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thagift:
ask dygeasy, even one of the organiser want to contest I wonder if they won't just dash him the crown.

they cant dash him when someone like me will also be contesting

thagift:
natural beauty

this is what she looks like without the makeup

thagift:
hahahaha I will when Mr Nairaland comes up

when does it come up as am already sick of this

Hansbireo:
Previously tecno ..

lol no wonder, man if you see rockstar games on pc or PlayStation dude i swear you will freeze for a while you'd think its a movie because the people looks so real especially Micheal Trevor and Franklin i love Franklin more

Kikikikiki he's been taken to a secure location for interogation and processing, just the normal drills nothing more

jhasper:
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no problem , just tell others

aight

Hansbireo:
Ish, rockstar graphics are poor exception of the gta v..

are you for real? All the red dead redemption, gta 4 and 5, max payne, saint rows are poor graphics? What do you use for gaming dude?

thagift:
yeah but I have to respect the queen

Queen Lanicky forgive me

warris dis

LordScent:

hes been licking ass since forever cant he just forget about this stuff already

jhasper:
then stay online_
would distribute gift to my well wishers

oh really? I can't come because i dont reside in that state the party is taking place but i wish you well in advance, I'll still wish you well tommorow and the next, and the next and the next. MAKE SURE YOU KEEP THE GIFT JEJE AM DARN SERIOUS

kokoboy:
In summary, she's my coworker, she spent just 3 weeks at the head branch before she got transfered. In those three weeks we spent together, we got along that we call each other flirty names.

She's one of the most beautiful people I've ever met and you can't help but develop feelings for her after she left. I know she has a lot of guys in line for her, I looked her up on Facebook to check her pics and released her level high.

Most times I call she won't pick and doesn't respond to my msgs. I'm not needy cos I don't even call her much, I just call once a while so I had to challenged her and she said I call her at the wrong times when she's tired. The truth is I know those times I believe she had something going on for her.

She's not accessible at all. The confusing part is that when I went to her branch for official duty, she acted like she missed me so badly. Afterwards I called her but she didn't pickup again. I decided I was choking her up and stopped the calls. I have other girls and I know the way they act when they miss me.

I feel like I can't keep up with her pace, and I told her I like her on chat just to know whether she likes back. I know it's a risk that way but I decided to take it. Maybe she's just way out of my league and I just can't get her to give me her attention. Probably because I don't have a ride yet, no personal apartment etc.

Should I just let go?

forget what people are saying about having a house and car and chasing after a big girl, a girl is a girl and no one is actually big, its just your mind telling you what you want to believe, and you have serious low self esteem you got to work on that, dont be too loving girls hate wussies be a man sometimes pretend you have your own thing going on, dont let her tell you what to do be a man, show her you don't care but you actually do, maybe give her some space and whenever she feels like saying hi, you take your time before you respond maybe tell her that you've been super busy and feel like staying off the social stuffs for now, that maybe you two can arange a convenient time to meet if she wants. Stop the calls she already knows what you want but wants you to crawl on your belly for it. To wrap this up, shes not too big for you its just your low self esteem speaking there, sweep her off her feet with your own uniqueness but not in a way that shows you're not in control

Breadmaker:
Sorry, I misunderstood you

thanks for understanding

Op tell me you're lying pls, this looks like a nightmare

If you truly love her you wouldn't want to shame her and her family and stall her future by giving her a baby bump, would you? You don't love through sex its in your heart not your dick. Get a hold of yourself op, yikes

thagift:
like smellinganus

excruciatingly smelly

Lol

thagift:

you like it dont you? That smellyanus

See the yeye op thagift inside the ass

bitchcrafts:
So, we should just throw caution and modesty to the winds and leave the naive youths to continue razing in craze?

what else are you gonna do besides advice them, tied them up and beat them up?

foolinlove:
Word.

Also maybe she likes the clothes she wears. She's doing no harm by wearing them. It's none of anyone's business anyway.

