was single...Evil that men do surely do come after them...

ehix89:
was just wondering if I could pm you, hope you don't find it offensive?

ehix89:
hi

Catalin:
If you are the type that go straight to the point without pre-intimacy and a lot of romance that will make her dislike having sex with you. Guys can be very selfish.

ifemola:
he didn't cheat while courting, just the nonchalant attitude but its wasn't really obvious then.

schumastic:
THIS OP IS CONFUSE, AM I THE ONLY PERSON HAVING THE FEELINGS..

YOU ARE NOT MARRIED TO YOUR BABY MAMA BUT YOU CALL HER YOUR WIFE,
YOU ARE NOT HAVING ANYTHING TO DO WITH THE LADY THAT WANT TO OFFER HELP TO YOU BUT YOU KEPT YOUR PAST AWAY FROM HER,
YOUR BABY MAMA OR WIFE LIKE YOU CALL HER TOLD YOUR HELPER YOU BOTH ARE MARRIED AND YOU ARE ANGRY,
NOW YOU FOUND OUT YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THE NEW LADY AND WANTS TO CALL IT QUIT.

OP YOU ARE CONFUSE, GO AND VISIT A THERAPIST

saweide:
How would I convince the other lady
It seems she felt in love with me too
But u never disclosed my past to her
Before my nagging wife called her on fone telling her to distance herself from her husband
I really like this lady not becos of the money but naturally and by her character
She is humble, submissive, jovial, honest, Godly and which other qualities I can't find in my so called nagging wife

Pls can anyone advice me on how to convince this lady?

Her last word to me was that I should never in my life call her if I don't want to see the wrath of God

classicB:
There is this certain girl that is having a huge crush on my boyfriend of almost 5years, he himself is not helping matters cos both of them are close friends. I will like to explain to details. She isn't the only one actually, there is this other one Or two That post his picture on fb and instagram claiming him to be their boyfriend. I have talked Taya, threatened to break up but to no avail.
Around August, this girl posted the picture he snapped with him on instagram and wrote something like "he is the love of my life, don't hate cos u can't get.. .bla bla bla I was angry, I had to comment on that picture and tag the other girls claiming him to be their bf, I also tagged him too but he was quick to see the comment bfr any of them, he messaged me and begged me to delete the comment. I did, he had a chat with this girl only for her to start sending messages to me tru fb, she said she is his girlfriend and he told her am just a bestie, she sent me a screenshot which my bf denied saying she must have edited everything to make it real to me. My bf didn't cut his friendship with this girl o! Her birthday was last month and my bf still went there and they took several pictures together which she posted on fb, I guess she's doing this so that I can see it? I was angry, I showed him the picture again and he begged me not to break up that he will explain things to me.
Did I forget to say he posted the picture they both snapped together on facebook to Celebrate his birthday last year, I asked him about it and he said the picture is his only recent picture. He invited this girl to his sister's wedding and she was all over him while I was just sitted there with a friend that followed me, what will an introvert like me do?
I don't see myself ever rubbing another guy in his face, Even is he claims he isn't cheating, can't he manage his relationship well? What will it cost him to cut his friendship with this girl, maybe she is more important than me, or he is simply keeping me for being a faithful girl he can't afford to loose? I don't want to bring up any talk about the girl anymore, cos no matter how I rant it won't change anything.

frankkingston:


squad, they can ask questions like mad dt would frustrate someone....

coolkris:
How u

coolkris:
hi

Beverlies:
Who remembers this - Kofoworola Bakers! Are you having fun down there. Wow this was a sitcom that rocked my generation every Sunday evening. Nostalgic

TDonald:
OP...Stop lying, this beautiful lady died over a month ago....

RIP Adeola

cruzita:
IT SHALL NOT BE WELL WITH U TELEMUNDO

LesbianBoy:


I will give her cloth to wear, tell her to sit down then bring out my bible and start preaching to her

elego1:
Nice move Adekunle.

Europija:
U r right...But me i am.good looking...So means he doesnt like me...And about me giving him sex after 1 months...Even before we had sex he was behaving strange to me...Didnt show any much interest...So i think me spreading legs for him after 1 months has nothing to do with it if he wil take me serious or not...dont u think ?

Penneil:
I have been reading and hearing about this but i never thought i would ever experience it. Few day back, when my husband and i were making love, he let out the name "Julianah" twice unconsciously i guess.

I don't know if i should ask him about it now or just give him a long rope to pull and keep watching. I need advice from matured couples please


can he be cheating?

franzis:
make everyone dey sincere ooo...over to you ladies and gentlemen... me am in the middle ..i never decide

Estharfabian:
know the song?

Estharfabian:
know the song?

Estharfabian:
I think she listened to Jennifer Lopez's hit song- I ain't your mama.




Lemme help with the lyrics-I Ain't gonna do your laundry, I ain't your mama.


PS--I think you imposed doing laundry on her. like You probably thought She's always gon be the one doing the laundry. You kept dumping clothes on her and she got pissed. it's tough love sweety. get THE fvcking machine or wash your clothes yourself.

ShugaAnnie:
Bankyyyyyyy noooooo don't do this to meeeeee!!!!!!!!!!!

EVILFOREST:
I think these things are simple especially if a lady is brought up along this path.
Through out this write-up, I didn't come across a Man requesting for cash from a LADY, it goes to show that MEN already know their responsibilities.

It think a LADY that does these sincerely, deserves nothing but
ATTENTION, AFFECTION & APPRECIATION.
In fact, she does not only deserve to know my IGR but also deserves to be a Signatory to my personal account.

But the QUESTION remains,
Are there ladies still like this, because the last group of ladies with such qualities are all GRANNIES now and these our INDOMIE and BLACK BERRY ladies have always seen them as SLAVES as well as Good - for - Nothing MOTHERS who allowed "MEN" to have their ways.

To a WOMAN, social media does a Lot damage.
To a MAN, social media does minimal damage.
This is as a result of the content of Reasoning applicable to men.
However, LADIES are more powerful than MEN, with respect to emotional stability ( ask widows and widowers)

angelusbrut:


They are very real. Am sure