Please you have to kill that urge of wanting to sleep with your sister-in-law. It will do you no good but rather trouble. You have to pretend she doesn't exist.

I urge you to stop competing with your wife in terms of finances. You are to complement each other, open up communication between you two, feedbacks are key in every relationship. Do not let a day pass without resolving your issues or arguments. You should be the man and take initiatives, bring back the spark in your union.

You can start your own travel process if you are keen in doing so. Don't render further assistance to her, just count your losses and move on. It will not be easy but just move on. Allow her to go on with her plan. It is even better you know about it now.

You need to slow down, you are yet to meet this lady physically. Allow time to be the judge. Goodluck.

I believe that this story is not complete. There are hidden details.

Do not be deceived by the manipulations of the young lady. Avoid sentiment and move on if you can. You might regret your dilly dally decisions later. You can't have a girlfriend and there are restrictions.

Oga I see no danger here rather you should be happy that your family is not being exposed to social media. If you feel not satisfied with comments here, please engage your wife in a discussion about this. Hear from her the reason behind her actions.

The economic is very hard that the cost of living has skyrocketed. You are trying but current really will not allow your family to enjoy like before. Encourage your wife to keep managing and do not reduce her upkeep. Your mother should not cook her own meal no matter the circumstance. May God bless your handwork so that you can earn more and take care of your family.

I do not understand you. Is it beauty you are looking for or a good relationship? You may need to ask yourself questions on what you want. Relationship is not built on mere looks.

Don't make excuse for what you're planning to do. If you're truthful to yourself, you do not need any advice because you have a jewel already. I suggest you maintain a customer client relationship with your banker, no hangout.

Don't make excuse for what you're planning to do. If you're truthful to yourself, you do not need any advice but you have a jewel already. I suggest you maintain a customer client relationship with your banker, no hangout.

Don't be confused. Just keep going, let your ex move on with her new man. Face your business and service to your fatherland. One day you will meet the right woman God have for you.