When someone has ever said to me "i dont like your shirt", i say "well thank God u din buy and wear it".

exactly glad you totally get what am trying to say, shes comfortable in it even if it calls her slut, dont force her to take it off, you're not the one the cloth is condemning and I've met alot of girls who dress indecently but inside there are good people even better than some people who dress fine, so don't judge a book by its cover.

foolinlove:
Some gals like showing off their assets. It doesn't mean they aren't worthy of respect.

everyone is worthy of respect ok? Put yourself in thier shoes, and try to figure out why they dress that way and you'll understand it isnt entirely thier fault, it might be as a result of peer pressure, she's into prostitution, its ok to dress that way in her family she think its normal, she came from a broken and ungodly family, she needs attention there are a million reasons and you just don't judge people like that, instead of judging you try to have a closure with such person get to know her a change her life, but don't force her to change people are not animals so you just don't invade thier life and try to control them.

foolinlove:
Agreed. If you're not open to her doing thr same wit 2 guys, then you should check yourself.

The way u feel about fukking wit a guy is the same way she feels about fukking wit a woman.

exactly, he sounds unbelievable

Lifestone:
Good talk here.
I once had similar experience early in my career when I worked with the then Anderson consulting (Accenture) who was consulting for our company.
My Answer: Straight to the library to study harder
Result: Commendation from same set of guys laughing at me

most of these people doing the bullying might not be as intelligent as you, but you know thats the way people are.

Breadmaker:
Don't you think you contradict yourself a bit bro?

Earlier, you said that should be corrected in the appropriate manner now you're saying that they should be left to their choices.

Let me state that my post not in anyway denying people their freedom of whatever they they wish but they should equally accept the consequences of the choice they made.

Are you away that every wrong choice we make affects the society? Too much freedom of choice is crippling us, trust me because choice can also foster selfishness and a lack of empathy because it can focus people on their own preferences and on themselves at the expense of what is good for society as a whole.

These people that I am talking about in my main post do not ask themselves who am I in this attire, how do I present women and how will all the people that see me respond?.

If they feel ok after giving themselves honest answers to this questions then should gladly accept the few consequences that comes with indecent exposure, which are disrespect and degrading.

Good morning sir

lol you're very right, but am not contradicting myself at all, am with you on that thought about what your attire says about you to the society, dressing ungodly doesn't speak good of anyone but what am saying is correct them in an appropriate manner with RESPECT, that respect will increase your chances of being listened to. But without respect they wont like to hear what you're saying at all, do you get me now

My other point is, if you finish advising them, Dont force them to take it, that should totally be thier Choice to take your advice or not, your work is done, just allow them choose wether to listen or not, if they choose to continue dressing that way let them be, its thier life, if they listened to you fine you've saved a life, dont force them in anyway and don't try to embarrass them most times you end up embarrassing yourself, such girls dressing this ways mostly come from loose families and they can make you wish to disappear with only thier words, they have this corrosive tongue and you'd do well not to piss them of.

Breadmaker:
cc dauntless15

she totally gets it

Breadmaker:
For her to step out in public with such dress means she has disrespected her parents already.

I get your point alright but some will not even pay attention to your hi.

lol then let them be its thier life

Breadmaker:
Ready the comment you quoted again.

Not everyone listens to advice no matter your manner of approach. Many will tell you that a woman is free to express herself the way she feels.

Some claim that they dress that way because they feel comfortable in it, you get?

But if you try to(I never said that I do) address her as whom she expressed herself to be they would say you disrespect women.

ok lets get this straight

Not everyone listens to advice no matter your manner of aproach i get it, but most people listen because of your manner of aproach, imagine seeing a girl wearing a see through dress, you just dont say, hey you look slutty, you say hey can i talk to you? You're asking for her consent, she says yes and you say your outfit is kinda showing whats beneath, i dont think it looks good on you, but if you're comfy in it fine. If she isn't crazy she wont blow you off and don't impose your ideas on people its annoying and no one listens to people who tries to control them.

If they are comfy in it fine its thier life, Dont force people to be like you. Like me for instance i hate deeper life members way of dressing but you can't see me laughing at them or making fun of them or forcing them to dress my way, because its thier life, they are comfy in it so be it.

Dont address her that way brazenly it amounts to disrespect, if you can't call her and address her in a gentlemanly manner then let it be, someone wears trousers and a short top and you see her and say hi slut what does it say about you and your upbringing?

Triczchic:
A real man. OP needs more lecture from u.

wao thanks for the compliment

Breadmaker:
When you say that a woman's dress is wrong, women will say that she's free to express herself the way she likes.

But when you address her as whom she expressed herself to be, they would say you disrespect women.

you just don't say it like that openly, you advise her based on who shes to you, if shes your sister you talk to her like your sis, if its your lover you know how to, if its a random stranger you also aproach her differently but make sure its done with RESPECT thats all and they'll listen. They don't listen because of wrong manner of aproach