are you sure you are in this Nigeria? as if getting a job is easy in this country

jesmond3945:
you are definitely short changing yourself. Why not learn a skill or use your degree to search for better offer.

I no dey even pity una.. I sure say u dey support Tinubu because he is from your tribe

Girls can do anything for money though.

pretydiva:
I blame the ladies that stooped so low to allow this rubbish. Pretty Mike is a mad man

WOMEN AND DRAMA.. NAWA OO

IF U DON'T BRING IT TO HIS NOTICE AND IT EVENTUALLY TURNS OUT THAT SHE IS CHEATING. JUST KNOW THAT U HAVE WRONGED THAT YOUR FRIEND GREATLY

this one doesn't know that he doesn't have a governor

MARRIAGE NO DEY YOUR AGENDER NA..

NaijaOlosho:

chai.. see human being mentality. God abeg oo

Channah1:


Nope. If she can be looking outside just because of a meager 4k, imagine the level of lack of care on the man's path. Meanwhile if she can get that peanut from her husband, she won't look outside for it.

I pity the unfortunate man that will end up with you.. Tuehh

Channah1:
If you're really taking care of your woman, she won't have any cause to look outside.


Perform your duties in the home like her ex and see her change otherwise she's a LovePeddler.

so in your book, tribal sentiment precedes quality and great candidate?

So we can vote in the devil as long as he is from your tribe?
have you seen the number of "Igbos" praising and rooting for Makinde?
Do u know the number of "Igbos" that voted for OBJ?

Some of u are just empty.. totally empty... gosh

Islandlady:
He will praised instead and be lifted high

But let reverse be the case, he will insulted and called hungry

Atiku kee u there..

Frigga13:
After all this media hype and noise from his fans .. nobody remembers 2nd runnerup .. talk more of third or fourth


Vote Atiku for a working Nigeria ..

Apc killed Nigeria and Nigerians .. no to evil party

Power to the people
North 2023

Must u tell the whole world that you are a lesbian? nawa o

Candidlady:
Ihate reading things like this
Very annoying
What y'all seeing in this gender
Falling inlove with cursed beings try
This gender can only bring pains

my brother the truth is, that woman is regretting getting married to you. you said she is 32 and you guys got married 2 years ago. that means she was probably 30 when you guys got married. at 30, women are very desperate for marriage. she may have married u out of desperation and she is seriously regretting her decision.

First of all, you need to understand that the mood swing thing is a normal thing for women, maybe God created them that way cos almost every woman i know have same issue. u need to be very tolerant if u really want to enjoy ur marriage.

for the fact that you cried after beating her the first time, it means your conscience is still intact. please do everything possible to make sure u keep your conscience alive.

don't take everything she says to heart. women sometimes reason like kids (I'm sorry if our women find this offensive), it does't mean they are not intelligent and smart but that's their nature. So if u read meaning into everything she says, u will continue to hit her. sometime just leave that environment at that time. u can go to a nearby bar or go see a friend (guy o.. Lol), by the time u come back the mood go don reset.

Please NEVER EVER EVER raise your hands on your wife or any woman again. she is your "baby" and your queen treat her as one.

GOODLUCK

Kasaliola:
Good evening house... please I need your help.. if there is any marriage counselor or therapist. This could be lengthy and lot of typo... Please forgive me.. I open a new account for this.

I Am a father of two.. have been dating my wife since 2009, before we got married in 2014. But before the we got married we have been a love birds whereby everybody loves the way we cuddled ourself..

Its started in 2011 before I rented my first apartment, my parents didn't want me to marry her and her parents too, especially her big brother and sisters.. though it caused a lot of commotion then. But thank God they allowed cuz we forcefully told them we are meant for each other, I even speak bad words to my mother then, saying If I don't marry her in ur present I will marry her in her absent, those words hurt so dearly so she has to leave me and go ahead with my plans. And same thing with my wife family.

In 2012 I rented my own apartment and started living me.. I can't forget the very first day I raise my hands on her, I felt ashame of my self.. I don't care what she does or say then.. but I regretted doing so, I cried at the middle of the road cuz I don't know what came over me.

The only problem I have with her is that she swings mood. Always moody everytime and my parents noticed this when they come around and when she went to thier place..
This made me beat her plus the ways she disrespected me.. after doing this shameful thing, I will now come back to my senses and started begging her. I even beat her this Sunday.. all I want is someone to talk to on how I can stop this beating.. how I can tolerate her lifestyle... Am so mad and ashamed of my self.. if help me...

Thank you

it is perfectly normal. there's nothing wrong with it. as long as he is not underage. age is just a number

Nikrose:
After reading a post on the front page about a 19yrs old boy marrying a 39yrs old woman, I love it and I find it sweet, romantic and sexy!!!

I don't really want to be in a serious relationship now but I think I am now attracted to boys younger than my age

Not little boys of under 18! And I am not a peodophile!

