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luvyaself95:
got you now, that part of what am telling you i almost fall into this hell too although am not married.
that time my mind and brain quickly control me before my life got ruin...

as in eh if the op's bros no get better counselling he fit commit suicide.
I was so weak and sissy for these women till I got strong back up from u guys.
my hustling income is for myself and my upkeep, my parents and my guys. woman is a no no for me now. and I ain't getting married soon till I meet the right lady who is already established financially and will contribute to the growth of the family not just one idle slay queen that will name herself housewife and be solely relying on me as the breadwinner.

Kingosytex:
Millions...The Op is paying millions as tuition fees for both himself and his gf despite the fact that their families are poor...isn't that a miracle?

I wonder how people reason, he said it himself that he's from a humble background, instead of him to go for a federal university that's affordable and sponsor himself in school, the excesses left from his online business he could save it for future use and then invest in himself by setting up a business that will fetch him income, or rather set up something for his parents but
he's Rather investing in a girl that might ditch him tomorrow.
I don't know the kind of guys we have nowadays despite luvyaself95 truthsbitter and ubunja's efforts to school these guys they're Still getting weak day by day.

PlayForFun:
I never see the kind of stingy nigga like this in my life. My 2 friends pm him since yesterday, d big head no gree reply. I sent too, he no still reply. Him come deactivate because ppl dey suspect say na scam thread. Na so you wan take manage woman for marriage? U better forget marriage cos u no fit mentally.

lol

Kingosytex:
Millions...The Op is paying millions as tuition fees for both himself and his gf despite the fact that their families are poor...isn't that a miracle?

the girl should change the guy's name in her contact to Saviour or benefactor.

Blackivy27:
Op stop being silly. From your description she's matured. Forget that 2 kids part. People learn. Funny fact the miseducator you cc'ed for advice is a baby daddy. Who has a daughter outta wedlock.

If you love her and she loves you back be with her. A virgin might destroy you. Forget sexual chastity and all that.

lmao @emboldened..
hahah how did u come about the bolded?
have u been stalking him?

adetoroamos:
avoiding her chat is really working for me but ince i see her call then my brain will come back to block settings that am in love.

as in eh I no know the kind juju wey women dey carry for body.
e dy one lady like that, we were friends and in love but when I realized I was so getting obsessed then I had to find out what I've actually gained from her, is it financially or is she motivating me? when I found out she was not contributing anything I had to distance myself from her and forgot about her and the obsession all gone but weeks after she couldn't see my calls again she started calling and message and showing care omo na so I relapse back.

luvyaself95:
i don't get you what topic are you taking about ?

check the topic of this current thread I've mentioned u

Freeenslavednig:
Nigeria is finished, if you want to see what this girl's are doing.

Send me a reply and I'll post just a few.

We must ban the spirit of Jezebel in Nigeria if not this people will infect our kids.

The rate at which hiv will go upon the next few years . Hmm

what are these girls doing?

princfred:
He invested in womanity got profit of two kids before the company folded.

lmao
gosh see as this woman do make OP brother don turn object of mockery.
this topic just increased my hatred for naija girls.

luvyaself95:
I didn't say you shouldn't help her what am trying to say is think it very well before you do it...

yeah but this particular topic here weak me bro

Abo123:
I purposely registered a new name because of this story so that many people especially potential husbands can learn from this. I'll like to narrate the story in details so I want you to follow me.

It all started in 2011 when my brother got a contract job in Abuja. Then he met this lady when he went to our home town during a leave but she told him immediately that she can't date him because she's short but he kept persuading her as usual.

As time goes on she started crying that she is unable to pay her 300k school fees because her father is dead and her mum is not buoyant enough to continue the payment and she may withdraw as a result of this. So he offered to sponsor her education from 200level till she graduated and she agreed to date and later married her in 2014.

To make the long story short, he later got her and her two siblings well paid federal government job through his office and later got her a car. Less I forget that their marriage produced two children (a boy and a girl) in five years.

Unfortunately for him his contract job was terminated three months ago and he decided to give her 200k so that they can manage it for four months for food stuff and house keep but she told him that the money has been exhausted after two weeks. This caused a little quarrel and she decided to leave the house with both children and went to spend the week in a hotel.

This spark an annoyance of my family members and we decided to send two of our elderly brothers to her mum in our home town but the woman started sparking that she didn't wanted to marry him in the first place because he's short but she was the one that persuaded her to marry him.

They later had another quarrel last month and the lady took the children to her mum in the home town through a flat without informing the husband and any of our family member. So we decided not to call her and a court letter was issued to him for request of termination of the marriage.

Now the marriage is terminated and my brother is seriously depressed.

I really learnt a lot of lesson from this.

things like this makes me believe when luvyaself95 keep telling me not to invest on a lady cos they're so ungrateful

bizza45:
Dem don use this 1 brain take produce 7up

lol sense is low and empty but mouth don full.
lmao

luvyaself95:
am short of words
madness on untop of wetin...

the first comment in that pics said "see someone Jesus died for"
lol

victorian:
Why must he share his business to anyone.?

So y'all can over saturate it , overflood the market and kill it abi?

Nah! Kolewerk!

