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Please I just updated what happened this evening. Read below and please I need your advice this is Serious!!!


https://www.nairaland.com/7350426/lady-friend-helping-irritating-me

First Post on the matter:

https://www.nairaland.com/7347643/girl-helping-me-after-surgery

Updated!!! ———this evening below. You guys need to advice me I beg una!

So while I was having dinner today, I asked her what made her ex boyfriend who impregnated her didn’t go ahead to marry her. She replied she can’t tell, she said the guy went back to his ex and they both got married. I was like really?! Why would he do that, I told her she is so beautiful (yes she is) and knows how to care judging from how she is giving me 100% caring up to the extend that I can’t remember the last time I opened bottle water myself!

She said well such is life and she can’t force his ex to marry her. She said it got to a time when the guy tried persuading her back and she refused. I really don’t know how truth this is. I told her well the guy has missed such a caring and loving girl like her and that he would forever regret it.

Boomb!!! She said some men are wicked. I said wow really? Why do you say so I asked, she said it’s best known to her. I said no we are discussing, why do you say some men are wicked and she said please it’s best known to her, she knows why she said that. I said well okay no problem!

The conversation continued and got to where she said some young men get married when they have some moderate funds to settle down and plan their life instead of having various women around them stressing them especially financially. I replied well it’s true. Some do get married. I continued that some young men with a two bedroom semi-furnished apartment like myself with the little funds they have, would get married and try to open a small business for the wife and start managing their lives and even eat moderately. And she Replied Oh Yes but that me I am not like that! That I’m not that kind of man. And I said Yes!!! That right now I am not ready for that, I told her I want to work harder so that I can make more money and not manage my life with my wife but rather enjoy my life with my wife and children.

Omo she change face oh! The babe face change as per she no agree with my option! The next thing she said: Hmmm if someone does not have strong heart, that person can not live with me! I was like really?? Why do you say so? She say the way i talk that’s it’s not easy, i asked how do you mean? I asked her is she saying my plan to make more money before I get married is not a better plan?! She replied Oh no I am not saying anything! It’s your life! I didn’t say you should not look for more money!

Omo Like this, I am scared of this girl!

- I met her last year, I was not interested in having any relationship with her to be honest, I only wanted her honey pot! And she refused despite visiting me a number of times. I stopped the communication!

- Fast forward to Two months ago this year! I got involved in an accident and unfortunately got my left femur fractured and ended up having surgery. Now I live alone in my two bedroom apartment, I can’t walk with my two legs until my bones heals. I use walker and need help. I have options from my lady friends to help me!

- I called her because she was a nice lady friend. Now she rushed to my house same day I informed her(about a month after my surgery). She came and I told her I would be glad if she usually comes around to care for me even though I had my two males friends with me who left their businesses! Ever since she came to my house spent 5 days, went to her village came back and she has never left going to 3weeks now! We had sex ones which I made the move but stopped ever since I notice she is having feelings for me but she has tried to seduce me on two different nights and stopped.

- She is truly or selfishly in love! I can’t really tell! She is desperate to settle down! But I am not and I always tell her jokingly how I humanize a lot! And Yes I am not ready to set down, I need to make more money and even if I want to settle down, not with a baby mama!!!

- Now she looks unhappy, ever since we had this conversation this evening! I am scared! I don’t feel safe anymore even though I love her 100% caring which my other female friends can’t give me! She cooks greatly and very good in cleaning!!!

NOTE: I always tell her I will appreciate her very nicely for the caring!!! And yes I will give her good funds.

I am updating now. Sorry for late response.

Please you guys should calm down. The pressure is too much on me.

Click the link below to follow the update : Let’s judge this with open mind.


https://www.nairaland.com/7349180/lady-friend-helping-irritating-me

First Post on the matter:

https://www.nairaland.com/7347643/girl-helping-me-after-surgery

Updated!!! ———this evening below. You guys need to advice me I beg una!