U DATE FOR SEX.. INTERESTING. BUT U LADIES MAKE IT SEEM AS IF GUYS ARE WICKED FOR DATING A WOMAN FOR SEX.. MTCEEEWW

sleeping with a dog? that one na small level for u na

FutureIsFemale:
Actually, what she said about men being dogs already is the truth. But for sleeping with dogs, that's her life and her business.

Meanwhile, behold our next president.

Is the future still female?

FutureIsFemale:
Good

;

we are not asking women to suffer with us. we are only saying they should make their own money. women should see relationship/marriage as a mutualistic association, not parasitic one. it should be "my man should hustle while i hustle too". not waiting for your man to make it without contributing nothing and be claiming u were with him when he had nothing.

I just pray u would be able to comprehend this..

JovialJune:



How I dey reason? E shock you say no woman wants to suffer with man anymore abi? This is just the beginning my dear, go and get shock absorber cos more is coming.

The way some of you reason ehh.. SMH

JovialJune:



Yes, anything wrong with that? Is it illegal or a crime?

Or you want women to stay with a broke dude for years, then get served shocking breakfast after many years of plenty like May and Yul?

U mean women are forbidden from making their own money.. so it's a law that they have to live off their husbands. wow.. I never knew this.. thanks for educating me on this

JovialJune:



Yes, anything wrong with that? Is it illegal or a crime?

Or you want women to stay with a broke dude for years, then get served shocking breakfast after many years of plenty like May and Yul?

that's the spirit girl. enjoy your life to the fullest.. don't allow one man to tie you down

Saintmary:



I no send anybody, if they like, let them list names as long as Third Mainland Bridge.



I will do whatever is best for me.

wait!! you mean some of your fellow women take marriage as a poverty alleviation scheme..?

Biglittlelois:



100%.

she is right my sister. being a submissive wife doesn't pay. just go out there and enjoy your life. if ur husband catches u and sends u back to your father's house, it will be his loss cos you will have nothing to loose

ImaIma1:


A learning point should be...have your own money and be comfortable. Don't be completely dependent and at the mercy of any man.

please my dear forget about that virgin or decency thing. it doesn't pay. fu*k any one u feel like. just enjoy your life. virginity and decency doesn't guarantee any thing. I just wish our women will have this mentality, loosen up and enjoy their lives just like we men. this life for too sweet

ImaIma1:


Your comment gave me a lot to think about especially the bolded.

A woman will "keep herself" till marriage only to be dragged in potopoto by one virgin-entitled selfish man.

THERE ARE MANY OF THEM LIKE HIM IN THAT FORCE. THIS COUNTRY DON FINISH

YES O MY DEAR.. MEN ARE USELESS.
BY THE WAY, HOW IS YOUR USEL*SS FATHER AND BROTHERS? I TRUST THEY ARE DOING GREAT. MY REGARDS TO THEM

Islandlady:
Thank you tega for these truth
Men are useless and evil, they are the problem of the world but if you tell them they will attack you brutally

Anyways I am outta here

I HOPE THAT YOUR Love Machine WILL BE ABLE TO GET YOU PREGNANT

MadamVanessa:








So because she's a Pastor daughter, she shouldn't live her life? was she the one that God Called or God called the father. The father is doing his own line of duty assigned to him by God, she has her own line of duty given to him by God.

I hate it when people are not being objective. Female folks are wayward, but male folks that constantly asked girls for nudes and secretly or openly recording girls when they're having sex with them, are not wayward.

And you won't blame you immature male folks that releases girls sex tape at any slightest provocation.

I haven't seen people as childish, unreasonable, useless, insecure and stupid as male gender. Sometimes they will secretly record you without your knowledge just to show to their friends and brag about it. So stupid and childish

Reason I have different types of dildos in my possession, I service myself alone. I don't want any insult because of sex by immature gender.


Our girl will never learn, as this one is trending now, a girl somewhere is sending her nudes to a complete idiot of a guy, a girl somewhere is having sex with a fool and allowing the fool too record her. Just to prove her love to him, e go shock you soon.

WHERE IS SAPHIRE ABI NA SAPHPIRE..?? THIS THING RESEMBLE WETIN SHE FIT DO

MUST SHE MARRY? I THOUGHT WE ALL AGREED THAT MARRIAGE IS NOT AN ACHIEVEMENT..

sharone21:
Oga, we know u didn't come to give any side of your story but to come spoil market for her so that she will be unmarriageable.

Y can't some people take NO when the other person is tired of their behaviour?

Na was o.

U are still unrepentant and still showing your evil side.

Coming out to denounce the wedding is NOT necessarily to expose your animalistic side but to tell people that she is officially not going to be married to u.

SURE.. BUT I'M NOT SURE WHO IS A GREATER RAPIST BETWEEN YOUR FATHER AND BROTHER (S)

FutureIsFemale:
All men are rapists.