₦airaland Forum

Remman:
Don't be fooled... In America or other places it's not a must! But in Nigeria & Africa, it is a MUST if you really want to enjoy ur marriage with peace of mind. However, it is not a MUST if you want to share ur husband with someone else, or become a second wife, or be at risk of been poisoned by strangers, or starve ur husband out of ur life, or suffer abusive words or insults from ur husband people, etc...

From ur post, u're a teenager. Don't Worry, op, when you grow up you'll know that it's very necessary when your hungry child runs to u. I've seen husband's affections turned from wife to a maid that does all the cooking & it ended up in pregnancy & the wife seen packed out of her home over a maid who then becomes the madam of the house. Well, it happens.

So, for ur better future, go & learn how to cook. It's not a big deal, well, at the beginning, it will appear as such but later on it will be as easy & interesting as reading a novel. Finally, it's not necessary to cook sweet food. But just try and cook!

Do you know it is not a must because their ladies need not raise such trivial issue like many African girls are now doing,lazy to even learn.

In America,its not a must,but even as its not a must,the ladies still enjoy cooking. They learn early and by mid twenties, many already know their special ancestral recipes for different dishes. So its not even up for discussion cos even the guys know how to cook.


Some are saying, at Least for the sake of your children. Really? So the children are that loved, but the husband isnt, enough to make her do it?

wunmi590:


It is a must for every woman to know how to cook, that's why majority of our African mother make sure that all their daughter learn the art of cooking....

Women stay home more when they get married, so Inturn dish better food for the children and be able to protect them from what they eat...

Even white women wey dey eat yanma yanma self dey cook...

One of the reason I married my wife is because she's a great cook, I can't go near any woman that doesn't know how to cook

People think short term thus these foolish questions upandan.


You want to spend 40+ years with someone and the question that is the echelon of the day is if the lady should be one that can cook. I dunno how these people reason.


If they know its long term, they'll do all they can to make it work.


Now this cook thing is now some diadem for those that can't.


They should not worry, edible catering services plenty. And Somebody Son always dey to find them.


American Women that can cook for life. They don't even ask these question. European Counterparts? At bf level, an average european babe already wants her bf to taste her recipe uniqueness.


In Africa, its story for the gods. Wonder where the theory comes. Even in movies,they cook well.

Zico5:
I just pray this case will not die a natural death. As well, the management of the school need to answer some questions. I read somewhere that the principal of the school is known to condone such act from the school she came from and she is already planning to flee to South Africa. The bullying in our boarding schools must stop.

Femi Falana is on it and it won't die. I'm sure of that. The fact that the father went that far already proves that they have evidences to seal things up.

Na person wey wise go study the Ataga incident and be wiser to avoid repeat of such scenario

Oasis007:


This Dude is losing it.............. LMAO

#saveP

Make Oasis no turn desert in solidarity o

Whatever Henry tok, na true abeg. Abi wizards dey follow una if una dusagree with igwe?



West Ham go dey score tap in when the meet.

To imagine after our first goal,Everton fans were going out of the stadium..... Only for Gray to make ticket to be worth it.

Roland17:
Arsenal should have never ever hired the Scam. I called it from the day he was in contention against Ebening, my receipts full here. Even after Ebening, I was against his hire because I knew he was a nothing but a BIG SCAM!

Chai. We wished for the best but got a Lab Attendant.

Thecassanova:
How come Everton never won in the last six games or so. I’m surprised they’ve shown great commitment tonight.

ITS THE ARSENAL!!!!

Roland17:
SHEBI DEM SAY MAKE WE TRUST THE PROCESS BA?

I think the process was long over.

Time to sack This man. Zeal and greed for who wants it most!!

Gray night for Arteta.

Nili Optimus

Òde

iamoyindamola:
Scenes when iwobi net winner

I tell you.

Or he makes a fool of Partey

Roland17:
You beat me to this thought. These guys are playing what they know as professionals at this point.

Survival trumps Crappy Lab Flair

Roland17:
Baba, watching us play is the most frustrating thing that happens to me every week. It is horrible...

Notice they aren't following Arteta's tactics again....... Who is noticing?


Smh

daveP:
Lol. He's covering for Tierney that was nowhere to be found for that 2nd disallowed goal.


My fear now is Tava may gift them a goal(not that i don't prefer him o)


That's how uncertain things are at this club right now.

and it happened!


All things being equal, that's a Richalison hattrick. That's how i see it.

iamoyindamola:
Arteta no be coach

What a game of offsides

iamoyindamola:
Xhaka is a fool
Fool is a xhaka

Lol. He's covering for Tierney that was nowhere to be found for that 2nd disallowed goal.


My fear now is Tava may gift them a goal(not that i don't prefer him o)


That's how uncertain things are at this club right now.

Roland17:
Baba e neva reach to dey wish say we go concede or lose games. I understand the frustration, trust me but abeg we need this 3 points.

I get. Just annoying seeing this kinda play. This may be a goal-goal game. draw. And it will be gunner fault.

Richi would walk into this Arsenal team. Two goals, he delivers.

This unusual var favors for sh!tty Arsenal tonight!!! Omo!

Two in one night. I smell something fishy.


No!! Ah.

Fkhalifa:
Why does Arsenal's attack lack that energy and pressure?