So while I was having dinner today, I asked her what made her ex boyfriend who impregnated her didn’t go ahead to marry her. She replied she can’t tell, she said the guy went back to his ex and they both got married. I was like really?! Why would he do that, I told her she is so beautiful (yes she is) and knows how to care judging from how she is giving me 100% caring up to the extend that I can’t remember the last time I opened bottle water myself!

She said well such is life and she can’t force his ex to marry her. She said it got to a time when the guy tried persuading her back and she refused. I really don’t know how this is. I told her well the guy has missed such a caring and loving girl like her and that he would could to regret it.

Boomb!!! She said some men are wicked. I said wow really? Why do you say so I asked, she said it’s best known to her. I said no we are discussing, why do you say some men are wicked and she said please it’s best known to her, she knows why she said that. I said well okay no !

The conversation continued and got to where she said some young men get married when they have some moderate funds to settle down and plan their life instead of having various women around them stressing them especially financially. I replied well it’s true. Some do get married. I continued that some young men with a two bedroom semi-furnished apartment like myself with the little funds they have, would get married and try to open a small business for the wife and start managing their lives and even eat moderately. And she Replied Oh Yes but that me I am not like that! That I’m not that kind of man. And I said Yes!!! That right now I am not ready for that, I told her I want to work harder so that I can make more money and not manage my life with my wife but rather enjoy my life with my wife and children.

Omo she change face oh! The babe face change as per she no agree with my option! The next thing she said: Hmmm if someone does not have strong heart, that person can not live with me! I was like really?? Why do you say so? She say the way i talk that’s it’s not easy, i asked how do you mean? I asked her is she saying my plan to make more money before I get married is not a better plan?! She replied Oh no I am not saying anything! It’s your life! I didn’t say you should not look for more money!

Omo Like this, I am scared of this girl!

- I met her last year, I was not interested in having any relationship with her to be honest, I only wanted her honey pot! And she refused despite visiting me a number of times. I stopped the communication!

- Fast forward to Two months ago this year! I go had an accident and unfortunately got my left femur fractured and ended up having surgery. Now I live alone in my two bedroom apartment, I can’t walk with my two legs. I use walker and need help. I have options from my lady friends to help me!

- I called her because she was a nice lady friend. Now she rushed to my house same day I informed her(about a month after my surgery). She came and I told her I would be glad if she usually comes around to care for me even though I had my two males friends with me who left their businesses! Ever since she came to my house spent 5 days, went to her village came back and she has never left going to 3weeks now! We had sex ones which I made the move but stopped ever since I notice she is having feelings for me but she has tried to seduce me on two different nights and stopped.

- She is truly or selfishly in love! I can’t really tell! She is desperate to settle down! But I am not and I always tell her jokingly how I humanize a lot! And Yes I am not ready to set down, I need to make more money and even if I want to settle down, not with a baby mama!!!

- Now she looks unhappy, ever since we had this conversation this evening! I am scared! I don’t feel safe anymore even though I love her 100% caring which my other female friends can’t give me! She cooks greatly and very good in cleaning!!!

I had femur fracture on my left leg and it’s been difficult to move around the house and get things done because I can’t put weight on the operated leg until the fracture heals.

There is this lady friend I knew last year. Back then I tried persuading this lady friend to let me have a shot from her honey pot but she refused.
Honestly back then I was only interested in her honey pot nothing more because I’m not ready for a committed relationship at this stage of my life.

Nearly 2 months after I had the surgery, i called this lady friend (we have not been talking for close to a year) and told her I had accident. She immediately book a car and came to my house to see me. I was surprised and appreciated her quick response. I told her how it happened and that my two friends (guys) have been the ones helping. I told her I would be glad if she comes around to care for me while I heal as I can’t get food from the kitchen myself because I can’t step on my both legs due to the surgery. I live alone in my two bedroom apartment.

