₦airaland Forum

namiji2598:
this world has really got me pissed up
am tired of this life brothers
all am asking from nairalanders is their prayers after tonight,
the doors of heaven are open for me already,
I dnt really like committing suicide, but I think thats the only way out,
am gonna miss u all brotherz
ohhh lord forgive me

pls hang in there bro.. no matter what u are going tru.. God ain't sleeping bro.. pls drop a DM.. I want to talk with u

[quote author=LadyHal1 post=83002160][/quote]my dear, luv is a feeling u can't control.. once it hits u, ur head will just be tuninonionnnn

Pettyprincess:
He has also
All the money he has spent on me is more than 300k, without adding visa processing nd traveling cost
Nd i never asked him for a dime,he did it himself
Bt if i start explaining everything you won't still understand
That guy is genuine!!! People are just mad because he is white!!!
Bt one day i hope to share my story here weather it turns out good or not!!

na small pikin de worry u nne.. Las Las u will grow up to face the reality.. just be carefull

pocohantas:
Exactly what I said on the 30k thread.

Same thread, different salaries.

Can't everyone just find their spec and stop disturbing cyberspace?

someone asked how much a lady should earn before getting married. I'm expecting to get ur own view

pocohantas:
All these "What ifs" always get very boring and stale.

What if you marry your wife and she loses her womb or legs? Would you divorce her? Would that make you marry a menopausal woman or cripple (apologies)?

The only problem I see here is her making her opinion seem like a standard. I will not go about saying such- but water must find its level...

u sound as if the money must come from the man alone.. pls also apply gender equality in this case.. thank u

kaziblake:
Twitter just came up with this trash...At 23 she is already an entrepreneur.. Check out everything tacha on IG,she us also a brand influencer. So pls stop the hate

u mean OTUpreneur?

donaldking10:
Even when there's an ulterior motive from the messenger of the message?
that nigga is only trying to milk this story to boost his sales when his songs get released.

Common sense is not common after all

Beverlyjean:
So she dint notice it after 6months... She had to drain him for 4yrs b4 realizing... That's fraud and wickedness... She collected iPhone, still collected Samsung...haba... If she knew she wasn't gonna marry him, y collect those expensive gifts..

God bless u my sister...

Michelle55:
I laugh in Spanish He simply invested in bear bear bank(bank of no return/profit) he should just dust his ass up and move on. It's not compulsory for one to end up marrying whoever he/she dates.

I hope when d reverse is the case u will say this exact same thing.. hope we won't get to hear ''men are heartless"

DelilahMakinde:
Hmmm this marriage of a thing....

E day fear me ooo

how e no go fear u when ur name is Delilah

NaijaOlosho:
Come PM

Ok

Lovelyn451:
u think he wont be paying visits to his dad? but thing is tonto will be the one to influence and impact on that child, she'll be his god and role model...lol.. just like rita pushed regina to marry ned nwoko, if the dad dares come to tell her otherwise, she could get him arrested for ever telling her moms decision was wrong, mom can't be wrong...this is why broken home is bad, if one parent takes the child, the other parent have just lost his/her child...cos you wont have a say in their life anymore

is that what ur shallow brain is telling u? when d boy grows he will surely know d truth..

LordviccoDaGuru:
na ur fada no sabi how to read and write, person wey pass u don pass you,...

Tell me what have you ever achieved in your life ??

from a Buharist.. I am not surprised.. SMH

NaijaOlosho:

olosho.. how far the short time na

emelda86:
Vandora with all this beautiful skin na this boy u see colobi ok ooo...

Anyway they say we should start up from scratch with a guy so that we will enjoy later...kikikiki.....

Any guy with all this kind name na mummy oyoyo boys them be.

if u are the one in ur DP.. Pls do us a favor and shut up.

SweetCunt97:
Forget. When u marry a poor man, same society will still look down on you. And u feel bad seeing ur mates cruising in big cars while u flying Okada while pregnant. Niggah pls

so u don't even have any plans of making ur own money.. the mentality of an average Nigerian runs girl.. SMH

bukatyne:
I am happy you have realized that adultery kills a marriage so we know that is a no.

From all your posts on this thread, I would say that you have a healthy libido and you are still sexual interested in your wife (I would guess she is still sexy/good looking).

Your wife knows this and has decided to make it a weapon.

I do not know what the problem is however, of she can laugh with you and relate normally till it is time for sex, then it is a non-issue except if she is psychotic or she has issues with your sexual performance.

You know why playing with her, doing more chores etc. Would not work in your case? Because you are rewarding bad behavior. She misbehaves and you keep dancing round to please her. It has registered that if I sexual starve my husband, he will bend over to please me.

If the issues she had with you was not giving her attention or not helping with chores etc, the above would have helped.

Don't just reward bad behavior in your spouse.

What is the solution?
1. Engage her once again, apologize for breaching the trust in your marriage and assure her that you have never cheated again. Whatever the issues are, look into them genuinely and adjust where needed.

If she does not change, then:

Learn how to control yourself sexually. It will be hard however, don't let her feel you cannot do without her.

Stop playing with her or giving her attention. If she ignores your sexual needs, ignore her need for attention and learn to be self sufficient. If she wouldn't cook, feed yourself. Whatever leverage she has on you, learn to provide or beat it.

By now, she would start trying to get your attention by throwing more tantrums... Let her be. If she offers you sex because she is turned on, don't oblige her.

If you do not care about your appearance prior to now, please do. Change your haircut, mode of dressing, get good cologne etc.

When she finally comes around genuinely (not because she needs sex or something else), respectfully lay down the ground rules. If she has issues with you, discussion is the way to go.