Op, behindethasmile don't reveal bagga! To no one! I repeat don't reveal Nada! As in don't reveal tweenn! To anyone if you dont want to kiss that marriage plans and successful future goodbye.

Instead of people to use their brains and think outside the box, una wan drown his biz.

Typical of Nigerians. Always overflooding any new business skill.

Have said my own.

Goodnight!

I sure say u don pm the guy

Sunnymatey:
My brother, in as much as marriage is good.

I ll advice you invest ur money to secure ur future.
Plead with ur mum to pls allow u get one or two investment in place before doing her bidding.

Buy landed property and ensure u secure them. (As many as possible). Develope one or two before u consider taking that bold step.

Pls, kindly help a brother.
I ll love to learn ur kind of online business.
My whattapp contact is on my signature.
We can discuss futher if u dont mind.

jokinexcel:
May we know the online business you are into?

ifygirl101:
Op pls help me out with this online business.we can reach an agreement i can pay you some money from my earnings every month.chat me on WhatsApp on 09033267284

aprilwise:
We are age mate .
Don't wait until you started earning millions before u marry. I'm interested in investing in your line of business. Thanks

Island01:
You don't want to share how you're making your money but want advice... you're not just stingy but wicked.. the business you're doing now didn't someone put you through.... get the fuckkk out of here
Ewu

as in eh na the business I dey after.
marriage can go and sit down

luvyaself95:
You're feeling on top of the world for that trick i pray your eyes clear fast..

hehehe as in eh the girl just carry that one trap am.

adetoroamos:
We met around February and we have been doing some intimacy things but i notice she had two kids from different man which I confirmed, but she’s all over my head that am so much inlove and am trying to reduce the love or emotions i have for her.
Can you please advice me on how not to get to much emotional to her anymore?



Cc ubunja

No frontpage pls

lol na so my own matter cast when one wicked mod carry my thread go front page without my permission.
well if you're obsessed and into this lady and u need to reduce the emotions then just Try and distance yourself from her, avoid WhatsApp and any other social platform you've been using to communicate with her, get urself busy and also random dates and going out (not sleeping with them o) with other Ladies will decrease ur emotions for that lady.
I stand to be corrected Sha cos what works for Tom might not work for Kehinde cos this one works for me

fvck fvck fvck na the only thing wey dey worry the youths of this adulterous generation.

by the way, what's up with your own career?
if you're employed and have something doing you won't be bothered about this

dollytino4real:
I had dat type of experience some years back, let him use warm water with salt, let him use those tooth powder with mint

thanks but those ones you've mentioned are just temporary relief which after some time the pains will come back again..
need a lasting solution

CapedBaldy:
Godzilla 2014 7/10

kindly give a little intro on it pls

cao:
Angel Has Fallen.

tell us the plot na

pryme:
9/10 for me.
My eyes water up in the end, shiit job to be a cop sometimes.

thanks pryme and mekaprime.
if after watching it and it isn't worth the hype na beating una go receive

armadeo:
Today's movies

Dark Phoenix. To be frank the characters where very shallow. Even magneto whom I admire didnt just strike a chord. Didnt enjoy it at all, very flat. 3/10.


MiB international. Not as bad as projected also not very good. Just average. 5/10.

Kung fury. Actually a very silly movie. Ridiculous in its entirety but that what's makes it so good. 8.5/10.

Next up. Gone in 60 seconds

find me better movies abeg I'm so bored

hulk616:
hotel Mumbai Captain Marvel Avengers: Endgame. Spiderman far from home.

thanks .. Nollywood nkor?

guys please the holiday has been very boring.
someone recommend movies I cam download this night and watch thru out this week pls cos I'm on holidays and I need to watch movies to shake off boredom.

cc alexistaiwo

Coolgent:
From KD? Wait till i come back.

I don't understand

NACE13:
Bro, na u F up. I dey observe as you dey spill enough Intel to give yourself up. Na why man suppose get more than one account, secondly no dey drop every details about yourself, like where you said you are a uniben student, you are in your finals. That's almost enough evidence to get you locked up

I have friends and family on Nairaland but they don't know who I am because I usually change my school's name or date of graduation and so on.

Just try reason am via sey you and some guys dey argue about something like this topic then it made you bring it here to seek people's opinion(s).

But you F up sha

thanks so much bro.
didn't even had that in mind.
thanks I've tried to edit off my details.
also I noticed that people that normally come here to seek help or advice always do that with an alternate or new account and not their main account.
lessons learnt bro

hi guys!
my dad has been having severe pains in all his teeth and this pains has been going on for almost a year now and it's mostly intensed in the night.
He's in his late 60's, I usually get him mixanal drugs which temporarily relieves him of his pains but after the drugs have been exhausted the pains will come back again.
please any Health expert or dentist in the house help out with possible causes and possible solutions.
I appreciate your urgent responses

the truth is gradually unfolding itself

ayovenice:
bro.... If you wan abuse person, abuse am directly.... Which one be sir again?..which kind respectful abuse be this?

as in eh I follow notice am, he just wanted to be civil tho so it won't be like the abuse is too gross

bjt:
Na Rashford play am hit pole this time.

lol thanks no be everyday be Christmas.
to all those teams that frustrated my hopes of winning this week may Sango and Ogun join together destroy una.
NONSENSE

omo fans no get Joy oh