Omo starting from that day she started caring and didn’t leave until 5 days later. She said she was going to her home town and she needed to see her 2yrs old daughter (she got pregnant while in a relationship with her ex).

The issue on ground now is that, ever since she returned she has not gone to her own house where she rented. She has been in my house doing virtually everything and my both friends have left (they are business men). I was tempted to approach her for sex and she gave me smoothly without complain unlike before. I was like, look at you when I was healthy you didn’t let me have your honey pot, but now you gave it to me without stress! Hmmm we laughed over it.

But the rate at which this lady friend is taking care of me is scaring, she does everything to the point that I can’t remember the last time I opened a bottle water myself. She does it for me, the only thing I do is bath myself!
Few days ago my guy who was with me came with his female friend to pay me a visit and omo this my lady friend was looking at this girl with all force and frown on her face. I mean the looking was like; ‘’who is this girl, does she have parol with me’’ you know that kind of look.

It pissed me off and since then I have been feeling irritated. I mean we are not dating, has she taken this too far inside her heart!

I’m thinking of moving her out but I don’t have a perfect option In getting someone I can trust like her to take care of me especially because I’ve not started walking.
Will this turn out to be a problem tomorrow? I only had sex with her ones and refuse to ever do it again because of this.
I always tell her I will appreciate you with something very nice when I heal completely, that I appreciate her support and that if she has anything to do, she can go and do it and come back but NO she never left my house and i asked myself what was she doing before I called her??!!
To even ask her say Watin you Dey before I call you, tire me because e go look like say I dey tell her to go!!!

Wike definitely has weight by pulling these governors and ex-governors out of Atiku's campaign.

Thank God we have someone like Nyesom Wike from Southern Nigeria oh!

Someone was saying, the Emir of Sokoto visit have calmed Wike down and I laugh!!!

If you know Ikwerre/Rivers man you go know say, when we fight we fight to the last and nobody can intimidate us!!!

Let’s keep watching!!!

I’m glad that our brothers have abandoned Biafra for one Nigeria via Peter Obi 2023 Presidency.

We need to sit together and restructure this country!

Southerners are more educated and industrious in this country and we can not run away from it because of irregularities, we are the ones who are suppose to restructure this country.

Do you know what it means to travel to any Country in the world and you will find your brother a fellow Nigeria?

We that have travelled have seen the advantage.

We need to enlighten our people especially those keyboard warriors from the villages that have never traveled to other parts of Nigeria or even educated enough to understand the system of Govt we practice as a country.

See what United Nigeria has archived in the Entertainment industry world wide?

Our music, movies, sports, etc

A United Nigeria can do better in our Economy and Security!!!


We can rule Africa if we fight together and restructure this country for the betterment of our children.

More

After inspecting the Dr Peter Odili Cancer and Cardiovascular Diseases Centre today, I am glad we took this bold step as it would help the increasing number of people suffering from cancer and heart diseases by providing premium healthcare services at a more affordable cost.

Julius Berger is putting the finishing touches to the centre as it will be commissioned soon. It is equipped to intenational best standards and will be managed in partnership with experienced International partners. - Gov. Nyesom Wike

Omo Governor Wike Dey open our eyes oh!

The truth is that, Buhari is the Presidential aid backing Atiku ooh!

As them (Buhari cabals) no fit defeat Tinubu for APC primaries, them don make agreement with their fellow Fulani brother Atiku to ensure say power remain for North oh!

Make Southerners Wise Up ooooh!!!!

My fear be say, As we for South no get one consensus candidate, this Tinubu and Peter ambition go divide South votes oh!!!

If say we get one candidate way we all for South Support, e for be easy oh! And na this thing Dey give Atiku and North full moral because South votes Dey divided.

Wike will win

Let’s look at this, Gov. Wike keeps batching PDP and APC and then you ask yourself which party him wan support come 2023?? It’s LP Peter Obi.

