Politics › Re: Buhari Vs Atiku: Who Do You Think Will Win Tomorrow's Presidential Election? by David160(m): 1:43pm On Feb 15, 2019 |
Atiku |
Politics › Re: Atiku Arrived Kebbi To Flag Off PDP Presidential Campaign - Photos by David160(m): 4:18pm On Feb 03, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy Pictured In The Studio As She Works On A New Song by David160(m): 8:09am On Jan 31, 2019 |
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Celebrities › Re: DJ Cuppy 10 Years Throwback Challenge Got Fans Talking (photos) by David160(m): 8:40am On Jan 15, 2019 |
Chai... She no fine o |
Politics › Re: Four Plus Zero - Nigerians Say No To Buhari by David160(m): 10:06pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
MrAJQ: Thank you sir you're welcome |
Politics › Re: Four Plus Zero - Nigerians Say No To Buhari by David160(m): 2:18pm On Jan 12, 2019 |
MrAJQ: 4 + 4 = 23 thunder fire you and buhari |
Celebrities › Re: Lionheart: Omotola Jalade Refuses To Congratulate Genevieve Nnaji by David160(m): 8:11pm On Jan 09, 2019 |
Thunder fire her |
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TV/Movies › Re: What Are The Worst Movies You Saw In 2018? by David160(m): 7:22pm On Dec 31, 2018 |
Venom |
Romance › Re: My Girl Thinks I Should Give Her Stipends From My Monthly Salary by David160(m): 2:39pm On Dec 30, 2018 |
limbolimbo: I recently showed interest in a neighbour of mine, I know she likes me, but she is a very traditional person, she wants us to go through the full cycle before anything further. But something started giving me a reason to worry about here mindset towards relationships.
She celebrated her birthday last month, and I got her a very expensive wrist watch, it cost me 94k, she doesn't know this. I also got her a really nice cake, cost me 10k, so in all I spent over a hundred thousand on her birthday. I know for some this may not seem like much or may seem like too much, I think what really matters is tat I was fine with it and could afford it. Within the same period, she would indirectly ask me for funds, she said she was broke, I could have helped her with this but I felt it was way above my position, as I am only a "To Be Boyfriend", to offer her all this after spending a 100k on gifts for her birthday.
A week ago we had a very interesting discussion, about the role of the man and the woman in a relationship, she said that "A man should be responsible for the upkeep of his Girlfriend, he should save a portion from his salary monthly which he should give to his girlfriend for upkeep". I thought that was nonsense and I quickly called her out on it, all I can say now is that I don't think we would be dating anymore, because she took it very personally, she said she thinks she would suffer if she goes into a relationship with me, because I am already showing signs of being stingy.
If I keep writing I would not end, so my question here is, is she right? Should I have instead given her the cash rather than the gift? Because to me it now seems she doesn't see the value of the gift and would rather have cash. I want adult opinions please.
(Please note that I am not trying to paint this lady as an evil person, she is really sweet, loving, caring, she loves getting attention and doesn't have any problem in showing me how she really feels about me, overall she is a great lady.) can't she work? |
Politics › Re: South West Will Determine Winner Of Presidential Election - PDP Chieftain by David160(m): 2:15pm On Dec 29, 2018 |
Yeah... Exactly..
I just wish pdp go focus on that zone |
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Nairaland General › Re: What Are The Lessons 2018 Taught You? by David160(m): 10:13pm On Dec 28, 2018 |
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Webmasters › Re: Which Data Plan Is Best For Bloggers by David160(m): 1:28pm On Dec 20, 2018 |
StormInc: What's the code dial *777# as if you wan buy data and click special data plan |
Webmasters › Re: Which Data Plan Is Best For Bloggers by David160(m): 7:57am On Dec 20, 2018 |
Rayreezy: Please which Network and Data Plan is cheap and best for a blogger to use. Many Networks have special Tarrif and Data subscription plans that are very affordable. Please if you know, kindly share with me. glo N200 for 1.2gb |
Romance › Re: Can You Marry A Lady Who Doesn't Know How To Cook Because Of Love? by David160(m): 6:35pm On Dec 19, 2018 |
Chenzee: I can vividly recollect, during my university days how beans(cowpea) and garri were so popular in the male hostel. Meanwhile, provision shops prefer to stock more than half of their shops with indomie (noodles) without any sceptism. These shop owners know very well that these noodles will be devoured completely by none other than those in the female hostels. A friend of mine visited his girlfriend come fiancee several times in her house, and was always welcomed with garnished noodles and chilled soft drinks. It continued for their two years of courtship. Anytime he asks why she isn't cooking any other food, she says it's because she has been busy all through the day. If he tells her to cook a special delicacy, she spends the whole day cooking and then serves him with a delicious and palatable rubbish (tasteless meal). I told him that I can only marry a woman who can cook exceptionally well, and can also cook meals I can't cook (especially my traditional meals). I told him that I will be so proud to invite anyone to my house. They ( My friend and his fiancee) are preparing to get married soon, though they haven't fixed a date yet. I need your candid and unbiased advice. Thanks. yea I can.... She's my wife not my maid |
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Webmasters › Re: Please I Need BITCOIN To Buy by David160(m): 11:29am On Dec 16, 2018 |
B0TMAN: Please who can tell me where to buy Bitcoin cheap go to luno.com... You can buy bitcoin from N300 |
Romance › Re: Guys, What Is The Best Way To Impress Nigerian Ladies? by David160(m): 6:23am On Dec 06, 2018 |
fk001: Is it by buying her gifts or a trip?
Someone said "I should give her money, continue to give her money, I shouldn't be tired of giving her money, add more money, give her money again, continue giving her money i should not stop giving her money"
His answer is so funny and ridiculous, is she in love with me or my money?. Money shouldn't be a criteria to love someone. money Money Money Money Did I mention money? Just give her money |
Properties › Re: How Much Rent Is Too Much For Someone Who Earns 100k A Month by David160(m): 7:25am On Nov 22, 2018 |
marshborn: Good evening nairalanders, I earn 100k a month which amounts to 1.2 million per annum. I just secured an apartment in yaba which cost 300k per year. I chose yaba because of its proximity to the island which is where i work.
I want to know if the rent costs too much for someone of my status.
Am I about to start living above my means? Advice needed. can you manage it alongside other expenses? |
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Romance › Re: Am Confused Right Now by David160(m): 4:46am On Nov 20, 2018 |
Slimzjane: Gud evening guys.. Am 19 years old and i am dating a 32 years old man..I fall in love with him because he is more mature and caring that the other guys i have dated... He is a banker and am a student in 300l, I met him on fb [online].. He is very mature and i respect him alot, well the issue is he want me to get pregant for him..oh i forgot i have been dating for a year plus now..He do say it jokingly before about wanting a baby badly his mate are married and stuff..I told him am not ready am too young...He ask him when am i going to be ready i am 19 for crying out loud..He is financially okay and he take care of me alot, am not just ready and i don't want to loose him..He has been calling and texting me to get the answer am confused i don't want to get pregant and i don't want to loose him...Elders in the house how should i explan to him without him breaking up with me ?? if you don't want to loose him then get pregnant |