Now, if after first engagement, she says your sex life is the problem, get self help books on sex and seduction and up your game in the bedroom.

In all of this, do not cheat or behave in any manner that you will have a blame.

Couples should not treat sex as a treat or reward. It is a duty (I am even taking live out of the equation) you pledged to do.

Goodluck.

so women like u still exist in this country.. I was almost loosing hope.. my sister ur brain de hot.. ur brain get better oil. blessed is d man that is/will end up with u..


Op, u will never get a better advice trust me.. Goodluck

Preshy561:
Just take a look at you.
That woman should leave your cheating ass asap.
Wonder whoever that's giving you this likes to continue disgracing yourself online.
Shameless isn't it?

saint preshy..

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zeb04:
Very married.

crying for ur husband.. he must be going tru hell

zeb04:
look at this one even faithful men still get cheated on, talk more of a philandering partner. Check the statistics first uncle.

A serial cheat spotted.. run for ur life

UjuJoan2:
Hmmmmn . . . nawa ooh. So you are addicted to sex. . much like a high people get from drugs and alcohol.

Did your wife sign up for it? Did she know she will be doing the work of a sex machine in her marriage? Did she know she was marrying a nymph?

Sex is NOT food, or else celebates will be dead. You do not need regular sex to thrive or stay healthy. That's the addiction lying to you.

You wife does not have the same drive as you, she cannot kill herself to feed your obsession.

Since you read so much, why not seek help?

I hate how men put women under undue pressure in the name of marriage. If the woman dies trying to keep you healthy, you'll just move on to the next person.

U are not a wife..

UjuJoan2:
Hmmmmn . . . nawa ooh. So you are addicted to sex. . much like a high people get from drugs and alcohol.

Did your wife sign up for it? Did she know she will be doing the work of a sex machine in her marriage? Did she know she was marrying a nymph?

Sex is NOT food, or else celebates will be dead. You do not need regular sex to thrive or stay healthy. That's the addiction lying to you.

You wife does not have the same drive as you, she cannot kill herself to feed your obsession.

Since you read so much, why not seek help?

I hate how men put women under undue pressure in the name of marriage. If the woman dies trying to keep you healthy, you'll just move on to the next person.

so 1 month Isn't a long time for u? A wife denies her husband sex for A whole month and u are here typing trash.. i just pity the unfortunate man u are with/will end up with.. mtww

Onyi22:
Sharrrrrrrrrrrap there, broke ass nigga

sister no vex oo. how much u get for ur account.. just asking for someone

ngwababe:
RMD still dey kiss for movies? Hmmm, omoni Oboli..
Wish to try this table kpansh one day

come here baby let's groove

NaijaOlosho:

U don come to sell ur market?.. How much for short time?

safarigirl:
Are you in their mind?


If I ever go to a man's house, sex will not be on my mind. So, if God forbid, I am raped by one animal, you people will come online and say sex was on my mind.


The person that did this thing to Nigerians, has a place in the deepest part of hell.

if u go to a man's house by what time of the day?

klufs:
Have you heard of beyond reasonable doubts in criminal cases? Especially the one of this nature. That poser asked a very reasonable question, what was she doing In a man's house by that time, to watch film Abi? Every man should bear the natural or probable consequence of his action. You go to a guy's house at that time and intend to prove to which court that sex was not going to be I'm the picture when you set out for the journey. I know the guy's story is faulty, but that guy is going to be held on the strength of the girl's story not the weakness of his. I tell you from experience, stronger rape allegations have failed in court. This one must fail. Mark my words

my brother this one is not even a case

OneSentence:
what kind if dumb argument is this? Ok ...since standing in a dangerous spot by 2am doesn't mean or give anyone the right to rob u then go and stand there nah...

isn't it common sense that any lady should avoid going to a man's house at ungodly hours if she knows she can't have anything to do with him? and keep deceiving yourself that courts convict a man when a woman willingly followed him to his house at ungodly hours...

no mind d yeye girl

safarigirl:
They have always been animals. Later they will come and ask why you don't trust them, is it not them that are on this thread defending animalistic behavior?

whose fault u can't do without them.. as u are now, i know u are sad cos ur ''animalistic'' boyfriend has not called u since today..

AntiBrutus:
So men are now animals?

Once you are around them at odd hours, expect to be raped? Just don't claim you were raped, because you are expected to have known better. I get it now

thank God u do... i don't why some ladies are just so shallow..

safarigirl:
She can.

She has.

Today's generation has normalized being in a man's house at ungodly hours, and the courts do nor care what time.

If you were in a car at 2am and you got robbed, will someone ask what you were doing at that time? Does the time matter when you were robbed? Does it take away the fact that you were robbed?

Will someone say, you deserve to be robbed for entering a car at 2am?

Goodjoe, I need you to not be this shallow.

I don't even subscribe to being at any man's house at 7PM sef, but it doesn't take anything away from a crime, and as it stands, this guy has not exonerated himself.

His story has too many holes and I won't believe it, just like I didn't believe Shola Fapson when she claimed she was raped by the Taxify driver.

Some stories are too messy to be believed

the capacity of ur brain amazes me

safarigirl:
did he say he was drunk?

He said he doesn't have a couch, are you in his house? If he had a couch, you think he can't dispose of it to cover his tracks?

Like I said, if you believe this funny story, you must not be smart

I have a question for u.. how did d girl get to his house.. did he force her too? why are u so myopic.. why follow a guy home after club when u know u are not ready to be intimate with him.. pls sister think before u comment.. don't comment before u think