See let me tell you the truth, majority of Southern Nigeria PDP governors and chieftains will secretly work for Peter Obi. That is why you see Gov. Wike meeting with Obasanjo, Peter Obi on different occasions. Southern Nigeria PDP members are not in support of Atiku emergency and North having the Chairman of the party. That’s why Wike has the balls to tackle these people.

Gov. Wike represents Southern PDP haven came second during the presidential primaries after he was betrayed by his northern allies.

With

Obasanjo supporting Peter Obi
Southern PDP (Gov. Wike camp)
Southern Nigeria Christian’s

There is no doubt that, Peter Obi will win 70% Southern Nigeria votes.

Over to the North, Obasanjo is working hard and if Peter Obi can get 35% to 40% Northern Votes (with significant Christians in the north especially middle bet), He will win the 2023 Presidential Election.

Ikwerre people and the entire Rivers Statr are solidly behind Gov. Wike.

We will not let the Niger Delta and the entire Southern Nigeria down.

Wike is the man.

The Rivers State Governor Nyesom Wike has advised the Peoples Democratic Party to shun distraction and focus on winning the 2023 Presidential Election.
The Governor also expressed concern about his party’s strategy going into the polls.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DLA_XfpRh8I

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=rnKmitPm7Bs

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=W06AS3JZ_ck



Ikwerre People have their roots traceable from the old Benin Empire.” Iwhnurọhna (Ikwerre) people descended from the ancient Bini Kingdom. The name of the grand ancestor is Akalaka. Their relations in Rivers State are Ekpeye and Ogba people. The reigning Oba of Benin when Akalaka, the ancestor of Ihruọha (later called Iwhnurọhna) fled was Oba Ewuare (Ogwaro). Akalaka, a member of the Benin royal family, fled in the 13 th century on allegation of plotting assassination of the Oba. He died in 1462. Iwhnurọhna his third son settled east of the Sombrero River by 1538 AD.

Read more: https://www.edoworld.net/History_Of_Ikwerre_People_In_Nigeria.html

Oba of Benin Visit Rivers State To Unite Benin Descendants in Rivers State.


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=A1lL1wHw1aQ

kettykin:
What experience does Tinubu have than Obi, we are talking about the person thatade Lagos the most indebted state in Nigeria

Bro Peter Obi might be less corrupt than Tinubu but it means Tinubu understands corruption more than Peter Obi and is in the right position to protect the Southern Nigeria resources and restructure this country. E better say our pikin chop our food than stranger.

Peter Obi is too cool and a learner. He is Jonathan Pro Max. Southerners must vote for a strong and bold candidate to represent us this time, a man who has the money and experience in governance at the federal level and can not be control by any cabal.

I am from Rivers state and I can tell you that I do not belong to any political party. You can see me hail a party member today and see me castigate him tomorrow if I feel his is not delivering good leadership, justice and development to its people.

2023 Presidential election I can assure you that majority of Rivers people will consider:

1. Region (North or South)

2. Capacity ( Ability to deliver)


1. Region: If anybody tells you that Rivers people will vote for a northerner then just know you are being deceived. Let me tell you, Gov. Wike knows this that is why he is fighting Atiku with boldness!
What will Gov Nyesom Wike tell we Rivers People to vote for another Fulani man after Buhari? Na madness??


2. Capacity: Base on the above, in terms of capacity, the two major presidential candidates from the South is Tinubu and Peter Obi.
The truth is that Rivers people would have love to vote for the Igbos base on the fact that they have not ruled, but we can’t trade capacity to deliver with it is my turn.

Looking at the candidate, Tinubu has more experience and has technocrats around him to deliver better than Peter Obi including judging from their past records as Governors.

Some may want to discredit Tinubu by judging him with age,religion and health status, the truth is that if Tinubu can read clearly, campaign across the 36 states without any health challenge then he can rule Nigeria.

Religion: Past history have not shown any benefits on the state of the country. Things keeps getting worst so let’s try this same religion and I can tell you it will reduce religious bigots and unite Nigerians irrespective of religion or region. These religions were imported, our root unites the black people more as one united people of Africa.

