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Segzee1:
You see that is the problem. I mean this RULING mentality. This word "Rule" and his brother "I am the head of this family" has destroy many marriages and the number is still counting.

You can't go into marriage with a RULING mentality as a man and expect such marriage to be great.

You are not to rule, you are to LEAD. She (your wife) is not your slave. She is your helpmate. The fact that she is married to you doesn't mean she does not have her own life any longer.

When a man goes into marriage with 'I am the head' mentality, he ends up being the 'headache' of the marriage.


And as for your definition of INFLUENCE, I am happy to inform you that you are wrong. See the real definition below:

"The capacity to have an effect on the character, development, or behaviour of someone or something, or the effect itself."

Statisticts show that women are great thinker, managers and planners. So when you see a married man doing great in His business or career try to check his wife.


Women are helpmate and not our servants/slaves

vikkimimi:
Op your summarisation makes a lot of sense and that's what most men and women won't want to hear.

As a lady, I expect my man to be the head and that's where I expect to be taken care of and 'good' decisions can be made for me by my spouse (or boyfriend) where and when necessary.....He should Lord over me as long as I have the 'influence' on him intact i believe my interest will always be protected and his too... everyone will be happy.

But a man that can't be influenced by his woman shouldn't expect submission at all... because both submission and influence should work together...

Ladies, making a man do things you want without force but with love will give him that joy and believe that he did it at his own will, without knowing you influenced him in the first place...it's sweet you know, that's only if you know your way around him while making him take the wheel.

Humanoid01:
You gave me a link to a thread that says 'list of gods that died and resurrected three days later. ' , not 'list of gods that died for the salvation of their people and resurrected three days later. ' The body of the thread didn't even suggest such. So what are you on about? Don't you think you're the one running in circles here?

If I knew nothing about what I believe, I wouldn't waste my time having this conversation with you.

Humanoid01:
You still haven't answered my question. The question was quite clear: Did any of those books state that He gave His life for us, and rose three days after, to reconcile us with Himself? Obviously, I wasn't trying to verify if anyone else died and resurrected. There are countless accounts of people who have died and resurrected. It appears firmly that your attack is directed towards the Christianity, and not religion generally. You know what? You keep exposing the plan of the devil for what God has ordained. I'm not surprised.

Humanoid01:
My question was not solely based on death and resurrection.

Did any of those books state that He gave His life for us, and rose three days after, to reconcile us with Himself?

OGWILLS123:
Lmao Korea army defeat army of God
don't forgot we are talking about the supernatural here
in which bullet can not penetrate or any weapon

Humanoid01:
Please read my question again.

Babygirltess:
God forbid that I should be with a man that your mentality, so spending money on your woman is wrong..I don't blame you shaa it's poverty that is doing you

Humanoid01:
Did any of those books state that He gave His life for us, and rose three days after, to reconcile us with Himself?

Humanoid01:
He came, in human form -- the greatest of His creations -- but He was rejected, by us, by you. So humble, isn't he?

HuntSon:
And their husbands refused to touch them, only to find out he's gay. Who are they doing?? You're homphobic, but you turn around and blame gay men for marrying you to blend in...if you did allowed their freedom you wouldn't have been complaining

Powerfly:
a repentant person does not keep a boyfriend/girlfriend.
do not confess any act to anyone without integrity or high moral standard.. Confess your sins to God.
Lastly.. If you do boyfriend and girlfriend.. And you desire faithfulness and loyalty.. Be the loyal,honest and faithful person you desire or crave for. Do not set a high standard for someone's child when you can't boast of reaching and living according to that same standard.

Powerfly:
there's nothing like championing promiscuity. Live your life the way it pleases you... And if there's anyone to consider, it should be your spouse, family and God.

If u feel guilty cheating on him, just get on your knees and ask God for forgiveness. Always remember that while both of you may be engaged, it's still 'FORNICATION' In the sight of God. So don't go and be confessing fornication you committed with another person to your fellow fornicator

Powerfly:
This reasoning disgust me yen yen yen!
So the Op that had a fling nkor? Why did he have a girlfriend and still have a fling?
So it's natural and okay if a guy cheats, but it's a taboo if a girl replecate the same act?

Nigerians are filled with hypocrisy.. The guy cheated, the girl also cheated, but now u want me to condemn the girl only?

If you know you can't abstain from sex.. It is better you practise safe sex under an open relationship.. And stop all these bullcrap of my boyfriend did this... My girlfriend did that..

Powerfly:
You girls need to stop all these confession bs. If u need to confess to anyone.. Go to a catholic priest. any confessim you make to your bf.. He's gonna bring it down to nairaland even tho he's got a side chick he's been banging all along. If u feel guilty cheating on him, just get on your knees and ask God for forgiveness. Always remember that while both of you may be engaged, it's still 'FORNICATION' In the sight of God. So don't go and be confessing fornication you committed with another person to your fellow fornicator..(your date).

The only point it is reasonable to confess your acts to your partner is when you both are legally married. Stop spilling out your secrets because at the end.. A man would never forgive or overlook. He'll bear a grudge and you'll forever live with a bad name and the consequences.
You only owe God an explanation... And not a fornicative partner.. Always remember that!

Jannuxajj:
Good day guys in my last post I told you guys how I sucked at approaching women. so today I met a beautiful lady early this morning and I got her number, I think she liked me or Maybe she was in a good mood but she really did very normal. but the fact that I got the number doesn't stop me from being a simp and I don't wanna Bleep this up. So bad guys in the house how do you chyke a girl after receiving her number?