I think its the way they were set up. But individually, both don't compliment each other. So the energy can never produce enough to do just what Richi and Townsend dey do.

Saka should be removed asap. See Arteta unconcerned.

Roland17:
Tierney with a great cross, Odegaard with an excellent technique on the shot.

technique?

Looks ordinary to me. But nice finish nonetheless.

Roland17:
Ope oh! Na offside

I wanted it to be a goal cos i was saying earlier that Benitez fit use Arteta to gather form. Well that didn't happen.

Seems they plan for Tomiyasu this match o.

Pepe should get some minutes. Lol.

I think a 343 formation will save this drab Arsenal.

iamoyindamola:
This ódegaard doesn't look like an AM
No defence splitting passes just pass me I pass you

If you look closely, he's more of an SS and not an AM. That pressing responsibility is a Lab attendant's myopic experimentation of what cannot work in a team like Arsenal. Arteta wants Odegaard to play a Thomas Muller role(SS/AM/LMF).


This leaves the ST will one foolish responsibility; chasing the CB the wrong way instead of running down on them in attack mode.


Chai.

Arteta still needs Maddison


He'd be Arsenal's Bruno Fernandes/De Bruyne. And that way, the wings are unburdened from much creativity and more about end product.


This is just the reality.

Roland17:
This is perfect for us.. Everton are choosing to sit deep and not press. This affords is the luxury of move if the ball and keep possession. We just have to be wary of the counter, considering our defenders deep into Everton’s half when we have possession.

Are they really sitting deep or our AM position is so drab and non existent that its only the wing we now attack from this season?

I think they have the more energetic players. See the way Richalison and Townsend dey give our back play start like say na 4players dem be? That's what Laca and Odegaard should be doing but no energy.


I didn't even see the goal. Cos i was already resigned to another goalless First Half.

I think what Tierney has from Xhaka, Tomiyasu needs that kind of Cover too. His side doesn't have that and so it hampers his movement forward which i think is a plus if he can get that.


Just seeing the Barnes goal,that guy is Rodger's reliable steward.

FIFApresident1:
Lord Osimhen is not in top 25...
https://www.topscorersfootball.com/serie-a

Thanks be to God that the list is going to be unchanged for the next 50yrs

FIFApresident1:
Erling Braut Haaland after 6 games got injured and was ruled out for weeks and man still retained the second spot on the bundesliga goal scoring chart (untill yesterday when schick displaced him).

Our very own Lord Naples was no where to be found on the serie A top 15-20 goal chart barely 2 weeks after being ruled out.


The thunder that will fire some HYPEMEN on this thread is still warming up.

Kudos to Dusan Vlahovic, man been scoring goals with reckless Abandon, really kudos.

Lol. What is this again?

Jodera:
Lol... There have been so many instances when a captain is subbed off. This isn't the first a captain will be subbed off during a game and neither is it the first time a striker who is subbed in match. I dunno where Henry is driving at but everyone who watched that match knows that auba body language in that match was poor. His halfhearted press, his poor shots and all. Why he is pointing finger at Arteta for subbing auba (who even missed a great chance sef) is what I don't understand.

As for the bolded, I really don't understand what you mean by that. So you mean Arteta should just take off auba captain band and give it to someone else, just because "he isn't inspiring enough"?? Not even because of attitude problem or sort, but because he's not inspiring enough. I have never heard of anything like that in any club no matter what. Even xhaka that was stripped off the armband was because of disrespect to the club and fans and not for anything called inspiration. In fact, even if a captain is no longer in starting eleven, hardly do I see that captain stripped off the armband, how much more Auba. I assure you, the day Arteta will try such is the day he should start counting his days at Emirates.

As for your last point, I agree with you. We need a Sanchez type winger and a striker. Even tho na saint Maximin make him just dey create chances for us. Any talk of defender should be a dead talk abeg, even if one of Gabriel or white go injury, make holding or chambers take over. Na why dem be sub and dem dey train.

Unless we want to be odd, that LW is dead.

Spy360:
I think the problem with our play in recent times especially against big teams is that they quickly tend to sit back and draw pressure.

Earlier in our winning runs, we were playing a high defensive line and it was working especially against Spurs. I don't know why/ or where they picked this idea of sitting deep. We have two CBs that are quite fast and could easily cover space. After all that's why White and Gabriel are holding the CB positions.

I hope that in the Everton game they will change this. We are always better of when on the front foot.

Wont be surprised if Benitez use Arteta rediscover form. Lol

Spy360:
Una dey call Ramsey self. Imagine the Ramsey everybody dey roast except me. It's that same Ramsey you are begging for.

Chai! Very soon na Giroud.

An Alexis
A Ramsey

Is that confusing to you as simple as it looks?

The last two bold and talented players Arsenal had were these two. Thus getting something in their mould is a good precise wish, if not better, which we know for now is not possible until UCL football returns.

Arsenal are 7th with -3


If i were Arteta, I'll be planning how to make it a goal fest against Everton. That GD needs change to +

But, its Arteta!!

It is Arteta!

Make DCL no kon use that match to sharpen CV.

We should easily dominate that Midfield and a Midfield should also be on the scoresheets as well.


Fred scoring and Partey isn't