Tinubu will deliver more than Peter Obi

Let’s we Southern Nigeria don’t make the mistake the North made with Buhari.

Yoruba are in full support for restructuring/regional government and let’s support their son who understands the game, the system and experience to bring constitutional amendments and development to Southern Nigeria, the industrial hub of the nation.

Peter Obi na learner, them fit even impeach am, na Jonathan pro max.

But Tinubu na Don 1. Southerners na this kind man we need this time to represent us, we mistake for Jonathan way too cool and you want us to send another small pikin Peter Obi?

Come southerners are one, stop this it’s south east or this turn??!! If it’s south east turn why is it not we Ikwerre people of rivers state turn? We are ijaws (Goodluck Jonathan)? So forget about it is my turn.

Southern Nigeria is one!!!

DonBenny77:
You are mad
Which university?
Post pictures please
God punish you and wike
Hungry, shameless asslicker

No insults, I repeat find your state. You’re not a Rivers Man! Why the attach by force Must you fake all the time?

DonBenny77:
No vote was transferred, Tambuwal's delegates voted for Atiku.
Very simple, and it was the right thing to do. We can't be having an agbero president that runs him mouth anyhow.
As a Rivers man from Ahoada west and wike inlay
Wike is a failure and not fit to rule Nigeria
It's not by building flyover all over Ohio akpor lga.
Our children no longer get international scholarships but his kid recently graduated overseas
Where is the 5000 jobs he promised us
Yeye dey smell

Omo find your state, Wike is a failure but him build University for Ahoada and it is Obio akpor not Ohio akpor. I repeat find your state you’re not a Rivers man.

Omo PDP go hear am, you don’t play injustice on Wike and expect him to keep quite.

Wike no be Jonathan oh! Ikwerre man no Dey fear anybody oh, them ready fight till death.

How can you allocate Tambuwal vote to Atiku after Tambuwal don step down.

Omo Tambuwal for step down before the election then let the delegates votes, instead of stepping down and transferring the votes of a candidate who has withdrawn to another candidate, this is pure injustice and gang-up against Southern Presidency.

Southerners (Wike) are wiser now and we must let the North know they can’t get away with this injustice on Southerners.

Even Former Sokoto Gov. admitted it was a gang-up against Southerners (Wike)

Gov. Wike represents Southern Nigeria.

With all the developments going on under Wike and his fearless nature, the North knows he will end the illegality going on in this country to the advantage of the North in all the ministries and departments and Boko Haram used by the North to steal more funds would be a thing of the past.

The Rugged Man (Wike) go fight Boko Haram and Fulani Herdsmen and the Northern Cabals knows this.

Let all Southerners stand by Wike on this, come 2023 you can vote any of your choice but no Northerner should be allowed to fly PDP or APC ticket, they can all go to another party not PDP or APC where Southerners has held strong with our resources.

Where was Atiku?

Where was Tambuwal? When PDP was dying now you want to hijack the part from Southerners ( Wike) to replace a Northerner in Aso Rock after Buhari!

We go blow up all pipelines for Niger Delta. Make una wait!

After 2023. Wike next general election Nigerians need you.

You will contest and we pray God grants your victory.

Wike will be President

Insecurity will be history

Nigerians will witness great Infrastructure, employment and transparency.

Please doctors in the house help me I need your advice.

I had Femur fracture surgery, today makes it two weeks and a few days after I had my surgery on my right leg. Though I still feel pain, I noticed my right leg where I had the surgery is a little longer than the left one.

Below is the x-ray before and after the surgery.

Please the gap (where the arrow is pointing) scares me, can the bone actually grow and join? I’m worried the doctor didn’t place the bone close together for it to heal and join and give me same length with my other leg. Please help!!!.

Do the doctor have to reschedule me and correct the leg length? Will it get back by it’s self. I’m extremely worried.